Does size matter?

Does size matter?

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Of course it matters. You wouldn't even get a buzz off that puny dick-sized bottle.

To anextent, yes. It starts to become too much though, despite what people tell you being average is best.

Anybody 6"+ that can stay hard has nothing to worry about. Anybody with less better eat pussy like it's your last meal

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depends on the woman you're fucking. if she's a whore, and been with a thousand cocks, then, maybe, since her pussy is most likley a cavern.

if you're with a woman that has a small, mostly untouched pussy, she'll run with harrowing fear from any cock over 5".

Yes and no. A girl in a long term relationship wants the bare minimum it takes to satisfy, a one night stand she wants destroyed. Pussies get sore with large dicks.

To men it does.

Kek. Literally twice the size, if not more and girth too of mine

I'm 6" on a good day, and have been told by a 24 year old on tinder that I gave the best head shes ever received.

i really wish my dick was a bit more like the pics one... in thickness... i am long enough.

Makes you feel good and bad at the same time.

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What a beautiful cock.

not if you have money

subjectively speaking yes.

There is a spectrum of good and bad which can be leveraged between a few different variables. Optimum variables are favorable but to achieve such perfection is essentially impossible and the theory that "beauty lies in imperfection" begins to play a role, thus rendering "the perfect combo" void and null/ undesirable.

General Variables:

>dick size (length)
3 inches and under=undesirable
4 to 5.5 inches= adequate/neutral
5.5 to 7 inches= desirable
7 to 8= exceptionally desirable
8 inches and up= undesirable

>Dick size (girth circumference)
under 4.5= undesirable
4.5-5.5= desirable
5.5-6 inches= Exceptionally desirable
6 inches and up= undesirable

So you can sort of see the trend here, a steady rise in desirability with a sharp decline in desirability after a certain point. This is specifically due to the fact that vaginas are not never-ending abysses and that past this point the penis simply cannot fit or will cause damage. The "sweet spot" is a penis that when erect will touch the females cervix comfortably while fully inside and will stretch the vagina to an extent where it feels as full as possible without physically tearing the vagina.

Needless to say, Other variables play huge roles in the "size matters" argument as well. I will continue in the next post.

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Not so much if you hit 5 inches or more. My sick tops out at just over six inches fully erect and I've never had any complaints. Honestly, be this is the best advice I can give, work on being kind, nonjudgmental, and abandon any kind of red pill/friendzone nonsense. After that, just get really good at cunilingus. If you're pleasant to be around and can get a girl to cum clitorally (especially if you don't go into every interaction expecting a mind blowing fuckfest) then you're in the clear.

yes but only if you're a faggot who has a butthole stretched enough to fit a watermelon in

its like a missile ready to give my ass a world of hurt :o

all these guys are 5'7 or some shit and they have twigs for legs, its the only way to make a 7-8 inch penis seem huge. that's cool and all but i'd rather be 6'3 and 200lbs as i am even if i dont get the same visual impact when i take a pic of my dick

my wife complains whenever i go balls deep anyway

It's literally the most important thing on a guy, the rest is juat added lol.
We are conditioned to be nice to guys so we try our best to enjoy you but honestly if you're smaler than my 8 inch toy you might as well have a clit lol

shes lame...find a cute boy

>Does size matter?

To some it does, it matters more often to gay men and many black men want you to believe it matters.

If the women weighs 200 and has had 4 natural childbirths, you better believe she can feel a big dick more than a micro penis. That is an elaborate example, but some girls have naturally larger vaginas, and those girls will enjoy a larger penis more.

Penis size --generally-- will not preclude all the other attractive features a man can have to a given woman. Stamina and sexual desire preclude penis size. If a man has a big dick that spews in less than two minutes (and doesn't care or notice how frustrated it leaves her) she is effectively with a terrible lover.

I used the think so, i got a real average cock, 6 inches exactly. and i used to be pretty self conscious about it. But now, my current girlfriend is absolutely tiny and i can just barely use all of it. I am damn glad im not any bigger, there is nothing more frustrating than not being able to use the whole thing.

look at this badass posting face + dick pics on Cred Forums

>Makes you feel good and bad at the same time.

