My wife won't fuck me

You marriage is on its way to death, soon you will get a divorce and never see your kids.

Some nigger probably destroyed her pussy and asshole already OP, obviously the reason why she isn't interested you micro penis fag

Cheat on her, she's obviously already cheating on you.

She probably won't fuck you because you're a raging, insensitive prick.

Instead of demanding she do her "duty", talk to her and ask her what's wrong. Or keep being a cunt - either way, it's no sweat off my sack.

You married a literal autist. She's always been this way. She's suffered through it so far, and she just can't bare to keep up with it anymore.

Either she's having severe self esteem issues or she has feelings for someone else. If it's the former, then you need to sit down with her and discuss it and tell her how it's affecting you. If it's the latter, then you need to drop her ass immediately and get full custody of your children.

>psychology major

Have you let yourself go at all?

I mean the only thing you can do at this point if you're not a fat heathen is just tell her how unhappy you are and how important sex is to you. If she doesn't wanna do it then either get it somewhere else discreetly or stay with her and be unhappy. If it were me I wouldn't wanna waste my last 10 years where I can still get my cock up on a woman who won't use it.

cause it's irrelevant

Not sure what back woods country you live in but in most the wife is not obligated to have sex with you. Marriage does not entitle you to sex, it just makes it easier and more convenient. Also no court will grant a divorce based on the fact she will not have sex with you. Man up and jack off.

rape is always the answer to lifes questions

nice trips and fucking agreed.

Either she is a lesbian, and only fucked him for the kids, or she is fucking someone else.

Go up to her right now OP, and say "I know."

then ask "How long?"

If her face gets wide eyed instead of confused, she is cheating.

So all of these comments are retarded, naturally. Explain to her how this is affecting you emotionally and work to understand why she has lost interest in sex.

Point is, something has to change. If it seems like the problem is too elusive to solve, I highly recommend a couples therapist

Fuck someone else, pussy. If she wont take care of you, find someone else. If she gets pissy, slap her for putting you in that spot

no sex is a compatibility issue and is ground for divorce, you cuck.

I was with my Ex Wife for 7 years. Sex was rare in the last 3 years. I would be lucky if I got it once every 3 or 4 months. But, I never even came close to thinking that she was cheating on me, it was never even a thought.

After we split. Through several months/years. I would bump into her ex co-workers/friends and random dudes telling me she cheated on me/ was fucking other dudes all the time.

...

Dude, talk to her about why she doesn't want to have sex with you. There is something seriously wrong with your communication if you can't just flat out talk to her about it.

I'd say approach it from the angle that there's an underlying emotional issue. Don't blame her for anything and don't act like you deserve sex. Just talk to her about what might be lowering her sex drive. Sometimes the solution can be as simple as exercising or eating healthier. She might just be depressed.

>She's not cheating I know for a fact it isn't that.
Five stages of greif

You're fucked, OP. Marriage hasn't been worth it since the 1800s. It's a scam and you fell for it.

Do this OP

Dude if i was in your position, id drown my feelings in some other girl's asshole

Not in the state of Ohio, I tried that one. Finally cut her off till she cheated then got a divorce since cheating is grounds for one.

Two points
1. Marriage doesn't entitle you to sex, you're right. But, if she's not having sex then what's the point? Sex is as important to marriage as anything else. If she's not fucking him, then how does she expect the marriage to work?

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>She's not cheating I know for a fact it isn't that.
I thought the same until I found out she was. Good times.

Don't worry though, my amicable divorce has probably run me over $50k.

go back in time and warn your younger self.

learn form this user, never get married

Oh, and
2. Ever heard of no fault divorce?

You're a fat fuck.

>shes just turned asexual since having children.
im thinking this has something to do with it

The most normal response here. lol. Pretty much this.

Let her catch you a few times jacking it to very vanilla porn. Don't say anything when she walks in, just keep going.
If the vanilla porn doesn't make her jealous, switch to progressively weirder and weirder porn until she finds you masturbating to something that is in no way pornographic, floor tiles, maps of ohio, etc.
She'll either get jealous enough to fuck you or push for a divorce. Either way you got to fap.

She's probably feeling depressed and a bit insecure since childbirth/getting older. Take her out somewhere nice and try to make her feel special... less like a sex toy that's on demand for you.

False, lack of filling the needs of your SO is ground for divorce, it gos both ways. If i were op id just cheat.

Cheat on her or find a nice quality prostitute

Does she have crazy bad body issues after having kids?

You are a fuckin idiot

How old are your kids?

Why would anyone take advice from a 12 year old?

cheat

...

Sounds like she's fucking someone else tbh

Discuss it with her. and see if you two can come to a compromise. Any decent partner would understand your problem, or at least try to.

If she keeps it up, cheat on the bitch.

i'm breaking my "i'm never posting to Cred Forums rule"... why? been there myself. my POV (and questions and suggestions)
• she's likely not cheating on you.
• she's not gay
• you're over 35 -- things change
• is she on antidepressants? they f* with the libido
• please see a couples therapist before it's too late.
• you need to be open to her needs and she to yours
• you need to schedule "couples time" and stick to that schedule -- yes, schedule cuddling and screwing.
• don't listen to the neckbeards
• discuss your needs and make deals... like, it's OK to jerk off. ... and hers (it OK to ___?)
• ... but don't be an asshole and don't be confrontational...

She fucking someone else probably because your little baby kike dick cant amount for anything. Kill yourself ASAP and your children too.

