My girlfriend of over five years just broke up with me

Jordan Wood
Jordan Wood

My girlfriend of over five years just broke up with me. Her reasoning is that she can't handle the stress of college and a long distance relationship at the same time. No, It has nothing to do with sex or finding another guy. We are both incredibly traditional and I know that isn't the issue. I feel like utter

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Bentley Williams
Bentley Williams

shes getting fucked by another guy right now

Anthony Russell
Anthony Russell

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Colton Howard
Colton Howard

I understand this is Cred Forums, but please be serious with me for second. Like I said, I know her and that's not it. She lives at home and her parents and I talk all the time

Owen Allen
Owen Allen

She's at the her house doing HW pretty much most of the day and we even have multiple hour long FaceTime calls while we're dong HW to sway the boredom.

Lucas Scott
Lucas Scott

If shes not fucking a guy already she will be soon. Start accpepting it will be less of a shock when you find out.

Lucas Robinson
Lucas Robinson

She's not that kind of person. We were so far in we had already started thinking about marriage in a serious way for after we graduate college. You might just think I'm being naive or something but I can tell you that not every girl is the same. She isn't like that.

Jaxson Murphy
Jaxson Murphy

^

Camden Cook
Camden Cook

You should probably see a vet then... I don't think you should conciously feel your udders.

Joshua Sullivan
Joshua Sullivan

Sounds like she found a new guy to fuck where she is, and she gave you a bullshit excuse. Sorry, user.

Christian Wilson
Christian Wilson

You might just think I'm being naive or something but I can tell you that not every girl is the same. She isn't like that.

This gave me a flashback to the many times I heard it from cucked troops,

Tradition is a prison, LDRs don't work, and young people are biologically made to spend at least a decade fucking their brains out.

It's just growing part of growing up.

Connor Roberts
Connor Roberts

This was me, but in all seriousness, you're retarded. Long distance relationships fail VERY easily. I've had many internet/long distance/real life gfs and am currently engaged to my gf of 5 years. If you two didn't grow up in the same town or meet in person at least once, then she's likely been cheating for years. Elaborate on the relationship. How far apart, ages, where you met, etc. and I'll try to rustle up some sound advice.

Michael Bennett
Michael Bennett

That was then and this is now. Trust me when I say you do not know her like you once did. Right now you are rationalizing the situation and need to be a lot more realistic.

Jaxson Collins
Jaxson Collins

We grew up in the same town met in high school. Spent practically every day together pretty much all day within reason.I'm one year older than she is.

Dominic Rivera
Dominic Rivera

It's long distance because I'm at one college and she's at another currently.

Liam Walker
Liam Walker

Oh. Well, she's probably being honest then. How far apart? She still may have found a guy who seemed better. Maybe a college senior with a good job/car/future. Women are fickle, man.

Grayson Jenkins
Grayson Jenkins

old man here.

she's fucking someone already.

or was thinking of fucking someone.

you'll learn this stuff as your life goes on.

Juan Robinson
Juan Robinson

Had the same thing happen to me. Small town, grew up together. I was 3 years older. She starts college, joins a sorority, moves into an apartment with her best friend. She dumped me six months later. That was many years ago. Now? She is married and has two children last I heard. I would have bet all I had we would be together forever. Wake up!

Juan Thompson
Juan Thompson

Like I said, If she was seeing a guy it would be for an incredibly short amount of time. If she's not in class then she's at her house doing HW to which her parents are also home. I grew incredibly close to them after this much time and they would not lie to me.

Oliver Lewis
Oliver Lewis

Agreed. Young egos are hard to convince.

Jackson Evans
Jackson Evans

Even if she isn't seeing someone, it doesn't matter. She isn't with you.

Lucas Bell
Lucas Bell

I don't expect you to understand. From your perspective you have to apply what most women do to my situation and that's fair enough. Not faulting you for it. But I must reiterate that you don't know her like I do. She isn't like that. I understand if you don't believe me though.

Brody Long
Brody Long

Bro, she met somebody....might not be fucking yet, but there is some one

Nathaniel Parker
Nathaniel Parker

Then why in the fuck are you on here? Sounds like you have it all figured out or are just baiting.

Lucas Martin
Lucas Martin

I just wanted people to talk to. I apologize if that is too much to ask.

Brayden King
Brayden King

Her tits are slowly rubbing back and forth across another man's chest as she rides him, his dick - far bigger than yours - pleasuring her pussy like never before. Her moans, those moans you are so used to, in another man's ear. His warm, creamy cum deep in her pussy

Jerk off to porn where the girl looks like her and imagine her getting fucked by another man. Might sound cruel what im saying but it works. And it's reality. Deal with it. No girl EVER EVER EVER leaves a relationship without finding the next thing.

