Inspired by another thread

married 5 years with 2 kids. ...none together tho. we just kicked out her teenage daughter so things are nice now.

wifu's into some serious bondage so thats cool.

Why do this shit?

I can actually see letting your wife fuck around, but why would you want to be there and see it and do all this weird shit

9 years. Fucking sucks. Am in love with coworker. FML

the key to marriage is just being attentive. give her what she needs.

Married two and a half years. Both in our 30s.

We cohabitate great, share equally, spend frugally, vibe well. Dated for six years, got a lot of the stupid shit out of the way in that time.

We're both happy. Would enjoy a more active sex life, but we still find time for each other. I still love her as much as I did eight years ago, and she feels the same.

If you want pussy all the time and feel like you'd save more money alone, knock yourself out. Marriage isn't for everyone.

Married 2 years (together 13)
Very Happy
Wouldn't change it for the world.
To be honest you have to find someone who just fucking gets you at your shittiest and you therm. Ppl would give us shit for so long about not being married yet, fuck them, most of them are divorced after there year and a half of dating then getting married. Tons of women fantasize about there wedding day and not theit marriage, there's a alot to happen after that you know. we are expecting our first kid and I am honestly the happiest I have ever been, scared to death but excited. There are a ton of great women to be had, you just need to invest the time to make sure they are for you, it takes alot to get to know someone to their core, years man, fucking years for all the ugly to be brought out. And if you still love them at there worst then its easy the rest of the time. Oh plus we fuck like crazy still, its awesome.

Married 17 years, 2 kids. Still have sex twice a week. No complaints

Married 7 years. 31 yo. 2 kids. Sex life is pretty good. Still get it on 3-4 times per week, usually weekends. I put on about 50 pounds in the past 8 years or so, that's the only real downside. She's still pretty decent looking though, and seems to still get turned on by me, so I'll keep eating the shit out of the dinners she makes til that changes.

I'm all for marriage now, but only if the girl is on the submissive side. She's gotta be able to shrug stuff off instead of being a cunt like 75% of women. I got lucky there. Never marry a bitch. Fuck em and leave em.

Have my wife's tits for being such good listeners.

because it's fucking hot. it's like watching a porno in real life. and if you think about it, porn is filmed from the cuckold's point of view. you watching some dude with a bbc, rail some cick, adn you're siting there stroking off, even though you're "not getting any." there is no substitute to watching a watching geting fucked by a huge cock. if you love your s/o, then you should let her be pleased by someone with 9 inches, and trust me, both of you will enjoy.

Watch until the end, sound on:
webmshare.com/Wn7jd

Terrible boobs lad

Because he has the self confidence that you lack.

The black guy is just an accesory in the couple's playing, the husband is no more scared of the black guy than he would of a plastic dildo.

Most of you guys sound like you no longer have your balls.

granted, but the audio is where it's at. it's literally the biggest reason why you should cuck.

5 years, at the moment not happy. Actually considering calling it quits for the first time ever.

thank you! i couldn't have said it any better. that's exactly what the black guy is. nothing but a human dildo.

>I'm so confident, I need a dildo and a nigger to fuck my wife!

>this is what cuckolds actually believe(they don't actually believe it)

Stop derailing my thread faggot

I have nothing to contribute to this thread.

Just want sauce for pic

Fag :^)

Tell us why

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I'm with you. Every couple creates their own relationship rules and whatnot, but I couldn't respect my dude if he wanted to watch me get railed by some other man. Seeing that shit makes me weirdly sad.

but you've never done it. before organized religion changed the course of the world, cuckolding was common.

The person who controls sex controls the marriage

>Any married old fags here?

Yup, hello!

>How long have you been married?

5 years, but together for 12.

>Are you happy?

Very. We legitimately enjoy spending most of our time together. We're both socially anxious introverts, but we are completely relaxed around each other. We are very affectionate and laugh all the time. I love her and like her and trust her and respect her and and have fun with her.

>If you had to do it all over again would get married again?

Yes. Of course I sometimes wonder about what my life would be like if I was single, or if I ended up with someone else, but it seems unlikely it would be better.

>Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?

I really don't think so. And that sounds like the opposite of "saving money," too. Dating is expensive, but living together is cheaper than living alone.

On the other hand, I know some people who seem to hate being married. It really depends on who you end up with. And who you end up with depends on you. Shitty people seem to mostly end up with shitty people, and have shitty marriages. So, if you're shitty, maybe don't inflict yourself on another person long term?

Sure it was.

>but you've never done it. before organized religion changed the course of the world, cuckolding was common.

And when that happened, the female would always go to the alpha male that deep dicked her the hardest.

I can't say what I would feel about it without the lens of religion and monogamy.

All I can say it's not my cup of tea. I like belonging to someone exclusively (but not being owned, if that makes any sense).

