Feels thread

Do a rate me here in this thread

But I'll make it black/white and censoremy eyes.
Takes just a sec.

Online dating only really works if you're close to 10/10 in everything. I'm pretty sure the male to female ratio is ridiculously unbalanced and so women on there can afford to be picky. Don't feel bad about rejection on a site like that.

As far as online dating goes, I've found that Tinder is your best bet for getting any kind of response, take a nice picture of yourself, use natural lighting and try to look happy and normal, write yourself a bio that doesn't sound too autistic and then just swipe every girl, you should get a few matches.

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I'm uglier than you, buddy, I guarantee it.

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feels thread, not cringe

Today

You got off pretty good, man.

Still waiting user

Fuck it. Here.
Sorry I'm not good at taking pictures and this is like the 2nd selfie which I don't hate. And I know that looks kinda like a mugshot.
Sorry

Btw I'm 1,83(6'0) and about 80kg (175lbs)

Roast me.

I regret it already

>You can still go
Women piss me off.

Unless your eyes are ugly beyond this world, you are not a bad looking person. You can even grow a decent beard. Now I'm jealous you motherfucker.

have testicular tumour/10

You look better than me, and I imagine most of us here.

Unless your eyes are really fucked up, you're pretty decent looking brother. I'd say 7/10

he must be the biggest asshole in the world

Really not bad. Just smile, look a little happier, and add warm lighting and you should be fine.

Oh man...

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Sometimes talking is just to hard

I make up full conversations with people in my everyday life, it can be about everything and anything, I get to hide behind the fact that no matter what I say to them in my mind they'll never reject me or leave me. I've done this even when the physical person is right next to me. I've talked so much with these "people" that in reality the real relationships with them are slowly diminishing. When I do talk to the real ones I bring up stuff that's never happened and when I get the look of confusion from them I realize it was all in mind, but it doesn't matter because they're still here right?

I'd say you better see a psychiatrist about that

I just don't talk to people because I'm not an interesting person to talk to. Sucks knowing that no matter what you do, you're always going to be a burden on others.

Hope he got buttfucked in prison by niggers

Listen mate you can shut the fuck up about being ugly because you're not.
You're tall, you're not fat, you're not riddled with acne, you're decent looking. Good looking even.
You probably just had bad luck with the girls on that website or half of them weren't real.
So really, unless your eyes are bulging out of your head quit using 'I'm ugly' as a bullshit excuse to give up and keep trying.

Thanks. I used get sometimes compliments for my bright green eyes if that helps.
I didn't wanted to attentionwhore I'm just...I don't know desu.

I feel pretty embarassed right now

Me? Um no did a checkup few months ago.
And yes even the testicals and prostate.

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I've thought about it and even counseled myself in my head saying every generic or plausible thing that might be said

Yeah, I've said so many wrong or stupid things that just talking like this is easier. I pretty much in this way get to have relationships I've never had and a way to keep my "social" skills up I guess

listen to this
youtu.be/OHrdWuh7yC0

>broken, empty

I feel that if those are the things you are hiding behind "fine" then the rest aren't really a problem.

Source: experience.

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Sorry I just have no one I could ask and didn't have the balls to show my face here.
And when you get rejected all the time that just made it seem to me that my looks are the problem.

Post pic of face

Post image again I missed it

fucking weak faggots

Now I feel better
moar?

>fucking weak faggots
I know.

Feel dubs

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has anyone in this thread ever stayed on a psych ward or in a psychiatric hospital?
I read and hear a lot about the insane shit that goes on in there but don't hear much about day to day life.
would like to talk about it and get a general idea for how shit is inside there. not just the drama.
I strongly doubt i'll end up in one but I honestly want to because i'm too afraid to kill myself but want to give up and have control taken away from me

I'd rather not.
Sorry I don't really like the attention.

My aunt spent her whole weekend carrying a blanket through her house because she thought she won an EU lottery. She end up in a mental institution. That sux.

