Any married fags here?

If she really loved you she would want to go drinking out with YOU

She takes the engagement ring off so guys approach her and give her attention. Most wouldn't bother if they saw the ring on.

I take my ring off too dip shit, it'll get bent to shit and destroyed if I tried lifting with it on

Я женат. Но твоя баба какая-то ебанушка, толстячок ты мой зелёный.

She is 100% not marriage material.

Plain and simple. Run

No not yet. We've been together 7 years and not really entertained the thought that she'd ever fool around.

I've already out the deposit of the wedding gown down bro. Not really an option

Shev is probably taking advantage that she is not married yet to have fun. Maybe she things that going out is over being married

Don't marry her. She obviously does not take her commitment to your relationship seriously.

But since I know you will anyway, when it gets real bad - the fighting, lying, etc, cut it off swiftly, decisively, and don't look back. Make sure your finances are separate, and don't cosign for anything at all. Make sure you can control all of your shit when you leave.

exactly

You guys are cucked to the max.

So much this, but

this is your reason for not potentialy averting a disaster that your gut is already telling you is going to happen.

There is no hope for you.

The ring off at the gym isn't a thing. Sweat can cause it to fall off while she's running and it can be dangerous to lift with one on depending on it's size and shape. Not to mention it could get banged and the diamond could fall out, so thats not really a sign.

>She also goes out drinking with her girlfriends every month dressed up etc and comes home at 3am drunk af.
She has a history before we met when she was 16-18 where whenever she drunk she would fuck a guy she met.

Ok, lets get something out of the way. Does the thought that she might be fucking another guy bother you? Some don't care or even enjoy the thought. Will she stop after you get married? Would you want her to?

I'm not usually a black and white kind of guy, but I'd say there's strong evidence to suggest she's still out sowing wild oats.
Bullshit, you'll be out a lot more for a divorce trust me. Wait until you have kids, you'll wish you had given your wedding date a second thought when you're staring down a divorce.

My suggestion is to push the date back.

Installer: Ah needs tuh put the wahrs
Me: Everything's done. GTFO
Installer: But the wahrs need tuh be all over. I makes muhney from the wahrs
Me: No, it's already been done correctly. You aren't getting your grimy hands on this house.
Installer: But ah needs tuh put the wahrs to the picher box and the teevee.
Me: *slap* Bad wire monkey. Get back in your truck and go bother somebody else.
Installer: But mah paypers. Yew needs tuh scratch on mah paypers weeyuth wunna theyem sticks what makes mahrks
Me: This paperwork says that a lot of things happened that didn't actually happen. I'll sign nothing until you bring me something that isn't full of lies.
Installer: ahmma tell momma on yew
Me: You do that.
Installer: Yew aint nahs *sob*
Me: On this we agree.

The service worked perfectly, BTW.

How are you going to bend a ring while lifting?

Do you even lift, bro?

If you have questions about her behavior, don't marry her until you are satisfied. If you're just jealous, don't marry. If she's a bad drunk, don't marry. Anyway, you're probably too young. Don't marry until you're AT LEAST around 30 (guy). 26 (girl).

If, however, she looks like the girl in this pic, forget my advice and lock it down NOW.

Do you even know what a cuck is you fucking retard?

Man up. That girl isn't worth marrying. Take your ring back from her and tell her you don't think she's the one to marry. Then kick her out or move out and move on with your life. Why the fuck would you marry a whore cunt who thinks she's a man and can be independent. Woman are meant to breed cook and clean.

10/10 cuck

So get cucked because you don't want to lose a few hundred bucks.

Next time you fuck her, be really dominant and rough with her. Tell her that she's YOURS and NOBODY else gets a piece of her ass. But then make sure you make out with her all the way until she falls asleep.

That's how you get a handle on a slippery woman.

varg/10

This guy is a fucking nigger Jew retard. DONT marry a girl unless she's good enough to be a mother and a wife. No matter what she looks like. Fucking imbecile

>Married 5 years.