Why does it make you feel bad sometimes?

I would swallow every cum drop out of this!

My friend's dick is insanely large. It's 11.75". I had a run in with an ex of his a few months back that told me how much she hated him and how he screwed her over blah blah blah. She then went on to say how his dick was small and she couldn't feel it inside of her.

That tells me one of two things. One either her pussy is basically the grand canyon or women don't really care about size and use size to shame men.

A great sex position will be more memorable than how big a dick was.

Tfw I have a big dick, like, a good 8 inches. But I prefer fingering and licking pussy because I like the domination aspect behind it. Don't really care about my pleasure, making a girl cum more than 10 times in half hour, then laying beside as she shakes like fuck is great tbh

That is nuts. It creates more questions than it answers.

The friend probably has a tiny cock and pretends it's big because he's embarrassed

Sexual ability is a huge factor in debunking the size matters argument because this ultimately can leverage someone who has a small penis into a favorable partner. Things like, knowing what buttons to push to make her cum, being able to last long and consistently make her feel good while not sacrificing your own.
>sexual ability (how well you can perform/please the woman)

doing nothing, laying there, she never cums, lasting 10 seconds= undesirable
actively participating, general knowhow of positions or other common techniques, shes cummed once or twice from your touch/ability= adequate
You can make her cum when you want to, generally you have a good hold on sex and sex acts, you last an average of 15 mins but can be a little flexible= desirable
You know her body in and out, you can dial into her kinks and wants even if you arent fully into it, you can make her cum when you want and can make her cum multiple times on occasion, you can last as long as you want and can be very flexible in sex.= exceptionally desirable
you're a porn star and you know how to do everything and anything and go to extremes= undesirable


Factor out those things and see where you fall, a lot of it is about knowing how to play the cards you were dealt.

My dick is almost 7 inches, but not 7 inches. I found a girl who I can pound as hard as I like and the last time we fucked I went almost as deep as I could and she was like Oh mmy goddd you touched that spot, yesss. The next time I went a little deeper and it hurt her. I am guessing you need to find a matching girl, but a 7 and half inch cock would have been perfect. It helps you reach the spot without as much effort. On the other hand almost 7 inches is good for me because I can go all in most of the times. Pussy is magical , anyway.

For some, yes.
For most, no.

Everybody is different. Stop dealing life in absolutes.

pencil dick m8.

a lot of the +9's are literally like noodles

Hahahahaha holy fuck I forget people like you still roam the earth

kek

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This dick has cancer or frumunda on the rim.

bro, your mom has exceptional taste in home decor.

10 times in half an hour? you fingered some great actresses if you actually believe that.

>I'm 6" on a good day, and have been told by a 24 year old on tinder that I gave the best head hes ever received.

lets just be honest here

i agree with EVERYTHING in those two texts, except for the "you can make her cum when you want to".
you can help a girl orgasm, you can even come close to forcing it, but you can't ever make her cum "when you want to".
just like she won't be able to make you cum when "she wants to".

Only as far as being bigger than tiny. After that it's all about finding a girl whose pussy is the right size for your cock.

Had girls complain, but they eventually got over it after I fucked em good enough. An hour of sex big dick or no she's good

Your abs are gross

Ikr, and hes obviously tensing them for the camera cuz he thinks they amazing

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19 with a 6.5 inch dick, any chance of it growing a half inch more would like to be 7in.

Yes. But to an extent. 8" is about the perfect length. After that it becomes more of a detriment imo. More girth is always good though .

Also it just helps with sex. Smaller dicked men can be good at sex, big dicked men can be bad at it. But it's much more likely that a big dicked man will be good than a smaller dicked one. And a man with a small penis who is good at sex will never be as good at it as a man with a big dick who is good at it.

My girlfriend is extremely sensitive. If I hit the "right" spot inside her, she cums. Lucky me.

THE GIRTH

That cock would do fuck all for a woman because;

(a) it is too wide for her vagina - it'll hurt
(b) too wide for anal
(c) too wide for good oral

There is a size, such as the one you say "the girth", where it is too big.