Cred Forums made it better

source and moar

Go start a porn thread you dumb faggot

my fap folder.

you can't smoke there... that was my only concern

dumping my feels (and probably some cringe) folder

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Hey, a little green text for you guys...
>sad lonely guy is now even more alone since college.
>all I ever had of value was my car, a 2007 VW Passat.
>start living in apartment, home is 300km away from college.
>start going out every night to drink, never got drunk though.
>one night, skip bar time, go to mall instead.
>park the car in the underground parking lot, I walk slowly towards the mall
>spend about 3 hours in it, I come back to my car, I just wanted to go home.
>as I was almost out of the parking lot, a white Audi hits my car straight up front.
>it's a she
>didn't know it was a one way exit only.
>act cool, even though I wanted to kill her.
>police comes, call a towing department since I couldn't drive it
>tell the policeman that it's not needed to file in the girl
>ask her where she lives
>she was going somewhere far
>no motels around, offer her to crash at my place
>gladly accepts and thanks me a thousand times
>call a cab, we get in, we get home
>start talking about insurance
>it was 2AM already
>let her sleep in the master bedroom, I slept on the couch
>she would go out every day, didn't really care as long as she was home after I was there (of course she doesn't have a key)
Several days pass
>wake up really tired for some reason
>there was a note on the side of the couch
>"Hey, thanks a lot for letting me stay at your place until my car got fixed, I had a wonderful time! I left you some money, to help you at least a little bit with yours, again, I am deeply sorry for what happened. Anyways, you have my number, whenever you're in (city) call me. Thanks again!"
>I actually felt happy having her around
>I felt like a sad fuck again afterwards
>the car was fixed, thanks to her 410 euros and much more from my pocket
>a while after, summer came over
>decided to visit her.
Cont.?

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What are your dreams in life? Srsly

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most of the psych wards I've heard of allow you to smoke, just at certain times and outside in a smoking area.
i'm not a smoker though so it doesn't bother me that it's not allowed/controlled. lungs already fucked up enough.
and that's really the only thing that concerned you?

I just hope to die soon
already done all the things I wanted to
nothing is appealing anymore

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Yes please

>be me
>message grill on normie book
>no reply

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>I feel depressed
>I know, I'll make a feels thread on Cred Forums so I can feel even worse

Fucking retards everywhere

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Any examples?

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I know you are but what am I?

Don't have a lot to say.
Visited my old HS and talked to my former english teacher.
Pretty funny, talking about the trouble I got into, what teaching has been like for her, what my classmates are up to.
She asks if I finally applied myself, instead of slacking off all the time.

Didn't know what to say.
I'd dropped out of community college. Diagnosed with severe clinical depression, then ADHD much later, PTSD a day before I'd shown up to see her.

Back then I was just a lazy kid who didn't bother to get it together.
In reality, I was broken, damaged, and I needed healing, or else I might not be able to piece myself back together.

So that's where I'm at. In between remembering who I was and not knowing who I could be, what I have left to build.

Yea

A life?
I mean like every 'normal' person. Friends, a wife and even kids one day. Birthday parties and to be invited to other peoples parties.
Or any eye to eye social interaction.
To talk to someone who isn't the cashier in my local supermarket.

Or something like that.

Im NEET scum but hey at least the race war will start soon so I'll have something to do

waibfdniawlkubf

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What's her name Cred Forums? What happened?

my english sucks, that said:
> I play the piano
> wrote a book (never released it though)
> fucked bitches till dick hurts
> truly loved 2 girls, one died and the other one dumped me
> do a lot of sport
> and I actually do everything I want, but everything is boring now
maybe the only thing left is grow up kids, but I'm not sure if I want to

What?

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Fix my fathers australian ford falcon and wonder off to the desert to die

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Her name is Alexis and I unexpectedly fucked it up (or maybe I didn't, I still don't know what to think or feel about what happened) and now she's gone and I'm really lost and broken and I'm constantly in a depressive state. I wouldn't say I'm depressed, I've just got a depressive mindset at the moment.

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One fan is better than nothing
>so I search this city to see how far it actually is
>not that much, 9 hour drive, also get through my home town
>pack up, filled the car with gas, time to go
>nothing special during driving.
>get to my hometown, still 3 hours from her
>decide to call her, telling her that I'll be there tomorrow
>was really excited to hear from me
>tomorrow, get there, meet up at café, chatting
>asks me if I wanted to have a blast that night
>fuckitwhynot.jpg
>go to a big fucking club called "President"
>got wasted, kept losing her in the crowd
>often takes my by the hand to dance
>we were out, I wanted to smoke a cig
>she doesn't smoke, so I threw it away
>"did you just do that for me, user?"
>the drunkest voice possible "yup, pretty much"
>she kisses me without any kind of warn
>"that is really cute"
>"yer really cute" -said myself like a dumbass
skipping through we had drunk sex, i mean that lazy walk and moving like in slow motion and everything
>all of this in a motel
>the next day I wake up alone
>another paper
>pleaseno.webm
>it was her address, thank god
>meet up tomorrow, I had the urge of telling her that I love her
>she told me that I would be the first to do that
>we just hug and in the end give it a chance
>it was going so well even though she was fuckin' 17 and I was soon to be 21.
>crashed at her's all summer because why the fuck not
>guess what dimwit, summer's over.
>both sad as fuck
Cont?

