Seriously, why am I so fucking bad at having sex? i'm not bad looking or anything, can get girls to come over easily. But every time it happens I get nervous as fuck, can't get hard, can't relax etc. I've had 9 girls over in the past month off tinder and didn't have sex with any of them.
Normally we watch a movie, make out ill take her clothes off, get so nervous that i have trouble getting hard, then even if i do get hard ill have a hard ass time putting it in since the lights are normally off. Normally just ends with us making out for 30 min then cuddling the right of the night
Even tried loading up on viagra/cialis one time and ended up almost having a heart attack from it
Anthony Gomez
just keep trying champ. maybe you're gay tho.
Gavin Gomez
Step 1. Be less of a fag
Mission accomplished
Gabriel Gomez
Stop trying to fuck girls you don't know. Your dick knows how dangerous that can be, even if you apparently do not.
Robert Hernandez
Keep eating your shit sandwiches son, your ass logic makes up for it
Brody Young
I have a similar less pathetic problem.
I stay hard and fuck like an animal for hours, but i cant cum unless i jack myself off. Getting head feels better and i love having sex but j just cannot cum from it...feels disappointing
Christopher Kelly
Ehh maybe its because they don't turn you on?
Maybe you jerk it too much and you should stop jerking. I jerk everyday and I could still fuck but if I just stuck to fucking and no jerking, I would be diamonds boss.
One thing you can try is don't jerk it for a week. You will be a fiend when you get in that pussy.
Also don't wear condoms. It fucks my vibe up so much, I know I got herpes and the clap from it but the pussy feels like heaven without one.
Nathan Watson
Some dudes just gotta get to know the girl first. See 1 girl for longer and progress with time.
Camden Turner
yea this guy gets it
Isaac Parker
try butt stuff and ball tugging. that does it 4 me
Jason Gomez
I had the same problem dude, you just gotta find the one girl thats patient enough to fuck you until you cum
Tyler Reyes
They defiantly turn me on. Like id even jack off to them multiple times before meeting them. i dont bother with girls under 7/10. Msybe i need to actually stop watching porn for once
Jonathan Mitchell
He got a point, i can get hard, but cant cum first time with a new girl, got its perks since i last forever and usually make them orgasm, so they dont take long before they come running for more dick. 2nd time is no problem.
Gf was The first this gule didnt apply, but i gjess i SAS comfy enough around her The first time
Jacob Richardson
Whats the easiest position for someone new?
Tried doggy, couldnt find the vag Tried going on top and i just awkwardly crushed her and couldnt find the vag
Fuck me
Christian Phillips
beat them up finger their asshole make them lick your asshole slap their ass a lot grab their hair choke them slap them in the face
honestly females just like to be treated like whores in bed
its very basic.
Jacob Morales
Any tips for 4 inch dicks that are very thin? inb4 kys
Adrian Parker
How does someone shrink a penis?
How can I cum just from kissing a girl?
Jose Garcia
Do you know your viagra/cialis source was legit? Don't j/o for atleast 5 days and don't look at porn for up to two weeks (I was in the same position as you and it turned out I was desensitized) Or the #1 for breaking a girls pelvis: Injecting Test. Every time I cycle my girl goes nuts
Thomas Morris
cowgirl dumby
Adrian Price
You must nofap brother. It has worked for me and many many others in a similar situation.
Justin Roberts
being a cd or trans going after a lesbo doggy style losing weight/having good cardio. ice yeah, it's possible with enough edging. sex is all mental 5% physical contact
Angel Morgan
Funny you mention test because i was blasting test/tren at the time. Cialis/viagra was legit as far as i know
Hudson Hernandez
>ice Well, I was hoping for a permanent solution without cutting it. (I've thought of cutting it off and just cutting a chunk out and then just stitching it back on, but that doesn't work. Nerves die and the end you stitch back on could just rot)
>yeah, it's possible with enough edging. sex is all mental 5% physical contact
True. Any mental techniques to work myself up enough to actually cum without touching my dick?
Daniel Morales
Dont worry OP. I had a hard time staying hard for my gf after years of porn and fapping every day ruined me. Did some research and ended up taking Vigrx +. Definitely helped getting and keeping a hard on. A bit pricey (like $60 for a months supply) but hey, idgaf about money if it keeps me from humiliation.
Andrew Brown
Yeah, normally it takes a couple of hours until my girlfriend can make me cum.
Jonathan Perez
>Any mental techniques to work myself up enough to actually cum without touching my dick? foreplay and worship + chastity excitement is also a factor. public stuff is a plus for me too. the closest i have to relating to what youre talking about would be when i was a 2 pump chump. my girl came back from a month long trip and jumped on my dick with her parents in the other room. shit was so good and its one of her favorite memories.
John Wilson
That'll be very hard but it can be done.
Easiest way really is when you are dreaming and you know it, imagine a girl coming in sucking/banging you. Goes super awesome.
If you are awake, you better be massively horny, think about hot things and really focus the fuck out of the feeling just before and how it feels to cum. Keep that thought up long enough and it'll work but that's really hard (sweet sweet pun).