He's right, so he must be legal dougie howser.

Why would anyone take advice from millineal.

>I know for sure she is not cheating
Is denial the first stage?

Pic is OP's future.

Dude. It's called divorce. Or you could just turn your back on her and go see other women until she divorce your ass. It's not like it will be a big loss if she doesn't even want to fuck you.

A lot of women are asexual. It's extremely common. That's the reason why harems exist. they just get bored of it or whatever. Women, you shouldn't think of them as humans.

THATS BECAUSE YOU ARE A DISGUSTING HUMAN BEAN

GIT GUD

You can't even spell FEELING. Why the fuck would anybody listen to you?

2016
Still getting married

How can people this fucking retarded. Didn't you learn anything from the past 50 years or what ?

It isn't her duty to have sex with you sperg.

Stop being such a sperg and talk to her like a fucking adult.

if you cant talk to your woman about something so simple maybe you shouldnt be together at all.

just leave... walk out.... keep communication open, tell here you are just finding yourself and will be back. BUT DO NOT GO BACK. have fun. eventually she'll figure it out, but you will have avoided child support for at least some time (maybe longer if she is dim)

>not knowing about child support
>not knowing about alimony
>not knowing about false accusations, that women can make them without being charged if caught
>not being MGTOW

Hello cuck

truth

she's your wife, she needs to be taking care of your needs as much as you are supposed to take care of hers. that means providing sexual relief. if she isnt going to allow full on sex then she better still be giving BJ's and handjobs.

if she wont take care of you, talk to her about it, if she still wont yield, leave. experts agree that a healthy sex life is paramount to a happy marriage.

>millineal
well considering the other generations have a 5th grade education compared to mill-en-nials, you're probably better off listening to one of them than a cry-baby-boomer or the other placated faggot generations.

You sound so sure. What proof do you have? I highly doubt you're with her all day every day.

i had this happen to me before. we rarely had sex, eventually she was cheating on me though. with some old dude and his wife in some 3 way relationship, it was pretty gross. i fled that scene. that quickly turned into the classic "he loves me hes gonna leave his wife for me" bullshit

Sounds good in theory. Here's how it plays out (not op):

>"Why don't you want to have sex any more?"
"I don't know, I just don't feel like it."
>"Are you fucking another guy?"
"When would I have time to do that?"
>"So what, that's it?"
"Is sex all you think about?"
>"It wasn't until you just stopped."
"I'm tired, I don't have time for this"

This. Sex is a need for men. You provide for her and your kids, she needs to provide for you as well

When was the last time you made her feel good about herself?

op is gon
gg guize

this guy gets it

Here's how it really plays out:

Want to have sex?
>heh... ehh.... not reeee
OK, want to help pick out your sister wife?

FUCKIN' SOLVED

>it's no sweat off my sack
When was the last time you saw your sack? I mean, when it wasn't buried in your father's asshole.

No, I'm here reading all the responses

Dude i feel you OP. I kind of understand the first year after our daughter was born because it takes time for thier hormones to get right but after the year mark it just made me pissed. How long ago did she give birth?

he realized we were right about that cunt cheating

Is she using contraceptives? They tend to ruin libido

Also....dude...try to be more romantic. I'm pretty sure you are a jackass

>not knowing about child support
I have a daughter and i'm the only legal guardian.

>not knowing about alimony
Not knowing about condoms.

>not knowing about false accusations, that women can make them without being charged if caught
Innocent until proven guilty.

>not being MGTOW
"Men going their own way" is this really something now... are you really this scared of women asking for more social justice?

"sex is overrated"
-any woman past 40

It's not a need once you get passed you 40's, in fact once passed your 40's you loose all desire for sex. I have not had sex in 10 years, just a good jack off about twice a week is all I need. You young sprouts are just too horny all the time.

Pretty sure she wouldn't have a happy sex life if she was half forced into it.

I mean don't get me wrong, OP if a fucking moron for falling for the marriage bait. But having sex regularly with someone not into it is kinda meh.

I mean, sex is so much better with a girl wet as fuck than with a starfish just counting the seconds until you're done so she can sleep.

Getting married, that's where you fucked up. Chump.

OP seriously
I went through the same thing
She was alking to her FWB from a while ago, and when i found out i forgave her and stayed, and then got more and more resentful
dropper her out of nowhere and told her why. she showed up at my job and got me fired cause of it. dont stay. find out what it is, go through her phone if you have to. just gtfo

This.
My ex said she masturbated maybe 10 times in her life. She was 30 when she said this. It isn't that she doesn't like it, she just never even thinks about it. I'm sure if I had married her I'd be in OP's shoes right now.

>Innocent until proven guilty.
ahahahaha
ahahahahahaha
>user, ur pretty fuggin dumb
Here's how it goes.
She says "he did X"
You go "no, I didn't"
They believe her, because she has a vagina and cried.
You lose.
>scared of women
Who wants a wife who won't even have sex? user, you're a HOMO. You even wear a HOMO jacket and wear a HOMO HAIRCUT

I love these subtle troll threads. Every day or two someone will post a story of their girlfriend/wife and how they've changed someone. They always specify that it couldn't be cheating because "they're not like that" because it brings out every jaded twenty-something with a grudge against women. Suddenly 300 replies.

Op the only way we can help is by answering these key questions. >How long have you been married?
>How long has she been acting asexual?

this right hurr

What happened was the marriage counseling, and the female counselor came down hard on her, basically saying "you (she) have all the power by saying no, except for one thing- he can leave. Is that what you want?"

