Been with GF 7 years. Only wants sex once every 2 or 3 months. Love her, but horny as fuck...

Don't cheat. Go hire an escort at least you will have less chances of getting cought. The married chick might have feelings for you so she will most likely try to screw your relationship down the line...

more chance of AIDs tho

Sleeping around gives you plenty of aids risk as it is, just don't cheat you degenerate fucks.

so ... never have sex then? Its literally my favourite.

What birth control is your GF using? If it's the shot, that's your problem. The shot completely shuts down a woman's sex drive. Switch to the pill. Problem solved.

its not. Weve tried different pills. We tried nothing at all but condoms. We've literally tried anything. She wont even give me a fuckin hand job. I need someone else.

Try talking to her about that. A Relationship can last long and flourish with communication and some buttpounding

we've talked about how to fix it for about 4 years. Thanks

I have been fucking my GF's roommate for almost 2 years, I felt kind of bad at first but her roommate is simply amazing, she is basically better at everything than my actual GF, I think we are in love now but I can leave my GF because it's too complicated, hell now I feel like cheating on her when I fuck my GF, funny thing is my GF would never expect it and that's why we have been doing it for so long... My recommendation is don't get too attached, it's just sex, otherwise you will end up complicating everything as I did.

lucky bastard. Pics? lol

she wants to fuck, just not you. Maybe she has some kind of trauma. Either way, break it off. Find a girl who wants to fuck you.

maybe you didnt read. Ive tried very hard to get her to fuck someone else. she wont.

Sounds like she is genuinely in love with you, but there is something stopping her, maybe she needs therapy, well maybe both of you do, if you get to solve it your GF is most likely to turn into a sex animal, she loves you dude that's obvious.

she was a sex animal for the first few years. Anal, deepthroat, anything I wanted. She just wanted sex less and less, and now nothing. It upsets her. I'm just HORNY AF

Is she going through some shit or something? And I know your feel, I'm just getting out of a dry period with my girlfriend but that's only been 6 months and her lifes been shit. There's usually a reason is what I'm saying. Can you think of anything? Contrary to the white knights sex is a hugely important element of a relationship.

Well if you love her got to therapy man, cheating is not worth those 7 years, I done a mistake like that one now I feel miserable as fuck.

She can't think of any reason. She says she just lost her sex drive. She went to a doctor about it. I am not sure what a therapist is going to do. "Do you have any issues or problems in your life" ... "no". "Do you want to have sex?" ... "no, never". Ok.

Is she on birth control, OP? Some birth control drugs can severely lower a woman's sex drive. If she is on the pill, have her talk to her doctor about changing which kind of drug she's taking, and see if it restores her sex drive.

I have covered this already. Its not that.

i know how you feel OP, my gf has the sex drive of a rock. I'm the only one she's ever been with and I love her lots, it's just difficult. I feel like I should leave find someone else but I just love her too much. However, don't cheat. Either leave her and find someone else and maybe be unhappy for the rest of your life cause of leaving her, or stay with her and maybe be sad for the rest of your life because her sex drive won't come back. Cheating should never be an option though.

2 months is generous. I mean, we do something 'sexual' once every 3 or 4 months really. So its not always sex. Sometimes she will force herself to give me a very reluctant blowjob. Reluctant BJs feel shit.

Honestly, you might want to talk to her about the realities of being a human being with basic needs that your right hand can't quite fulfill. If she refuses to have sex then it will cripple your relationship. Period. Either sit her down and explain that to her or that you need to get it elsewhere. If she hates you or leaves you, honestly it's for the best. There is no winning here. Best case scenario she tells you to go fuck other girls. But I'm not saying its likely.

Wow. You gave me two totally shit options. Shit one way, shit the other way. Is that how you plan to live your life? I love my GF more than anything. But I am horny as hell, and sex is one of my favouitest things on the fucking planet. I have a very very high sex drive. And I am getting it a few times a year at this stage. Your options are, stay and feel miserable, leave her and through everything away over sex and feel miserable. Why shouldn't cheating be an option? If I was getting some action, I'd be a happier person, and in turn treat her better, and be happier with her because I am not expecting sex from her which she does not want to give. Sometimes cheating MIGHT be an option. This is why I asked.

Therapy, I mean a good one, will not ask her what's wring, it will let her know what's wrong, and how to treat it, maybe it's something psychological or maybe damn hormones, but you also need to go therapy with her so you can explain things she can't, things she doesn't even realize, that's just my advice, the fact you came here asking about cheating shows you love her but also have no idea how to help her so you considered cheating, just don't do something you can't fix later dude or it might fuck your entire life up trust me.

We've talked for years. About everything to do with it. There is nothing left to talk about. Its simple. She does not have a sex drive, she does not want sex, and that makes her not want to do any favours for me either. It also makes her a jealous mess because she thinks I'll look for sex elsewhere. So her telling me to fuck someone else is never going to happen.

She has something not working in her Body. Talk to a specialist.

People who cheat clearly don't "love" their partners, and it shits me off so intensely when people say that they do.

If you love your partner so much, you would talk to them about your issues of needing sex. If you NEED to have sex more often than your partner wants, you need to talk to them about it and tell them that if they aren't willing to fulfil your needs fully then you need to find someone else who can. There are lots of partners who stay together because they love each other, but have an open relationship for this exact reason. If they don't want you to have sex with somebody else despite your desperate need for it, then you need to break it off.

I just can't understand people who justify cheating to people who they claim to love. Don't be a fucking scumbag OP.

>"love"

People always have and always will alter the definition of words to suit their needs.

Fwiw I agree with you

It shits you off does it? Well did you read anything here? We have talked about it all. For years. We have talked about it for hours upon hours. We have discussed every scenario, possibility and eventuality. Its not happening. I love someone, and I am horny. I need sex because I cant fucking concentrate. I am not treating her nicely because I am so fucking horny all the time. How can you say you can't cheat and love? I can have meaningless sex with someone, and it wont mean shit to me. Id much rather make love to her but its not happening. Don't tell me if I love her we need to talk. Do you know me? No. I do love her. We have talked. Its actually shit you know? She knows I love sex, she knows I have a huge sex drive. If she loves me - shouldnt she be ok with giving me a blow job or a fucking hand job if she is worried I'll look for sex elsewhere? Dont tell me I dont love my GF. What about her? Shes willing to do NOTHING. Dont be a condescending prick.

I don't agree that cheating should ever be an option. Talk to her about an open relationship and see if she agrees. She shouldn't have to be with someone who cheats just like you don't have to be with someone who doesn't have sex. If she sees the reality that you don't want to live without sex then she should do it because she loves you enough to want to keep you. If she doesn't then don't date her. Still don't cheat.