Owen Davis
Owen Davis

Don't think they'd put honesty to you over their daughter's happiness. You'll lose every time, man. If she found a guy they like more who treats her right, but they like you cus your nice and all, you'll get a lie. And they'll do it cus they think it's right. You really are naive.

Xavier Smith
Xavier Smith

Yea man girls always say that shit when theirs another man involved

Ryder Morales
Ryder Morales

I guess this is Cred Forums where all I'd receive is negative comments, guess I am going to crazy to look here for support. Sorry fo wasting your guys time.

Adam Wood
Adam Wood

No, you're a young little shit head who won't listen. Did you read my previous argument?

Jeremiah Wilson
Jeremiah Wilson

God what a fucking cunt she is.

Aww boo hoo you cant handle 2 things at once awww.
Women are insufferable parasites.

Brandon Moore
Brandon Moore

I'm the only one trying to help you, fucker. And I'm the one MARRYING MY 5 year girlfriend. But fuck do I know, amirite?

Hudson Walker
Hudson Walker

I did and I will say it one last time. Her parents think of me as their own. They buy shit as if I was their own son. Her father and I regularly go hiking and skeet shooting just because we enjoy each others company. I completely understand where you are coming from though however don't get me wrong. If you met her and got to know her then you'd understand my point of view. Like I said, not all women act the same as much as you think they do.

Lucas Sanders
Lucas Sanders

It has nothing to do with sex or finding another guy
Guess what? Yes, it does!

Matthew Perry
Matthew Perry

No. They don't. But all humans have overlapping, predictable tendencies. How many hours apart are you, Mr. 18-In-Love? Not to mention, 90% of us outclass you by a Longshot on experience and ability to handle relationships.

Jack White
Jack White

Go away. Go find people who will tell you what you want to hear. A lot of sage advice here.

Sebastian Gutierrez
Sebastian Gutierrez

Boo hoo nigger, that's what you get for trusting people.

Jaxson Howard
Jaxson Howard

Is this your first relationship or something? Nobody WANTS to be cynical about women and relationships but that's the way it goes as you get older. You realize that young women have the easiest lives imaginable with hordes of people constantly vying for their attention. What this leads to is an over-inflated sense of self-worth that rots them from the inside out. I mean, why stay in anything less than a perfect relationship if there are twenty guys better than you lined up?

Brandon Brooks
Brandon Brooks

When your bait works too well. Good to know 4chans reaction is as predictable as always haha

Carson Howard
Carson Howard

vocaroo.com/i/s08fa3YCak0e I had to voice this out for you, user. Hope the best for you.

Juan Baker
Juan Baker

If she's living at home, then you moved away?
Also, if she's at school, she's meeting people there.
It's over.

Aiden Powell
Aiden Powell

When you guys get divorced remember some user telling you on Cred Forums to eat a grapefruit with your nuts tied to a koala bear

Sebastian Lee
Sebastian Lee

Holy fuck that was cringey. Stop talking like that.

Jason Foster
Jason Foster

Do you mean "assuage the boredom", you fucking idiot?

Gabriel Clark
Gabriel Clark

Fill tub
bring toaster, put near tub, plug in
Get in tub
shoot self in face

Blake Bennett
Blake Bennett

good ol stampy

Carter Wood
Carter Wood

Sounds like someone who does the English dub for some anime.

Carson Diaz
Carson Diaz

Same shit happened with me. She was a year older and went away to uni first. Shes already replaced you or found the person to replace you. Just deal with it and move on. Finally ran into my ex again 12 years later, shes still single and 80lbs heavier. Feels good.

Kayden Jackson
Kayden Jackson

sounds like someone auditioning to play coldsteel to pay for his fedora habit

ftfy

Oliver Collins
Oliver Collins

this

Blake Walker
Blake Walker

Just post some pics op and get it over with

Kayden Long
Kayden Long

Slow down he might kill himself

Evan Bailey
Evan Bailey

Been together 5 years, going on 6, live together happily, have goals/plans, etc. This is a woman who is going to save money to send ME to school. Good luck with that projecting.

David Johnson
David Johnson

Naive as shit.

Lucas Green
Lucas Green

26 girlfriends. 2 previous engagements, 2 v cards taken, 27. It's experience, fag. Half of marriages SUCCEED, you know.

Brandon Allen
Brandon Allen

No need to get butt hurt. I just said you are naive.