"I never realized..." because every no for her was in the moment. She hadn't realized she'd said no for a year. Daddy cheated three times in the meantime, until she came around.

All the young fags in this thread.

Op, she's not into it anymore, maybe some other cunt friends of hers got into her head or maybe she might be getting feelings for some other dude.

But you have to realize what you are looking at here.

Shes dodging the issue and being stand offish.

If she actually loved you then she would come to you and talk to you, you know, like how most people who love each other.

So, instead of being an honest person, she throwing a classic manipulation game on you.

She is treating you like this because she waiting for you to fucking erupt in anger,

And when you do, she will have all the leverage she needs to make you the bad guy, and then she can walk out guilt free.

And even if she feels guilty later, her cunty new age friends will re-assure HER that YOU were selfish dick and YOU were the problem.

So, you will have to stifle your anger and go about this in a way she would not expect you to if you dont want to come out as the loser in the situation.

i dont really like sex that much either tbh. if i had kids that fucking rekt my body i'd probably feel too insecure to do the deed.

or she's cheating on you. either way you should break up since you're incapable of communicating like an adult.

hire a private detective OP. get him to follow her around for a bit. probly gonna want to follow him around yourself tho, make sure hes not fuckin er

Well yeah, if you approach it like a god damned aspie, holy shit.

>"I noticed we haven't been having sex anymore, and I want to talk with you about it. Is something wrong?"
"I'm not sure. I just don't feel like it."
>"We used to have sex a lot more and I think it's important for our relationship."

Like, you start running around throwing out accusations and you're going to make her too uncomfortable to talk to you about anything. Then she's going to cheat because that guy's going to listen to her problems since he's trying to get some pussy. Just fucking talk to her like you want her to be happy, like she's your god damned wife. If you're honestly afraid that she's cheating on you, then you have some deeper issues than just sex and you need to talk about that and tell her you're worried she's cheating or is going to start. If she says she's not, drop it unless you have evidence, and go back to talking about your relationship.

fucking THIS

Nurse here. Everyone saying that she has to be cheating on him; well, you're not necessarily wrong, but... There's a good lot of women who completely lose their libido after having or raising children. I'm not saying she /can't/ be cheating, I'm just saying it's not necessarily true. I've had multiple people come to me and say that they/their wives have just lost any desire for sex whatsoever. It does happen.

As for you, OP; good luck. Confront her about it. If she doesn't see the importance to you, you can try counseling. Or just fuck other people.

get a divorce. If she wont do it, thus making you unhappy, then do it. You and your kids will be fine, in fact you would end up happier and possibly she would, therefor your kids grow up with happy parents, divorced or not

OP, you're a fag by nature.

Whether she's cheating on you or not, the emotional tool of being totally shut down by your other is comparable. This bitch doesn't care about you any more and won't pretend to until you've had enough

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Just rape her

Well...you forgot he's a fucking asshole that DEMANDS sex. I bet his foreplay is like

>are you wet yet?
no

>...
>how about know?

She's can be just sick and tired of this shit...

>Innocent until proven guilty.
Unfortunately not how the world actually works, you naive moron.

>"... and I think its important for our relationship."
Is that all you ever think about?

One post on Cred Forums doesn't capture every communication attempt, or the treatment like a human being (unnecessary for talking to this crowd). But, ok, aspie, sure. Whatever.

>tool

Toll...fuck me

>the people who are jaded are trolls
>my future will be awesome, because i'm a different species
>my girlfriend isn't just using me to get food and shelter

she simply is not in the mood anymore, nothing more.

i have a incredible low sexdrive and in every relationship so far the gilrs wanted more sex that i.
weird, right?
i somehow hope my fiance will lose her interest when we are married.

for you that sucks, surely. just go to a hooker or get a sidebitch.

Then its also irrelevant why she doesn't want to fuck you.

was waiting for it

As someone who had a lot of issues with physical contact you need to take a second to think outside yourself and think of how you can repair things.
Positive association with touch, possible some marriage counseling to see if there's any barriers that can be overcome like that, and physical affection without the expectation of sex.
Especially after having kids you need to be there to make her understand that kids haven't ruined her and made her unattractive, but you have to be able to show that in more ways than dicking her.

Cred Forums-virgin-here:

this guy could be right, too, so watch yourself. divorce can be stupid expensive, especially with 2 kids. tread lightly. don't walk into a trap. that said nothing is harmed by attempting a civil conversation if you still love her.

desires are completely different from person to person. it all has to do with hormonal levels

Its not marriage that fucked OP's relationship, it was having kids. I have a vasectomy and my marriage couldn't be better!

Same thing happened to me, OP. I just started cheating, feels great. Be smart about it and you won't get caught. And even if you do, it's her fault for not satisfying your needs.

>She is treating you like this because she waiting for you to fucking erupt in anger,
Word. Very good assess. It's called "roasting". Many small events of douchebaggery designed to get one large reaction. Out of contrast she's a "victim," but actually she's the dick.

trust me she is cheating on you

Sounds like she doesn't have anymore incentive to pretend interest after shitting a baby cuz she got you locked down lmao

...

All women do this post-childbirth

Get some couples counselling

Let her know it's important to you to have a skintoskin intimate connection with her as a part of a functional marriage. Don't expect or demand something once a day... Be reasonable. You gotta remember childbirth is tough on a woman and messes them up psychologically. You have to ease into it again

Take the peaceful route, man... Trust me on that... Going through it myself and my approach helps. Making demands will only make it harder on you. Just be clear that your needs are important to the relationship too.

