Relationships & marriage

Why is it that people are generally so concerned about how society and their close friends and family will feel if they were to get into a relationship with an "average" looking partner? Is the whole point of dating/marriage/etc these days is to show off to others on facebook? Has it always been like this? Why do people have such high goals and standards? Why do my friends always ask my opinion on someone that they are or they may be seeing? Why is everything so dependent on social acceptance?

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because people are idiots who don't know how to be critical so they outsource it to other people.

Why?

Well it is a big problem. I dated an Asian girl once and you would not believe how many people naturally consider you a loser because of it.

The assumption is you can't get a girl of your own race so you have to go out and get an Asian. First time I've ever really felt uncomfortable going out in public with a girlfriend.

Needless to say, I will not be dating an Asian again.

Simply becuse of the social influences?

Yes friend, I don't think you realize what an inconvenience it is in everyday life. It makes everything much more difficult.

Why don't you walk around naked and see if all those social influences that you get from people's actions towards you because of it don't make it worth just putting on a pair of pants.

Why do you care why people are superficial?

start with asking yourself that

Walking around naked is illegal, ie, has more than "social influences" has ramifications. Kind of like how eating shit would make you unpopular and probably sick.

That's the dumbest comparison I've ever heard.

Also, you're a big fat pussycunt.

Because most people are still just herd animals making decisions using facial ques. Its why media has such a profound effect on how a person thinks.

people just want to get what they deserve, like the maximum they should get. some people are just spineless.

You just have faggit freinds.

What? None of my friends does this and neither did I?
Maybe it's a cultural thing. I don't think it's very common in Denmark at least.

I need to get waist deep in dat ass...

you sound so much beta that i dont even believe that you had an asian girlfriend

Why do you care that he cares about people being superficial? Perhaps that is the question to be asked?

I don't, that was a hypothetical question aimed at making him think.

Go buy some cottage cheese, it's the same shit.

Because they're so difficult to get, right? Give me a break. I'm just a normie who doesn't like it when strangers give me the stink eye everywhere I go. Maybe you would care less, but I don't like it.

Walking around naked is in general frowned upon AND illegal. Walking around naked signals something entirely different. You would have no proper excuse to walk around naked and if you had you would have to break the common idea from your paradigm. Dating an asian is not frowned upon as an shared intrisinc value of society, it only is among your friends. The examples you used are far from the same. This is more a case of you letting your friends determining your identity which in modern day is a feminine attribute. You are what Nietzsche would call an Üntermensch.

I sure made me think.

This isn't just a case of my friends doing something, my friends are always supportive of any girl I choose.

This video is an example of the kind of things that happen to you when you date an Asian. And even though this woman is an extreme example, people do naturally tend to think this way when they see you with an Asian even if they are polite about it and keep their mouths shut.

youtube.com/watch?v=2Sl170yh6_M

>Strayan bants
>in any way representative of normal human behavior
Fuck off, loonie leftie, racism isn't everywhere.

I only date Hispanic women and the only stares I get is from other Hispanic women. I just think in general they treat men better than spoiled white women with the princess complex.

Of course it isn't everywhere, but I've had things like this happen to me before and this video is a good example of something shocking most people don't realize happens when you date outside your race.

And most people don't even consider themselves racist when they say something like 'why are you with an Asian girl, you could do so much better'. There is a basic bias that society has which makes you look like a loser.

Sorry to ruin your fantasy of a perfect Asian QT bringing you the perfect life. But this is how you're going to get treated by people in varying degrees. With the woman on the train obviously being the strongest reaction.

lol you sound like such a pussy. Boohooo

It's not exclusive to asian girls mate.
Interracial dating is seen, overall, in both sexes as a red flag. And justifiably so. It's not really a fallacy to say most people who resort to dating people who are pretty much foreign in every way, politically, culturally, socially, physically.

Intraracial is appreciated because it basically says "I'm loyal and secure"

>And most people don't even consider themselves racist when they say something like 'why are you with an Asian girl, you could do so much better'.
Are you trying to imply most people say shit like that? Or even a significant minority? Bona fide racists and trolls here do not count.

>Intraracial is appreciated because it basically says "I'm loyal and secure
>white women
>loyal and secure
Sure!

I'm definitely not saying that most people will speak out openly against your relationship, but it affects the way you are treated in daily life.

I noticed a huge difference in the attitude of people I talked to in public when I had my now Asian-ex girlfriend with me at the time. And it was not usually positive.

I really don't know how anyone like you could believe something like this unless you try it yourself. Date outside your race and see what it is like.

It signals it, it's a flag.
If a white woman is sleeping with other races, or sleeping around it basically says "I don't have self control, self-esteem or value myself" and that's not what you want to date.

I'm dating an asian girl and the only real dirty looks I get are from white women, usually the worst type of white women. I'm tall, good looking, muscular and confident so it's not like I'd struggle to get anything else. The girl I'm with is great though. Wants to be a mother and housewife, always eager to help me and do things for me (sports massage, cook me dinner etc.).