What exactly happened?

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How do i get big titties like this?

>I just hope to die soon

I can relate. Had a cancer scare and my only thought was "finally". It didn't take so just back to waiting.

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this hit me like a fucking brick

Mate, psych wards are some of the worst places to bed. You think that being in your own home and depressed was bad? Well think about being in a virtual prison with other people who love to cut, burn, shoot themselves and have been doing it for years for attention. That's how the system is designed. Its not meant to get you well and improve your life. Its designed to manage the 'symptoms' so you don't kill yourself and ruin someone else's day.

Because the thing is, if your so mentally ill, then seeing a resolution of your symptoms when in the psych ward is going to mean nothing when you have to return home. Because then your often returning to the situation that you initially needed to escape.

Its like when people tell poor people to stop being poor. Because they can suddenly find money, find an education and actully gain some fucking hope that their life will not be shit tomorrow.

Sorry for the rant, just my aussie perspective.

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OP is a candy-ass

The answer is yes again

Well it could be worse. It could be the same exact situation but you never formed a close enough bond with any of your teachers to be able to go back and chat to them.

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I would have come to your party though.

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I just have no will or motivation to get better, to do anything to help myself. I've been seeing a therapist for nearly three months now and it's not helped me at all. it's made me feel like shit.
everything they offer me just doesn't work, every piece of advice I've not been willing to or able to follow. from the psych or my friends or family.
it's partly due to a lack of motivation and will power, but also because deep down I don't want to get better. i'd rather be a numb piece of shit than one who cries themselves to sleep.
the only way for me to get better now is for me to push myself and do the things my psych asks, but fuck. I can't even get out of bed in the morning on some days. couldn't even keep a clean sleep diary.
the only way I see myself getting better would be putting me into a place where I have no choice but to do so. where I have to change just to get out of there. and if it doesn't change me, if it doesn't work.
atleast I tried my best. and i've come as close to suicide as a possibly can without growing some balls.

No faggot

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I think I kinda feel like shit.

>fall in love 4 years ago with girl
>we make out once
>she stops us from going further
>she's proud of herself for it
>I congratulate her unironically
>become her satellite for 6 months
>finally before she leaves I get the courage to make her tel me "I don't love you user"
>she leaves the country to help some asian kids somewhere
>we stay in touch and she makes an effort to talk to me
>8 months after meeting her, I finally tell her it's enough
>my heart can't take it anymore
>I don't think I'll ever meet her again
>while watching one piece as Luffy's brother is killed
>I cry
>first YEAR afterwards is emotional hell
>think about suicide daily
>second YEAR and I'm thinking about suicide only sometimes
>finally quit /r/foreveralone
>YEAR 3 get a new job
>enter the dating apps: Tindr, Happn, Bumble, Badoo, whatever exists
> 3 dates in a year
> At least I'm over her :)
>TODAY
>go jogging and swimming with buddy
>see this hot blonde looking at us
>she cocks her head
>her eyes widen
>IT'S HER
>WTF!?!? She's supposed to be in some other fucking country
>chit chat for a minute and leave as fast as possible
>get call from her friend to meet up again
>"it's been a long time, you must be over it by now"
>thoughts of suicide are back
>I still love that cunt :(

Why the fuck are human emotions so fucking stupid Cred Forums. Anybody else want to be a real robot?

It's really complicated and stupid but bear with me.

Met her like 3 years ago, we became super close friends super quickly, friendship naturally progressed to romance. We dated briefly but I ended up moving back to my home country so we split and agreed to stay in contact as friends. But she never lost feelings for me and we kept talking and growing closer and closer. She started falling in love with me, and when she helped me through a tough time I started falling in love with her. Eventually we confessed our feelings and agreed that because of the distance we wouldn't get into a relationship until we could meet up in person (she was gonna visit next summer). Until then we weren't exclusive. We could see other people as long as we kept each other informed and preferably didn't have sex with other people. We followed these rules and it worked fine.

Then I kissed an ex at a party when I was drunk just over a month ago now and she flipped. I didn't expect her to flip because as I said, it had happened before and I didn't break any of our rules. I've been fighting really hard since then to keep her about but that's probably been bad because I've given her very little space.

She started seeing someone new a few weeks ago. I don't know if it's a rebound or not.