Good luck, man

>If she actually loved you then she would come to you and talk to you, you know, like how most people who love each other.

If they have communication issues, it's probably hard for either of them to start a conversation. Not every marriage is just "love and understanding."
>She is treating you like this because she waiting for you to fucking erupt in anger,
lol neuroticism. you sound like a paranoid 40 year old who can't hold down a relationship.

anti-kek

isnt the law grand?

Lies.
Everyone knows how to non-verbally move in a sexual direction. She hasn't. So he's like... ??? wut?

If she moved non-verbally towards sex then he would never have asked. You are a liar, and may you be slain by wild boars.

>And when you do, she will have all the leverage she needs to make you the bad guy, and then she can walk out guilt free.
>And even if she feels guilty later, her cunty new age friends will re-assure HER that YOU were selfish dick and YOU were the problem.
Fuckin' A.

This

Getting married and having kids these days is essentially a prison sentence.

I wonder what happens to relationships after marriage that makes them so dull?

Stupid faggot, she's cheating on you, as you're a faggot.

Agreed.

yep

and so what if she asks that? Just get to the heart of the issue.
>"No, I think about why you don't want to. Are you happy with me? Is something else wrong?"
Lol, act like an adult.

Yep. The only solution is a trip camping from which she does not return

>And even if you do, it's her fault for not satisfying your needs.
Lol, and when a woman says this to you, you sperg rage and act like she has no right. Fuckin child.

This for damn sure
Don't ruin something salvageable over a Cred Forums comment. Relationships are work. Lasting ones require hard work.

1. You marry someone you feel you can love and understand at the time, moron.

2. im 27 who has watched lots of women including some of my own girlfriends pull this classic move.

Its surprising how many guys fall for it, because the women know they married/dated someone who doesn't read between the lines and lets his pride lead him around.

try again dumbass

Look up Patrice O' Neal and listen to the Black Philip podcast, he literally gets a caller who has the same problem. Also r/redpill.

>2016
>Falling for the marriage meme.

She got what she wanted out of you. Now that she has her murrican dream, she doesn't want sex because she doesn't NEED sex anymore. I'd recommend letting her know that ''If you don't want to give me good sex, guess you won't mind me getting it somewhere else''

I mean, how selfish does she have to be to fucking stop you from ever getting your dick wet?

tbh my feeling here is he needs to get her addicted to heroin. That way she'll lose custody, be unable to cooperate with lawyers, etc.

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>I have a daughter and i'm the only legal guardian.
Until you lose custody of her when your salty wife says you beat/raped her. Have fun paying child support in jail.

>Not knowing about condoms.
What the fuck do condoms have to do with alimony? Completely unrelated things.

>Innocent until proven guilty.
see & >"Men going their own way" is this really something now... are you really this scared of women asking for more social justice?
Women don't need anymore social "justice", they're already equal, you idiot. Don't be an ass kissing cuck.

I hate reddit but r/deadbedrooms pretty much gave me a redpill that r/trp never gave me. I recommend reading on it.

Yep. Pop out a baby and coast through life. That's what W-O-M-A-N means.

>.
Seriously... no one's going to address the fact that this is all because of kids. They are literally the ruin of all loving relationships

user. My wife and I had our first in January.
I've slept on the goddamn couch every night since last September and I've only gotten laid a handful of times since.
Turned into an awful, cuntish ice queen.

I feel for you.

The trick is not telling her you've had one lulz

Pretty much this.
The reason why I'm not having them no matter how loud that biological clock ticks.

OP
You sound very pissed off. Okay - shes not cheating. She also doesnt want to get felt up. Something made her make that decision for no sex, obviously shes standing by her decision if you posted here. My guess is shes not attracted. You just said fuck marriage. Is she fat lol? This obviously isnt love, theres half assed communication. Your fucking posting on Cred Forums what to do.

Your only option now is to tell her that you respect no sex and just ask nicely for her to open up why. "not realllly" Sounds like shes immature, theres a reason why but shes not telling you.

After the situation is settled and your cool, shes cool, life goes on. That bitch had your kids (lol). No stress and move on. Then you proceed to fuck every bitch you can on the downlow. Are you gonna sit there and jerk off when you have a wife with possible milf tits to get you off? Go fuck a bitch OP and see how it feels. Its gonna be a dope realization when you come home to your wife after fucking another chick. That sir, is alpha. And then realize whenever she pisses you off you can just go get more pussy. Fuck marriage (lol)
OP is a huge faggot and his wife doesnt want him to touch her anymore. /thread

Femanon detected. Please fuck off.

Truth be told, a lot of women just aren't cut out for marriage. They are lazy vaginas.

Oops, fuck my reading comprehension.
sorry user read it wrong

Best response obviously, another suggestion is to cum in the bed sheets so she can catch a whiff of your pheromones. Flawless plan.

Have you ever experienced how women can be in these situations? Talking to them will just allow them to gaslight you, and therapists won't do shit if she's not willing to change.
Right now OP is a meal ticket protected by a contract called marriage. You're fucked OP. This is why you don't get married.

42 = truth:

dude, no joke, this is exactly how my mom fucked over my dad and got a divorce.

Yes she is. Do you realize that everybody in this situation who thinks they aren't getting cheated on are getting cheated on, this is the case faggot.