I did. She called me a cunt. She does not want me with anyone else. She is insanely jealous.
"Dont date her". Oh ok. I guess you're right. I'll just simply not date the one person I've loved more than anything. Never thought about just throwing it all away. Cheers.

I'm going to have to call bullshit on this. Not saying that woman can't find out, just that i you do it right they won't find out. Not that cheating is good in the first place

I know how you feel because I'm in a similar situation, but if she won't compromise then yes it would be worth throwing it all away for the sake of your life happiness.

Dude, if sex is so important to you in a relationship then dump the girl she's not right for you, but don't cheat

Yea. I basically wont cheat incase I get caught. The other person would be a liability so fuck that. It just seems to me the other two options are bullshit. Either throw it all away, or just live unhappily. Also, its funny how sexist so many people are. I have been called a SCUMBAG for considering cheating. No one would ever think of it the other way around. What about her? She wont give me a hand job or anything, and she knows its killing me. If I had a GF Begging me for years to have sex, and refused to do anything fo rher, you'd all be here telling me she will cheat and what did I expect. Come on! ! ! !

>Only wants sex every two or three months.
Butterface wants to fuck.
I think as long as your girl knows she is loved/cared for you can go fuck butterface girl. Do you really want to go to Cred Forums and ask for advice or go out and get laid?

Then that's made it pretty fucking obvious that she doesn't love you OP. If shes not willing to put in the effort to help you fulfil your sexual drive, however not letting you do whats necessary (Which appears in this case would be have sex with someone else) then you need to get out of this relationship.

And no, I will keep being a condescending prick because cheating on somebody you love is fucking scum. I don't think you're a bad guy at all OP and the fact that you are going through this amount of turmoil proves that you are actually a decent human being, however deciding to betray your girlfriends wishes by cheating on her is not the right way to go about it.

You've said you guys have talked over and over and over about it, I'm sure you've made it unbelievably clear how important it is for your sexual desires to be met. If shes telling you no she doesn't want you to sleep with other women, she is not caring about you as much as she should by being a loving partner. As shit as it is, you are going to have to look at either breaking it off, or staying with her and not cheat.

Of course you can go the cheating route and be a scumbag.

I just had sex with my wife this morning. And she promised to suck my dick later. We've been together for 21 years. Since we were 15. And she's still hot as fuck.

Leave her and be done with it. You'll wake up one day, 55 years old and realize you wasted your life with a Bitch who won't even consider your feelings let alone try. I'm sorry but get out now.

>Only wants sex once every 2 or 3 months
Shes cheating or in the process of cheating on you.

Ive already stated that although considering it - I can't see me going through with it only for the fact the other person would be a liability. She does love me. Only I can really know that. She always says the same thing "if you dont feel like sex, and you dont feel sexy, you dont wan tto give blowjobs and do shit like that". Brilliant.

If after 7 years you can't sit down and talk about a problem like this, what does that say about the relationship man?

Lots of people aren't sexualy compatible but still love each other and find a way so both are happy.

Talk it out. If you cheat she won't trust you anymore and that's the end of the relationship.

Are you a fucking moron? Why the fuck would she cheat if I have begged her to fuck someone else and she refuses?

REALLY? I've said over and over and over. WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT THIS FOR YEARS! I mean, hours upon hours of talking. JFC.

If your sex life is unhealthy, you need to leave

Well, then I guess that answers your question. Fuck other people if she won't.

dude, I get that it's a rough situation and I get that you're in love, but the thing is love isn't some mystical connection between two people it's very tangible and it doesn't only strike once. You're in a postion that makes you very unhappy and love isn't worth it.

Here's my advice. You need to give her an ultimatum. Don't cheat on her tell her that as she is unwilling to give you what you need in the relationship she'll have to be okay with you getting it elsewhere if she isn't okay with that then you walk away. That's what i'd do.

Grow a pair OP. You love her? Then sit her down and explain that for a relationship to work long term there needs to be regular healthy sexual relations. Ask her why she never wants to fuck? Is she bored? Then fine spicy that shit up. Maybe she's gained weight or maybe you have. Maybe you both need to work on your appearances a bit. If cheating seems a viable alternative then why be in the relationship? Be a man and make a fucking decision, instead of pussy footing around being all indecisive, like I still want to be with you but I don't want to tell you to fuck me.

seriously don't cheat
Just tell your gf that you want more sex

Grow a pair? Try reading. I've covered everything you said. We've talked about it endlessly. No one has gained weight. What a retarded thing to come out with. Be a man? Fuck you really are clueless. How do you survive?

2-3 months?
Dude leave you're fucking girl
It will only get worse from there

Even if she's "not in the mood", you can still use lube and fuck her, if she says no, then shes selfish and worthless.

This.

I don't envy your position OP, at all. I also hope that I am never in the same position that you are, however I seriously think you need to look at breaking it off.

Again you're welcome to do whatever you feel that you need to do, and if you reach a point where you dont feel the other person is a liability and do want to end up cheating I hope you'll consider what the right choice is morally.

I would like to also remind you that there are plenty more people out there. As much as people believe in meeting the true love of their life, there's always a chance that you will meet someone as good or equally good.

>I have tried to get her to fuck other guys

The only times I've had this problem was when my girlfriend was stressed with work, and I was super busy so I didn't spend enough time with her, taking her out and just generally doing the things that made the relationship exciting in the first place.

As a counterpoint don't cheat on your girlfriend. I was in the same boat a few years ago, cheated on her, and it was great for that weekend, but I felt terrible for months afterward and in the end I broke up with her because I couldn't stop thinking about it when I was with her.

That being said (from the few lines of text) it sounds like she is somewhat unwilling to take care of your needs. If you can't or don't want to get by without them and she can't fulfill them maybe it's best to find someone else (or get some good toys)

Staying with her is wasting the years you have a functioning cock on a selfish partner.

You need to get out of that situation real fast.

I know a guy in yout situation. He used to say the same thing. His girl only wants sex ever few weeks. He talked to her about it. She tried. Still very littl sex. I wanted to tell him to cheat so bad. He had honeys lined up but didn't want to be unfaithful. I felt so bad for him. I get sex on the regular. Feels good bro. Get that dick in someone or just accept the fact that your sex life is over.

This all seems more and more true to me. Because I love her, I feel like I am being a dick to take this out on her. But actually, even if she doesnt want sex, and she sees I am dying for sex 24/7, and she is all jealous about me finding someone else, then SURELY she should at least try to give me a fuckin blowjob or handjob or SOMETHING? I'm starting to just think she is being a bitch. Sorry.