Married 15 years, two kids. We're happy. Sex life is solid, but we have to make time for it.

Like I said in the other thread, it's all about scouting.

To extend the sports analogy, too many people fuck up and waste their first round pick on someone who ends up being a bust. Some NFL teams go fucking crazy over workout performances and ignore game film. Some guys get entranced by great sex while dating or some other thing and ignore stuff which is important to long-term success. That's not to say you should go to the other extreme and only go after a matronly cooking whiz, but evaluate someone using the proper criteria if you're considering marrying that person.

In my case, it was a ceiling play, and it worked.

She is cute as fuk.

Fuck yeah, you are the man
Lucky guy too

married 7 years, 2 kids, life is great and so is the sex. TBQH, I always wondered if the sex would get boring, but really had nothing to worry about

but are you having sex with just her?

I've been with my girl for 11 years... seeing cuck stuff makes me sick. Bunch of half-man, sad excuses for human beings.

Agreed BUT:
when child comes, make sure you are in agreeance on roles. For example, I am sole income earner, wife takes care of baby. If you do not sort that out before baby comes you are in for a war. Congrats!

>Some guys get entranced by great sex while dating or some other thing and ignore stuff which is important to long-term success.

Yeah, agreed. The key is finding someone you would be happy spending all your time with even if you were completely unattracted to her.

I'd take it a step farther and say that it's a good idea to suss out the particulars of kids (how many, roughly when, etc) outside the caretaking arrangement as well.

I'm 33 years old, got engaged just a couple of weeks ago. The girlfriend and I have known each other pretty much all our lives, been a couple for about six years now.

I really like hearing people talk like that about their relationship. I feel like a lot of people get all jaded about the whole thing, they marry the wrong people, they cheat, whatever. It just seems like happy stories are few and far between. So thanks for sharing, man. That's all.

I'm married. I'm 35, and my wife is 34. We got married in 2008. We're very happy despite some deep-seated psychosexual problems on my part that have put a strain on our relationship for a long time, although that shit predates our marriage, so whatever.

I would definitely marry her again. I can't imagine taking chances on other women and can't believe my stupid luck.

you a porn addict?

Yes, although that isn't the be-all and end-all of my personal problems with sex. But well spotted! It definitely isn't helping the situation.

Married 10 years, 6 kids, Great Job and wife is awesome. Sex life is great, just need to work it into the day. If no sex- handys and BJs are mostly on demand. So yeah, pretty happy- far from having that white picket fence, but I wouldn't trade it for anything.

No reason why you can't have a great, long-lasting marriage. Problem is guys think with their dicks and chase after the hottest sluttiest girl that will date them. That shit don't last.

Find a girl who shares your views on religion, handling money, having children, where to live, and family. Avoid ones who are too into their career. You will have a 90% chance of a great marriage that will last. Yes, you need to be attracted to her. But don't kid yourself that the freakiest 10/10 is going to be a great wife. It doesn't work that way.

You have to get out there and meet lots of women. The more women you interact with, the better the chance you'll find a great match. When I read about the guys who post how terrible their marriage is I don't think the problem is marriage. It's that they didn't pick the right woman.

if you are going to have kids its better to find some good breeding stock and wife her up for at least the first 15, then do whatever you want.

just remember, everyone cheats. if you cant deal with cheating or being cheated on then stay single

kek

On topics that are important to her - especially if she has firmly held religious beliefs - even if you don't believe the same things be respectful. If you feel that her views/beliefs are too extreme for you to do that, it's not going to last.

You are never going to be happy with that attitude.

what's you successful married guy's opinion on internet dating (match, e harmony, etc.)

8 months
Very
I would marry her 10 times over
No.

>Inspired by another thread...
>
>How long have you been married?
12 years
>Are you happy?
No
>If you had to do it all over again would get married again?
No
>Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?
Probably

36 years old
6 years now
extremely
absolutely
i have more money now than i ever did when i was single.

No, everyone doesn't cheat. I never have and neither has she. She never would even if I did. It's not in her DNA.

1 year today
Not at all
Fuck no
Yes

I told my wife a month ago I was leaving her and moving out when I pay my credit cards off. Been fucking women off craigslist for the last couple months.

>Avoid ones who are too into their career.

That's not good advice as a blanket statement, but it's true that is one more thing you should agree about.

Been married for 8 years. Have 3 kids. I have no fucking clue what I would do without my wife and kids and couldnt be happier. I understand marriage us not for everyone. I have friends that arent married and probably never will be. Life is life man. You have to live it your way and bare your own weight. Ive never looked back and regretted it. The big thing about marriage is trust. If you cant trust the other person involved then its not worth it. Also i saw someone say they have no sex life and are married. Thats the complete opposite with me. After marriage our sex life picked up like crazy. That bullshit about babies ruinning vagina is just that, bullshit. I swear my wife got tighter after each kid.