It really fucking gets me when a girl pulls this move its always works for them.

Most men do not understand how to play the game back.

They WANT YOU TO BE ANGRY AND FRUSTRATE

95% of guys always fall for it, they go straight into anger and insecurity.

And then they go and ask for advice and dont even see the flawed logic of the situation.

They never even considered pretending that it doesnt bother them.

Pretend like it doenst bother them, pretend like you could take them or leave them.

Then their stupid childish girl brains will go:

" I WONDER WHY HE DOESNT CARE LIKE HE USED TO, AM I UGLY?! "

By doing you will instead remind her why she thought you were worthy in the first place.

Remember girls care more about getting swept of their feet more than the person who is actually doing the sweeping.

Once you lose value to her by becoming a needy feminine insecure partner, they move on to some other masculinity.

>they're already equal
They're not even equal anymore, they're legally superior.

It's called roasting. Women do it intuitively, being Africans in brains, and we all know how the primates gang up, won't fight like a man, man-to-man.

No, she isn't. She probably is using female porn, though, aka "romance" movies/novels/ tv shows.

Sorry to hear that.

But like a said, its a classic trick thats been around since we lived in caves.

Happened to me once, a girl I had never even met before told the police I threatened to rape her the day before.

Sat in a cell for 6 hours. And my prints&DNA are still in the system.

Luckily, I got BO2 and a day off school because of it

Yes she is. She probally is using Ooga Boogas dick pole, aka, "Black Cock" nigger penis/ gangrape/ ultraviolence.

This.
And a lot of women have hormonal issues after having kids and just feel too disgusting and drained to be loved.
A good husband sticks it out, helps her with the kids and housework and tries to make her feel beautiful again.
Just fucking jerk off, there comes a point where the grass just isn't greener out there and you just permanently fuck your whole family life to hell just to use some homewrecker whore as a flesh-light a few times.
You are going to eventually have issues too.

1. Hindsight is 20/20 and that doesn't fucking help OP in his current situation
2. lol, you're younger than me and it sounds like you just hang out with some really immature people who probably got married too early. Quit acting like you're long in the tooth until you actually get there.

Test your boundaries good sir.

Hate to follow these fags but she may be getting dicked on then side. Someone close to you guys. Maybe a neighbor or a coworker. Set er up to find ot forsure. If shes fucking aroumd then theres the green light unless ur a faithfull fagg. Anyways, if u do dwell in strange fornication. Make sure u always use a rubber and pay for it when possible. U start trying to talk to females and ur gonna get caught the fuck up.

What are you even talking about? I was commenting on how many times I've seen a variation on this same thread and that it always brings out the same responses. Nothing at all to do with me.

wtf is bo2?

Women cheat not with sex but romance. They like romance novels, tv shows, movies, so on. That's their pornography.

There's no such thing as rape in marriage, so undress her and fuck her at will. Are you a fucking cuck?

Excite her.

My ex did this once i saw through it. I was all like " it was the sixties, and technically all of humanity is related." Wasnt even born yet, was fun his face.

>Luckily, I got BO2 and a day off school because of it
Courts give out video games as reparations now?

Learn to read, and to think. Then you'll be able to read and to think.

/relationship
You can both be good parents after a divorce. Dont convince yourself you are stuck with her.

Also, dump nudes

>women don't cheat with Jamal instead they watch Twilight
seems legit
then go ask permission to fuck some sluts
mr cuck that isn't being cheated on.

>not knowing about alimony
>not knowing about child support
>just thinks about boobs
wow, you're a fuggin idiot

if you are op then you are the one that thought marriage was a good idea and can't stop thinking about boobs now

No dubs, but truth

You're presuming this didn't happen. You're presuming a lot, actually, based on a thread within a thread. I also like the insulting, too, as if you would have succeeded with a woman that took a year of counseling to reveal she was a rape victim. It's ok, though, I know the outcome to the story, and all the details- I'm not judgemental, here.

>So, you will have to stifle your anger
Or kill her. It says in the Talmud you can

So what happens in the relationships where the wife loses libido?

You have children, who cares if your wife won't fuck you... you have children!

I didn't say that, fucking loser. I said women common aren't so damn interested in sex. WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME SPECIES AS MEN ARE, MENTALLY.

Women prefer ROMANCE crap. Maybe not with YOU.

Example:
Jill: I like romance novels, but you're just not romantic.
Bo: Why not?
Jill: Because you're not handsome, dashing, suave, or challenging.
Bo: OK, well I like porn but I don't want to see you naked.
Jill: Why not? I have tits and an ass.
Bo: Because your ass is huge and your tits unimpressive, plus your face is ugly, you have acne scars, your hair is brown, and your legs are shaped like a gnarly tree.
Jill: Fine *goes back to reading*
Bo: Fine *goes back to jacking*

user is right.
It might be hunt following issues:
>She has body issues from having children. Wildly common in women
> Sex has gotten boring over the years of doing the same things
> She's incredibly stressed out by life
.... I can on. Just try to understand if you care enough.

No you are just a fucking cuck.
Bitches and kids cost money, married or not.
If you truly believe once you marry there is no option out, you are an autistic faggot who is gonna get cucked hard all your life.

Also, OP, dump nudes

I'm guessing its a form of reverse psychology.

Once you realize you have this person forever, you start to take them for granted.
The things you don't like about them start to become more apparent aswell?

