I need old fags, not the old "I've been here since 05, but old of age and experience

I need old fags, not the old "I've been here since 05, but old of age and experience.

Been together for 12 years, married the last two of them.
Got a kid and all that. Wife is FUBAR after birth, back and neck is blown, it's not getting any better and I am practically a home nurse with shitty income. Much because I have to spend so much time time looking after wife and kid.
Needless to say, I am in a world of shit, sexualy, financialy and emotionally.

Here's the thing.. I just got the massive attention from 9/10 21 years old blond, tall, slim hottie. She is fucking sex on legs, and she wants my sorry old ass. Lots of kissing, bit of fingering, but no sex yet. I keep holding back.

We are 16 years apart and I am old enough to be her dad for fuck sake! And I know that I am going to ruin it all if we go all the way.

Any of you have any experience with sugar daddy, cock craving young ones?

Bump

Keep the sex casual.
Keep the sex far from your home.
Keep your personal life hidden.
Keep PDAs to a very minimum.
>DO NOT fall for her usually younger women know that they can snag an older man and use him for money.
Keep your money to yourself at all times unless you are doing very menial services like calling her a taxi keep a price limit.
Now some general questions?
How long has your wife been "out of commission"?
How old is your child?

Sex will be casual if..who the fuck am I kidding..when it happens.
She just moved into a new flat, just a street down from where I live.
No chance of keeping it hidden, we fucking work at the same place even.
I don't get the impression that she wants money, she seems to be better off than I am atm.

Wife been "out of commission" for the last four years.
Kid is three soon.

When your car breaks down, you either spend the money to fix it, or leave that shit at the side of the road, and walk the fuck away.
Same with a wife.

As for the hottie, yeah, that'd be fun, but you basically implied you're 37, and anything more than sex between you is just you being a colossal retard.

Take it from me, user - just run the fuck away from all of it and live your life. Definitely don't stay with the broken-down bitch, or you'll lose all of your freedom and sanity, and death will seem like a welcome stranger.

Op,

Just know that it will all come crashing down eventually. Just don't murder anyone. You'll end up on 20/20.

Funny you should say that last bit there. An Hero is looking more and more likely. I feel like I have defiled the only pure thing I have ever had in my life.

It'll only get worse the longer you stay in that situation.
Pure or not, it's killing you slowly from the inside out.
If you have an out, fucking take it, and experience life.
Don't end up 40 and trapped...it sucks ass.

Also, checking my earlier triple-dubs.

Fucking hell user. You are right. I know I have no more options, but the failure fucking stings, and the kid kinda grew on me.

If the kid isn't yours, all the more reason to bail the fuck out now. The kid is probably still young enough where this won't affect them too bad.
If it is yours, then it'll always be there, regardless of your personal situation, and you just need to let them know that, and reassure them that none of this is their fault (should probably do that even if it isn't yours).

The failure always stings, but with enough of it, your skin gets stronger.

There's always the option of divorce. If she all but needs a home nurse, then you could get custody and move away, do something fun.

Maybe even bang a 21 year old.

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You wouldn't really shit all over a woman who destroyed herself giving you children on the advice of Cred Forums? You are shit and don't deserve anything you self centered whining victim. A real man takes care of shit. You're just a game to the younger woman, go ahead do it, your life will be even more shit because you can't handle the oxytocin in your head. The grass is always greener...

You need to consider some things:

1. Are you staying because you love your wife or because of the kid?

If it's because of the kid, it's dead, Jim. You can choose to try to fix your marriage or GTFO. You'll be paying out the same amount of money regardless.

2. Does your wife try to start anything at all or is she passive about your relationship?

If she's passive about the relationship, she just stopped trying. This might be because the relationship wasn't good to begin with/you stopped trying/she just gave up and she's staying with you because she has no other choice. Anyhow, not good for anyone in that house.

3. If you were OK with your relationship, would you even consider your coworker?

You might be latching on her because you feel lonely and neglected. That's not only a bad place to start, it makes you lose objectivity. Been there.

4. Is she more trouble than she's worth?

If yes, fix your stuff and then start something else. Don't add more issues to your life when you can't handle the ones you currently have.

As for cheating, it requires both parties to be completely informed of the situation (you and the girl you're banging, mind you) and it requires some very well defined ground rules. Also, you need to have a bunch of backup plans in case something goes wrong (girl gets pregnant, she demands more time/money, she rats you out). Also, if it's your first time, you'll feel guilty as fuck.