I feel your pain but married with a kid makes leaving hard plus I do love her. Definitely did something 3 or 4 times early on while traveling. Sex was once a week trying to get back to that after baby a few months ago. Oh and she blew me twice in 4 years as long as I've known her. She is 10/10 but no sex drive. Also there is some new drug for women like viagra coming out. Think it's called Ally or something.

Be careful though I found girls who want it every day like me and even beg for it are usually insane and will not hesitate to fuck up your life.

Tell your mom you called someone on an anime forum a cuck again.

Regardless of the reason, the reality is the relationship is on its way into the ground because of her actions. Like I said above. Do you really want to wake up and regret the years you stayed with this girl. What if 7 years becomes 20.

I'm sorry you take me for someone willing to read through an entire thread of another person's problems, I responded to your initial post, take it for what it is I don't give a shit. And yes, be a fucking man. Make a fucking decision. My point still stands, "love" is a bullshit excuse to keep a sexless relationship going. If you've gotten to the point where either one or both of you aren't sexually attracted to the other enough for regular sex then the relationship is over. If you've tried everything and nothing has changed, again the relationship is over. I've been there before, I ended my last relationship, of 8 years, because of it. Of course I loved her, but that sexual spark couldn't be rekindled for her, she just lost interest in sex, at which point the relationship couldn't continue solely based on "love". Don't try diminish my post because it isn't telling you what you want to hear.

I had this problem with my GF in the beginning of our relationship, it pissed me off. Told her that even if shes not in the mood she can still do something for me. And so now we screw almost every day, regardless of her being in mood or not. Think you failed because you didnt lay down the line earlier.

I was gonna say it's good because she also has something to lose. I thought that I had a good situation with another girl who had a bf but then she broke up with him....

This

I fucked her all the time at the start when she didnt want it. That shit is depressing AS FUCK.

When I was in highschool, my mom and dad both had a relationship talk with me.

They said that after the girl Im with and i start having sex, if it works for both of us, then if the relationship is healthy, we should be having sex at least twice a week.

They said if we get married, sex should be at least once a week.

If not, then something is terribly wrong. Either one of us is unhappy and using the other, or someone is having sex with other people.

Once that has happened, its over. Once that has happened, its time to go find someone else to love.

And after 6 relationships and more than 10 tries, they were right every time.

BTW She is also now talking about wanting a kid. LOL. Yea, so how the fuck are we gonna do that? I've told her I'm not doing that because I refuse to have forced sex to conceive a child. Thats even more fucked up when this whole no sex bullshit is making the relationship rocky as it is.

This. Or at least make it clear to your girlfriend that you require sex more often than you're getting it, and if she's not willing to compromise you'll have to get it elsewhere. She might be ok with you having a side chick just for sex, you never know. But if sex is that important to you, and not very important to her than something is going to have to change for this to work out long term.

They fucking are right too. Your parents must fuck all the time.

SHES TRYING TO LOCK YOUR ASS DOWN. ABORT.

LOL Exactly.

Unfortunately yes and sometimes i got to hear it or be told about it.

Is your mom hot ? Pics plz lol

BTW guys - heres a little insight into JUST how unwilling she is to do ANYTHING for me. She tells me that to her, looking at porn by myself, without her, is the same as cheating. So she expects me to never even be able to have a good wank. FUCK THIS ! ! !!

Sex is the important in a relationship, if you keep getting denied sex you end up feeling unwanted, and that feels like shit. Sex is just extacy for the brain, it makes you feel so good and happy after.

yayy, keep on promoting rape, good job user! ;)

And I look at porn every day so to her I guess I am already as good as cheating.

If she wants sex only every 2-3 month, She probably doesent love you anymore or is already cheating on you and gets her sexual desire fullfilled by someone else.

Of course relations which r out of the cutiepie stage wont have that much sex like they had in the beginning, but every 2-3 months is too less. Definately something fishy there.

Good luck.

its like the best fucking drug I've ever tried. Ever.

She probably cheated on you and sex is probably a constant reminder of that. Sometimes relationships just run there course and to be truly happy you just have to move on and date other if not you'll miss her

Fuck that shit. You're a fuckin Man and you got needs. I'm sure this chick is great but she's gotta understand you have things as man that gotta happen. Talk about it. see what she says. If she turns into a fight then go ahead and fuck that married girls brains out. Shes probably got the sex drive your life needs and her husband aint hittin it right obviously.

If you are feeling this fucked up about your relationship DO NOT BRING A FUCKIN KID INTO IT.
First and foremost, the kid will instantly become a bunch of reasons to not have sex.

Obviously there is something going on with her. I didn't read the entire thread, I understand that you've spoken to her about this a lot.

Have you tried never mentioning sex? Never trying?

My wife went through a weird period in her life where she didn't want sex for long periods. Spent tons of time talking to her about it to no avail. When I stopped bringing it up she suddenly got horny again.

Obviously everyone is different but that's what my experience was

Dude, I'm not OP but I'm going to tell you one thing: read the thread. If you read the thread, you would never posted what you just said.

>looking at porn by myself, without her, is the same as cheating.

NOPENOPENOPEABORTABORTABORTNOPENOPENOPE

Leave her.

Thanks dude. I've gave up trying to tell people I already have done all of this lol

It's not rape, reluctant consent is still consent in the eyes of the law

Just Gf right now? Bail. You're lucky you're not married. It only gets worse.

Do you know where you are you idiot?

OP, if she says no then slice her fuckin leg. Nothing too deep, just enough to let her know that this isn't a fuckin game anymore

Yep. I rarely bring it up now. Once my daily asking for it did nothing and we still only had sex once every 3 months - I gave up. Now every couple of weeks I'll make a comment about how much I miss it. She often says shit like 'Ill try to do something for you tomorrow', and it never happens lol. She knows I've gave up asking. She doesn't forget.

fiance to be exact. Its actually 8 years.

LOL

Sit her down and tell her either the sex starts or youre leaving. Thats where you are right now OP.

I guess this is how it is. I might have to throw it all away. What a fucking waste. Shes hot af too fyi lol

I know your situation. Pretty much the same here, though a little better at the moment. I go to hookers, its uncomplicated, they won't tell, wont try to destroy your relationship. Stay off a personal relationship. You're in trouble if you fall in love, you're in trouble if she falls in love. If your wife finds out, almost certainly she's gone. At least try an escort, see how it feels for you.

whiny faggots. also check file name

I'm sure. But yes, the reality is you arent throwing much away. You need to get out of that relationship. It'll suck but future you will thank you.