Idk I'm just a clueless kid

You are but a child.

Your life will be in ruins before you know it.
le face

this is how it starts

It's either A: You are now disgusting, and she just doesn't enjoy being with you anymore. B. She feels disgusting after having kids, and sometimes when you don't feel desirable you don't want to be desired. or C. She is or will be fucking someone soon, and she just doesn't love you.

Women get off on controlling a guy.

Truth is, the way he can get her to open up the pussy is to have him shut off some of her nice shit, or refuse to update it. She wants a phone? Used'll do. She wants a car? No, the mechanic can fix it. She wants access to money? No, I earn it. I'll give you spending cash as is necessary. She wants to watch TV? Maybe you don't pay cable this month.

You don't EXPLAIN it to her. You just keep things shitty and getting shittier. She fails to respond, shittier it gets. Eventually she'll try sex. She'll try screaming, lying, and other stupid shit, but eventually she'll realize she's gotta make the man happy.

hahaha
>it's definitely the guy's fault
ur pretty fuggin stupid as shit. stab yourself with your - enormous - collection of boyfriends, I mean dildos, anonacunt

>automatically assuming she doesn't contribute.
>Forgetting that she can easily divorce his ass, take half his stuff for stupid shit like that.
>You aren't helping, you fucking NEET.

So much THIS

You have to show her who's boss OP

You gotta be romantic and shit and reignite that spark you faggots had before the child. If she's unresponsive even to you being romantic, then she's fucking someone else. If she responds, you just lost your edge temporarily.

Ignore the faggots jumping right to she's fucking someone else, they've probably never been inside a vagina.

OP here

You couldn't be more wrong, I don't and never have demanded a thing.

Our standard is that I eat her pussy until she cums, and then we fuck missionary until I do

God damn it's depressing to type it out like that but it's true

maybe shes tired of the same ol routine. spice shit up, take her somewhere nice like a really nice hotel room somewhere cool. or wait til the kids aren't around, bend her over the fucking kitchen counter idk. the same sex over and over again gets boring, switch/spice shit up a bit.

This.

Your second mistake was getting her pregnant.

Your third mistake was not tripping her down a staircase once she was.

its okay, i stopped wanting to fuck my wife to

There's your problem. There's no pizzazz in your shit. That's vanilla and lame af. Get the shit rolling. Be romantic and then get freaky when she rips your clothes off.

>she has kids, and doesn't feel desired.
Yeah, that's definitely the guy's fault. Are you fucking retarded, or can you just not read?
>She is cheating on him.
Also, definitely the guy's fault. Clearly that's what I was illustrating. Only one of the options was the guy's fault, if he is disgusting, then that's his fault. if it's the other two, it's hers for not talking about it, if she feels disgusting, or not bringing up the issues before she cheated.

Lmao. It isn't her duty to fuck you.
>try making her feel sexy and loved.
>If she ain't putting out for you, maybe make yourself worth fucking?
>make her feel sexy. Then she'll get slutty for you.

Fucking op is retarded. Lmao.

yeah see, you're boring as shit in the sack. problem solved. or you both are. like i said here spice shit up.

Shes his wife. It's her duty. I don't give a fuck.

Or she'll just fucking leave to another dude she actually wants to fuck. Lmao.

If she doesn't clean/cook/work then yes it's her duty to fuck him. It's called being a housewife.

Same thing happened to me OP I have two kids left the bitch and I havent been this happy in forever. Just bail dude its not worth the time and effort, whether theyre cheating or not whomgives a fuck because the second theyre gone you get your's-or at least I got mine. So fucking sweet getting out that shit its hard to find the right words.

Bruh.
Quit being a cucked little bitch.
Go out and get laid (I'm assuming its possible since you got her to have kids with you).
Do this frequently.
Give no fucks if she finds out.
Divorce? Cool. She wasn't attracted to you anyway.
More sex from her? Cool, pussy is pussy.

She wants to flip it on you? She was probably getting railed in her free time while you were busting your ass for a paycheck.

Worst comes to worst, burn the bridge, have fun with your money (after the divorce and alimony) and free-lancing pussy.

>she can divorce
Yes, an important point. Buy a dog. Stab it to death in front of her. Tell her "you divorce me, you are the dog". Dispose of the dog. Her word against yours.

Same thing here, I'm fucking a hot 20 something at my office.

Don't feel a fucking thing about it, I didn't make that deal and women will weaponize your kids against you.

Don't want to fight w her either so fuck it

sexy means something a bit different than just aesthetic beauty once you become committed to someone

nah, OP's bitch got the kids and OP's monies, she got no reason to put out anymore with OP.
now if OP was attractive, or was a Dom from the start, or just had a big dick he might have a chance at regular sexes

Postpartum depression, I went through she need help but doesn't know it, I left my wife and a month later she went seeking help, we are back together and she is a lot better, almost the same as be For we had a kid.

interesting

>I've never had sex so I think all women revolve around that.

Dude, marriage is just a bit more deep than that. But yeah, op needs to stop being a cuckold and take control.

>It isn't her duty to fuck you.

This is why i cant wait for islam to take over, say all you want fucking islamic men know how to treat women right.

True. She's getting her rocks off with romance novels. Romance shit is the pornography of women.

She's cheating on him with romance crap.

It's not his fault. He can do better, but he can't compete with superhero romance man from her romance crap.