She says she doesn't really give a shit about me anymore but surely that's not true, she was head over heels for me for about 2 and a half years.

She also blocked me on everything, although I'm asking mutual friends to get her to unblock me for one last conversation, because I want closure, I want her to not hate me, and I want to know what actually went wrong.

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After my cousin was raped but before she took her own life, she wrote this.

> i feel you, oh unappreciated darling
> often nights tread relentlessly, eternally passing lazily
> you think only the hatred is spreading, possessing others, softly turning youth (our ultimate resource) monstrously overbearing
> the hell endures, running wild
> infinite loss, longing, denial inhibiting every inherent notion, hiding everywhere
> run!
> see little extraneous epithets, pounding thoughtlessly on native indigenous girls, hurting them

Now read the first letter of every word in the greentext.

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girlfriend broke up with me.
thats my higscore though... almost three months

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This one will fuck you up.
>so I have to go to college
>leave her with a kiss and a promise
>a promise that I will return
>days pass, we keep talking and talking, I just wanted to keep her as close as in the summer time
>sometimes we don't talk at all, sometimes she drank a lot because of love, my love
>never thought a fucking idiot like me would ever get such a beautiful girl, such a smart one...
>we stopped talking for an entire week.
>I text her, she sees the message, doesn't respond.
>I call her, she doesn't answer
>ask her if she is all right, she answers with no
>say fuck it it's friday I will do this whole fucking drive again
>into town, 5AM, she is asleep 100%
>Go to a motel, sleep there
>next day I call her
>she is angry as fuck, but not on me
>ask her if we could go to that café
>she sais sure and that she has to confess something
>mfw I knew what was going to happen
>hatred already kicked in.
>we go to the café
>tells me that she was seeing someone else.
>i fucking knew it
>what's that in her purse? A pregnancy test.
>literally drop bombs on her
>I got kicked out for screaming like the retard I were.
>don't contact her for the next 3 months, she called me but never texted me.
>remember the good times, I really wanted to talk to her so much
>call her
>"x Robbins, can I help you?"
>it was her father
>"Uhm, hello, can I speak to K?"
>"And who are you, I wonder?"
>say nevermind, tell k this number called her
>"Listen punk, you are not funny at all, who the fuck is this? Are you that pussy that impregnated my daughter?"
>hang up
>never call again
>spent summer all alone. Like in my freshman year.
>third year is about to start.
I don't want to live anymore, Cred Forums. I have never even looked at someone else this whole time, I am a fucking miserable little beta.

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HELLO!
Hello Professor.
HOW ARE YOU?
I am.
GOOD.
DO YOU KNOW WHERE I TOOK YOU THIS TIME?
Myself.
AND DO YOU KNOW WHY?
To find out what is truly individual in ourselves.
To be glad of life, because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up at the stars.
To look at all the possibilities.
To free the mind of what holds us back.
LETS TAKE A WALK THROUGH YOUR MIND.
YOU DONT MIND - DO YOU?
Go on.
ARE YOU AFRAID OF THE JURNEY?
Imagination cannot create anything new, can it?
It only recycles bits and pieces from the real world.
So why should i be afraid of what i could find?
REALITY IS MERELY AN ILLUSION, ALBEIT A VERY PERSISTENT ONE.
SOMETIMES IT IS AN APPROPRIATE RESPONSE TO REALITY TO GO INSANE.
THERE IS A FINE LINE BETWEEN DREAMS AND REALITY, IT'S UP TO YOU TO DRAW IT.
But still the real world is where the monsters are.
REALITY LEAVES A LOT TO THE IMAGINATION.
Everything you can imagine is real.
REALITY CAN BE BEATEN WITH ENOUGH IMAGINATION.
REALITY HAS ITS LIMITS.
IMAGINATION IS BOUNDLESS.
I DON'T PAINT DREAMS OR NIGHTMARES, I PAINT MY OWN REALITY
So imagination might be scarier than reality?
IMAGINATION MIGHT BE REALITY
IF YOUR GOAL IS TO AVOID PAIN AND ESCAPE SUFFERING,
I WOULD ADVISE YOU TO SEEK HIGHER LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS OR SPIRITUAL EVOLUTION.
WHEN YOU CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS, THE THINGS YOU LOOK AT CHANGE.
YOU ENTER A SPECIAL, MAGICAL, DIMENSION. THE DIMENSION OF THE SPIRIT WORLD.
I am the dreamer, you are the dream.

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That's one of the reason I've posted it. He just seemed so happy and excited about his party.

>mfw I asked people here on Cred Forums if they have a drink with me on my birthday few days ago

Yea I shouldn't have done that, but I was really wasted.