I live in the middle of fucking no where.

According to research done in the last decade, thry postulate that lack of sex is top contender for destroying relationships. So whether you love her or not, there is a good chance that relationship won't last if the sex continually decreases. Another thing that has been hinted upon in the last few decades is the affinity for novelty in males. We crave novelty almost on a instinctual level regardless of our current feelings towards or mate. Even to point of fertility problems with low sperm count.

I am. I've cheated a lot and I'm gonna marry my gf but I still cheat

Buy GF a vibrator...it will make her hornier

Was in the same situation as you, but only 1,5 years. Became bitter and didn't want to even see her get undressed before we went to sleep.

We ended it because see eventually saw how much it hurt me.

Can't imagine doing that for 8 years.

There is now a drawer of unused toys from when she was a horny bitch.

yea. My fiance praces around in nothing but a thong and a tshirt every evening - with little knee high socks. But it upsets her if I ask for anything sexual because then she feels useless when she has to say 'no she doesnt feel like it'. Its fucked.

Qualifications: I cheated on my ex-wife with... six different women. Never got caught. One day I got sick of it and just left her so I could fuck anyone I want and not have to hide it.

Advice: Leave your wife. Get it over with. Rip the bandaid off. Let her go find a guy who's not interested in sex so they can be happy together. Then go fuck that married slut who needs it bad because you've got it.

If you ever marry again, marry someone who want's it as much as you do.

It's been five years since I divorced, I'm damn close to proposing to my current GF of three years. Why? Because we not only get along on all normal fronts, but because she fucks like a whore and wants to invite other women to our bed, if their tits are big enough.

That's one to love and marry. Your wife, love and leave.

She sounds a lot like my partner - it all changed after about 5 years.

Dude, just offer her the ultimatum. Tell her that you're either get your needs met elsewhere with her blessing or without her blessing but that it is going to happen, and if she can't live with that then it's over between you two

basically already did. Told her many times about a year or two ago that i cant go on much longer like this.

How does she not pick up that it bothers you?

I mean my ex was really hot. But after 1,5 years of ''not in the mood'' you could see instant sadness on my face the second of her taking her shirt off.

If you gave her the ultimatum and she knows about it then sleep with other women it's no longer cheating because you told her that's what you'll do

I understand. I know you don't want to hear what I'm going to tell you but I'm going to say it anyway.

She is not a special snowflake. There are at least 1,000 girls EXACTLY like her probably more. There are literally millions of women on this planet, and there are women out there that are just like your go except they want sex just as much as you do.

Now you've spent several years with this woman. I understand that change can be hard, and it's easy to become comfortable in a relationship and accept the faults of our significant others but listen - Life is too fuckin short to be THIS unhappy.

You could die tomorrow, fuck you could drop dead in the middle of reading this.

Do you want your last moments to be remembering the years of frustration, anger, and insecurity caused by this relationship?

If I was you I would leave her, not in a bad or horrible way, just explain the reasons why we can't be together anymore. It sounds to me like she isn't willing to make any compromises for you. Why should you continue to make compromises for her?

An important part of any relationship is being able to work together. Shit, this is the person you should have the least trouble working with.

No shes not hot

not sure if this is entirely true lol

im starting to see this. Its brutal, but its honest and true.

Are you me?
Turns out my wife is bipolar. Maybe the meds will help. If not im leaving, we are both miserable.
Seek help OP, might be something wrong with her

If you leave take those toys for the next girl

hiring an escort is still cheating lmao. but the escort route is definitely the way to go to not get caught

Yeah. That's my only concern.

It's always a crap shoot because we all change over time and that can't be helped.

If, five years later, she ends up slowing down and I'm still a daily mofo I'll tell her straight up that this isn't good and she can choose between an open marriage where I fuck without hiding it, or divorce.

Yes, divorce is expensive. I call what I send my ex-wife a happy tax. She gets half my money and I get a 100% guarantee that I'm not miserable with that bitch.

That's better than drugs. If it happens again... well at least I got to have a few 3somes with the current GF and the women she picks. :)

Don't stay. I loved my gf very much.
But those sexless years slowly destroy you.

We separated years ago, but mentally I still haven't 100% recovered.

I would put a fuckin stop to that. How the fuck would she feel if you dangled something she wanted in her fuckin face and then said "oh sorry honey, you can't have this"

Fuck user, now i'm pissed

Very simple but tough to do. Sit her down and tell her since she won't have sex with you, then you'll find it elsewhere. If she loses her shit then give her the ultimatum either let me or do something to change this because it can't go on like this. If you're lucky it might pressure her to give in to it

you sound like me.

Fuckin this^

I know a gay dude that's not out. She could be his hag.

I'm in the same boat tbh OP

Me and my fiancee are really happy have house, car getting married next year all is pretty good and I don't wanna fuck that up. I love and don't want to hurt her.

But a lass I know who's travelling at the minute really wants me bad she comes back to the UK in November and she's wanting me to fuck her badly, She's gagging to fuck me she tells me all the stuff she wants me to do send snapchats of her fucking herself. Tells me she will pay for the hotel the lot. She's said this for the past 3 years but been travelling, She did come back last year and was begging me to meet her but I pussied out because I don't want to cheat.

I'm curious and a part of me thinks I don't want live a life and regret not fucking her but then I know I'll feel shit for fucking her.

Problem is I know Id' get away with it my Mrs works away twice a month for a few nights and I could easily arrange it but I just don't think I could cheat.

Heads a mess with it tbh.

welcome to my world.

What was her response???

This escorts pretty much are the best 100 percent discression and they are super hot

Just remember Cred Forumsro, YOU are in control of your happiness.

Is she doesn't want to fuck you, it's all down hill from there. Just get out, you'll be happier. Monogamy is a lie spoon fed from birth to control us.

A lot of crying and weeks of her being depressed as fuck. Still nothing sexual whatsoever. She told me I was a cunt for forcing sexual favours from her and blackmailing her. I felt like a dick.

Walk away, user

you ever had sex after separating?
Used to have a lot of confidence.

But after sleeping next to a girl that loved me every night for 1,5 years. Who didn't want to do anything sexual with me.

That's a major confidence killer.

Almost 100% sure that if I ever have sex again I will breakdown crying.