99% of women can't compete with porn stars either. People have modest abilities.

see

This isn't a movie, you're opening up a can of worms on yourself given today's cucked society if you do that.
All she needs is a word to the right ear and you're behind bars for 48 hours, no questions asked. From there she's free to consult her jewish lawyers.

To all the little boys who think it is a woman's duty to fuck you, tell your lady that.
>when she leaves don't forget how to google a noose. Lmao.

You haven't been fucking the right bitches then m80. Pornstars fuck so artificially and fake.

Welcome to marriage, if you want sex, you need to be doing house chores and helping with the kids.

You dont need to tell her that hun all you need is your two hands

Go back to your cage shill.

Lol nah, my mum got for me cos she felt sorry for me

Better put that in your marriage license. Lmao. Ain't nobody gotta fuck anyone.

Back to your containment board.

>she can lie and say she did it and they'll believe her
:-) You're starting to catch on. Since lies are treated as truth it is best to make true everything she could lie about. That way you gain the benefit of it. The rest remains unchanged. Game theory.

Back to your cage shill. You're not needed here.

She can get a restraining order just on that. Not only that but a crying wife saying she feared for her life and kids life usually fucks a bro over.

Dude, fuck you

Chill out goat fucker. Lmao

99% sure OP is fat and unattractive

hit the gym you lazy shit

Women amarite?!! They all turn in you after having kids.

It's not rape if you're married

Cheat on her, divorce

Lol triggered the Jew.

OP here again

You aren't in trouble, it comes back. Just don't have three.

My subs of truth.

Lol you didn't trigger shit.

Wow lots of underage idiots ITT. Don't get married fools.

Rape her, deny it, she can't prove it.

Actually, most states it is. Have fun in prison getting fucked all you like.

Talk to your wife. Talk to a therapist. Ignoring your partners needs will never lead to a healthy relationship.

Kys lib-tard

Divorce then.

>le fake ancient Greek quote

She doesn't need to prove anything. The court will listen to her solely because she has a vagina and cried.

OP, usually when a woman does not want to have sex with you it is a sign that they are cheating.

But if you are sure she is not, then it must be that you lost her mentally. You need to seduce a woman's mind. Get in shape, do your own hobbies, and I'm not saying cheat, but having a side bitch might help. When your woman feels like she might lose you or that you are viable option for other women they will subconsciously respect you more and be more than willing to spread some legs. You don't have to cheat like I said, just as long as you maintain a healthy amount of female friends around. Maybe one that likes a comment you post of facebook. Shit like that can help.

TLDR:: I'd be getting some side bitches.

>Le fake
>Le
Kys just please kys.

while i agree it isnt "her duty" to fuck him, romance is a two way street. why is that the man always has to romance? It's always "i dont want sex because you dont do this or that" YOU YOU YOU ..never the girl, YOU are not doing enough.

Maybe, if the women showed interest and put at least, some effort into sex then maybe, just maybe a man would get inspired to be romantic.

it's never a one sided story.

>She's not cheating
Oh yes she is and she's being very well serviced by Tyrone.
Face it; you're cuck doodle doo cucked.

> your lady might have post pardum or just not feel sexy after havin kids shoot outta her.
>talk to her if you give a shit about her op. If it don't work divorce her. If it does you'll be back to having sex like back beofre kids.
>personal experience op. Do it. Talk to her.
>man up so you can get your dick wet again.

1.You're a fucking idiot for getting married.
2.You're a FUCKING IDIOT for having kids.
3.She's fucking someone else, there's no if and or doubt about it you fucking tool.
4.Walk up to her and simply say "I know, how long has this been going on?" Once she gets wide eyed and defensive there's your answer.

Sex doesn't just disappear for no reason, there could be a multitude of reasons, kids don't leave you much time for that's for sure, marriage is stressful and is easily the number one sex life killer among every person I've known who's gotten married.

She's fucking someone else man, get over it and start prepping yourself to move on with life. She'll use your kids as a weapon against you, so brace for it. She's going to empty you financially,emotionally and physically. Just steel yourself for the coming storm dude. It's gonna suck.

P.S.
Good luck you fucking moron.

You're expecting women to not be self conceited cunts that don't give a shit about anything that doesn't benefit her.

Get laid and then you can discuss this.

>Dubs don't lie.

OP, listen to me clearly. Women only fuck one guy over and over again. They are not like men that can fuck multiple people at once and be cool with it. (I mean some women can but they are whores). The average woman is always horny for one man. If it is not YOU, then it is someone else. Hire a private eye, and build a case for divorce if it is in fact she is cheating on you.

/thread

not true... this ain't the old days

So your state is actively encouraging cuckolds. Some of us live in NORMAL jurisdictions where no-sex is ground for divorce.

She won't have it any other way though, straight up dead fish

see

OP clearly hasn't listened to the Black Philip Show
OP needs to get WOKE

Wow. So if your any kind of smart op, you know what comments to listen to and what not to listen to.
> from the looks of it, she may have PPD.
>talk to her op. Don't be a faggot.
>be the man she fell in love with and talk to her
>be her rock when she tells you what is up.
> you will be on your way back to normal with her then op.

If you don't wanna put that effort forth then just divorce her.

this.

This op ^

You have it backwards. In the old days, that's when you'd actually be able to get a way with rape really easily. DNA hadn't been discovered yet.

Fucking Christ OP. She is not o lugares ti fuck your fat and hairy ass. You eBay sex!? Them get in shape and seduce her. Be nice and romantic. We are not cave men anymore you faggot.