I feel you dude. I tried shedding the life that was imposed on me by religion but after a while I realized monogamy does fit me comfortably.

Married 8 years.
Happiest I've ever been
I would marry again tomorrow
You have to find the right woman. Anything less than a best friend won't do. Ideally her parents should be stable people.

white people

Was married for 3 years, 1 kid, started off the greatest thing in the world overall. Divorced now (horrible, painful, expensive process). Would have stayed single, would do just about anything to go back in time and do it all over again.

I wish I'd never seen her face.

Don't fuck/marry/fall in love with crazy, kiddos.

Never tried it but if it leads to meeting more women, it can only be a plus. The more people you interact with, the better you will pick up on the little things that will trigger a "hmmm" thought. It's hard enough when you are first in a relationship because your brain will pretend not to see anything that's not sunshine and rainbows. The tenth time you see some certain characteristic that didn't bother you at first but later you realized it was maddening, you recognize it immediately.

Here's one - the chick who is way too into her looks. Takes two hours to get ready for work or to leave the house for any reason. Yeah, she probably looks hot. That might be why you were attracted to her in the first place. But underneath all that makeup and hair gel, she's probably a lot plainer (ever see that Katy Perry no-makeup pic?).

So after a while you realize she won't go anywhere without the full prep treatment because she's never let anyone see her natural, and isn't about to start now because it will make people do a double-take.

You probably would want someone who knows how to look nice, but also is comfortable rolling out of bed on a weekend, grabbing a baseball hat, and going for a walk in a park nearby.

I pretty much only enjoy POV shit, and I can't get off to a black cock because I can't trick my penis into thinking it's mine. I'm not a homophobe or anything, I fantasize about being the alphamale. Lemme know if you want me to fuck your wife for you.

Stable role models definitely help. If a girl comes from a family where a broken home is the norm she'll think relationships are disposable and be less likely to compromise or otherwise work on the relationship.

14 years.

Relatively happy. I supplement my sex life with affairs, sugar babies, prostitutes. Pretty standard in my circle when you make as much money and travel as much as me. I don't know a single guy at my level that doesn't have affairs or girls on the side. That said, one could argue if everything was perfect, I'd be faithful. I would argue that it is natural for men to stray and have sex that doesn't evolve emotional attachment. It's basically assisted masturbation, in my opinion. I also enjoy dating women much younger than me. They keep me feeling young. Something a 40 year old wife can no longer do. That's just facts.

No, probably not. But my kids are the best thing that ever happened to me, so maybe I would. I probably would've gotten a divorce earlier on into the marriage when I was trying to be faithful. Having affairs really helps.

Single kind of sucks also, because I was lonely. I was also poor (a single guy can't really have a life making less than $60K a year). Nowadays I clear 10X as much as when I was single, and I would have an incredible life without regard for long term relationships.

im not that attractive and terrible with women. ive had affairs with 2 very good looking women.

ones husband clearly had some problems maintaining an erection, and i banged her weekly, whereas he banged her not even monthly.

the other i also banged weekly, though she probably banged her husband more often than that. however, i eventually got her to give me bjs, which she said she didnt ever do for her husband

fwiw

>at my level

fucking kill yourself

Was married for 3 years, 1 kid (son, now 2), marriage/that life was the greatest thing ever until it wasn't anymore. If I could do it all over again, I would have just turned around and walked away. I wish I never saw her face. I'd give anything to do it all over again.

Don't fuck/marry/have kids with crazy, kiddos.

>Don't fuck/marry/have kids with crazy, kiddos.

but fucking crazy is my fetish

I posted once, for a message saying the post didn't go through so I posted again, saying essentially the same thing. you guys get the idea

about the same. got a BJ from a new researcher, but thats a one time thing I'd bet, shes married too. I thought i was going to have sex, I put the kids on minecraft, but then they were all up over the place like 2 minutes later.

what makes you think im not happy?

Determining how many is hard to do until you have one.. My kid is a fireball at 1.5yo and has us questioning to have another. Things change a lot.

Mine too man :(

no
humens rnt ment for monogomy.
fuck.
catch 22

i sometimes feel like online dating females are inherently flawed in some way otherwise they wouldn't be online dating.

This bitch, I'd fuck her on top of my wife and kids.

Sure, but maybe at least laying down some parameters for the discussion can be helpful. In our case, she wanted two, I wanted some number between 0 and 2, and that didn't change, but I see your point.

Dated 5 year; married 5 months
Yes, I'm happy about it
Yes, I'd do it again
No, being single and/or dating a bunch of crazy-ass bitches sucks ass.

Because

Girls. Are. Crazy.