Pics of those whores, especially butterface

OP. A man has needs. You need a proper release. Tell her this ànd if she says no then dump her

You sound just like me. Our lives have become so entangled. I have dated a lot of other girls before her. I dont care for this 'theres loads more like her, no matter how much you think she is special' bullshit. We literally have so much in common its weird. Shes a soul mate. So what, do I throw it all away, our lives, our house, the dogs, the car, EVERYTHING, because I want to make the most of this one shot i have at being young and enjoying my favourite thing about life... sex. I hate to sound shallow. I just love sex. Its almost fucking spiritual to me.

I love my bride and were 2-4 times a month. Few could keep up with my sex drive so I whack often in new and inventive ways. I have a flesh light, a rubber cock, rubber pussy/ass combo. I don't want to rock the boat or get the dose. Love her more than my dick, and I love my dick!

Anyone that hasnt been in a similar situation to this will never understand. I have been with my current GF for around 5 years OP and she is exactly the same. Only willing to have sex every 1 - 2 months. Nothing is physically or mentally wrong with her she just doesn't want sex. No matter what you try be it birth control, toys, other men, etc. These types of girls literally do not want to fuck. I love my GF and would do anything for her, but the lack of sex is absolutely depressing. Dont worry OP, just start training yourself to enjoy bating more than sex and eventually the pain of not having actual sex will leave you.

THANK YOU. You understand. I have the extra bullshit that she says looking at porn without her is cheating though. Fuck it, I still do it every day. I have to.

Listen to me op and only me these other fuckers have no idea what they are talking about, this is what you do to save your relationship. YOU STOP ASKING HER FOR FUCKS
If you go home everyday and ask for sex in the afternoon then get shut down just STOP.
Stop doing that and don't act salty either, act like you have just fucked 10 chicks every time you talk to her, be positive. So ideally you go up to her say Hello or whatever and you DO NOT ask in some petty way if she wants to suck your cock, you just gladly go away and play some games or something, never even allude to being sexually frustrated. This is what we call dread game, after some time your girlfriend is going to notice this pattern of inconcernity and realize that her control over you is fading away, how are you not asking her for sex? Are you having other options? Is she becoming less attractive to you? OH NO!! she will think. Watch her run back to you and give you the best fuck of your life, the "I want control in this relationship" fuck, the fuck you get only the first few months of the relationship. If you want to do this accompanied by cheating on the side go ahead there is nothing wrong, mens minds don't conflict with our sexual behavior, who we fuck doesn't change who we "love". Just please don't ask to have a talk with her because you are just playing by her cards then.

How do you go to sleep next to the woman you love after years of no sex? Masturbation is nothing like real sex.

My GF and I had a short bout about this and it basically came down to: "if you dont want me to fuck another women then let me enjoy my porn and sex toys." After that she doesn't complain anymore.

Been acting like that for months.

Run

>forcing sexual favours from her and blackmailing her.
Obviously I wasn't there, don't know what was said or how it was said. Regardless, if that was her complete response, meaning that after she had her emotional response that she wasn't able to figure out the situation logically, then she is a bit fucked up.

You've made it clear that you have a need, a part of you that isn't being fulfilled. You know how many women leave their men because they aren't being fulfilled? A fuckton. And typically for much less stress than you've experienced.

Cred Forumsro, I am telling you this is not your fault. You've tried for YEARS. You know that saying "the definition of insanity of doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result each time." Your situation is the real life example of that, please take no offense and try to understand what I'm saying here.

You just do it. When you find the right person your love for that person outweighs your love for sex. These types of women will do anything for you, even die for you, but for some reason they wont have sex with you. I dont think us men will ever understand why, but that is how it is.

I've never felt as bas in my life as after cheating
wouldnt recommend, 4/10

Stop with the porn. That's why she finds you undesirable. Women fuck men they find attractive. The men they find attractive are those that have higher status than they - so by associating with them they get a status boost, which feels good. If you have lower status they find you unappealing - they may be love you as a person, but they find sex with you to be a bit disguisting, and they can't even help this feeling. Watching porn and masturbating is making you more beta, lower status - less willing to take a risk, a fight and work for your status. Even having a gf an regular sex does that to you -you become lazy, "safe" etc. Once the woman feels she gains no status by associating with you, she starts acting unenthusiastic (because being with you doesn't give her good emotions anymore). Basically that's the whole male female dynamic. Women want a ride up the ladder and by following their feelings they choose males which can raise their status the most.

You have obviously not because she is still somehow pitying you giving you these blowjobs that count for nothing. You are a little fucking dog in her eyes and she doesn't care about you or how you feel. Try not being a fucking alpha in the relationship for a little while and then get back to us.

>Almost 100% sure that if I ever have sex again I will breakdown crying.
Get a fleshlight. Practice practice practice. Manifest those feelings into energy re-directed into your cock and give that bitch the fucking of her life

Then just dump her. You're basically in a hole and she says when you can get out. Man up, get some backbone and just move on. She clearly has no consideration for you

I mean try BEING an alpha . Typed that sentence wrong sorry

The fuck are you talking about "stop with the porn, its why she finds you undesirable" ??!?! She told me if I look at porn, its the same as cheating. Yes, I look at porn every day, but obviously i dont fuckin tell her about it if she thinks its cheating. She believes I havent looked at porn since the last time we watched it together about 2 years ago. Don't fucking tell me thats why she finds me undesirable like its a fact when you clearly have zero clue.

I also did. for 1,5 years. Slowly losing all happiness. Slowly hating the sight of my naked gf.
true. I didn't understand.
But it didn't matter. Love and sex go together for me.

i haven't had a pitty blowjob in a bout 6 months.

>I dont care for this 'theres loads more like her, no matter how much you think she is special' bullshit
It's numbers user. There is nothing "bullshit" about numbers. Numbers are the universal language of the entire universe.
Make less emotional based decisions, make more logical based decisions. That doesn't mean act like an asshole, just use your fucking brain.

>spiritual
Oh I see the problem

Sometimes in life there aren't any good answers. Sorry OP

>cheating

>love your partner

Pick one

/thread

Was that Ghandi?

Cheating is a terrible option because obviously if she found out she'd be devastated.

What you should do is communicate your needs with her. You lover her and want to stay with her but you need to have more sex, so you will need to have an open relationship and have sex with other women. It is that simple.

How would a fleshlight help?
It's just knowing that a girl finds me desirable and actuality want's me after all those shitty years with my ex.

I don't even care about sex anymore, just want some physical contact.

Done all that.

Cheating aside, but you never said your age. The issue of her only wanting sex every two months or so will only get WORSE the older she gets.
Source: My Wife.

FUCK I miss feeling wanted. I forget what feeling like a fucking man is at this stage. Its bullshit.

