I've had sex 9 times over the course of 3 months, but I could never reach an orgasm.
Yet when I masterbate to porn, I can't help not having an orgasm within the first two minutes. I went on the NoFap meme for 3 months to it not working in the end.
Is there a way for me or am I doomed forever?
Bump.
Are you a man?
Yus
That's beacuse you have been jacking off for too long.
Not kidding, your dick gets used to the feel and pressure of your hand, and since a vagina does a very different kind of stimulation, it becomes harder for you to come.
reducating your wee wee can take months and a lot of patience, but you are not doomed.
First thing you can do is to stop watching porn.
It happened to mee too anyway. I could last for hours, and I always needed her mouth or even better, her hands to come. Then, one time i came in like five minutes, and that was it.
Just try to be very relaxed and very, very excited.
Play, talk and joke with your partner, it will help.
The more intimacy there is within the two of you, the easier will be for you.
Good luck user, it's a wonderful feeling coming inside a vagina.
And don't forget the condom pls
Try having sex with a man.
The faggotry of Cred Forums has ruined you.
You've been exposed to too many traps, dick rates, and cock tributes.
If bitches aren't good enough anymore..it's the only logical next step.
>op literally is a faggot
What do you masterbate to? Do you have weird kinks or just really unrealistic expectations
Thanks fam
Are you saying I should stop masturbating as well?
I don't have a girlfriend atm, bad breakup.
Once I'm in a relationship though should I start then or do the NoFap thing again?
What do you recommend?
It's just the stimulus of porn fires off neurons more in my brain than actual sex.
Masturbate in moderation. Not 6 times a day like half the neckbeards on this site.
Few times a week is perfectly normal and safe.
Whats wrong with r9k answers?
I do...
>masterbate
why would anyone ask r9k for advice on anything other than self loathing and bitter misogony?
I don't understand how you link orgasming with something you can't orgasm to.
seems like you have the gays then. i assume you only watch male on female porn?
He made the same thread in r9k thats ehat i meant
Don't know about that, in my opinion you should masturbate less and preferably not to porn. For example, right now i have a gf, she sends me hot pics (inb4: pics or didn't happen) and i masturbate to those photos.
I know you don't have a gf now, just masturbate less, once you'll have one things will be easier, and you'll probably feel much less the urge to wank.
You should have sex, a lot of, beacuase that's what helps your dick to recognize a vagina again.
Question time, what's your age? And, have you ever had sex (penetration, non just petting or foreplay) before? If you did, did you already have this problem or not?
I've had this problem before. But here's the thing.
I've tried and tried using my imagination or pictures for material, but I find myself wanting more than that which just leads into more porn consumption. Maybe I should just do NoFap again.
Then you have a problem with porn.
What I said in my first comment was what happens to a lot of first timers.
If you are not a first timers, and if you have had this roblem before, based on what you are saying about your relationship with porn, I say you problem is different.
You probably have different expectations of what happens during actual sex, based on what you see in porn videos, and that makes you want more than you can have.
In my opinion, you should stop watching porn, when you'll have a girlfriend again take it very slow and enjoy everything that real sex can give you, every sensation that you feel and learn to enjoy that, rather than perfect models fucking like rabbits.
I'd also suggest seeing a doctor, a se specialist ora a psychologist, that could help too, but that's up too you