>virgin

Online Dating creates a ridiculous set of expectations that most potential mates will never hold up to. Women are looking for the 'perfect male' and the same goes for many Males. Where you might meet someone by chance, now it's reduced to catalog shopping for your potential mate; and suddenly five years younger than you is a deal breaker.

12 years. Yes still happy. Yep would marry again
She makes more as a physical therapist than i do aint even mad.
Depends if you're prem bachelor bugerlord...

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Married 27 years
Two kids
I am pretty satisfied with how my life has gone with just a few regrets. I had an affair woman I worked for at the 16 year mark. While she was a sexual dynamo she had her own issues. Looking back I realize they all do. It comes down to can you deal with their BS or not.

If I had it to do all over I would most likely do the same. Mainly because of my kids. I couldn't imagine my life without them.

Fuck internet dating.
It depends on your age and wage: if you make decent money and mid 30s or under, go to a golf driving range. Those guys practically sell their daughters if you have your shit together. Being confident regardless of circumstance is key

meeting dudes because yu can't meet women is gay as hell boy

So you regret your kid?

this is actually kinda true. parents love to try to set their kids up with people they think would provide stability for them

Any married peeps able to help me with a concern of mine?
I Ended up with a great gf, planning to move in together after I finish my degree and land a job, which is almost guaranteed to happen by next year. My only "issue" is that she's a bit too obsessed with me. It bothers me a bit. She doesn't seem to have any aspirations or goals of her own anymore and is happy with the idea of being a stay-at-home wife. Is it just me being worried for no reason or could there be substance to my concerns?

My wife was a little bit like that while she still worked for the state. The year after we got married, she moved to the private sector and got a job with my employer, and it was transformative. She's upstairs right now working on a project for her job.

Your girl might just need a change of atmosphere. Or shit, man, there's nothing wrong with coming home to a clean house, a hot dinner, and a wet pussy.

Might be Wife material. Make sure she has some hobbies of her own or a side career. Dont accept a dependapotomus

30 years
3kids
4 grandkids
Sex 1 or 2 times a month, menopause is shitty
Would do again but would change a lot

>We have a beautiful girl, but I am the last of bloodline and need a boy to carry legacy (well over a century).
Literally my surname family tree ends with me unless I have a son. I'm the only son x4 generations.

no one cares about your shit-ass name, kid

let it die

sex 1-2 times a month? wow. i'm around your age but single, and when i go without sex for a day i feel icky.

As long as she is obsessive enough to want to be submissive

Go to bed Tyrone.

Dated for a week before we got engaged. Got married 8 months later in our back yard super tiny wedding (just close family) reception with friends afterwords. Actually made money with the wedding cards. Been together 5 years and super crazy about each other. We have tried to have kids but infertility is a bitch. Lost twin boys at 23 weeks. Sex is awesome. We both have good jobs. Idk.. It's a decent life. Looking forward to a family of our own though.

Didn't say my age.
I'm 78

33 here, married 9 years, together for 15. 3 kids, still has a great body (at least thats what ive been told) regular sex, she still sucks my dick, likes to get her pussy eaten and likes to experiment in bed. If you pick the right girl its great. Pic related.

Forgot age, I'm 35 she's 30

Fucking disgusting slam pig tier, wp faggot

22, married 3 years (technically), 2 kids, but finalizing the divorce this week. Obviously not happy. Sex life was existent but sucked. Raw dogged it, if you can't tell.
Don't be young, dumb, full of cum, and don't think with your dick, anons.
Don't be an hero.

she looks like she'd make for some epic cuckolding scenery. you ever thought about letting a bull fuck her?

Yes. Despite the fact that he's one of the few things in life that truly & unconditionally make me happy, when everything all adds up I think if be a lot happier had none of it ever happened.

she infertile due to age?

I have actually....would love to see that happen.

Sorry homie, life goes on though and at least that part is behind you now. Love your kid and love yourself.

Welcome to the new generation of feminization of the male species... Sucks to be that, but we go hard on these hoes (generation brown eye )

Trips checked. Go away spook

No, we've been trying for years now. Endometriosis is a major cause and we lost the boys due to incompetent cervix.

not him but ive dated a 45 year old that wanted me to get her pregnant.

btw im 34 the offer is probably still available. she crazy tho

Please elaborate on "Ceiling play" on account I know jack about football.

C'mon Tom Cruise

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Only get married if you're not afraid to walk away at any point in time and have spent years determining that she's not a crazy person.

i let mine cuck me once in a while. best sex ever. i couldn't have imagined how much of a turn on see ing get taken by a seriously hung man could be. i busted the biggest nuts of my life stroking to her screaming.

hate symbol

>also top kek

43 here. Married 18 years with three kids. Youngest is 7. I love my wife. We don’t have sex as often as I'd like but it's because we're constantly busy with kid stuff. One day we'll be alone together again. I would never give this up, but if something happened, I'd never get married again.