Excellent shoop, but over-exaggerated

The third option is that your friend posts his dick size on Cred Forums

I dont think it's shoop. Pretty sure it's camera angles and/or lenses. Being that big compared to a toilet paper roll is on the side of massive, but I've seen dicks almost as big although not quite as thick irl.

Theres no way to know if thats a toilet paper tube. Lots of things come on cardboard rolls

Plus he looks skinny af

disgusting cut and abs are just as bad. No girl will care if you are 6 inches when they see this crappy physiology of yours.

girlfriend links me here and says its her favorite thread.

fml

It does in theory but not in practice. A woman will like you more if you have a bigger cock. But unless it's a relatively slutty grill, than 5 or 6 inches is all you need to get the job done.

Yes.
Different grills prefer different things, but bigger is usualy better. But I'm pretty sure most would balk at a one foot dick tho.

He's uncut though right?

Just foreskin is over the head.

Lel 1 foot. Nobody actually has these unless they have a medical condition

Im 6'5" length and 4'8" girth - Had two long term relationships and couldn't go balls deep in either without the girls complaining. Also had to do a lot of foreplay with both of them before penetration.

Have had lots of one night stands where one complained about size (I was drunk and a bit annoyed with the girl so slammed it deep) and others enjoyed themselves without comments.

Porn is really messing with peoples heads when it comes size and whats "perfect and desirable".

big dicks are for black vagina.

not really, unless you have microdick.

that's kind of it.
I've stolen girls from guys who probably are huge (much taller and bulkier than me, so their junk must be proportional.
etcetc

the point is - women, unless you are into retarded bimbos (which kind of mean you are a retard as well, and cannot keep more interesting company) are by far more interested to stay with interesting guys.

You can have 2 feet long dick for all she cares, but she will fucking dump your ass in a milisecond to hang out with actors, pilots etc.
That is the truth like it or not.

disgustingly shaped body, despite the fact you obviously lift..

wtf dude ? Learn to aesthetics.

don't flatter your size. It's decent though.

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I'm
6.3 long
5.3 girth

every girl I've ever met (about 20 now) have wanted to fuck again and again after we met.
Btw I like kinky shit. Also girls by far enjoy oral and rough quick pounding than slow sex where length might matter. I've tried all this often enough to have this option.

>don't flatter yourself. You're only in the top 15%
Lul what.

I know it's not exactly COMMON, but it was an even number.

Goldilocks size is the preferred type for most women.

Too small, feels nothing
Too big, feels pain
Around average, pretty good.

Of course there are size queens and girls with pussies so tight that most dicks feel painful, but the Goldilocks rule applies for most.

same as a man would dump a big titted/big assed woman to hang out with rocker/ adventurer/ actor girl. Pretty true

>much taller and bulkier than me, so their junk must be proportional.
Not true. They probs have 5"-6.5" like the large majority of men. Theres not much difference usually outside of the 10% who are huge and the 10% who are small.

you are bigger than 87% percent

rough and quick is fine and good but in reality everyone likes different things. If you can be rough and last a while its great. Also, if you can finger a girl and make her cum thats also very highly regarded. Generally speaking, if you can tune into her wants and really perform then yeah, you'll have them want more.

10" is also an even number. And would have been more effective. Hell I would balk at a 10" dick.
10" is fucking retardedly big. Never seen one in real life and it's probably pretty bad.
9" is the realistic massive dick size. That still only about 3% of men have.

Not to virgins

>3%
where do you get your data from?

More like >.001 percent or even less

I think some girls prefer a larger dick, because they have had an insecure teenage boyfriend in the early years who has probably cried and kept asking "is it big enough?" - They probably got tired of the whining and think they can avoid it with "big" guys.

Girls who like it slow and sensual are BORING.
Last girl I was with was literally like that. Never want to see her again.

Best one I've ever fucked - into bdsm, loved rough, scratched me like a honey badger and was tight like Rammstein's latest album.

Sensual light contact should be reserved for outside-of-sex activities and cuddling..

