Hi Cred Forums, maybe you can help me with a dilemma:
>be me, 22 yo, studying medicine, doind sport regularly >gf, 20 yo, 4/10, studying psychology, not in very good shape >1 year of relationship, really good sex, good trust and solid relationship >I go to class, meet a different girl, she is 18, 7/10 and with a better body >"user can you help me with this?" >"wow user how smart are you" >meanwhile gf is having stress from college, she isn't good handling it, so she ends up demanding more from me >relationship unbalanced >I start to see the other girl being attracted
So yeah, that sums it, what would you do Cred Forums?
GF is a solid win, very good relationship, I love her, sex is amazing, when she isn't in a mood she is great. Bad thing is that she usually gets moody once or twice a month, and she is really hard to deal with when she is like that.
The other girl is younger, more beautyful, potentially good sex, and have no idea about her emotional stability. I don't have any problem getting along with girls so whatever option I take is a good one.
Pic related, new girl isnt her, but she looks like
Justin Sanders
bump
Isaiah Parker
You're being greedy.
There are guys on this board with horrible girlfriends who are barely capable of putting out and you're bitching about a decent girl who can work your dick like a mexican works a lawn in Beverly Hills.
If you're going to dump your decent bitch for a better looking, younger bitch than have fun training her. Grooming her is going to be like grooming a newborn puppy who might take all the tricks she has learned from you to another guy.
You could always cheat and try to play both sides but don't get mad if you get burned.
It's the player that fucks up. Not the game.
Blake Edwards
bump
Jaxson Ramirez
you probably shouldn't risk a sure thing for something that most likely won't work. the chances of the new girl being a current lie are very high.
Zachary Moore
I'm not cheating, whatever I decide, I'll do it the way it does the least harm posible to both of them.
Maybe I should just friendzone that new girl and stay with the girl I love
Dominic Roberts
Or fuck both.
Colton Walker
If you're not satisfied with your relationship you're within your rights to end it. Just say something like "It's been feeling unbalanced, I don't feel like I'm getting as much from this relationship as I'm giving and I want to end it." No need to be cruel, just say what's wrong with the relationship and why you want it to end. If she can't convince you that she can healthily change this dynamic (ie, bottling up her emotions to hide them from you is not healthy and therefore not a solution) then that's the end of the relationship and you are free to pursue this other chick.
>It's the player that fucks up. Not the game. Oh lordy. Don't even bother with this pseudo advice. I agree that you shouldn't cheat, but general cliche shit like this isn't specific enough to be helpful.
Parker Peterson
that would damage both of them, one because I would've been unloyal, the other one because I would've used her
Zachary Reyes
This too, see if she's receptive to the idea of opening up the relationship or polyamoury. Or just likes threesomes.
Jack Sullivan
Yeah, that's basically how it works:
Don't fuck around on the people you love and who love you back.
Samuel Wood
thanks for the honest advice. I have no problem with that kind of act, and it was what I was thinking to do. The thing is that my gf is aware of what she does and how, and she is really sorry for that. She is trying to change that, it's just, really difficult for her.
But still, maybe I'm just overthinking it and I should just let time do it's part. Stay undecided and wait until things get clear. If my gf manages to solve the problem, stay with her; but if she doesn't change, talk with her and end the relationship cleanly, then move onto this new posibility
Ethan Gonzalez
>> Oh lordy. Don't even bother with this pseudo advice. I agree that you shouldn't cheat, but general cliche shit like this isn't specific enough to be helpful.
Did you read my entire reply, douchebag?
My advice was to stay away from random, mirage-esque hoes.
And if he wants to cheat, he's got only himself to blame if things blow up in his face.
The fuck are you on about - pseudo advice.
Fuck you.
Grayson Reyes
You're a fucking retard if you think dumping your current gf for a younger girl. Young girls are exceptionally more retarded and way more emotional. You'd just be throwing away a great relationship and I will you would regret doing it in the end anyway.
Justin Wright
my gf is very jealous, but she is open to an open relationship with males. So yeah, she isn't against doing it with a man, the problem is that the new girl is a woman
Jacob Diaz
but maybe the new girl isn't as emotional than my gf. the real diference is 2 years, nothing too spectacular
Jose Peterson
I would just cheat if possible. Your GF has probably cheated on you so you might well get your own back.
Ayden Gutierrez
Drop the 4/10 after you confirm the 7/10's availability and interest. 4/10 just going to degrade with time if she's like that at 20 and not exercise. In the end, look at your worst case scenario of getting one pregnant and which one you'd rather deep dick on the regular. Literally evolution. Source: 20 y.o. gf
Carson Moore
Keep your girl and see how things work out and keep learning more about new girl until you can make the decision yourself
Hudson Gray
She's a sexist bigot
Jace Watson
> btw I'm about to be 26, get over yourself with that age difference shit, newer models are always better
Dylan Ramirez
What does current look like? I'd say stick with what you got
Cameron White
This.
Give us a pic, OP
Andrew Parker
thanks all of you, you've helped me a lot, I'll wait a bit until I decide, see if my gf and I can solve the problems in the relationship, and keep knowing the other girl.
Then I'll make my decision, not cheating or anything like that, just keeping my relationship, or breaking it and starting a new one with the other girl