I bet! I bust huge nuts when we fuck and I think about another guy fucking her. How did you get yours into it?

Yea, you're the new generation of pussy males... Go suck a cock, then Jack off to trap porn. Stap up your skinny jeans, faggot.

Basically a player's ceiling is their highest potential performance level based on their tools. So if you draft a guy who has fantastic tools but is maybe a little raw over somebody who is more polished right now but doesn't have the same potential it's a ceiling play because you're betting on the player reaching their potential over a safer bet, someone who is considered "projectable."

In a very similar way, picking a long term partner comes down to talent evaluation. Going with projectability is basically settling.

I'm 33, I lived with a girl for 4 years when I was in my mid 20s and have a little girl with her (little girl is 7 yo).

Been dating a black girl for six months... not sure if i should keep it going. On one hand, if I am good to her she is good to me... maybe that's all I need.

How do you know if you met someone who is marriage tier??????

Been married 4 years.
YEs, I'm happy
Maybe, having a good partner make life a lot easier
It's all up on your age, If you are under 30 go on and fuck everything you can, after that It's better to have a good partner

Aren't any of you cucks worried about your wives leaving you for their lovers?

>save money
>fuck women
Choose one, friend.

i would just drop hints along the way. like i'd say, damn your ride dick so good it's a crime i get this all to myself. and like, she really likes kobe bryant, and when we would watch him play, sometimes i say something like, i kobe asked you out, and you said yes, i'd totally understand.

Never get married, idiot... Just get pussy. Female pussy.

40 year old fag been married 7 years. Have a stepson, 14, and a son that is 20. No kids with wife. She got fat and before we were married we had sex all the time. Not anymore. I'm not happy. I think I'll take her in for a newer model

Can you hang out with her and enjoy it without thinking about banging her?

Mentally unstable user here
Do you sometimes despise your partner and how do you cope/get over it?

HOLY FUCK YOU ARE A DELUSIONAL FAGGOT KILL YOURSELF YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO HUMANITY

no, cuckolding is purely about sex.

This guy gets it. Dated my wife for 6 years, married for 1. And we laid out all our cards on the table. I like sex, she likes sex. We make time for it. Sure, some weeks shes busy with her job, and we can only do it 2 or 3 times a week. But we always make the time.
Also, you are right about getting roles out the way. My wife has a doctorate and is currently a professor at an expensive school. I was broke and jobless when we met. She brings home the money, i just sorta make sure the house doesnt crumble down.

And sex is heavily tied to emotion, especially for women.

If she's fucking another man she has some level of feelings for him, the only question is how much and how fast they'll grow.

Any married old fags here?

Yes, 35 yo male.

How long have you been married? 11 years

Are you happy?

No, she is mentally ill and has personality issues. It didn't start to show till after the second child.

If you had to do it all over again would get married again?

Hell no.

Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?

Yes, get a vasectomy too.

I was actually thinking about my marriage today...
Been married for 8 years, actually got the girl I was in love in high school. She aged fine and is a solid parthner but unfortunately sex is nonexistent. I haven't put my dick inside her in a year. she jerks me until I cum once every 2 months or so. Sounds sad and it is but I would feel like a huge dick if I divorce her after all this time just cause she doesn't fuck me... what I'm saying is, if you're the type of guy who gets around girls easily, waste your youth fucking and making a carrer then when you're in your 40's get married.

Ok, but think abou this. Having sex with lots of girls is great because you can have everything. One woman who has everything is unlikely. But if you have lots of different partners you can fuck a girl with nice tits, next week fuck a girl with a nice face, next week a girl who likes kinky stuff... etc etc. Ok, so we know the advantages there.

But if you have a long term relationship then you are working on something that is going to give you long term satisfaction. Think about it as renting vs buying a house. If you rent then that's great, you can move out any time, but you leave with nothing. When you buy you build equity in your home. Oh well I'm not explaining this very well but do you understand what i'm getting at?

Sort of. After a while she bothers me.

Yup,
6 years.
Absolutely. There's some shit, and we've gone through couples therapy more than once, but it's been mostly to make sure we're actually communicating instead of talking at each other.
Absolutely. We more or less just fell into the whole idea, then were looking at the calendar one night and said "shit, if we're going to get married we better get on it, all the weekends this year are seriously booking up with stuff we're doing."
Then we looked at each other and said "Did we just agree to get married?"
Nope. Some people are married to their best friend, but I'm married to my wife. We have clear expectations of each other, and we have VERY clear definitions of what is and is not okay. My best friend wouldn't give a fuck if I had sex with three women in a weekend unless one happened to be his wife. Likewise, I can forgive my best friend anything. There's shit my wife and I won't walk off.
Additionally, we save a lot of money because we're working together to do stuff we couldn't normally. We earn two incomes. We have a kid, who's sitting on my lap as I'm writing this singing with me to Sesame Street songs. And later tonight, her female friend is coming over to get naked in our sauna, which usually leads to the three of us fucking, but without the drama, extra expenditures, and risk of catching an STD.