Personal anecdotal evidence. Sex with hundreds of men, about 3 have had dicks 8.5-9". And were actually that size. Tons claim 9", but are actually like 6.5-7
Sorry i didn't fact check that. I just knew it was really low %.

your dick should determine the size of female you pick. If you have a monster dong, you get any girl you want at anytime. Show the most loyal and faithful girl your huge cock and she will drool 100% of the time. If you have an average size cock or smaller, then you want to aim for girls that are smaller than you. You'll want to be at least 8 inches taller than the girl, and outweigh her by at least 75 lbs. Then neither of you will have problems and both will be generally satisfied.

Keep in mind, if you are average or smaller, your girl has the potential to be taken by a larger cocked male. So keep her away from porn and blacks.

(i assume you're gay) gay sex harbors a community around those with the biggest dicks so, while i believe you have been with 3 people with those sizes I would also believe that they have been extremely promiscuous having probably been with as many partners up into the 1000's.

Nice bait.

From time to time, yes of course.

Bait how

my fuck buddy told me "i never thought size mattered until i fucked you"

my penis is 7.5" in length and 5.5" in circumference.

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Yes. Those tiny bottles are realky conveniant.

Anyone here's dick shrink due to lack of proper sleep and exercise? I used to be 7.5 but now I'm lucky if I hit 7 inches. I have a gut now and don't do cardio so my blood flow must be shit. Also I jerk off a lot so weak erections

Does girth matter? My penis is a bit above 6+, but I feel like its too skinny..

I'm 5x6 on my best days.
I've been with 3 girls, they were smaller cause i like petite chicks. Like 5'2-5'5. 2 of them said it felt bigger than it looked, nice and filling. The 3rd one i couldn't fit inside without some good pussy licking and forget going in her ass, it wouldn't stretch.
Im average right, im chubby so i feel small sometimes.

I guess he means Because the size of the body dosnt determine the size foe the genitals. Just like how you can have a short skinny guy with a big dick you can have a short skinny woman with a gaping hole

tight pussy matters

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Says the 200lbs fat guy

Found the virgin.

Women can have multiple orgasms. My first time, I gave her 20. Read lesbian oral guides, and judging by the post you responded to, he is like me, and very oral. Women, like men, love oral. If you are not making a woman orgasm at least 5-8 times, you are fucking pathetic.

link some guides? i've been going down on this girl pretty often but i don't know how effective i've been. help a Cred Forumsrother out

I'm literally blessed with a 10inch dick but it doesn't even matter since I don't even know how to use it. I literally cum within minutes and my girlfriend is always left unsatisfied.

Big cocks look nicer. They feel nicer in your hands. They're visually and mentally more of a turn on.

Smaller cocks are nicer to suck on. You can fit them in your mouth with room left for tongue action. Huge cocks hurt your jaw and leave your mouth feeling over-filled.

Girthy cocks are the best. They provide a pleasant sensation of stretch during sex, and make firm contact with all the good parts.

Long cocks are more hassle than they're worth. They can make deep thrusting painful.

Size does matter, but in sometimes conflicting ways. The best cocks really are the middle of the road ones, not too big, not too small, and everything in proportion for maximum aesthetic appeal.

the skinnier you are the longer your dick is perceived. So you still are 7.5 you're just fat.

refer to and

All of them. I must have read 50+, but most say the same thing, the BEST guides, are ones written by lesbians. that's where I focused, Vice did one, that had the most information, but I didn't think it was enough (it was), and others reiterated what that guide said.

Essentially, that rough spot, when you reach a finger inside (on the upper part) is the g-spot. I thought, how the fuck will I know? Trust me, you'll know. It is very rough (in comparison).

That is where you (kind of) want to focus.

When starting, at least I do this, and it drives them nuts. I lick their feet, legs, all the way up, pass over their vagina, to their breasts, and I am very gently during this time.

I linked where I lick when I get to the arms, because I don't know how to describe it. The flabby fat part is really sensitive, and they may even let out a sequel when you lick it.
Note: I am continuing, but need a smoke, also, this is not a fuck and run guide, this is for people you want to date. The only reason I use it when hooking up, is due to the pleasure I get from them wanting me, then telling them to get lost. If it's just sex for yourself, pound and run, don't even bother. I'm a sex addict that enjoys seeing womans emotions going all over the place.

fuck those stupid guides.

