Well lads, it's haapened. The GF of 8 years has lost interest.
>Sex is incredibly infrequent, often weeks apart. >Eyes gloss over when talking to her >Often doesn't respond or outright walks off mid sentence. >Frequently seems irritated or unhappy.
How fucked am I Cred Forums?
Robert Wilson
I know it's easy for someone to say but you just need to move on. It's clear that she's unhappy. That doesn't mean it's your fault, it just means the time has come for you to part ways. If you've been good to her she's going to discover that very quickly after the breakup.
I was married for 11 years. I understand the feeling you have and it fucking sucks. It'll get better.
Gabriel Nguyen
You are not fucked at all. Girls are kind of inferior in the way that they always find someone else before ending a relationship because they can't handle not having attention shinned on them.
Go on with your life. You are better off without a deadweight of a Gf
Wyatt Ward
Fucken normies get out of my board
Alexander Ross
> trying this hard
Owen Thomas
Hi
Charles Gray
i'm going through this exactly as we speak. it's very shit and i'm not gonna go in detail
the solution is for you to make one final step and surprise her with something. some women at this stage want to be proposed. some women want to be taken on a holiday.
do something special...do something you've never done before with her and if she'll want it - it means she still wants to be with you. if she doesn't want it dump her fucking ass, it's quite clear
Caleb Brooks
She knows your a flaming homo op. Time to cum out of the closet
Oliver Cooper
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Carson Stewart
It's really shitty timing. I've just started studying again after years in IT left me a crushed husk of a human being. It's a 4 year engineering degree, which basically fucks her plans of marriage+babies by 30.
Dominic Evans
I agree cannon, chances are she's got some fag in her ear, telling her how amazing she is, blah blah trying to get a nut. Was in the same boat but was married. And there was another dude talking her up. Women are fucked up creatures. Easy for us to tell you to move on, but the choice is yours. Good luck
Kayden Campbell
Going through the same, started a month after her cunt of a doctor hurled zoloft at her to replace xanax for anxiety, we complained and she gave her celexa, every complaint she ups the dosage. No recommendation for therapy regarding it, 'xanax is highly addictive despite it working fine for her, but have these pills that make you completely apathetic'. Even her work is complaining about her now, they told her to take a week off and decompress because she has zero initiative or passion for life. OP try something spontaneous you both enjoy, if you don't get at least a smile just work on you and distract yourself from her. If she doesn't express the slightest curiosity it's pretty much over at that point.
Cameron Sullivan
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Andrew Sanders
>I agree cannon Wut?
Ian Sullivan
Sounds like she has autism >no response >glossed over eyes >irritable in happy Dose she like to play with crayons And likes wheels ?
Benjamin Roberts
Damn auto correct!
Jack Ross
drag her onto your bed and fuck her as hard as you can, anal if possible, if she doesnt return interest, end it
Josiah Wood
Then bail. Save some money, bail.
Alexander Green
you mean final step to that 50%-
Sebastian Stewart
You shouldn't have become obese and impotent faggot. Pls post pics of new.y avail bitch
Nicholas Hernandez
your sperg tears are delicious to me.
Samuel Morris
That happens and is normal. You are not doomed in any way. It's very easy to make it better if you are willing to make it better.
Make sure she is free one evening, don't let her make dinner and tell her to get dressed and the cab is coming in an hour. Make sure you reserved a table at a very nice restaurant that has memories for the both of you or a place you wanted to go to. Tell the manager you have something to celebrate, get a very fine wine etc. Inb4 superficial bitch blabla.
Now comes the most important one: be interested. Ask her about things, important and not so important things. Pay her attention and respond to her. It makes all the difference to connect by talking and understanding. When she feels safe with you she will tell you what is up when she knows you will listen.
Make it a good night and whatever she says (women talk from emotion which is always temporary and can change her mind quick) don't panick if she is unsure about the relationship. She has been with you for 8 years, and you know why? Well you should know why and do exactly what she fell in love with.
Hunter Wilson
Oh wow! You had SEX! Congratulations!
Just kidding.