How did you celebrate yours??

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I stop celebrating it at 15, I don't even remember my age when ppl ask me about it

nice text user, respect - couldnt find it in full on google

Do you think she maybe lied about the other guy?

sounds semiliar, is it made of quotes or smth?

>I stop celebrating it at 15
I stopped at 17, but not because I wanted to desu.
Btw how old are you?

That's just what bitches do
they run away from pain whenever they get a chance
instead of just facing it and enduring it
they think of nothing but themselves
That's just what they do.

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ffs

How could she lie since her father confirmed she was pregnant?
Still, I do miss her. A lot.
Her hipster like glasses, her vulgar language when driving, her... Her smile... Everything.

youtube.com/watch?v=q_bq5mStroM
This song fucks me over.

I know man...
I do miss my now ex gf too
but as far as i know
one week after we broke up
she was already seeing someone
and i don't think that's a coincidence

I'll have a beer in your name.

poor birb

26 here. And you really don't WANT to celebrate or you just can't like me?

Maybe you're the father.
Do you know how long she's pregnant maybe and how long you haven't seen her?

bump

Today I left a message for a potential therapist, finally taking action to get help again. Purposely looked for a female therapist and just got sad now because realized I purposely looked for that so i can get a female to believe in me and tell me its going to get better

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virtue signaling

So you see... if all life were to end all suffering would end, don't you see? Do you not agree? - FFX Seymour. Nigga thinks too deep tho...

By spending some time with "her" at the graveyard

And you'll know she's lying.

Not today.

What?
Necrophillia??

I don't want to, it doesn't make any sense to me... another lap around the sun, what's special on that? I didn't do any effort to get it

*blinks away tears*
*gives dog a massive hug*

>what's special on that?
Maybe the fact that people are celebrating the day you were born?
It's some kind of appreciation of your existence maybe.

So people who like/love you show you how happy they are that you're here?

I honestly miss the that feeling...

evening Cred Forums
any woman insight user available?

so there's this girl, who after a year still longs for me
yet decided at the beginning of that year she needs to go back to her ex

why?
because she, and that we both established
>fears to be alone
>knows what she's getting out of him
>thinks he is immature (she is his first), childish at times and inexperienced
>she sees me as her mature, experienced guy
>she's clinging on to that teenage relationship because every other failed around them and she wants to show everyone that it can exist

two days ago
>can we get some more distance between us? aka not write with each other?
>need to make myself clear what i want
>writing with you is making me sorta just look into one way

now what do?

Anyone around for another green text? I've been dealing with this one recently and would like opinions.

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bump

Yes.

maybe that's my problem, no one loves me or at least I don't feel loved by anyone

run away nigger
she's using you as a backup plan in case her current "ex" fails and ditches
then she'll realize how "in love" with you she is unless she meets someone higher than you of course

ofc

we meet again

wrong thread, sorry

Anyone willing to help me with english conversations? Would like to talk on skype about anything.

Anyone?

I guess history repeats itself

reasonable
sup1

yeah. this dude was "funny" for a few months. seeing his steven write rip-off humor on comedy shit re-runs at 3am. no wonder he killed himself.

What's your Skype?

what game is this?

LIMBO

wojciech.jurkowski4

What does it feels like kissing a girl in the lips ?

>no one loves me or at least I don't feel loved by anyone
I feel the same. And I'd like to change that, but I'm just not good at making friends or even talking to people. And failing everytime I try makes it even harder. I tried to talk to random people and they immidiately see the autist in me. Shit I even fail when I try to talk to the most desperate and or ugly girl on dating sites.
Like I mentioned before.

But I just want it so bad that I get sad when I see random strangers on the street being happy.

I'd do it, but I'm not a native speaker and can't really pronounce ''th'' kek.

Hard to describe. It's a great feeling.

Get out normie.

it's one of the best feelings I ever experienced, but I only enjoy it if I love the girl

alright here goes
>be me 19 years old
>talk to old ex, shes having a tough time with douche boyfriend
>comes over to my place
>we talk
>shes breaking up with bf but he wont accept
>i tell him to leave her the fuck alone
>we get back together
>first year goes great
>sex all the time, interesting relationship
>fast forward to a couple months ago
>sex is a lot less now so i ask her about it
>is afraid to tell me
>get it out of her
>she just wanted me to like her more, she doesnt have much sex drive, unlike me
>bad feels had
>a monthish later i see text from rando dude on her phone
>ask about it and she says nothing
>fast forward a bit
>see text from him late at night
>curiosity peaks and i look

continue?

hey Cred Forums i have problem
i fall in loe like 3 times a week
how 2 control emotions plse

Tbh I don't like the feeling, I don't know why
Maybe one day I'll get used to it and it'll be pleasurable, or maybe i just haven't been doing it properly

Does any lonely military-loving, decently kind person want to talk?
Feels bad, man.