Next time ask her "does that feel nice, tell me when it feels good" and keep having her tell you when it starts to feel good. Work from that not some bullshit guide.

I already admitted i didn't check facts, and that you are probably right and apologized. I just guessed based on personal experience.

>More about that experience
>including races for fun.
>gay content ahead.
Of the three well endowed men, I'm pretty sure one isnt that promiscuous at all. He was also not very confident with his size. Thought he was average. "Too much porn syndrome" and is a high school teacher. ~35 White
>Sidenote: he loves getting head.

One is extremely promiscuous. 1000s is probably right. He was one of the first gay guys i had sex with. We were both 18. I didn't know about him and his reputation at the time. He is a total degenerate. He is white and skinny tall.
The other I don't know well enough to say. but he is probably promiscuous. He was ~30 and white.

Ive also been with two microdick men so idk it kinda balances out? Those two were both on young guys when i was young as well (18-19ish). Like actually something went wrong with thier dick development and they have less than 2.5 inches and thin. One was 18 and native american one was a chubby white 20 year old. I feel bad for these guys.

Most people like pleasing thier partners and get off on it. Not just sex addicts.

Ok, im back.

What you want to do when eating her out, is actually lick the clit, you can try going in circles with your toungue around it, some women don't like that, and their body language will show it (moving their crotch up and down for example, would indicate she wants you to lick her up and down.)

While doing this, use your non dom hand to rub one of her breasts. take your dominant hand, take one finger and put it inside her pussy, find the rough spot, and do a come hither motion, after a little while, while doing that, and licking the clit, start edging another finger inside. Once it is fully in, use both fingers to do the come hither motion.

Don't ever ask for anal - Take it. If you ask, the answer is no, if you just start, they generally just go with it. I have yet to lick an asshole. That would be a good way to start though. Generally I tell them to get into doggy style, I use the dom hand in the pussy, and my left hand goes into their ass crack, I rub down the line, until I feel the hole (better to go off feel, since you can't exactly see inside without spreading her open - and that means taking a hand away from her pussy (which is the only reason she'll let you put it in her ass - the pleasure from pussy rubbing makes them say 'fuck it'.) Once you feel the hole, DONT JUST PUSH IN. Be gentle. if you aren't sure, finger your own asshole, then tell me you can just go in without seducing the assring.

Rub around the ass ring, then start edging in, before long you will be able to start doing a weird manuever where one hand goes in, the other comes out, over and over again, so it's like a hand DP (this is also good for making them orgasm).

10 inch master race here too. My gf cums everytime we fuck. I don't even put it all the way in and she's screaming her brains out.

I feel bad for your sex partners.

>Smaller cocks are nicer to suck on
I disagree. If a man isnt filling my mouth I'm not into it. 6"+ is good.

kek. ok.

My gf dont like to get a finger when licking her pussy at all. She told me on the first time I went down on her that she dont like it. The best way to lick a pussy imho is to find out what she likes thru practice. They all like it different

Ok, let me put it this way.

Let's say you are with a woman, and she constantly is asking "Was that ok?" "Do you like that?"

it's fucking annoying.

>10 inch master race
>gf cums every time
Ok, we get it, you're 300 lbs and 3 inches

Thats not what i mean.

You let her tell you once, where to touch/focus on and then go from there. then you can just read her reactions. So especially when eating pussy or fingering just be like, "tell me when im hitting the spot for you" and then go off of that.

Fucking kek

Do I detect a hint of jealousy?

Were your fingernails clipped?

Women tend to be non-confrontational in sex matters, rather than say, you did something wrong, they say they don't enjoy it, or make some sort of excuse.

Ask her, bring it up outside the bedroom, ask "do you really not like a finger inside of you when I eat you out, or am I doing something wrong?"

I think she may be sparing your feelings.

(or there is another possibility, but I won't go there)

I agree, and thru doing this with my gf I know exactly how she likes it to be licked now

haha... mine is the same.. just a bit bigger in each way... girls tell me they love my cock this size. ^^

Girls don't care about penises.

They only care about food.

>source?
>every girl I know won't shut up about food

I think you're actually detecting a hint of The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.

Dude, that would totally kill the vibe.