My wife works at a gym, she never wears her rings to the gym in fear the bars will scratch them. I would never be worried about that.
If you have any fears of her cheating on you when she goes out for the night, wait up till she gets home on a random night and try to fuck her. If she normally puts out when drunk but doesn't after being drunk with her friends, that could be cheating. Also, if you do fuck her, you'll be able to see if she still feels right or not.
Randomly Show up with your buddies at her bar kinda late one night and see if she's there still or at some dudes house.

Also, if you two are serious enough to get married, ask her. Just be real with her. "I sometimes get an uneasy feeling when you come back so late and so drunk."
Or, ask her if she would ever be down for a 3 way. If she says yes, ask her if there could be a guy She has in mind. That's your dude.

Run. Don't do it. If she's still getting drunk and coming home at 3am. Also, once a cheater always a cheater.

Danger. She needs to chill, or you should rethink this.
At least get a prenup put together.

Yup she likes to fuck around..... so can I get her number?

Dude, you obviously don't lift, or haven't ever with a ring. I've had many times when I was nearly sleeved by my wedding ring. Again, a females engagement ring usually has a large diamond, which can easily be knocked out of the mount while working out.

critical thinking not found..

This guy is spot on.

OP still here?

Taking off the ring when going to the gym is probably cause she doesn't want to be scratched, you know the bars are ribbed right?

You should put your foot down because that's the fastest way to escape the life of misery that awaits you married to that shithead.

Halt the wedding idea. Set some guidelines. Have her checking in, and hanging w you more than her girls. If she fights it, dump her. Shes fucking someone else at that point.

Cuck incoming

she is a whore. Don't do it you fucking moron. Call it off now

What a mess of a marriage. Holy fuck. If you have to do any of this shit to see if she's cheating your marriage is garbage.

>married 5 years
> no kids
> wife still goes out with the girls to get wasted

She's already bored of you and is cheating. The signs are obvious.

>My wife lost hers years ago.

Yeah brah I lived that story twenty years ago.

I would hate for this dude to go down the same road.

You are not equipped to understand the full ramifications of marriage when you are a young buck.

That is not what that word means. People who are into cuckolding are people who willingly solicit their women to have sex with other men. What you actually meant was being cheated on.

lol OP she probably goes to the gym to look hot for your wedding.

>put my foot down
if you do this she will either :
keep doing what shes doing and be resentful of you, or just be resentful of you or dump you

Dude, GTFO...she's banging someone else.

Go down on her after she gets home at 3am...and then tell us how the other guy's cum tasted. Then you'll know.

>Should I put my foot down?
And what good would that do? She is part of the swinger lifestyle; if you can't join her, you'll have to leave sooner or later.

100% of all divorced couples began as married couples.

Don't marry her OP she'll cheat on you and divorce you. And since the system is fucked and if you guys have kids they'll end up calling her man slut daddy, while you're not allowed to see your own flesh and blood because she wanted to be a whore.

>100% of all divorced couples began as married couples.

The only part of that which pertained to me was the wedding ring issue. Married, children, own home/cars, etc. We both work matching hours then come home and do family time. I have nothing to worry about at home.

The rest of that was tips for him to either settle his mind or show him there is something to worry about.

Bring it up if it bothers you that much. Otherwise, stop whining and let her have fun.

"Admit" that you've been cheating on her and see if she admits anything as a response. Post results

can't make a ho into a housewife man dump that broad she sounds no good

semantics

OP's intuition is already telling him to bail the fuck out.

Mindfuck: on the night before my wedding, I became inexplicably sick, temperature of 104. Was fine the next day, just didn't drink.

Looking back with some perspective makes me think...

Ring - smart enough to know workout could damage it
Dressing up - wants to feel good about herself
Past is the past. Don't be a pussy and talk to her about that shit

Jesus Christ you are a stupid faggot.

Op here. Here is one of the texts she has sent when out with her friends.

She's cheating. Not gonna sugar coat it OP. Ditch her

Traslation: Chad tore my undies when he fucked me rawdog in the bathroom at the club, so I better pre-quality my story to my cuck before I get home.

Bahahaha, "broke". Some dude ripped them off and proceeding to fuck your fiance, bruh

Like I said before ditch the bitch so if y'all end up having kids they won't be calling a man who're daddy.