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

>continue?

why even ask? just do it, at least get it off your chest

>shes been seeing him because she has a pain fetish that she felt i wasnt able to live up to
>she had mentioned it before, but i didnt know how bad she wanted it
>feel really bad
>confront her
>no more trust
>doesnt want sex from me just loves me
>fast forward a bit more and we make it so i can see people for my needs too.
>fast forward more, still no sex, really disappointing
>fast forward more and i meet this girl really cute
>party at her place and i drink a lot
>playing with dog and hit heads
>concussion
>dont remember any of the night except a few snips of us fucking and me waking up in her bed
>we get more involved, i really like this new girl
>guy hangs out at her house with brother roommate, real creep
>has crush on girl im seeing
>turns out he did some shit to her while she was drunk and not consenting
>scum bag is "in love"
>tells her she should feel bad for seeing me
>everything still going fine, theres a clear attraction between the two of us
>we go out, watch movies, go for drives, just chill. friend stuff.
>starting to like her more
>girlfriend is pissed because its apparent that is more than sex
>in the doghouse
>go to hang out with girl and we get drunk
>she says shes in a weird mood and wants us to "just be friends"
>im confused be cause we had established that we were just friends who sometimes have sex
>i thought everything was cool
>out of nowhere she thinks that all i care about is the sex
>i told her in the beginning about my girlfriend and she was okay with it
>she says i can sleep on the couch even though i just want to cuddle with her.
>shes still talking to this creep
>i think he told her some fucked up shit to make her feel bad
>come to now i still havent been able to have a conversation with her about it and ive been really really depressed
>cut myself some out of rage
>dont want to take care of myself or see friends or family
>i guess im just a fucking pussy

Moist. Keep your eyes closed. Everything is pink. Don't move your arms too much or there will be blood everywhere. All is lip. You feel so small. How will you escape

I'm far from being a normie.
And is

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But... you've kissed a girl, right?

I just miss her

Bump

> be me
> be sad
> be on Cred Forums

fin

You summed up my life.

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>tfw she's probably at home with him thinking about me
huh?

I feel in pain... Only pain... PAIN....

I want a job that doesn´t make me want to kill myself. Decent, if humble pay. My own home, eve if it's a one room apartment. Internet. Maintain contact with my family. Maybe get laid once in a while.
I don´t really hope for much. I don´t have great ambitions, I don´t expect to get married and even if I did I don´t think I´d be a good parent.

/thread

It´s not about that, it´s about finding other people who are experiencing something similar to you, if only to comfort each other.

Bump.

this is why you never LDR, if the bitch wants to end it like that, she wasnt worth it anyways

This hits me every time

>sad
>just be happy xd
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Sorry dude, didnt see that you replied.
Only knowing this, it feels like she was just looking for a reason to be angry at you, like she lost her feelings over time because she didnt see/feel you. Its probably best to move on, you can try but it will always be complicated given the circumstances. She seems really unstable and it would have probably ended up badly anyways. I dont want you to not try, but when we lose something, we forget how bad things were and maybe you should think about how things turn out, if everything goes the way you want them, it would probably still not be worth it.

This, all the time. I act happy enough around others though. People must know though, they always say I look miserable.

The thing is that things were really good.

I never felt her going cold on me or losing feelings or anything. She always told me she loved me, always told me how excited she was to see me, all that shit. We were really honest with our feelings for each other and everything seemed good.

I'm not someone to be pushed solely by feelings. I genuinely believed in us, I genuinely thought it was gonna work. I was really passionate about us. So was she.

do i send her a birthday card or not

no

a brithday card is so unnpersonal
that would be what you send to your enemy

but i know she wants me, yet fears to be alone and thus is staying with her ex

Damn Cred Forumsro that sucks..people can be so selfish and apathetic to the feelings of others. It sucks but you should come to terms with the fact that this is probably as much closure as your gonna get.
Also this guy gets it.

LDR can work, if you want it to work

There is a huge difference bitween falling in love and finding someone attractive

Absolutely not.