I'm 33, shes 28.

See dude, what this stinking retard is doing is fucking awful. He has forced this chick to give him sex through blackmailing, the only thing this does is dry up her pussy like theres fucking erosion going on in her pussy. Obviously she isn't able to look up to OP as a man anymore which means she isn't able to go down on him. She feels as if she is as good as you or even worse, that she is better than you. This is hard to recover from, i suggest these two options to OP 1. Apply dread game as i described it accompanied by heavy lifting and taking care of himself visually.
2. Dump this chick and stop being a pussy dryer 2000 , i mean blackmailing your own chick? What are you autistic?

>the problem with Cred Forums is that it's the same 20 threads over and over
>the problem with this thread is that it's the same responses to op without anyone reading any of those responses
>threadception

>she says looking at porn without her is cheating

Woah, OP, your girl is fucking crazy!!

This. Men cheat to stay in the relationship. Women to get out of it.

Op get out now.

What are you going to do when you find out she's been cheating on you? Even if only emotional cheating? Do you think you can handle that?

Are you mentally challenged dude? Listen clearly. She slowly stopped having sex with me over the space of 8 years. I told her I need it. She said she can't because she doesnt feel like it. Eventually, after 8 fucking years, I say to her that I am not sure how this relationship can work out if I dont get sex because I need it and its depressing as fuck to have a partner who doesnt want to fuck me. She called THAT blackmail. Get it? She had long fucking stopped doing anything for me before that. So get off your high horse bullshit and get real. This is a girl who tells me that looking at porn, or masturbating thinking about other women is cheating. GO FUCK YOURSELF.

What did she say? Absolutely not?

Then cheat or dump her, if you cheat and she finds out at least you tried to warn her.

THIS

Honestly, it's only cheating if you get caught.

Lulz

Until his girlfriend finds out about the cheating and dumps his ass. Then OP will become an emotional mess for at least 3 years.

It's a fucking scourge for sure. That being said, I've been cheating for years. I felt like absolute shit about it and have fessed up once out of sheer guilt. Continued doing it but have slacked off considerably in the last year. Now it's to the point where maybe once every six months hit something else up. Part of me thinks it was just a phase or something.

Anyhoo, not recommended. The ride just isn't worth the end game. Figure yourself out and realize that the moral high ground and retaining of the solid value of honor is the better way.

The sad part is you'll either never know exactly what I mean because you'll stay strong and be truthful (and least in this case) or you'll know exactly what I mean.

Basically the problem is you. And you can't deny it. I have ran into this my self and I did the research and changed my self. Every woman even the nimphos out there need an emotional connection before sex some want little fore play and some need you to work very hard to trigger an emotional spike which gets their sex drive to engage.

Start off small do things for her make her feel like she's the only girl in the world. My ex was the exact same but I just didn't know how to activate her sex drive. Ask her what you can do for her and what makes her happy. Talk to your woman make her love you back.

All of these fags here who are telling OP to not cheat are retarded, I used to be like them and i now realize i was being irrational because of the brainwashing everyone gets by this feminized society. A MAN CHEATING IS NOT LIKE A WOMAN CHEATING. Men have a penis, and women have a vagina. If a woman lets someone fuck her, that also means she has submitted to that person in every way possible, which if you are retarded and don't understand means that she can't fuck two people at the same time and love one of them to fullest. She is mentally incapable of doing that. Men on the other hand don't get affected by fucking other bitches, fucking other bitches actually increases the love you have for you current girl. Fucking other chicks makes you more attractive subconsciously to other women. It's a very biological thing, and by the way, if your woman isn't giving you sex which is one of core things important for happiness in a man that is made to fuck every damn thing that moves, then she deserves to get cheated on. YOU ARE CHEATING RIGHTEOUSLY MY MAN OP, SHE DESERVES IT. Aaaaaand for all you know she might be fucking some big dick black guy. Man up OP, do the righteous thing here

"Basically the problem is you". I love how you present this as fact - then continue to tell me things I've done for years. I've tried it all. Being romantic as fuck, not ever mentioning sex and just cuddling, spoiling her, or trying to focus on what she tells me turns her on etc. SHE DOESN;T HAVE A SEX DRIVE. Get it ? ? ?

NIGGA WHAT, OP DON'T LISTEN DO THIS FUCKING DOUCHE I REPEAT DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS FUCKING F.A.G

THIS WILL ONLY MAKE YOUR GIRL LOSE MORE RESPECT FOR YOUR SORRY ASS. I REPEAT DO NOT DO THIS BETA SHIT

sleep creep her man, surprise anal is the best

How can it be rape? Did you not read that they've been in a long-term relationship and have had sex?

Tell me about it

Not that user, but you just listed a few good reasons to leave her

We've been together since 11th grade. It's difficult to reconcile the horny teenager she used to be against the middle age woman she is now. We married at 22, and both of were working a lot early on, so I just kind of thought she was tired. But after our first child was born, she seemed to really lose interest, and some things we did in bed were magically not things moms did. I always thought things would change after the kids started school, or after they got older, then after they moved out... NOPE. I love her and she loves me, and we have great times together, it's just like pulling teeth to get her to want to have sex. Then when she finally does, there's this guilt after like she only did it out of obligation. I feel like I do all the right husband things too, help with housework, foot massages, etc. She has some health issues at this point in her life, so there's that. I've pretty much given up and just jack off 99% of the time. I don't have the energy or desire to deal with the drama of having a girl on the side. Take heed, man. I seriously doubt she'll ever change.

Although delivered in quite a blunt way - a lot of this makes perfect sense.

Going through the same thing, OP.

I feel your pain and know your struggle. My girlfriend is a little more willing than once every 3 months but she's so completely worthless when we get down to doing it that I won't even want to waste my time.

I have literally given up in the middle of the act, multiple times because the bitch was so dry that I just decided to get wasted, play video games and go to bed.

Now, I have been shopping around for a side-piece for a month. I don't know if I can actually bring myself to cheat on my girlfriend but whatever happens I'm not telling her shit.

7 years is a long time, b/ro. A very long time but do yourself a favour:

DON'T BE THE GUY BEGGING FOR SEX.

That's when you have lost the battle. That's all your power, right there - out the motherfucking window. If you give that up, you're basically telling your woman that if she ever wants to influence you, all she has to do is let you sniff her cunt.

Fuck that shit.

But if you're going to cheat then absolutely cover all your bases in covering it up.

You could also start shopping around for a new girl and break up with your old one when you know the transition is already underway.

Godspeed.