So no downside here.

not married but living with gf, lots of sex, gym together, chill together, movies and shit, no kids, life is good

Married 6 years, two kids.
We have sex about 5 nights a week, only don't when I am just too tired to do it.
But I married a black girl that will suck me off and swallow on command.
Life is awesome.

Married 10 years
Nope
Yes, but I would have ironed out the problems first

>Inspired by another thread...
>Any married old fags here?
Yes
>How long have you been married?
9yrs
>Are you happy?
With the marriage, yes
>If you had to do it all over again would get married again?
Probably sooner
>Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?
Can't see how

Thats awesome man. I think mine would totally freak! She ever let you take pics while she is with the other guy?

At least get something out of it while you can. Then you can get out.

both in our late 40s. . 18 years together. . no kids. little sex, maybe 2x a month. i do it myself mostly. lots of money but miserable. . dont recommend

in some sense she does feel emotion for him at the time, but that's like saying maturbating is threatening to a relationship because you have emotions for a person you're performing a sexual act with (since generally when you masturbate, you don't masturbate to someone you're in a relationship with). cuckolding and masturbating are basically the same thing.

Fucking ranid mate

...

Talk to her about both of your needs. Dont forget to include your sexual needs.

perfect summation. if you think your s/o is masturbating to you, then you're in for a surprise.

Dont try to hide what you said you moronic cuck
>but just because it's tied to emotion doesn't mean that that emotion can't be still to the person who they're married. sex is just sex, where that emotion goes is another story. when my wife cucks me, she feels emotion for me

25 years
No
No

>All this delusion

same thing.

Marriage has been horrible to me. My wife is physically and mentally abusive to me. I'm the only thing holding this together.

Never date a woman with mental health issues or who's parents / siblings / close family has mental health issues.

Learn to do the PUA thing and get a vasectomy.

>Because he has the self confidence that you lack.

Dude, if you're so confident about life, why don't you give all your money? After all, you can have it back anytime you want to?

Been married for 15 years. Been together for 20.

No kids, we dont want any.

Wife is my best friend. Never been in a fight, and yes, not lying.

Have sex whenever we feel like it. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

We travel together and have a lot of fun. I have no regrets.

You can tell a lot about a woman by her mother.

Married: 2 years
Happy: No
Marry again: No
Better to stay single for life: No, kids are great

There aint no arguing with a cuck user, its a mental illness like demi gender and schizophrenia.

Did someone say spider man thread?

>Don't fuck/marry/fall in love with crazy, kiddos.
Keep hearing that phrase. Do tell more why You think she's crasy/what she did

I'm getting married next summer, together 7 years already, practically our entire adult lives. We've gotten to a point of stability, sold the shop, invested, house is paid for, even did a lot of the work ourselves. We produce our food and energy needs, got to a point where I'm semi-retired I guess, her student loans are paid off and she works from home, and I tend to the property. Marriage would pretty much give us a lower tax burden, which we do everything in our power to lower already, and keeps her from having to testify against me for any illegal shit I may/may not be doing.

Am I happy? Fuck yeah.

35

7 years last month w/2 kids

I'm in a good place in life and I owe a lot of it to her.

Yeah, for sure.

I used to think that not fucking other girls would suck, but over time she's just gotten more sexual and into taking care of me. Tbh I have more money now than we we first started dating, she pushed me to do better and the kids have pushed me even further, realistically, I wouldn't be where I am without them.

>How long have you been married?
6 years, together for 9. 1 kid, 6 years old.

>Are you happy?
Yes. I can't say our life is perfect, but we're happy together. There's nothing like knowing there's someone who'll be there for you no matter what, who'll help you navigate all the shit within and outside of you.

>If you had to do it all over again would get married again?
Honestly? Nope.
BUT WAIT! This is something my wife and I have discussed. If we had a chance to repeat our lives, we'd be together, but we wouldn't marry. It was a lot of hassle, money and stress that in the end just was not worth it.
We probably would wait a bit longer to have a kid, too. We adore the girl, obviously, but we both feel we weren't quite ready at the time. We realized she was pregnant the day we came back from the honeymoon, and from then to this very day, it's been a constant race to get things done, solve problems, make money (which evaporates faster than we make it), etc.

I think the core of it is, we'd do everything we did, but more chill and slower.

>Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?
I won't bullshit you, I wish I'd done that for a while before shacking up with my wife.
I had very little experience with women before I met her. A couple bad relationships, and I was just coming out of college, so I didn't get the chance to work and save money either.