OP, listen to this user. Just go on youtube and type Patrice Oneal relationships. He will wake your mind up and you can learn how to be a man.

hey i know it. i see it first hand every day. just having a whinge.

my wife has moments of not being self centered but then goes right back to doing it. she seems to notice all the things i do "wrong" but can never see that she is doing it as well, even more so. that's coupled with massive over inflation of anything she does and massive under value of anything i do.. i still have hope though.

*away

bullshit. no state in the US has required grounds for divorce since the 1980s.

I feel like I got lucky, my old lady isn't self centered most of the time, she's pretty chill. Have a feeling it's cause she grew up being a tomboy and having nothing but guy friends

Inb4 >she's a slut that fucked all of them
Nah, they were all her older brother friends and she's a loner.

Should of done what I did.
Get married so she can't leave. Then get vasectomy so no kids. Has worked for me so far.

Lol

>divorce cost $50k
poorfag. my wife lost 6 times that amount and I'm not even divorced.

You don't know Ohio then.

It's called the armpit of America for a reason.

Cuck...cuck...cuck..cuck..cuck.cuck.cuck cuck cuck cuck cuckcuckcuckcuckcuckcuckcuck . Cuck detected

lol you can't inb4 on that. You know tomboy chicks have experienced a train or 2. Just keep your eye out for all those "guy friends". If something ever happens between you 2 they are there like vultures lol.

exactly and when the private eye doesn't work all he needs to do is rent a hot air balloon and fly around town spying on her with mini binoculars from the bottom of the balloon so that she won't see... He'll also need an assistant to make a visual map of all the places she goes and all the things she does.. So clearly some pencils, graphing paper and a compass are all going on the supply list.. But then once he finds out she goes to the grocery store, the school to pick up the kids and other place he can dive from the hot air balloon in a dazzling display of fireworks and trumpets to caught her in the act of maybe-cheating.

Fucking brilliant.

>that's why harems exist

>autism

This is literally howy last relationship played out. Because I didn't have this A+ advice.

This.

At least a year post birth? Build up her self esteem and confidence, she doesn't see herself as a sexy woman, only a diaper changing milk machine. Babysitter, date night. Work your way up to sexytimes.

lol, stupid OP. Some spic or nigger is probably destroying her vagina in ways you could never of imagined. And when you want some she just looks at you with disgust. Just move on idiot, get some side bitches, a good lawyer, and prepare yourself for the worst.

She can do the same by LYING about it, retarded, but nice, femanon.

Considering I popped her cherry I can confirm she didn't take a train or two.

And yeah, we got in a fight in high school and didn't talk for like a week, one of her pervy friends tried making a move and didn't let up even when we got over ourselves. Got to the point he took a swing at me and failed. Pretty miserably.

I know what your talking about and ran train on a girl like that with a few friends, bit she's not that kind of girl. She just doesn't like makeup and enjoys the drama free shit that tags along with most dudes.

Probably would help to mention her brother and friends were 18+ and she was 15 when we started dating. AoC is 18 in Florida and her parents are the kind to press statutory rape charges. :^)

100% sure ur a bitch who's on the rag, sopping wet.

yeah, Ive found this to be true. the more tom boyish a girl is then the better parter she makes.

too much tom boy though and she is a lesbian

She probably is into BBC

poorfag
I'm typing on a gold keyboard with my massive erect gold phallus

>Sarcasm....

I found who she's fucking, time to get over her there is no saving your relationship.

I mean if you got the parts to be a lezbo what's the problem?
>Insert lenny face cause Cred Forums thinks it's spam.

1) Talk to her bro
2) This is definitely related to the child. She doesn't feel sexy anymore. Date her again, stop thinking of her as the mother of your child and start thinking of her as your woman.

>psych major
Kek

You're being cucked, faggot. Kill yourself.

dude that sounds boring. she's fucking over that. do something different.

on an actual serious note, ask her why she doesn't want to have sex. COMMUNICATE LIKE A REASONABLE FUCKING ADULT YOU DUMBASS

Lost

I know this isn't what you wanna hear, champ. They get divorced, but look on the bright side, now you get to have TWO Christmases

Can't press charges if you used an alias and always wore a mask 8^]

Do you want sister wives because this is how we get sister wives.

You're trying to hard m8.

I popped her cherry, can't fake that shit friendo. I know you think every chick is a slut. But that's not the case.

Did you pop her
>chocolate cherry
???

Here's what ya do
>Fuck off mudslime
Not to sound like an sjw but she's given you kids thats her entire duty as a human and there are very few countries that belive that women have "wifely duties" so don't expect an sympathy from a judge
>Tl;Dr Kill yourself faggot

Get out kike

Because most fucking people aren't completely rational and don't even understand why they feel like that. That's how I know you're a reddit fag. You think communicating solves everything. It does...when the other person isn't a fucking dumbass and knows perfectly what they feel and WANT to communicate in the first place.
His wife sounds like a frigid bitch that is done with the marriage. He should just cheat on her until she puts out again. Make sure she doesn't find out and you'll still have your "happy" marriage

um. No, he does:

&

Is that an actual thing? Lmao

I get what your saying and yeah. She's not religious, she's not gonna get buttfucked and still think she's a good lil Christian girl.

She had a lesbo phase at like thirteen, but no penetration since like I said cherry and all. And I'd say I don't have to worry about some dyke claiming her, she said she enjoyed the phase but much prefers the dick game I've got going to leave it.