Then leave! Don't you get it?

you sound like a whiney little bitch,
>murder suicide
>problem solved

Femanon here. Your GF is right. It's basically cheating. I tell my BFs they can look at porn as long as it's with me. Heck, even if they are just watching it on their laptop while I read on my iPad next to them, I'm okay with that. But if you're alone with the porn, it's cheating. Plain and simple.

So if you really tried not mentioning sex and not being obviously upset in front of her for a whole month (Which i am 100% sure you didn't do btw). Then do this
1. Cheat out of your fucking ass
2. Get rid of her, she is denying you of a human instinct that is more important than eating

Cheating is actually what we're supposed to do and it nature its called mating. Long relationships cause depression. Cheating causes jizz

This. Except its happened in 8 years of dating, pre-kids, pre-marriage.

Not that user, haven't read the entire thread (sorry) but has she been to the dr? Sometimes no sex drive is a chemical imbalance, they make a kind of viagra for women for a reason

You're fucking retarded.

Don't marry gf. Screw around like crazy. You will get caught but no baby no wedding ring no problem.

Hey user, I am you. How's it going friend?

NO IT FUCKING ISN'T. as long as you have regular sex it's a great way to fill the sex drive gap.
Because one of the 2 always has a bigger sex drive the the other.

How fucking insecure are you that you can't handle porn.

Bitch you are fucking retarded, you think you understand men but you don't. Why women consider porn cheating and men don't is because we are different. WHEN WOMEN watch porn they are to some extent imagining themselves submitting to the male pornstar to some extent, that's mental cheating. WHEN MEN watch porn we are thinking about the pussy, tits and overall beauty but we don't give a fuck about the person. We are not submitting and we are neither caring for the girl in the film, we are just seeing them for what they are, OBJECTS. Your boyfriend is a fucking loser and he is doing it behind your back anyways.

If you guys were swinger or poly this wouldn't be a problem. Monogamy is killing you Cred Forumsro.

I've had the same problem OP, sorry to tell you, but when sex aint going well, sooner or later the relationship's finished. I had a gf for 3 years and we were going strong until the fire died down, we didn't see eachother much and she wasnt putting out. I could only keep up for around 2 months while jacking off multiple times a day, then just said fuck it and got me a whore. My relationship didn't get any better tho, no matter what i did on my part, dates, weekend road trips, vacations, still going downhill. Then i met another girl and hit it of on fwb terms real quick, that lasted like a month before i got the feels and just gave up on the relationship. It was the right choise too, since she'd pretty much given up too. Found out 4 months later that some CHAD got her preggo, so it turned out she did have a sex drive, just not for me, probably cheated too, i'd have broken my heart if i found out while we were still together, but i honestly couldn't give a shit when i did, i was happy with my new girl. Btw proposed to her this summer.

Don't fucking bring that shit here. Nobody gives a fuck about a femanon, you're here because you're a whore. Now show op your tits with a timestamp, he goddamn deserves it.

Can a Cred Forumsromama let this bitch know she ain't shit?

Not that it has came across here, but I see myself as a feminist. There is a great equality there, and there is a right to fight it. However, this is just ridiculous. Feminazis do not take into consideration that men are just different than women. On earth, we are designed to breed. I am sorry that sounds misogynistic to you, but its what our purpose was. How many BFs have you been through? We need an outlet. Deprive us of sex, and we feel shit about ourselves because we start not feeling like men, and our self esteem is fucked. We will also feel guilty and like shit because we will start thinking about cheating. We think about cheating because we can fuck without any emotion at all. Just for sex. Because its what we need. Take it away from us, and take away our ability to stimulate ourselves by masturbating to porn, and we get really fucked up. Its mental fucking torture. I bated to my girlfriend, just thinking about her and no one else for many many months. Do you realise how sad that is? Fantasizing about fucking your own GF? What you are saying is fucked up. She used to love watching porn with me, but she last did that 2 years ago. At least give me something FFS!

Ugh,

your boyfriends are fucking pussy-whipped faggots.

What kind of fascist death camp are you running in your relationships.

I have openly expressed my sexual attraction to my girlfriends young, attractive cousin and practically jerk off to her facebook whenever my girlfriend searches it for me.

The rules of dating are simple:

Your bodily fluids, genitals, any and all holes and appendages belong to me. There is a forcefield for cum, tongues, and naked genitals around your body.

That's it.

You can go online and have sexy chat with whatever dude or girl your want.

Anything that risks my health is a no-go.

We're done.

That means anything that means you can look but you don't touch.

There needs to be some ground rules in the relationship.
Cheating = over
Watching porn = over
No sex = over

Just talk to her and tell her what you need to be happy, find out what she needs to be happy, and compromise.

Maybe op's chick got raped and is ashamed to admit it.

Op have you tried raping her? You know like how they say you need some of the hair of the dog that bit ya? Rape yes??

First of all fuck you. Second of all, I'm not taking insults from a neckbeard virgin who doesn't even know the difference between "your" and "you're"

Eat shit cunt your nothinf

Bitch it's your fucking fault. If i have to sit next to you and watching porn, maybe you should be having my dick in your mouth instead of staring at your fucking ipad. Fuck's sake, i don't even think about porn when i'm getting my dick wet regularly.

>porn
You guys are pretty insecure aren't you?

nice bait

This really has turned into a clusterfuck. What is with this bullshit that people are agreeing with my GF that watching porn is cheating, and thinking about other girls while masturbating is cheating? I'll tell you why its fucked up. If you are feminist, you want equality yes? Well, I think I speak for all men here, we dont give A FUCK if the woman we are with watched porn or bates thinking about Brad fucking Pitt. Get over it!

If you want sex and she doesn't, break up with her and find someone with a similar sex drive.

pegue.net/8KyP

>Fuck's sake, i don't even think about porn when i'm getting my dick wet regularly.

Femanons and Cred Forumsromamas pay attention to this. Don't ever forget it.

>What is with this bullshit
You answered your own question my friend, it's bullshit, aka bait. Don't take the bait my friend, now let me get that hook out of your mouth

You are trying to find a way to keep the security of a woman who loves you and the freedom to be a horndog who fucks married bitches in the ass. I get that, and I have done this very thing. I have a married fuck pig I've been training for 10 years. But I was in love with two women in that time who I lost because I couldn't keep it all together. There will be highs on that path and you will have epic fucks at least sometimes, but that path leads to dark places. Like an addiction, you will find yourself compromising pieces of your real self. The short game is fun but the long game will take your soul.

I'm divorced OP what was a big sign that it was over? Sex became super fucking sparce.