Only thing that makes me hesitate is the prospect of mixed children. I don't think it's an issue because she's culturally english in the sense that she has lived in the UK her whole life and basically socialises mostly with whites.

Leaving her because of that would be cheap I think. Especially when I consider the effort it would take for me find and mold another woman to be as good as her.

Yeah but why?

>I really don't know how anyone like you could believe something like this unless you try it yourself.
By observing other interracial couples and the response they get, you troglodyte.

Usually it's pretty much the same. People frown ultimately all around about interracial relationships.

I'm married to a Colombian woman, who was adopted by a Norwegian family when she was 4 years old. Haven't had any problems with other Norwegians because of this.

Sandniggers on the other hand constantly confuses her with one of her own, due to there not being a lot of latinas around. Some walking tent said something arabic to her once (something something hijab), and my wife went mental.
Gotta love that latin temper (and that Sofia Vergara looking tits and ass).

No, they don't.

Wouldn't be surprising because latinos are a mix of euromed and native american population, and most of them turn out pretty white. Nobody will bat a eye if you date a latina. They're pretty goddamned common for whtie people.

(Unless you're talking about poo brown, then that's different)

Yes they do. Most peeople scowl around asian/white and white/black relationships. You'll have to prove otherwise.

Why is it that people are generally so concerned about how society and their close friends and family will feel if they were to get into a relationship with an "average" looking partner?

They're not. You're just a lowbrow from a lowbrow family with lowbrow friends.

Mixed race white + asians are true master race, go for it!

Asians: High IQ
Whites: Good Physical traits w/ fairly high IQ

Really made me think

Disagree, I think interracial children can have a fucked up sense of identity and not know who they really are

this combination isn't something we should strive to create. Though, I don't view mixing with Asians as destructive as mixing with niggers. Mixing is never really a good thing because it separates someones identity. Which nation do they call their own? Which nation claims them?

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>Why is everything so dependent on social acceptance?
Because that's the entire point of being part of a society. If you don't give a shit about other people in your society, date a ugly girl and move on with your life.

>this guy can't get a normal woman so he gets a gook
idk man that woman is pretty based tbH

I understand that the majority of you faggots have yellow fever but race-mixing is degenerate as fuck and asians are on a very low tier of objective beauty

This line of thinking (in pic) is poison.

It's the equivalent of saying "I'm not going to change or improve or try in any way to tone down my bitchiness. I'm not interested in men who don't want a bitch for a gf"

And then they wonder where all the good men have gone.

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I hate people that shove hand gestures in your face to tell you what they want.
>triggered

Jews want people to stop racemixing? Maybe they're not so bad after all

Why does being assertive have to translate to bring bitchy? Are assertive men considered bitchy?

The nation they were born in obviously.

Races arent fixed, they change over time. (Remember humans were once blacks in africa?)

My argument is that we should select for optimal traits and cultural norms.

Yeah this was my concern. Not sure if it's selfish to do so because I can keep telling myself "oh yeah they'll probably marry white english and my grandchildren will be 3/4 white (basically white by appearence)".

When I have children I'll probably love them too much to care but it does bother me atm.

You don't need to guess, there are scientific journals written about it. Science says mixed children have a lot more problems because of it.

ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1448064/

Guess what?

They were right.

>Roastie detected

Men and women are not the same.

Most assertiveness from women nowadays is copying men's assertiveness. This comes across as bitchiness.

too tik, muh dik

Thanks for this, ill look into it.

Have you by any chance similar studies in other countries? I would be interested to see if it holds up.

As someone not living the US, i notice that US citizens care considerably more about racial identity than europeans.

Having a relationship is all about increasing that social status, that's basically it I think.

>intraracial
sorry burger, I'm just retarded

I didn't even read the first part for context... Please don't invade my country, we'll have tons of lumber and fresh water for when you finally need it

I know PEW did a bit of research on it which basically concluded the same thing, but I didn't save any statistics to share, sorry.

I would add though that in your research be careful of accepting opinion pieces as fact. They'll often state how good race-mixing is according to a scientific journal, and the journal they link you to says the opposite. No integrity in journalism anymore.

I'd be interested if you found some intra-Euro studies. My plan is to fuck off to EE and look for a waifu there

If your grandchildren are 3/4 white, don't you think she will feel bad that her grandchildren basically look nothing like her after two generations but like white people?

I have known many halfbreeds of varying, "flavors." They're all retarded, have some degree of mental/physical/identity issues and were pretty ugly too. Rootless individuals.

Your partner is a reflection of yourself.

Anyone can find an ugly wife/husband. Not everyone can find a good one.

It's like anything: your job, your house (if you're not still living with parents), your career, your friends.

They all say something about you.

By all means, don't go out and get things/people to impress others. But if the best you could do was a 300lb "woman" with 3 kids all from different families, you're pretty pathetic.

Not really, Asians treat white skin as a sign of high class or royalty.

Hispanic women love masculine men. If you are white plus masculine, it's a 100% guarantee pussy.

been on the internet for too long..

OPs pic personifies first world problems.


...this aint what i signed up for. torn.

switch it off, go back to phamily..

stop thinking with the thieving nob.