But if i read it correctly, you havent seen each other for 2.5 years. This is a very very long time. Its enough time to forget how someone looks, enough time to make you rethink your feelings for someone and make those feelings less and less strong. Someone probably gave her what she was missing from you. Being there personally, giving her physical contact. Its hard t think that "love" can just vanish, but it can. Women need way more attention and contact then men and not just texts or skyping, they need physical contact, someone they can feel, hug or even cuddle with and thats where feelings grow. If this isnt true, please pursue her if she is worth it, I am just a random guy trying to help you understand your situation.

How do you differentiate the two?

Can an LDR work if you're not currently together? There's a girl who I've known for years and am close to, but we both go to different universities now, and I never had the balls to ask her out. Is it worth a go?

You know sometimes i just wanna care about something, these days i just dont give a shit about anything, whether its relationships, women, school, friends or even fucking video games. I have zero intrest in anything. Life is fucking empty but it takes too much effort to end it. If i had a wish, i would wish that i had something to wish for.

its always wroth

I can't even fake a smile anymore...I just avoid eye contact..

Do you like to be her life jacket?
She just like the fact that you are there incase her first choice leaves her because she know what kind of person she is.
Forget about her.

Yeah, I never wanted to think about being in a LDR, but I loved her and she loved me.

No. LDR only works if both people want it bad enough to make it work. It takes the dedication and understanding of both people, otherwise, the relationship will drift apart. Life happens and feeling change, it takes dedicated people to make it work, and not everyone is able to be that dedicated.

Its worth the try but dont expect too much, be happy with everything you can get and not sad if your expectations arent met.

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Get yourself a pet, not joking, do it.

wrong
you either like each other and want to make it work
or you're weak

Yeah it's been just over 2 years since we saw each other. Last time I saw her was May/June 2014.

But, our feelings for each other have actually grown massively since then.

When I moved, it was pretty much a given that we weren't going to go long distance. Neither of us liked each other like that, we agreed to be friends because we were friends but long distance didn't even go through our minds. But then I moved and our feelings just kept growing and growing and growing and eventually we fell in love despite the distance and that's what made me think it was real.

I think she's worth pursuing. She's so special to me. That being said she's seeing someone else now and she doesn't want to talk to me at the moment. I need to give her space, as hard is that is.

It's not true, faggot. Get your shit together, find a hobby you like, work for your dreams, focus on success, work hard to be happy. Friends come with confidence, that includes women.
I was kissless virgin for 20 years, do not go in in life with the thought that you are a failure, that way you will never succeed, even if you fail one time just keep working to be happy.

Now go and get out for a walk, even to the store, maybe sit alone on a bench and breathe fresh air, no music, no anything just breath fresh air, do not think, just relax. You are losing your time on Cred Forums right now either way.

Ever have that moment, where you are starting to realize there is just a few too many fundamental problems with the idea of you 2 being together with that that you know you won't ever work.

Feeling that right now.
Yeah I know, generic girl problem, not really a serious issues, plenty of fish in the blah blah.
I know all that. Just sucks because girls I connect with are extremely rare and there is something really special with this one. And I have to accept it won't ever be a possibility.

THAT NIGGA DABBIN LMAO NO CHILL FAM

Can someone respond to this plox

I read this thing a while back. A tear was shed there.

I have. Sometimes, even if the love is there, the circumstances are not. It's a shitty situation to be in, and the only thing you can do is keep them around but move on, fall out of love, and hope you find somebody else like them.

Falling in love is much more complicated than having a crush on someone, you have a crush on someone because of their looks, for example you saw a hot chich in the bus the other day and you want to get to know her or ask her out. But love is when you to be with someone more than anything, and caring about their personality more than their looks.

If you are so sure about your feelings, dont let go of her. If she is reay worth it, you will be in for an interesting ride. You need to find the line between "giving her space" and "not making her feel ignored". Dont get your expectations up too high and keep your eyes open for other opportunities, you will find someone you truly deserve, because sometimes the person we really love isnt the one we will live our lives with.

We're treating you with the contempt you deserve.

Broke up with long-term GF three weeks ago. Been so busy with school I didn't even realize i was depressed until like an hour ago. I don't want her back or anything I just want my self-confidence back. It's been over 6 years since I've had to talk to girls/go on a date or something. I just feel so terrible, god damn. I also realized that I don't know how to talk to women? I'm far from ugly and I'm decently smart (law student) but I'm not very tall and I just feel like I'm holding myself back. I guess i'll just carry on until i kill myself or something positive happens. Pic related, its a hot girl that i'll never have the confidence to talk to

>>cut myself some out of rage
>>i guess im just a fucking pussy
yup.

