Long story short the girl I like has had numerous boyfriends in the last couple of years that I've known her and they have all been total assholes, making her cry and forcing me to be her shoulder to cry on. Fuck I even bought her a pregnancy test once but luckily it came up clean. I'm often do things like hold doors for her and buy her a starbucks or subway but I'm beginning to think this method of attack is not working
The closest I've ever been with this girl is once when we almost had to sleep in the same bed together (I got out and slept on the floor before we fell asleep because I didn't want her thinking I was taking advantage of a bad situation)
I'm tiring of being the "nice reliable" guy and I feel I need to change my ways before she'll consider me as a mate. Any tips from ex-nice guys here tonight wanna help me out?
Ethan Morales
She is using you for your money, free emotional support with out reciprocating. You arent in the relm of someone she considers fucking, you are a pay pig. No amount of asshole will change this. Tell her, no grey area. Do you wanna fuck or nah? If nah,dont talk to her anymore.NOTHING no texts snaps calls, ignore if she shows up at your door. Either she misses it and wants to go more, or she was just using you, either way you're in a better spot aftwards
Kayden Robinson
>Fuck I even bought her a pregnancy test once
this is the life Betas live
I can't even imagine
I'm no alpha chad thundercock, but my life has never been that low
Andrew Thomas
This.
Or better : just NOPE and do a 180°. No fuck is worth her trouble.
Noah Foster
You are an asshole, you're just a deceptive asshole. >>Tell her, no grey area. Do you wanna fuck or nah? >>If nah,dont talk to her anymore.NOTHING no texts snaps calls, ignore if she shows up at your door. >>Either she misses it and wants to go more, or she was just using you, either way you're in a better spot aftwards
This is something at least, and more honest than the limp faggotry he's doing now.
Noah Evans
Which is exactly why I intend to change things
She is worth everything and more believe me
Landon Gray
if you just want to fuck her then >I want to fuck you cut off any contact if she says no
Nathan Clark
You are the literal image of a beta, grow some balls and just move in on the kill or just leave because you're spending money on a girl you don't even get to fuck!
Brandon Butler
I'm not that crude
Isaac Brooks
Stop focusing on her and focus on yourself.
There's plenty of hot girls in the world, your emotional attachment to her is just you being a coward afraid of losing some consistency in your life.
Say what you want to say to her and if you don't get the answer you want, then stop talking to her, period.
Go out and live a little instead of wasting time on this shit. I did it for 4 years with a bitch, then I said fuck it.
Don't let it take too long for you to realize you're not worth to her what she's worth to you.
Nathaniel Powell
>She is worth everything and more believe me nothing we can do then, you already made up your mind to be a fucking beta nothing that she already did or is going to do in the future will make it "worth" she already owes you so much
>wants to be more like an asshole >doesn't want to follow asshole advice
Brody Perry
Ask her if you can eat her ass out you pussy ass nigger
Logan Richardson
that girl is a las vegas escort btw
i dont have any of her webs tho
Carter Russell
Give it up. You already fucked up. There is no way she will take you seriously. Quit while you're ahead. Work on yourself and confidence. Be nice but be assertive. Don't buy a bitch shit unless you're dating. She ain't gonna want to date you if she gets all the benefits for free. You don't have to be a dick but seriously, got her a pregnancy test. Grow some balls.
Kevin Gomez
Be that crude.
You wanna act like an asshole and stop getting fucked over then start doing it.
Isaac Lewis
Same problem. Tonight I went out with a dutch woman. I paid for everything and now I'm home alone. Guess nice guys don't get pussy...
This is her fb profile profile.php?id=100012622448586
No pics unfortunatly :-(
Samuel Perry
Dude, wow. Just wow. Tell her how you feel and walk away. Don't do this shit to yourself. "I think you're amazing and beautiful and I'm not interested in just being friends with you, never have been, and never will be. You wanna have dinner on X-day at X-time?" Anything other than a favorable answer is call me if you change your mind (and don't look back). Women are vicious about this stuff. Assert your dominance and stop being a pussy.
Zachary Stewart
>expecting sex after 1 date
Brody Thomas
It's not about being an asshole, it's about being alpha
Adrian Rivera
too late, nly thing is to tell her to fuck herself. she might come back in a couple or more years, and you won't have her obnoxius presence around. If she comes back it's the time to give her the D, but at that point you would probably have realized that imbecils like her are toxic and don't want anything to do with her. PS you sound like a total fag
Carter Sanchez
>>Work on yourself and confidence
This dude has a point. You need to break away and work on yourself for a year or so before you go reaching for shit like this. You're clearly in a deep hole and get some strange fulfillment out of wallowing in the mud at the bottom.
Get away from her and concentrate on improving your life without her in it at all. She may still talk to you a bunch after you pull away which is okay, just make sure that anything you say and do is about improving your life and not all about her.
Once you do get your shit sorted out, if you still really pine for her you can go back and she will remember you as you were but be blindsided by how much better you are as a person.
Isaiah Gray
No faggot you are just infected with Oneitis and too self deluded to realize it. You need to get as far away from the cnt as you can. >once you get some time and space you will realize exactly how beta you are acting
Jordan Rogers
Maybe that is what I hoped for. She was all over me until I paid for the dinner and all the drinks. Before I knew it she bailed. Is it so wrong to have such expectations when you almost get a lap dance and then is discarded like shit, because all she wanted was someone to pay for her shit.
Ayden Anderson
OP is rip. Move on and don't be such a faggot next time. That slut thinks you're gay
Andrew King
thread went into dead beta mode that chick prlly went and got fuck in all holes by a big black cock so she could wash ur gayness off her with his gigantic load