I'm asexual. I don't experience sexual attraction except on very rare occasions...

I can get aroused watching people eat, seeing people in absolute poverty, me being self destructive in some way can also get me off. A million little weird things that I can jerk off to that aren't sexual really in any way.

So you still feel the need to jerk off, but not to fuck.

I was able to go a month once without jerking off. Usually I'm jerking a few times a week.

Isn't it just being straight/gay with a low sex drive? Why make up a word for it

I have a normal sex drive. I don't fantasize about having sex with men or women. I didn't make up the term.

Dude, same here. I can only get off after i mow the lawn.

Because people like labelling themselves. I was just like all these people until I started taking trt and now all I want to do is fuck anything that walks.

It's more direct than labelling myself gay or straight and then having this long conversation about why I don't have a girlfriend and don't want a girlfriend and haven't hooked up in awhile. It's easier to just be truthful and tell them I don't experience those attractions like most people.

How do you satisfy your partner?

I can still get erect and get off. I've had sex, but not in over a year. If someone does want to have sex, I much prefer mutual masturbation to penetration.

Out of what? Boredom?

If you don't like sex, why jerk off?

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What's trt?

It was a fun challenge. Once I was out of the habit, it wasn't a big problem.

I jerk off because it feels really good. I assume people that are sexual that jerk off aren't actually attracted to their hands, they fantasize.

so you're

self centered
way too high standard
bisexual

Grow up you manchild. There's no such thing as being "asexual". You just happen to have a very low sex drive you fucking faggot.

I've had sex with people with a lot of different body types. I often confuse people because I don't really have a type.

There is such a thing as asexuality. It's this extremely common attitude that's the reason I'm wanting to be more vocal about how I feel. My sex drive is fine. I can jerk off multiple times a day at times. Arousal isn't an issue. I'm just not into having sex with people.

Interesting. So you experience the same physical desire for sex without the association in your brain between the arousal and the act of having sex or sexual attractive people

Were you molested as a child? This often can cause your brain to dissociate arousal with other people. Masturbating at too young of an age could also cause this if you did it before knowing that it is commonly other people that inspire that feeling. It could also just be the way your brain was wired from birth.

>Are you really a 29 year old virgin?
>yeah
>haha faggot

>>Are you really a 29 year old virgin?
>yeah because I am asexual
>Wow you are so deep, can I have your tumblr

Good try faggot, keep lying to yourself but we all know you cry at night because girls throw up at the very sight of you, I have a suggestion why don't you use the free time you waste here on Cred Forums trying to look cool and like a snowflake that doesn't fit in this world and get a part-time job and when you gather enough money buy a 9mm and blow your fucking brains out, you are a waste of oxygen, and have no future value for human race, you will certainly never have children, so the small chance of one of your descendants to become something meaningful for society is off the table, why don't save earth the space and resources spend on your useless life and end it already?

Please, I beg you to consider it

I'm not aroused by the idea of having sex with anyone. I get aroused by non sexual things happening to people. I don't watch porn. I don't like seeing people naked. It does nothing for me. I can cum watching a video of someone eating. I can cum from a serious power dynamic between me and someone else. Just very very very rarely have urges to have sex with anyone.

do you get a lot of shit done during the week? i spend a solid about 10-15 hours a week jacking off to different fetishes. i feel like thats a real time sink for me..

Nah I still get aroused and can edge like nobody's business. Still a giant time suck jerking off to weird shit. I'm envious if people that do have a low sex drive.

I've had plenty of sex, just nothing besides oral or mutual masturbation for the past year, by choice. I used to dance at a gay bar so I'm pretty physically attractive from what I'm told. I think about suicide constantly, but I would opt for pentobarbital or a helium exit bag when I do it. I will indeed be 29 in a few months.

I had a friend in third grade when I was in first, he kept pestering me to suck my dick so we did it. Not sure if that counts as molestation.

I don't think we should teach kids the correct way to masturbate or tell them they are "supposed" to be thinking certain thoughts when they do it. That's fucking weird and gross. Just let people masturbate and do whatever they want. There's no point getting offended by the private thoughts of others.

why do you think about suicide?

oh, so you arent asexual at all. youre just a fucking weirdo that cant get laid

I have intense depressive episodes that are very painful.

There are way too many people that want to have sex with me. I've gotten two BJs in the last week from two different people. I just try to avoid people that constantly want it because I don't.

Lol I wasn't suggesting you teach anyone anything. When I was young I accidently learned how to masturbate without realizing what it was. So I didn't think about sex or women or men when doing it. If you think about the same thing or watch the same thing when masturbating you will begin to associate arousal with that thing

I don't think there's anything wrong with that

I'm not trying to tell you something is a problem, I just found your sexuality interesting and was curious as to what could cause it to happen.

Smells like sour grapes.

OP if you do sexual things for fun, even infrequently, then you aren't asexual. You admit that you masturbate, and that certain things turn you on and/or get you off.

Being asexual means you don't have a sexual drive whatsoever. I have a friend who is truly asexual, and she hasn't ever had sex or masturbated because she is completely incapable of finding anything arousing. She lives a normal life, just without sex. She isn't sad that she's missing out, because she just doesn't have those urges.

You, on the other hand, do experience sexual arousal. The subject material that arouses you may be of a non sexual nature, but the fact that it is arousing to you proves that you aren't asexual. You just have an uncommon sexual appetite.

So my question is this: OP, are you stupid, retarded, a faggot, underaged, or just immature for your age?

I'm guessing you are four out of five of those.

There common basis of asexuality isn't the lack of a sex drive, or the abstinence from sex. What connects your friend and I is our lack of sexual attraction to other people. It's about attraction, not behavior.

then people who are sexually atracted to objects are asexual too?
no not really

Edgy faggot kys

Is it sex if someone is using an object? Wouldnt that just be masturbation? Regardless, if they weren't attracted to men or women, its hard to argue that they are straight or gay or bi.

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