Go ahead and ask any girl you've dated how they felt, some may say, oh it was sweet, but what they mean, is what they rest will say "it's fucking annoying".

Not same user
I ask, but only if they aren't responsive. If you are a good sex partner you'll respond with moans and be communicative on your own. If they aren't doing that then i will ask them because it's annoying playing a shitty guessing game and they are a bad non-comunicating sex partner.

This also. I'll ask them to be more communicative first before asking directly if they still aren't.

Small penis detected. You give them a big one and it's their new favorite thing

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Nah its just that we she dont like it, she said she likes one or the other but not both at the same time and yes I keep my finger nails clipped and clean. Whats this other option you talking about do tell

No I think he's making an accurate judgment although perhaps not. 10 inches is literally bigger than Mandingo.

If you have an above average dick, yes.
If you have a below-average dick, no.

At least, until you reach around 3 inches or so. After that you either have to find someone who's LITERALLY in love with you or you've gotta find other good ways to sexually satisfy them.

Generally, as long as you can make them cum and feel good, you're good. Nothing else really matters other than skill.

Instead of trying to get some real pussy you look at other guys cocks and discuss about dick size
Fucking virgin faggots

I do the same, but i dont have such a big dick. If i'd have to guess it's pretty average. Still i enjoy more pleasuring my girl than me nutting inside her.
Of course it takes way too long for me to come.
Every girl has told me its weird how i can be fine without cumming.

Its more her telling me what to do than me asking tbh. Just like how I have taught her how to suck my dick just how I like it lol

Bs. If they've had big dick they're always gonna want big dick.

Chicks love money.
Chicks love funny.
Chicks love guys with substance.
Got 2 out of 3... and your set.
Big dick might add to your own self esteem, but thats all.

dude you're dating the wrong people then.

If you're relationship relies on guessing what the other person wants rather than having complete transparency then gg with the break up. My girl and i went over everything and anything with each other and after the first time of it being "slightly awkward" we know exactly how to be the best sex partner for each other which is way more valuable than being a little bitch and worrying about it being weird.

I'm at 7.5x5 inches. I'd trade half an inch in length for half an inch of girth

>8x6
>ED at 18
Why is life this way?

your* whoops.

pencil dick

>delusions detected

Ask every girl you know if they'd rather fuck or go get food.

>go get food

It's alright you neck beard cucks. You can still pleasure girls with your 3inch dick but just remember she's probably thinking about looking for a guy with a bigger dick then yours while you're fucking.

Okay. Live in fairy tale land. Girls don't want men to be there lives. They want to live their own lives and occasionally have fun with men. And when that's the case they want one who can please them.

4inch here. Dude when i fuck my gf it hurts her. Though i broke her v card. So if a guy with a 8inch fucked her she wouldn't be able to handle it. Asuming the dick that is 8 inches long and more girth.

>7.5

That's not how a dick measurement works

Whoops, meant 7x5

Measure your dick. I doubt you're ten inches. Like I said it's possible.

Don't do that, let them be.

Some people are just not vocal. It happens.

If you don't like it, find another, but one thing is for sure, if you make them talk - they will resent you.

I personally have kicked women out for specifically that - asking me to make noise. No. I am enjoying myself, if I start moaning, I will not want to have sex. Trust me, if it wasn't good, they'd tell you.

You don't need sound to have sex. That's the most idiotic bullshit I've ever seen. Same with sight, if you can't be in a dark room, with headphones on, and fuck your way out, you're not fucking right. the only thing you need is feel my friend.

Hmm, well, the other option, if it truly isn't you...Does she act weird with sex? Does she have a strained relationship with someone of relation? It's possible that she was abused in that way, and seriously can not, no matter what, have both happen at once, or else it sends her back to that place.

Those are the two options I would give most precedence to, but it entirely could be, just a dislike for the sensation - which is very rare. I've never had it happen, never heard of my friends having it happen, so IDK what to tell you. That is confusing.

I agree. communication is key to a good sex life. I been with my gf for 8 yrs and we still fuck all the time.

Thank you mister kissless v

And the fact that you're saying 3 inches is suspect. If you were 10 inches you wouldn't have to say such a tiny size to make an insult.