Fight her. Or just fuck another girl in front of her, prove your dominance. Shes clearly lying.

modern definition, yes; traditional definition has always held that a cuckold is the husband of an adulteress. see: Shakespeare's plays

>Thought they felt weird
Jesus, it's like she wants you to know she cheated.

end of the day OP is a pussy who can't even talk about how he feels with the women he's been with for 7 years.

OP is gonna stay with her even if she straight up admits she's fucking someone else because he's afraid hes gonna end up forever alone so he makes whatever excuse he can to stay with some bitch who doesn't love him.

same fucking story on this board like 4 times a day at least.

Oldestfag

THIS

we must at least try to enlighten and uplift our brethren

OP needs to ditch her out can tell he's a good guy that's being fucked over by a slut.

Seriously, tell her you cheated on her and she'll spill the beans. She's practically begging to tell you she's cheating anyways. She seems about as dumb as you and would jump at the chance to admit it in anger.

lol no, just educated Cred Forumsro

I can believe all these virgins defending the girl. She is going out with her friends to clubs because she likes having strange men forcefully grind their bulges against her ass and cootch. Its guaranteed she will cheat eventually and her friends will support her in doing it 100%

i smell bs more like the guy fucking her tore them

"Hey baby just to let you know, my dixk smells weird. We were taking shots ans something spilled now my dick smells like pussy."

Se how fucking stupid that sounds?

this

I know our relationship and know she isn't cheating. I do think she is not taking me seriously and that's why I want advice. More texts

Married fag here. If you dont trust her, don't marry her. You dont even know what strain your relationship will be under after decades of being together and the stress of having kids and all that shit. If you dont trust her now, you will go insane when things get difficult

why dont I take her out for drinks? if we fuck, ill tell you. all that you have to do is pay for said drinks.

The girls nights out 100% do not mix with marriage.
at this point you just have to ask yourself if the pleasure you have with her now is worth the inevitable pain you are setting yourself up for, because it is comeing certainly.
Prepare yourself for it later if you can't do it now.

So OP,

Ring off while at the gym doesn't really matter. Like other anons said she's gonna cheat with it or without it being on. If anything having a ring will attract guys that love to bang married chicks. A simple solutions IF IT DOES bother you is to get one of those rubber rings. My boy wears it when he works out.

Also a female going out with a friend doesn't mean shit. Let women have fun. She isn't "disrespecting you" if you never told her that it bothers you. Let her have fun bro. I know plenty of females that go out and won't cheat.

OP tell one of your friends that you trust the most to "prank" call her, let him pretend that he's a chad from the club and that she gave her number to him

here, I'd say she was definitely trying to qualify her excuse so there would be less suspicion.

Dude, this doesn't look good. Seriously man, tell her you want to push the date back while you find some way to get your money back on the dress. Sell it if you have to.

This is all assuming you have a problem with her out fucking other guys. If not, carry on.

You're in so much denial, when it finally comes out you're going to look back at how you acted and wonder how you could be such a blind idiot.

do this

>hillary supporters

>People who are into cuckolding are people who willingly solicit
And sloppy semantics, at that. "Cuckold" used to mean a man whose wife is unfaithful to him, from the analogy of a (female) cuckoo bird that lays its eggs in other species' nests, and "wittol" used to mean a cuckold who consents to his cuckoldry. Nowadays, thanks to the poor level of erudition amongst the denizens of anonymous chatrooms, "cuckold" is being applied to all sorts of unconventional sexual encounters. It's even been turned into (horrors!) a verb.

not married, but i might understand taking off a ring before working out. however, the way you said it sounds suspicious af. good luck with the divorce op!

Why don't you ask her instead of us.

yah your probably in trouble. BUT counselling before marriage could be a good idea. Talk to her about this i mean your getting married no reason for her to have behaviors that you can't stand and feel inferior to.

Have you looked through her phone yet OP?

Fuck off cuck

She is getting fucked by a lot of guys man prolly even blowing the uber driver on the ride home

Dump ther ass, OP.
Dump her ass and don't look back, don't even give her an explanation, just do it.