Cooper Morris
Cooper Morris

Explain how, then, friend.

Hudson Edwards
Hudson Edwards

Top kek

Anthony Roberts
Anthony Roberts

Ok man, get it straight. Maybe you are right. Maybe she is not thinking of fucking someone else, maybe she is morally correct, maybe their fathers would tell you and protect you, ok, got it. EVEN if all those maybes are actually yes, it better for you to asume the worst. It's the only way to grow up. So, FUCK YES, she is in a nigger gangbang right now, and his father is watching while make celebratory gunfire. Got it? Now go, feast on the real world, and grow up.

Henry Peterson
Henry Peterson

You have had 3 engagements total, two of which I assume have failed. You have a 66% confirmed failure rate at serious relationships. Furthermore, a 50% general population failure rate is poor odds.

Besides all of that, you do realize that your experiences are not the entirety of existence, right? Many of us have different experiences that we draw from, which would seem to indicate that blind optimism in relationships is stupid.

James Clark
James Clark

it's better for you*

Liam Mitchell
Liam Mitchell

Do you think I got to 30 without heeding objective advice? That I don't reflect deeply after situations to learn? I didn't say I KNOW we won't fail. But you're being awfully pessimistic coming at me with this "Marriage is nearly impossible" spiel. I pointed out half succeed because I guarantee you this: Every divorce doubter their relationship and each other. But every 50 year marriage was built on trust, and faith that success will be obtained. Try not to be so cynical, man.

Gavin Jackson
Gavin Jackson

LDR is pointless, your canadian gf was fake find a real one.

Juan Price
Juan Price

I did not say marriage was impossible.
Those were my posts. At no point did I state that marriage was impossible or even nearly so. I'm not certain how many 50 year old marriages you know, but those couples married that long that I know were not based on blind faith. It took a lot of work, and a lot less on faith.

You seem angry over my observations, and even angrier that my experiences have given me a different outlook.

Try not to be so angry, man.

Brandon Harris
Brandon Harris

You have a terrible track record. No one should listen to you. Cheezus. H. Christ.

Ryan Brooks
Ryan Brooks

Bro, I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and we didn't broke up because of distance. And high school is nothing compared to work.
C'mon get a new girlfriend and shrug off those thoughts of yours about your ex.

Gabriel Evans
Gabriel Evans

I knew a guy once who found a girl from Canada. She convinced him she was a model when he found her pics on a Halloween costume site. Shit was hilarious.

Aaron Kelly
Aaron Kelly

I'm.. I'm so not even mad. Where are you getting that tone? I even called you friend. Lol. Look. I also know relationships take endless work. Let's see you drive and post top tier arguments. Lol.

Austin Cox
Austin Cox

lol, I'm not mad, lol, seriously, lol

Logan King
Logan King

she can't handle the stress of you and the stress of the BBC football players wearing out her relatively inexperienced vagina.

Andrew Howard
Andrew Howard

Youre a great troll. Bravo. Of course, if I'm trying to portray my jovial nature, clearly lots of lols is a bad way, amirite? Lol. Debate me or don't, fuckface. Your semantics are beginning to rustle me.

Zachary Gomez
Zachary Gomez

You also called me a fag. That's generally not a friendly term.

My advice for OP was already stated about 50 times, there is little reason for me to tell him the same thing when he has already ignored it and probably left.

The reason I even mentioned anything is that you sounded horribly naive in your prior discussion, and mentioned next to nothing of substance except to continually mention your qualifications.

Charles Edwards
Charles Edwards

These are all me, but right. No advice with substance in there, right?
And I called you a fag/fuckface/whatever because this is Cred Forums. That's how this place works, bro.

Daniel Rodriguez
Daniel Rodriguez

Be a big guy and kill yourself.. I mean.. get over her

Christopher Nelson
Christopher Nelson

No, not in my opinion. You just told him what was going on, not really what he should do.

Also, you come across as very angry throughout your posts. Are you taking OP's problems personally?

Leo Smith
Leo Smith

lol, troll, lol, totally not getting to me, lol
rustled, lol, still not mad, lol

Nicholas Johnson
Nicholas Johnson

Sigh. Look, man, I didn't tell him a plan of action because they're isn't one. There's nothing he can do to woo her back, and pushing will just drive her further away. What would you recommend he do? I was trying to get him to come to terms with reality/probability by being that sympathetic, empathetic ear.

Brody Myers
Brody Myers

this is absolutely it

Isaac Morris
Isaac Morris

I'd tell him to let it go and ignore the concept of romantic love. He should focus on himself, and stop obsessing over a woman who obviously does not feel a serious attachment to him.