"You are" fits that sentence just fine

Wrong and beta faggot advice. Every one i make talk doesnt RESENT ME you idiot. Its obedience you beta bitch

dick+timestamp or you can honestly shut the fuck up. this is no different from claiming to be a woman.

Dick size isn't that important in a relationship, being a good person is.

How fucking delusional can you be?

>i have kicked women out for just that
Kek okay you can have your thing, but trust me when i say the same thing applies both ways.
If they aren't communicating i will ask them to. If they don't ill kick them the fuck out just like you do. I can have preferences too you know.
>my preferences are better

Yeah, I mistyped. Technically you're supposed to measure with a ruler and press down to the pubic bone because thats how far you can insert

This

You're the delusional one.

happy to hear that. I stand by this and i think the reason that break ups and divorces are so common is that people don't have that transparency in the relationship. They always rely on guessing and never care to make the effort to find out. Its so fucking stupid. when you date or marry you should be like best fucking friends sharing everything with each other and not just having each other. Really? like worrying about making it awkward?

in the second sentence

If your dick is 10 inches why are you so insecure? Were you molested?

Maybe try meeting people who aren't that shitty? There are plenty of them, but maybe your also a shitty person and you only attract assholes.

I was

If she's telling you what to do, you're doing it wrong. UNLESS she is a dom. If that's the case, that's to be expected. Otherwise, you should be constantly reading her body, and changing what is going on based on how it reacts. (PS: When she's not moving particularly in any direction, it's because what you are doing is working, keep doing it. If it wasn't working, she'd move, or make an excuse to leave after 5-25 minutes.

I just disagree. As far as sex goes, outside the bedroom, yes. Communication is key, inside the bedroom, communication is a mood killer.

So, I've been with just under 10 women this year - none have had to tell me what to do in the bedroom, none have complained. All have become extremely attached immediately after. "Just sex" is constantly turning into, "will you date me?" type screnarios. I'm telling you, if you think you need to use your voice to communicate, you are retarded. In the nicest possible way, you're a retard. How do you think blind/deaf people have sex? You think it's vocal and visual for them? The body tells you more than words ever will, and until you understand this fundamental fact - I pity your partners.

With all due respect.

It's not the be all end all but it matters. And men with bigger one's tend to be cooler people. More hormones = better personality most of the time.

It seems like a lot of people who are molested have big dicks.

>being over 18
>thinking this is how the world works

You really gotta get off this site, you need to meet some nice people, and you need to pick up hobbies and passions that make you worth talking to.

Ah i get ya, yeah i would guess the confidence boost from having a big dick might help as well just because of how much people focus on it

Pedophiles don't want no tiny dicked child to molest they want monster kid dong.

I'm sorry if I miscommunicated - but what I meant to say, in very clear terms.

Some people like to talk, some don't. Do not ask a partner to do so during sex, do it after. you will kill the mode if he/she is one that doesn't like to talk during sex.

So, yes, you are allowed preferences, but if you even remotely care about getting the other person off, you'll keep complaints and recommendations in a box until it's over.

She dont act weird with sex no and I very much doubt she was molested or anything like that plus I havnt picked up on her acting weird or avoiding family members etc. I think its just like she told me she just dont like both at the same time. I dont like it when a woman wanks my dick when its in there mouth dosnt mean there has to be anything more to it than she just dont like them both at the same time. beside I have my tounge in the hole alot so sticking a finger in dont really suit my style.

I think the use at an early age makes it bigger. Same as how some Arabs and Africans jelq their babies dicks to make them grow.

>but if you even remotely care about getting the other person off, you'll keep complaints and recommendations in a box until it's over
No I'll figure it the fuck out then and there. If they don't like it then they arent the partner for me.

How many long term relationships have you been in

Wut???

Well I'm not surprised by your answer, considering a majority of society would agree with you, hence the massive amounts of unsuccessful relationships in our time.

Good luck trying to find a life partner or decent people. If someone is too worried or bothered by communication in the bedroom then they are the same type of people to hide shit from you outside of the bedroom. Sure you can attract women by being good at sex and identifying body language but if you cant dig deeper and be comfortable beyond that then you're dealing with a whole lot of insecurity and fragility.