Im engaged

Yeah, no more advice from me. It's obvious the OP knows the truth and doesn't care/is too much of a beta to do anything about it.

I'm out. /thread

I'd say don't do it you can do better but then, someone has to marry the whores and cunts.

100% this
/thread

Ok, the obvious bait is obvious

Does she use Snapchat, OP?

You need The Red Pill

Did not read the opinions of others but YOU'LL GET SCREWED! Trust me. I'm white

If you're already having doubts about her fidelity and you haven't even married her yet, something is wrong.

I'd be inclined to say you're being paranoid had I have not experienced the same shit (on different occasions with different women).... and I'll tell you this much, your subconscious KNOWS she is cheating. It's almost supernatural how much you KNOW when shit's not right, though it could be that your're just clued in on thousands of tiny nonverbal communications that something isn't right.

Red flags that I've encountered:
>bisexual
>takes of ring when she goes out with friends
>on her "girls' night" at the club, you're not invited. You couldn't come along if you wanted. Just ask to go out with her and just see if she says yes, at this point you can back out of it if you want, but it's important to know that she's not "concealing" that part of her life from you, if she is, she's not marriage material.
>She does not let you meet her friends and keeps tries her hardest to keep you and even her friends far away from each other, this is because she doesn't want you knowing what they know, and she doesn't want you to become friends with hers lest they leak info.

Also, just check this chart on number of sexual partners and "divorce risk". I believe it relates. Not that sluts can't change their behavior but it takes major life changes (death of close family, children, etc) to cause a major change. If she was a slut before she met you, chances are nothing has changed.

I'm not saying she IS cheating, but I'm saying YOU KNOW if she is. Every time I "suspected" something, I was right even though I did my best to tell myself it was nothing at the time. Your subconscious picks up on cheating very acutely.

This dumb mother fucker thinks this is actually his wife

>2016
>Slut empowering propaganda everywhere
>Marriage
LOLNOPE, I can have a gf, but I won't get married for it is completely unnecessary and may lead to problems, depression and regret.
I want to be happy, not married.

Hahahahaha you have been cucked

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Yes, put your foot down instead of having a rational conversation about her actions bother you. You're TOTALLY ready for marriage bro.

This.

Listen to Cred Forums if you want the truth but not /r9k/ unless you basically want to kill yourself.

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Fucking leave the whore yes this is the same person that you responded to I know people that have gotten fucked over like this and this is how the shit begins

Tbh i have been in a relationship like that man
It sucked but sex was good, in the end i just went away and never replied back because she was doing everything wrong in our relation. Girls were flirting with me all the time during parties but i was like meh while she needed to be seen
Grab your balls dude dump her
Bitch think the world belong to her

(Was a 3 years relation )

Exactly what's gonna happen to OP

try having sex with her every time she comes home smashed, if she is constantly coming up with an excuse to not have sex with you then she is hiding something. If she has sex with you than most likely she is just having fun and for the love of god fuck the hell out of her drunk ass, i love drunk fucking my wife

SO MUCH THIS

Listen to dubs

Shes not ready for marriage

This makes me rage so hard because it's so fucking true.

op has no friends
good idea though

Does someone get payed for writing this shit?

Listen here OP.
I've been in your situation before, most of us here have, why do you think we lurk Cred Forums 7 days a week.

We know exactly what's happening here because we've experienced it. You're going to save yourself a lot of heartbreak or financial anal rape if you ditch her now.

One of four things is going to happen here.

1: She will not stop cheating and either get pregnant from someone else, or get an STD and therefore pass it on to you.
You'll get either stuck taking care of someone's kid thinking it's yours and be oblivious or you'll get herpes and find out that way, and then you'll break up.

2: She gets bored with you eventually and straight up leaves you, claims half your shit in the divorce and drags you through a shitty legal process.

3: She puts in her 5-10 years and then dumps your ass when her girlfriends convince her to because she just "can't take the guilt" and shit like that and she 100% gets alimony for life or until she gets married again.

4: She's just being a whore until you're legally wed

Now...
You might think there's a 25% chance that things will be okay.