Jose Carter
>read the book >pray her pussy tastes good >eat it like its tendie tuesday >not nervous anymore because she's already satisfied >"oh yea btw I brought some DICK" >fuck her brains out >doesn't matter how long you last, she already came
Alexander Morris
Good book.
Carter Cox
i've also heard of exercising your taint in order to get better cum control and possibly no hands. every video of a guy no handing with buttplay is using this technique.
Asher Moore
What do you mean?
Worship? Like worshipping her?
Dylan Sanders
its like a male kegel workout. you know that muscle you feel when you cum? its inbetween your sack and your balls. just work that out flexing it whenever and you'll have better cum control.
Andrew Gutierrez
is it bad to get her to put your dick inside her?
Connor Walker
I don't understand this "couldn't find the vaj." I'm not rocket scientist but really??
Dylan Ortiz
Not if she's on top.
Hudson Taylor
It's true especially for the ones that want to be treated like a princess. I've found maybe one girl that didn't want me to pull her hair and treat her like a slut
Xavier Turner
watch some porn with a studious approach, see where they plonk it in and how they go to town, it may be staged but that don't mean you can't learn.
Jordan Young
Spoon on the bed sideways, like this:
Jack Foster
No... why the fuck would it be unless you cum on her hand make a mess and nothing gets accomplished
Ayden Roberts
examples?
Hudson Green
● Become a trap ● Date a tiny Asian girl and fuck with her legs crossed ● Fuck her ass while you fap her clit
Jace Baker
My first was me standing her on her back legs in the air, I like tall beds
Also if this doesn't work then you have no business getting laid and you aren't a man
Hunter Clark
because getting ready to fuck her doggy and then going "hey can you put my dick in your vag i cant find it" seems weird af
Aaron Ross
I've got a problem with cumming way too quick. And my fair share of not getting hard in the moment, or losing it. Can't do fuck for more than 10 seconds sometimes before I'm ready to nut. That's at the lowest. Most times it's a few minutes. Then there are times I pump meat like a champ and just somehow keep it going. Any tips/tricks? I see dudes pounding like a monster for time on end with seemingly no problem.
Jayden Martinez
trips of truth
Aaron Ortiz
No specifics, just find some pov shit that you can see the entry, and some non pov stuff cos some angles do it better. doesn't matter what shit you watch as long as you can see when the magic starts. then use shit as reference points when you do it yourself, analyse it rather than fap. I dunno what's good these days for it, I just browsed for a bit dick in hand and found some useful stuff and it worked and I got my fuck on. I was the same couldn't keep it up and was nervous, just stay sober at first and keep a clear head.
Nolan Morgan
OP: Here is my solid advice for the nervous shit and how to get things going.
1) Jerk off before-hand. You'll be in a better mood. 2) Maybe have a beer or two to kill the jitters. 3) Get her off first. Either fingerbang this shit out of her or offer to go down on her. Learn some shit on the internet son.
Get her to cum as many times as possible. I know myself, getting a girl off gets me rock hard, then as soon as she is rocked like two or three times, it's time to dive in dick first. At that point, it doesn't matter how good you are, she has already gotten off, it's all you.
Don't use any stimulants. Everyone reacts differently and something that is going to increase your bloodflow is going to just make you more jittery.
Maybe try a shot of alcohol, a puff of weed (don't over do it). Try not to focus on just having sex, just enjoy the moment.
Wyatt Edwards
Tell her to put you in when you're in the general area. I do it pretty much every time I'm with a new girl because anatomy is different and my tip isn't that sensitive because I beat off too much. None have ever not came back.
William Bell
Wow herp is forever u dumb fuck I bet u spread that shit too nasty ass mother fucker. Retards like u are why everyone else has to wrap their shit
Ethan Robinson
That said though I don't suck at sex that is pretty much the only time the whole thing I'm not dominating her for the next hour.
Jose Nguyen
Maybe it's a condom problem I can't get mine hard if I have a condom and if I can I can't cum from normal sex Go condom free Fuck less, fuck better
Chase Thomas
Never even gotten hard enough to attempt a condom. i just try and go raw and i cant even stay hard
Oliver Walker
Tips on finding the pussy hole? Last time i tried fingering a girl i tried getting her off on the hole where you pee. fml
Jeremiah Ramirez
this.
Levi Sullivan
OP this is performance anxiety
TONS of guys go through this, I went through it as well.
Get into the habit of meditating every morning to clear your mind. Remind yourself that this is normal and nothing is wrong with you. It is 100% mental andd can be fixed 100%, trust me I suffered through it. Keep on fighting man
Henry Collins
Youre right. He doesnt feel comfortable with these strange women. Maybe you should get to know three different chicks and fuck em all. Unless you want a relatio ship.
Caleb Butler
I kind of have the same thing oo, it's way normal.
I was married for 4 years (with the same whore for 7).
Get divorced and get my life back in check and get (no lie) 10/10 qt gf. First couple times no boner at all and fit the first month no jiz. Still happens every so often too (4 months in)
You're in you own head right now. It's happened once and now you're worried about it happening again so it's a self compounding issue. I can almost guarantee all you're thinking about on your way to pound town is your own flaccid dick. Just relax (easier said than done) and chill out. Think about her and them titties.