So I can't tell you if it's better to do that than to get married. I wish I'd been able to dabble into that lifestyle for a bit, but honestly I don't think it compares with what I have now.

Married 14 years.....wait til u r at least 30 yrs old. Marry a small woman, they get bigger. Make sure she has a career

43 here married with 4 kids happy and love the fuck out of my kids totally involved with them. Married life suck no sex hardly ever. I will shoulder this burden for the sake of my kids.

Married 5 years, pretty great. Sex is alright but I get some from a couple of women at work so I'm dandy.

Yep faggot you are 100% correct

Wait 5 years you will be beating off in your shower

I'm lucky enough to have dodged that bullet in my marriage, but from my mom's side of the family, every female is fucked in the head. My grandmother, her sisters, their daughters, and yes, my mother as well.

EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of the respective husbands, including my father and grandfather, has gone through hell and back, all because of this fucking dynasty of psycho bitches.

Cheating. Violence. Psychological abuse. Unreasonable demands. Threats using the kids as leverage. Munchausen by proxy. Indoctrination of the kids against the dad. Anything you can imagine, one or more of the bitches did it.

I didn't realize all the shit she put him through, and all the crap she did to me to hurt him (and similarly, all the stuff that happened between my grandparents), until I began living with my wife and had a kid of my own.

I'd only seen fucked up families, and I thought that was normal. My wife is no saint, but god damn, I tear up just thinking of how different she is to what I experienced before.

So yeah, it sucks to say this but if your girlfriend (or boyfriend I suppose) has a family with a history of mental issues, RUN. It's cold, it sucks, you'll think "no, s/he's different" but NO. RUN.
DON'T FUCKING RISK IT.

No, tbey do it for you primarily. Not that they do t lime it. But the difference is they know they can jave a new sex partner any time they want. so its not like its a revelation only after having sex wkth some one else.

22
Been married for 4 years
Together since she was a softmore in high school so she is pretty much my higschool sweetheart

>Happy?

Yes she is great and does everything to please me

>If i could would i donit again?

Based on my situation, yes. If things were different i still would but in would wait a little while

>is it better to save money and fuck bitches?

If you are young then yes. But then you would be marring an older hag who probably has kids and has a ravagged pussy that everyone in town including your boss has already fucked.

I do meas around sometimes tho. I feel like i didnt get to do that part if my life.
I just fuck the bitches and leave them. My wife is No.1

Im not a cuck and she is dissgusted by niggers. I dont need someone to fuck my wife. I even tested her and other girls. Her on 2 occasions. Telling her we should have a mmf 3 some she said no. Then again i encouraged her to flirt with guys she said no.

White girls dont want blacks, thats just a fantasy, get over it.

Married 8 and been together 15. 2 boys who rek our sex life. Wife is experimental; im slowly but surely losing my interest in sex, which is nice. Having a hard on all the time gets in the way of other stuff.
Wouldn't have chosen different. I would have an herod by now, for sure. When both of my kids are grown and gone from the house I still may.

First the answers to all the wrong questions, then the right one.

>How long have you been married?

Six years to current wife, similar period with common law wife and similar time together with first wife though we were separated for more than half that time (which worked well for our relationship). Brown, white and black Usonians respectively in case you wondered.

>Are you happy?

Very.

>If you had to do it all over again would get married again?

In the same circumstances, yes.

>Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?

The idea of saving all your money indicates a misunderstanding which is one component of the question you neglected to ask and all the answers above address directly or indirectly.

> What is a marriage?

It's a contract which gives rights and responsibilities under the law, many of which you may not even know. Laws vary by region.

An emotionally heavy example: You are out on a romantic drive in the country together with your best (but unmarried) gal and get into a bad accident and she is taken to hospital. You get to the hospital and try to see her, but you aren't allowed because you are not her family. She dies alone while you are forced to stay away.

Literally ever other aspect of your relationship is up to the two (but no more in most places these days) of you to work out and your success will depend substantially but not completely on your success in doing so. Conventions such as monogamy, name changes, cohabitation, sexual relations, child rearing and such are not generally prescribed. No arrangement is inherently "better" than any other.

The two major external factors which will keep things interesting are time and life.

No matter how well matched you are, you will both change with time and you need to keep the relationship working or - equally importantly - know when to let it go. Marriage is a contract, not a life sentence.

40 years old, married for 15. Sucks ass. I'm loosing her as soon as the kids get out of high school (3 years). No life whatsoever. I don't even want to have sex anymore.

>Is it better to just stay single and save all your money and fuck women?

this x100000. Unfortunately none of us truly have the balls to be that guy. Eventually we all start thinking its time we found someone/settled down. It takes a rare breed to be this guy.