I covered that in a previous comment, that is called being a dom. They resent you, unless they are a sub.

From my limited experience.
If they like a guy
Looks,
How he acts,
Money,
How he fucks,
Girth,
Circumcision status,
Length.

That order.

Maybe? But i always thought that dick size was mostly genetic.

Only 2 so I don't really know, enlighten me if i'm wrong user.

I doubt it. I think it has to do with hormone levels. Which are tied to genetics but not exactly.

My personal order of this list
>how he acts
>looks
>money
>girth
>how he fucks
>circumcision status
>length

Fuck you.

Logical fallacies.

Not talking in the bedroom doesn't mean you don't talk elsewhere. I'm also not saying the partner can't talk, they can, what is unacceptable, is when one partner tells the other, what to do vocally, or physically, if they don't want to do it. If you have already decided you like that sort of thing (together) then by all means, but don't immediately say 'moan' - that's ridiculous.

I just mean communication really tbh. We been together 8yrs now and both know what each other likes cuz we have figured what each other wants thru communication. Thats what im trying to get at really.

Maybe being molested boosts your hormone levels during puberty for some reason?

Play with it and don't cum too much. It can grow.

Obviously.
I mean why else would horse fucking be so popular?

I'd love to gargle on his balls and have him forcefully shove his cock deep down my throat and cum inside my mouth against my will.

4.7 inches length
4.1 inches in girth
h-how fucked am i?

Ok, so then I agree. Comm in general is good, I think comm in bedroom is a bad time to be doing that. More so, when it's constant questions.

Including your saggy balls in a cock measurement? Ha! You're dick is small.

Watch that gag reflex don't wana vomit on his dick

If its only for sex, then after a time yes size do matter, it's like same, loose pussy vs tight one.
But if it's about love, nobody cares.
Simple, wise and truth.

size does not matter, to you. Not quite true actually, if you are too big to get in there it matters, fucks up the entire experience.

To her, fuck yeah it matters. If you give a fuck that is your problem.

I dont mean like that cuz like you said it would be a mood killer lol. But if say I do something and shes like "fuck that felt good" that aint a mood killer for us and there are other ways to tell to. We allready know what each other likes anyway but you do have to find out and make the effort in the first place

See, that's much different than what you originally wrote.

Originally, you stated that you ask her if she likes things, then go from there.

If she is the one stating it, you're fine.

have you seen his dick? if so, he's probably bullshitting you.

I second this. Sounds like major overcompensation.

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Yup! éIt does. I defenitly want my ass to be fucked by a cock that long.

Constant questions is definitely bad and im one of the advocates for communication in the bedroom itself. Asking questions in combination with dirty talk is best i think. Especially if you are into doing kinky stuff out of the norm. Think of porn lines.
>"mm fuck yeah you like that huh?"
>"mm fuck i can tell you want this dick. You want it in your ass? It'll stretch you out good."
And don't overdo it. Just use questions when you want to know something that isnt inherently obvious.
Some questions don't necessarily have to be answered, but gives them an opportunity to express what they want in that moment.
Btw my sex is great and my partners love it. I don't think communicating is annoying. But you also can't sound like an insecure little bitch when you ask the questions. That's when it gets annoying. (goes for both sexes). Insecurity is bad. Questions not.

Your dick is small as fuck. Cut that thing off.

Yeah I prolly shoulda explained myself better.

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See, I think people just misunderstood what I was saying, because that is fine.

What is not fine is...

"Why aren't you moaning"

"Is this ok?"

"Can I do this?" - despite what femanazis would have you believe this is such a buzzkill - IMO, once you are doing things, unless she says no - you are in the clear.

"Do you wanna..."

"Is that ok?"


Here is how you ask or say anything.

"if you keep being naughty, I'll have to spank you." - you are actually asking here, her body language and eyes will let you know, even if she says nothing.

I understood you. I think I didnt explain myself well in the beggining.
Obviously I dont mean to be a mood killer. even if you are just reading there body language and how they respond to things that is in a sense communication.
It depends how its done I suppose: Like I dont mind if whilst my gf is sucking my dick if she asks if I prefer this or this.