Also never get back with an ex if she's ever left you especially for that reason. The new girl is retarded, ditch her. Just find something else to do.

Talk to her when shes away from the douche and tell her how you feel. She has to know the truth, up to her how she accepts it. If she doesn't love you, or is going to be stupid and does but puts sexual fuffillment above love, then there's nothing you can do.

Sign up for gym, or join a boxing club or whatever, do something with your life. Have a passion, jog once in a while, meet new people.

Fucken bitch. Fuck her man go with friends and enjoy yourself and Dont even acknowledge that bitch

>confusing greentext
>everyone involved has autism

Thanks user for confirming something for me

>sometimes the person we really love isnt the one we will live our lives with

Not him, though..fuck, this stings hard.

>Also never get back with an ex if she's ever left you especially for that reason.
I know a girl who left her guy of 3 years, fucked 2 other guys and went back to the ex

When I felt like you did I was in my teens. Never really did anything at school, but said fuck it and joined the band even though I couldn't play for shit. Made friends with the lead trumpet and he taught me a lot of what I know about playing today, and music became one of my only true passions that I never felt like quitting out of depression.

Why do people treat talking to women like something extremely forgettable and hard. Just talk to them like you would a male friend. If you meet a new girl, you need to "feel" the territory and try what she is interested in and what she likes, listen to her and respond appropriately. If she likes you it will work, if she doesn't don't go mad, say that you understand and move on.

I need to start eating healthy,
doing sport everyday,
stop fapping everyday, limit myself to 1 time per week,
cut down all the bad food,
stay focus and commit myself to personnal goal

But I always give up along the line. I need to fucking stop. I will be 30 soon.. I'm starting to get fat. Starting to have bad health problem, even thought I had nothing before. I'm starting to feel content with my life.

I just ate pizza and soda and it made me feel like crap again, I feel fatigue, I feel nausea and I feel exhausted, and I have dry throat. But tomorrow I will kick my lazy ass and start doing something of my poitnless life.

Exactly dude. I love this girl so much it hurts. But the circumstances won't allow it. So close yet so far situation.

She often asks me how well I am doing getting a girl. I think she feels it too, I think she loves me too, but she also knows it can't work. So she pushes me trying to get a girl, maybe as a way to help herself bury those feelings. Goddamn.

It always stings, that's why we are here.

Absolutely retarded.

:(((

it is

I just feel like with women their barriers are always up around guys because they get hit on so often by them. its probably just depression/lack of self esteem more than anything

It's great that you are trying to better yourself, but dont do it all at the same time and dont overdo it. Start small, start counting your calories and go for a small run every second day. From this on, start reducing the calories you eat, dont eat something else, just less and as soon as you are feeling confident running a small distance every second day, raise either the distance of your runs or the frequency. Forget the fapping part. it has nothing to do with your problems and its stress relief.

why no fapping?

I need to know what this user looks like

Ditch the gf, she is retarded. A relationship requires sex.
Tell new girl you are single, if she doesn't care then move on to a completely new girl

Get a gym member ship

If you approach a random woman, it would be normal, but something like a classmate should be easy to talk to, just don't make them think you are stupid, even if it's jokingly, most women don't understand sarcasm when they don't know you.

Holy shit dude

Why?

I'm incredibly sure of my feelings for her. I believe in us so much, I'm so passionate about us.

But I fought for a month and it came off as extremely overbearing. I need to step back. It'll be best for both of us.

Before that though I want to have one last conversation with her so I can figure out what really happened. I want to know how she felt and how she feels.

goddammit

as a boring, gaming history student who just got his heart broken this hit me like a fucking train

fuck this made me cry

well thats helpful actually because i am sarcastic as fuck. I've been trying to talk to female classmates and occasionally i'll have a good conversation with them but after that i dont say much and i always kind of hope they'll reach out to me but that NEVER happens and just depresses me more.

it's hard to better yourself. but hang in there. i know its hard to change.

I need it

ask her out

Do it, chase your dreams, remember there is a random dude out there believing in you making the right decision. But as a last tip, remain calm in that conversations, not personal attacks, no accusations and no insults, keep it calm.

Believe in yourself user

youtube.com/watch?v=-oM6wDxaXI0

Well I'm still here. I don't have anywhere else to go.
Why do you need know how I look like?

Just remember that they are not different from you and me, just take you more seriously in the beginning, when SHE starts joking with you, you can try what works and what doesn't but if she doesn't understand just move on, don't try to explain.

Because people like to compare themselves to others to see how miserably their lifes are compared to others.

Fuck man...