Your are right my fag I am 43 and thought my sex drive would be gone if I look back at age 20. It's not and I get sex about 4 times per year. Feelsbadman

>be 28
>40k
>big city

I left my gf of 3 years to go explore more. I feel I need more money and to actually exp a few more things in life before I even feel ready to settle down.

fuck now in my late 20s it feels like there isn't enough time for everything.

Continuing long-winded slightly sanctimonious answer...

Life will interfere if you live long enough and how you respond - individually or together - can't be predicted. Consider the death of your child, long-term involuntary unemployment, a serious but regretted breach of trust, complexities of relationships with others - family, friends, lovers, axe-wielding stalkers, etc.

The success of any relationship is not whether or not you make it to one or both of your deaths wile still under contract. Of my three marriages, I consider them all successes, with the current one being the best so far.

I WAS that guy until I was 30. But then I realized, while actually having sex with one of multiple partners that I was lonely as fuck.
Took a couple years to find the right girl for me and Im happy and never feel like I'm alone in the universe
This is her backside BTW

Ohhh fuck dude you have a great prospective married here with 4 kids never regret that and they are my life. But if you don't want kids DONOT get married why? 7-10 years in you will never have sex unless you beg. I wanted kids and I am ok with my no sex fate.

please give me advice?

I'm thinking. focus on career. get married at like 35.

>Almost married. Long-time gf was pregnant. >Few suspicious incidents of hers kept me engaged but never wed.
>Decided to really see who she really was (despite 8 years of dating).....mined her phone
>Found out she was cheating on me whenever and figured 'bit trails' weren't a thing.
>Tried to work things out as daughter was 4.
>Love never came back the way it was.
>I began to drift away to better opportunities - she tried to get me fired multiple times.
>Ended with her drunk alchoholic shit self beating me near unconscious in front of our child.
>She went to jail but despite this and her documented alcohol problems somehow retained limited custody rights (I wonder how this would go if the roles were reversed)
>now I'm in court non-stop fighting for the right to raise my daughter as I have - alone - as her mother has only partied the last year away

And that's why you can never truly trust someone until you've mined their shit. Remember kids - a 9/10 woman usually has 9/10 narcissistic personality issues.

>Conventions such as monogamy, ... sexual relations ... are not generally prescribed.

To put a blunter point on that as if all the anecdotes above don't: you are allowed to be married and have relationships - including sexual ones - with other people.

The difference between doing this the right and wrong way is a matter of what the two of you arrange, which can and probably should vary over time. Arrangements are not required to be symmetrical, just mutual and voluntary.

Can I ask what city you live in? I'm 23, make just shy of 40K, but I was afraid to move anywhere because I doubted I could afford it. Are you comfortable where you are at your salary?

>toronto

im in entry position that will go up when my contract gets renegotiated. so maybe 55k.

I love this fucking city. it's the best. gotta get a condo one day.

my honest thoughts are.

>enjoy the city
>meet lots of people
>network / expand
>settle down in early 30s

kinda like that.

No. That doesn't even happen, neckbeards aren't allowed to get married you stupid idiot.

Wowwy I am going to get rescued

>This is her backside BTW

Can't imagine getting tired of that for a fair few years.

No pics to reciprocate, so here's an approximation.

staying single and fucking women also can be very expensive..even if the sex is 'Free'

lol I said this same thing before my girl of 5 years started seeing someone else. Just remember you can only be 100% sure of yourself and no one else.

ill play. late 30s now, married seven years, or six, whatever. 2 kids. no sex live harly. both times she was tore up bad so it was like forever till she healed, now she is tired and all that w/ the two kids, i have hard shitty job so i can't helparound the house much, we are not like upper middle class w/a mexican maid to help w/ the house/kids, so everyone is tired all the time.

yeah, its hard and sucks, till I look at my kids. everyone says it and I wondered it if was BS about loving your kids more than anything ever. its true. scary in fact when you think of the horribifying things you do for your kids like if you were in a desperate situation. its biology.

OP, fullfilling your biological end is hard, but tis your nature and what makes a living creature happy. unless you have psychopathy, then don't.

i will also add that though my wife is sort of a sexual disappointment, she is strong, hard working, failthful, dedicated to the kids etc. If i was married to like sharon stone in casino or something I'd be hating life for sho.

>I put on about 50 pounds in the past 8 years or so, that's the only real downside. ...I'll keep eating the shit out of the dinners she makes

Keep eating but start lifting. What's she going to think as that 50 lbs of fat gets replaced by muscle - not some silly six pack abs but changing shape and being able to do things with her which you currently can't. Also, your dick will look bigger due to the reduced surrounding fat at the base.

Head over to the sticky in /fit/ but avoid all other threads unless you plan to go gay.

>Have my wife's tits

Kindly accepted, as they look quite delicious, as does she. Ethnic heritage?