Hunter Perry
Hunter Perry

You're assuming on a ton of that, though. If I may, how old are you? You come off to ME as an edgy, pessimistic teenager. I'm sure we're both wrong.

Nicholas Diaz
Nicholas Diaz

The point is LDR's don't work. We don't need to know her to know that. Whether she has someone now or not is irrelevant. The distance will cause to break up if a guy hasn't already

Owen Evans
Owen Evans

I'm 28. Do you always try and insult people who disagree with you?

Joshua Nguyen
Joshua Nguyen

What the fuck did you want? Loyalty? If that's what you want go buy a dog.

Benjamin Wilson
Benjamin Wilson

I'm not sure where I was assuming things. He obviously was in love with her, and is broken up enough about it to ask for support on Cred Forums, probably one of the worst places to do so. If he can get past this stuff he'll feel better.

Working on himself will hopefully make him feel better and increase his self esteem and confidence, which may be hurt after such a breakup.

Cooper Jenkins
Cooper Jenkins

dog breaks up with him

The dog found someone who gives better walks.

Ethan Moore
Ethan Moore

sympathetic, empathetic ear

retarded

young little shit head

fucker, blah blah blah condescension

empathy and sympathy galore kek

Lucas Barnes
Lucas Barnes

Yeah. Probably has a group of nerd orbiters.

Sebastian Wood
Sebastian Wood

its bleak

Mason Bell
Mason Bell

True. You're coming up with good ways to move forward. I was aiming at accepting the present. Just different focuses in our advice, mang.

Michael Watson
Michael Watson

Yes, user... Yes, it does.

Isaac Bailey
Isaac Bailey

Also, not fast enough. Hope you erased the exif.

David Martinez
David Martinez

Yeah. Good thing I'm not a pessimistic, edgy teenager and you aren't a naive, stupid child.

Different viewpoints aren't wrong, just different.

Benjamin Powell
Benjamin Powell

Maturity in /b is such a rare thing. Glad to see some. Too bad OP wanted an echo chamber and not truly invaluable experience/advice. This was a good thread to find it. But watch, next suicidal beta cuck will get no sympathy and off himself. This place flabbergasts me.

Hudson Garcia
Hudson Garcia

Repost user

Jaxson Morris
Jaxson Morris

?

Austin Carter
Austin Carter

I can't blame him for wanting his echo chamber. I'm sure a lot of people have been in the same place, even if they don't want to admit it.

Cred Forums is like a tornado. It will randomly destroy one block, skip over a house, then destroy the rest of the neighborhood.

Angel Powell
Angel Powell

I just wish we knew his age. Echo chambers may numb pain, but that causes more problems in the long run. He'll end up distrust in women with a Beta superiority complex and emotional unavailability if he doesn't watch it.

Good metaphor. Or simile. Whatever. So does that make us the trailer trash sitting in our mobile home convinced we'll be fine?

Samuel Myers
Samuel Myers

look, this happens every year right ok? I might just screenshot this thread for next year. You fuckers go away to college, and by October break it's over. This is normal, and it is good.

You NEED to go out and meet some new people. Fucking grow as a person, and let her grow as well. She deserves that. You deserve that.

Yes it hurts, fucking learn how to deal with this kind of pain, because IT NEVER STOPS HAPPENING. This is being an adult.

Here I made this in anticipation of these threads.

Roll for the truth.

Andrew Reyes
Andrew Reyes

Absolutely. Whatever happens, I wish him the best.

We are all definitely the trailer people. Every time the tornado skips us, we thank Jesus and move back into our trailers, having learned nothing.

Owen Peterson
Owen Peterson

We grew up in the same town met in high school. Spent practically every day together pretty much all day within reason.I'm one year older than she is.

You are like those kids who travel to new york city and go to Chilis for dinner every night.

Daniel Robinson
Daniel Robinson

op dead?

Asher Edwards
Asher Edwards

There's a simple solution.

Adrian Clark
Adrian Clark

oh shit, this is your north shore girl? is that north shore hawaii or north shore chicago?

Shes definitely sleeping with some highschool dude at this point, its cool though.

Benjamin Hall
Benjamin Hall

i want to get toned while pretending to be a drug addicted sex worker on the pole i had installed in my custom built 3/4 million dollar home

Tyler Thompson
Tyler Thompson

why pretend. you can be a drug addicted sex worker for real?

Gabriel Robinson
Gabriel Robinson

yup

Jack Cook
Jack Cook

roll niggers

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