Having sex is literally the most basic, desperate, tragic, hopelessly-void-of-meaning, outrageously obnoxious, troublesome, costly, and downright pointless cry for help that the universe has ever screamed. Wow, you were born as an objectively good looking, decent looking, or perhaps borderline acceptable member of your species. WOW! INCREDIBLE! You managed to procure a willing (which in evolutionary terms, willing translates roughly to "fucking desperate for at least a few reasons") mate and managed to somehow perform the act of intercourse with her! WOW! This his literally only been taking place for HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF FUCKING YEARS! WOW! Except guess what, you probably wore a condom... which means you failed at submitting yourself to an act which means absolutely nothing. The only thing left to do now is kill yourself.
Dominic Hill
Why haven't you proposed to her yet after 8 years?
Bentley Jones
Mine of five years went down this path three months ago.knew she was getting over it.
Ended up just this week. I'm not devastated.
Brayden Butler
>infreq
Incredibly infrequent. Get another girl to fuck.
Benjamin Green
>get out of my board >get out >out it's OFF of my board you fucking normie
OFF O F F F F
Jonathan Jenkins
Went through this a month ago. 3.5 years together. Broke up, I felt nothing. I guess I'm just dead on the inside. She already has a fuckboi, I'm enjoying nightlife and random one-night encounters. It gets better, friend.
Luke Cooper
Fuck another girl before you break up with her. Why? If she's not interested, you will already be moving on and hopefully have someone to continue fucking. If she is interested, you fucked another girl and should continue to do so behind her back to keep things alive.
Owen Edwards
Oh wow! You had SEX! Congratulations!
Just kidding.
Having sex is literally the most basic, desperate, tragic, hopelessly-void-of-meaning, outrageously obnoxious, troublesome, costly, and downright pointless cry for help that the universe has ever screamed. Wow, you were born as an objectively good looking, decent looking, or perhaps borderline acceptable member of your species. WOW! INCREDIBLE! You managed to procure a willing (which in evolutionary terms, willing translates roughly to "fucking desperate for at least a few reasons") mate and managed to somehow perform the act of intercourse with her! WOW! This his literally only been taking place for HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF FUCKING YEARS! WOW! Except guess what, you probably wore a condom... which means you failed at submitting yourself to an act which means absolutely nothing. The only thing left to do now is kill yourself.
Nathaniel Young
KILL FEEL THE ANGER RUN THROUGH YOUR VEINS!!!!
Colton Harris
Bingo.
And honestly, there is nothing wrong with bringing up the fact that you are concerned that she isn't happy being with you anymore, and to ask her what is making her unhappy so that you can both work together to create a better situation.
Naturally, if you plan on doing the date idea mentioned above, I wouldn't do this AT the date.
But relationships go through lulls all the time, and she may be in a stage where she is frustrated by life and certain parts of your relationship that could easily be fixed once you both start talking and listening and hearing each other.
However, I'll also agree with the other poster that if you let this unhappiness go on too long, or you become complacent, there is ALWAYS another guy more than willing to act like prince charming for as long as it takes to steal her away. I'm sure if some fucking amazing girl came along and all of a sudden started telling you how awesome and handsome you were and that she wanted to get with you, you'd be just as tempted as your gf would be.
So don't sit in this crappy zone for too long - just talk it out respectfully and in the interest of making life better for the both of you.
Elijah Hernandez
all you phagg3ts saying she's not interested.... You've been together 8 years, it's only natural to start getting bored. Change things, try go back to how you used to be. Spend some time apart but don't look at it as a negative. At the end of the day it matters how much u care?
Andrew Hughes
Know that feel user.
Was with one girl for 7 years and was so used to supporting her shyness and anxiety that I found it difficult to tell when she was drifting away...
Even though it was her who was clearly not happy - it was up to me to put an end to it because she was incapable of engaging or actually resolving an issue.
It's almost two years later and I'm still a mess - but slowly pulling myself together. It was a real difficult relationship but we both cared for each other a lot. After throwing everything I had into helping her with her issues and supporting her - I just don't know what to do with myself. I became dependent on her dependency I guess.
The only power you have is the choice of when to call it a day.