When does this movie come out?

Hey, dumbass, quick answer: "YES". A woman can't fucking expect you to stay around and be a slave to her needs and desires, if she finds out, rub it in her fucking face that she's a selfish cunt who has no idea how to keep her man happy.
Second step, FUCK THAT MARRIED BITCH RAW. Doggy style is recommended due to the face. Hell, even record it so your woman can experience the shame of another woman being able to please her man.

TL;DR: YES YOU DIPSHIT, CUCK THAT BITCH AND GO GET SOME PUSSY.

>230 replies 16 images
>16 images

I'm going to randomly post pics. Please carry on with your discussions. Wishing you the best of luck op, I would leave her at this point if it were up to me.

ayyy mother fucking patrice o'neal rest in peace

Fuck that racist

This has been informative.

As an oldfag. Listen to this advice. I've been there, and this dude gets it.

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This user is sadly right OP. Your girl sounds repressed, is she religious? You can give her one last chance and ask for an open relationship but if she says no fuck the married bitch and leave the other.

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go listen to black phillip

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patrice wasnt a racist lol

Staunch atheist. She said no to open relationships.

Part of love is trust and vulnerability.

If you can't be as honest with her as you are here, then you have more of those things wih anonymous strangers than wih a woman you love. That's something you need to ask yourself about.

Maybe it's true that if she loves you, she will agree to let you gutter fuck some tramp. But that's her decision. If you take that away, it does paint a picture to an outside observer of one who manipulates rather than loves.

is there some of her naked?

Did she say why?

underrated post

If you cheat then you don't deserve to be in a relationship

if you are smart youll go to couples counseling. If she refuses to change dump her ass. you have needs that need to be met

Don't remember saving this

Because she is jealous as fuck. Bitch goes crazy if I look like I'm enjoying a sex scene in a movie.

not sure if cuck or bait

I spent enough time hanging out with him to know that he hated white people and blamed every single black person's problem on white people. Fuck him

Don't know, never got around to reverse searching, care to check?

Sounds like her problem and maybe leftover religious thinking. I'm poly and my girl and I take time to figure out WHY she feels jealous and logic through it. You know, communication.

Yea, you guys were besties.

I am the dude posting patrice in the thread, trying to redpill these fuckers

The fuck are you talking about religious shit for? She was born into a non-religious family, and she is very outwardly athiest lol

wow no foolin? whats your name guy

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DON'T marry a girl that isnt meeting your needs. Way too much of a commitment to someone who constantly leaves you wanting more.

i dont feel like reading this whole thread, but ill tell you what OP if your girlfriend isnt fucking you, but she used to fuck you all the time, then it probably means shes fucking someone else

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> Hours of talking
> Years of talking
> Problems unresolved
Quit wasting time and talk about the painful shit. Wasting your life tiptoeing around it is thae same pain, just slower. If you can't do this between yourselves, grow some balls and get a therapist. You're so convinced you've exhausted all your options. You've exhausted all the easy options. Step out of your comfort zone if you love this girl. Or grow some balls and go pound that married chick. But be prepared to take that to your grave.

Checked
Or that she got raped and can only be satisfied through violent sex

THESE ARE THE ONLY TWO POSSIBILITIES

You'd surprised how religion influences people even non religious people. Either way it's that or she's just absurdly insecure and you should leave her tbh. Just trying to have some hope that it's not over for you tbh.

Interesting how growing a set of balls equates to both seeing a therapist and banging a married chick. Which gives me bigger balls?

Op, make some of that salsa and don't let her have any. That shit looks good

Tell her that you need more sex. Don't cheat on your girlfriend. End it if you can't work out a compromise. Don't sleep with a married woman. Do sleep with someone who is single and wants to fuck you once you are single and find someone you want to fuck.

What should I do if she is like OPs girl ex Celt edges as are tAlking about facing. A MMF threesome

Ask her why she doesn't do those things anymore and tell her that you really liked doing them.

Yo i have heard some racist/funny stuff from him but i never suspected he was really racist. He is my idol so if you could expand on yourself and the matter that would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

I think you're the one with a learning disability. If you read what user wrote, then you'd see he's not necessarily saying talk it over again. He's saying don't cheat, either accept your relationship for what it is and love her anyway, or break up and move on if sex is more important than your relationship.

Loooool

Play some ninja gaiden op. Try to find some peace and happiness while you're still alive.

i am also a huge fan of patrice and he never seemed like a racist to me. even if he was he definitely didnt HATE white people

I do.

She needs to talk to her doctor. A low sex drive can be an underlying problem. Or she's asexual and has lied to you.

You only live fucking once! Fuck everyone you want. And try hiding it from here ;)

her*

the*

Balls is just courage. Courage to do the right thing or the wrong thing.

Fucking checked, good op. I feel bad for you. This thread will 404 soon, are you any closed to making a decision now than you were at the start of this thread?

Actually growing a pair of balls and leaving her since you obviously exhausted all your options. Stop beating that dead horse and leave. She doesn't care to consider your needs so why are you going through all this bother? If you gave an ultimatum then carry out or you're being the bitch.

"You are not meeting my needs, and I am unhappy. We need to talk about this, because if we can't come up with a solution that works for both of us, then I do not want to continue this relationship." Let her come up with the solution, and you have to be willing to try. It is also OK to tell her that you need passion and enthusiasm and that "OK, I'll do it" is not acceptable.

*closer

"Balls is courage" Proverb 7.

There are nedications that can enhance her sex drive. Ask her if she would be willing to discuss these options with her doctor.

I'm thinking of just going back to brining it up way more again. Like always complaining about it until she gets fucked off enough that it ends.

Ummmmmm. If she only wants to fuck once a month that means shes getting dick somewhere else bro like seriously are u dumb or something

Pic related op

I think you'd be doing yourself a favor to just break it off. Fuck, just leave, does she really need you to explain why you're leaving when you've been telling her the problem for all these years?

Nice! Just puss your way out of it. Seems that's the problem right there. You're beta af

"like seriously are u dumb or something". Yes, I am dumb. Are you a fucking total retard who cant read? If you can read, try reading the replies. I've begged her to go fuck someone else. She wont. Please enter the sea.

You are trying to rationalize why you should cheat, so let me explain why you should not: because it will make your girlfriend feel like shit. Not going to tell her? Congrats, you no longer have an adult relationship. Ending it should always be an option. You gotta maje the call, though. I would end it. If she does not want to pursue treatment or can't find a solution that works for you, then you either accept it or end it. You don't cheat. It's just that simple.

Love this painting