But you'd be wrong. Women don't stop whoring ever, once a whore, always a whore. She knows how easy it is to do it and frankly based on the texts she wants you to be possessive and she's begging for you to law down the law.
The fuck is wrong with you. Either man up, get the truth out of her, then beat her ass or fucking leave.

tits or gtfo

THIS IS COPYPASTA!

YEEEEEESSSS FUCKINF YEEEEES! IM THE FIRST FUCKING user IN THIS THREAD TO RECOGNIZE IT AS PASTA after 40 fucking minutes.

Jesus, I've been on this board for 6 years and this is the first time I saw people not seeing this as a pasta.

Whole story goes on she threw them away 'because they were broken' and the OP at the time couldn't confirm if they really were or just given to another guy.

>Auto
Fuck that got right through my stomach so truuuuuuuue
Reminded me of my ex-girl completly crazy about me and sex maniac

Dumped her kek

>beat her ass

lol do up to 20 years over some slut A+ advice moron

Just dump her before you sign prenump. Have a beer and celebrate your dodged bullet. No muss, no fuss.

>My wife lost hers years ago.
This fucking people i swear to god

You're a god damn hero

Marriage is worthless. The only reason to get married is for tax deductions and a way to divide up your stuff.

True facts. I've hit most of my serious girlfriends, I've only been arrested once for it and I have zero convictions.
My arrest was for Class 2 felony domestic battery by strangulation and it would have been attempted 2nd degree murder if she had gone to the hospital when the medics arrived with the cops.
I've literally only spent 2 weeks in jail total.

Bitches, when they know they deserve it, will play the victim at first but, because they know they earned whatever they got, they come back and act right.
Trust me. I know this from experience.

If you enjoy dating trash I don't hold it against you but the sex better be fucking incredible for you to put up with that bullshit.

I would %100 kick it to the curb

You know what's really fucking expensive? Alimony. This skank isn't done playing the field. Either hold out for a few more years or break up.

Scum DIAF

Of course, I'd never let a slut cheat on me, the beatings are to nip that shit in the bud.
OP is beyond saving.

>Past is the past.
Kek

OP, I know this is bait and prolly pasta.

In case it isn't : dont marry now.

Tell her you want to postpone because of work or something, tell her you have a huge project coming up and your boss wants you to step up blabla in some months amd that you couldn't handle the stress of wedding planning and thst combined and because you want the prefect wedding for your lovr of the life you have to postpone it 'a bit'

She might think you chest on her, if you're lucky she goes mad and tells you she is cheating. If she is not telling she might be a keeper, but no sure way to know.

Wait some months and see if behavior escalates etc and then reevaluate if you want to marry her.

Same shit happened to me. She was fucking a friend from work. Put the foot down ASAP

Op here. Definitely not bro. After all these comments I wish it was made up...

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She doesnt put out but sucks me off though.

This!

1. Engagement ring off when exercising can mean a lot of things, mainly it means it chafes her finger because of the increased blood flow.
2. Going out every month with her friends is fine, depending on how far apart those goings out are. Once, twice, hell even thrice a month, is normal, bitches are people too, they like to get fucked up. If it's more, maybe she has issues with the whole marriage thing, and you should. Most women try to drown their insecurities with booze, and if she has a sort of stupid streak when she drinks, chances are she might have done some shit. Even then, though, it's unlikely.
3. History means very little, people change. Women most of all. If she's smart, she's learned from her mistakes. If she isn't, you'll know already, and you know what to do.

Fucking communicate with your female, faggot. Putting your foot down will only out you as the insecure fuckwad that you really are atm.

Lol.

Even with once a month going out can mean she cheats. If she fucks around prolly not the same guy, so she goes for partying / fucking once she wants to. That could be 5 times a month or just once.

OP the man is right in his last sentence though. You have to communicate.

BUT she won't tell you she is fucking others. So that won't work.

I would postpone and think things over.

Dont lock down on looks, ever.

You need The Red Pill.

The only thing he has to communicate to her is: "Fuck you, this is over" and never talking to her again.

resons to never marry

you're low iq