If you ask me, with your current situation it's more trouble than it's worth. Fix your stuff first, and do something about your self esteem. Have in mind that, if someone else wants your ass, you're not such a lost cause as you think you are.

Consider the possibility that your wife asked the side girl to try and seduce you. I don't know your wife, but I know some women try that shit.

If she's not in it for the money, then she's got some serious fucking head issues.

She's probably in it for the money though. Even if she's better off than you, every little bit you throw her way helps her out.

Worst thing you can do is to do something impulsive.

Remember that the girl is very young and has alot less "grownup" experience compared to you.

Also, go somewhere more aimed at this thing than Cred Forums.

See a therapist, talk about your shit to another person irl.

Worst thing that can happen is you drowning in stress and ending up feeling guilty af, stay on top of that as best you can OP.

And take care of your kid no matter what.

Stop watching TV

I am astounded, actual advice and information from /b. Thank you user.
1. The kid is mine, 100% sure. DNA test.
2. I am in it for the kid. There I've said it.
3. As for the hottie, she really got way more than me and said it herself that desire was all there is to it.
4. Yes, I am a fuck up. Why else would I even be asking /b?
5. Wife isn't passive. She is terrified of losing me. For me, the feelings isn't there anymore.

A marriage for the kid isn't a fucking marraige. The kid will feel tension between his parents and think it's his fault. He'll blame himself for a lot of shit, actually. If you love the little shit that much, try for custody. Trust me, divorced parents are healthier than a for-the-kid marriage.

You are right.
I've boiled it down to this.

I am a shitty person, pushed into a situation I would not normally have been in if I wasn't so set on "for once in my life I want to do something right. Something pure and something good". Should have realised that "Once an asshole, always an asshole".
I literally have no other options than 1. An Hero 2.Drop the hottie, try to fix this. 3. Leave it all behind, go and be a shit somewhere else.

...She is terrified of losing me. For me, the feelings isn't there anymore.

Your old grey mare won't have much choice but to put up with it then mate. Go to town on the 21yo girl. In your heart you've already gone there. You've already cheated. Since when was kissing and fingering not cheating?

Fuck that 21yo. Don't care why. When I was 36, an 18yo azn virgin wanted me. Did I ask why? Did I come to ask Cred Forums? No. I was to busy busting the cherry of a teenager.

But be warned op, you'll feel like a cunt of a human being. Why? Because you are a cunt. You've already cheated. At least be a fucking man and own it.

May I ask how old you are?

Triple-dubs here...this user knows what's up.

In my 40s now. Relevance?

None other than the curiosity. I have to thank you for putting this shit into perspective for me. When you have nothing but your own mind to discuss things with, things can be a bit fuzzy at times.
Guess I am going to town then.

Dude, you just wanted someone to justify for you. You're just conflicted. Trust me. Being a cunt never gets easier.

Ask your wife if you can fuck other women. If she says yes fuck away, and see how it goes. If no do it anyway YOLO just hide that shit well.

If you fall in love with the 21 yo and she wants a relationship go for it. Again YOLO.

My wife kicked me out 4 years ago - she was just being a cunt. We seperated She's fat as fuck post the baby now, and I just fuck a different younger girl every week, usually have 3 on the go.

That's pretty shitty, OP.
If I'm understanding you, your wife got fucked up bringing your child into the world?
And you're gonna pay her back by cheating?
You have to take care of her, she has to LIVE in pain every day.

Seek out physical therapy, seek out a good chiropractor, seek out a yoga class for her.

Are you really dumb enough to think if this slut will disrespect your wife, she won't turn on you too?
Have fun when the blonde emails everyone you know to tell them you've been cheating with her.

Nice triple dubs and yeah. Just always look after your kid.

Spoken like a true beta.

triple dubs n double trips

i feel like threads like these only exist on Cred Forums at 3 am now, i.e. not the same shit every single time

Assume the face of your kid in the future.

>Wife is FUBAR after birth, I am practically a home nurse
For better or worse, or did you take the vows while thinking about sucking cock?

> with shitty income
> sugar daddy

Pick one you lying faggot

I just had a girl from Tinder come over and give me a crack sack and shaft hour long blowjob. Maybe just fuck your wife's mouth and make her watch you fuck other women?

Is she a hamplanet? Sounds like it.

Post pics of wife

Looks are an illusion, and your sexual urges and the stuff poop flinging apes are made of.

Look at porn, fap, and get it out of your system. If you want to break up with your wife, focus on that, not some twat with tits who won't be worth shit a month from now.

Purple guy says: You don't have long. Get your own place. Enjoy your time.

Indeed