Sorry for blog-post.
Oliver Kelly
If she cared about him then she would want to communicate about this issue and be trying to fix things too.
Ryder Lee
Not that simple. Some people feel hopeless, ashamed, or even confused as to why they feel unhappy in a relationship.
Sometimes all it takes is BOTH people to talk it over - hash out where they both stand and calmly and supportively discuss what they both need from each other to get to a better place.
Has absolutely nothing to do with how much she cares about him. Nothing is ever that "black and white."
Elijah Thompson
Stop thinking women are like men. When women get bored in a relationship, they usually don't know, themselves whats wrong because they're thick as two planks.. They'll start acting like it's your fault. You have to alpha over that shit till they figure it out basically. Just stop caring and she'll put the effort in.
Angel Rivera
Talk about it - with her not with b fags
Andrew Thompson
She's probably cheating on you dude.
Hunter Morgan
>be a little NEET mommasboi
>wake up to another sing-songy sunshiney funday
>have a hankering for some tendies somethin' fierce!
>get out of my racecar bed and I have roll down the stairs because of my muscular-skeletal development issues
>use the various holes I punched into the wall from prior "incidents" as grips as I bounce down the stairs
>mumsy wumsy on the couch, her skin is white and cold
>i scream in her face to wake her up like I usually do
>she doesn't answer, how rude! But I notice a tiny orange tube
>that silly billy must have had a sugar crash from all of that white candy! Daddy tried to give me some before he mummy made him leave, and he was so generous, he told me I could eat an entire tube of it!
>oh well, a Good Boy's work is never done!
>decide to go out into the world
>saddle up on my Barbie (best waifu obvs) bicycle with a TMNT helmet, unstrapped to impress the females of course
>makinmywaydowntown.tndi
>weave in and out of a crowd of people on the sidewalk, they're getting angry, as if they expect me to ride on the street! But I just ignore them and I merrily hum the Bear in the Big Blue House
>but I slip on a large crack (hahaha) and I fall, helmet rolling away
>i'm lying on the sweltering pavement, it must be at least 63 degrees! It hurts so much that I begin flailing my curvaceous body around and screaming for tendies, but also for help
>I soil my pants and curl up on the sidewalk, sleeping peacefully
>I wake up in a padded room, a man in a white coat is asking me questions I don't care about, but I get free tendies whenever I want! He didn't even take my phone I hid in my undies away
Here I am eating with only my mouth like a king and nice and comfy in my blanket cocoon shirt
MFW
Christopher Thomas
looks like its time to make a "pics you promised not to share" thread.
RIP user's relationship
Ayden Lee
No offence but you really sound like a beta faggot. Maybe if you would try to be more of a man and not a little boy, then perhaps you could turn things around.
Matthew Sullivan
I'm kind of assuming that after 8 years - and potentially months of disinterest, he has tried to talk about the issue.
I mean, if he hasn't actually tried talking or discussing this with her then of course that's what he should do.
Grayson Davis
>Yup Self-confidence, challenge (thrill of pursuit/being attractive), self control. Top three traits to keep shit rolling.
Anthony Collins
Impregnate her
Xavier Perez
women dont work that way you fucking imbecile
Landon Wright
This
Easton Gonzalez
This means you've been with her since you were what? 20? You got together too young and she feels she's missed out on other things. Let her go. Let her go and take yourself off to consolation town - preferablt SE asia where you can fuck the bejessus out of armies of tiny slope chicks for small change
Adrian Myers
Thanks for the (you), this article elaborates for OP. Try the tips, and ignore the
Zachary Moore
Tumon Guam or Okinawa are nice and cheap.
Hudson Martinez
Absolutely the worst advice out. Do not listen to what this spastic says, best way to end up with a dead relationship.
Robert Cox
Best thing to do is to start swinging. Tell her you understand love and sex are two different things and want her to have fun too. Look to Craigslist or fetlife to find another parter
Nathaniel Russell
Your so cucked right now and don't even know it. That or she found your stash of Cred Forums trap porn. GG M8
Josiah Reyes
OP, I think you should try and make friends with Onion-San.