Can someone explain to me why the cuck fetish is a thing and why it's so popular...

While conditioning can be a factor in some fetishes, it usually wears off over a time. The cuckold fetish has other roots. In psychoanalysis, it is called a "sexualisation". To break it down into a few words: When you suffered some form of trauma (hurtful events, like breakups, being cheated on, bad cases having unresponded feelings for another person...), your brain, your mind, is looking for ways to deal with it. Something that works rather well is to reduce a complex situation (like interpersonal relationships) to something simple, ie sex. The thing is, you get arousal out of this. Your brain is pretty much fucking you over while trying to protect you. Now some people can't work through this and end up developing an intense sexual pleasure thinking about a person they love cheating on them. Adding to this is the fact that people who've been traumatised sometimes tend to seek out situations where they can re-live the trauma.

Now you could ask, why is cuckoldry becoming so heavily represented in porn, or even here. While there is no definite answer, one could argue that with an increasing number of stimuli you're subjected to in your normal every-day-life (literally everything in your life, work, stress, interaction, fears, television, media consumption in general, news, noise, you name it), your mind is overexcited and doesn't have enough resources to handle the things that are actually important to you, because it can't discriminate between those things and the "background noise".
Interestingly, this is also one of the possible explanations for the increasing number of people with right wing mindsets, who are often quoted presenting overly simple, naive explanations or solutions (which of course are false) for complex problems (which of course have a great number of influencing factors).

few reasons. More people are sexually "free" and having one night stands and going on tinder, etc. so monogamy isn't as popular.
White guilt.
more into femdom as feminists keep on attacking the male ego.

Well, I'm so desperate for a way out of this, it's really embarrassing to confess but as I'm just another user here, it doesn't matter. Like most of you guys I've been whacking off to porn since I was 13. When I got 18 I met this really beautiful girl, we got together and everything seemed wonderful until she cheated me with this another guy since that time I got sexually excited by the thought of being a cuck, I was 19 at that time.
That shit was devastating and really got me depressed. It got me obsessed about analyzing all that went wrong. I'm 22 now, finished my bachelors and will be pursuing masters after a year, I have a good body and am socially well and good. I've tried abstinence, self affirmation, anything I can but this shit just keep coming back. It's so fucking embarrassing and depressing at the same time. I am afraid to hold a relationship because of this. I'm ready to do anything to loose this feel.
tl;dr any cure pls?

A bad thing happened to you at a horny age and it fucked up your brain. I recommend taking drugs (I'm not kidding, a psychedelic experience changes the way many people see the whole world).

Also, the more you suppress that feeling the more likely you're going to have problems.
"Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free." - Jim Morrison

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I don't know where you from, but if there's something like general healthcare in your country, try to seek therapy. Depth Psychology is designed to work this shit out. Your brain has learned a false response to a stimulus and has to un-learn or re-learn it. This is what psychotherapy is all about, bro.

Its about degrading and taboo thing. About being insaminated by primitive inferior animall like nigger (dog are even bigger taboo). Its all about dominance, big black cock porno myth was created for it. Its about going as deep in pussy without condom as possible while you boyfriend is unable to do anything but watch helplessly. Yeah people are sick

Two reasons.

1. Some stuff people say is "cuckolding" is swinging or polyamory. They're not exclusive with their partners, nobody's offended, nobody's being left out or whatever.

2. Same reason some people have a fetish for being punched in the dick, or get sexually aroused by breasts, or only enjoy anal sex. Depends on how the brain's wired. Your experiences can change that, of course.

wouldn't this be a situation of trading one problem for another?
and how do you recommend me to face my fears?
I don't even remember the last time Ive visited a medical specialist and sharing this info with a total stranger is next level!
Still I'll give it a try.

trump shills

> trump shills
Are you retarded

>wouldn't this be a situation of trading one problem for another?
Only if you're a tweaker. Just give it some consideration.
>and how do you recommend me to face my fears?
Hell if I know, do I look like fucking Green Lantern over here?
Just, find a way to face them instead of running. Because they'll chase you forever.

I read a story about a surgeon who, once during a surgery, nicked a vital vein or something. He was filled with fear that he had just killed a man. He felt a wave of fear wash over him. Instead of pushing it away, he let himself feel all the fear at once, and then decided he was done with it. He let his fear in so he could snuff it out instead of letting it loom over him. He went on to fix the vein and the guy's life.

Sounds to me like you really loved that girl and your hormones activated at the same time you wanted her to be happy and your wires got crossed somehow. Take that with a grain of salt, I don't know the full story of what happened nor do I want to, and this is all armchair psychology.

Sure, it's next level. But, dude, think about what a fucking therapist has to listen to every day. A guy getting off while thinking about his gf cheating on him won't be "next level" for them.
You're suffering, which usually is "enough" to make the condition worthy of a therapy. As I said, trauma therapy with a psychotherapist versed in Depth Psychology is what you should be looking for, if you can.

too much porn basically.

>I read a story about a surgeon who, once during a surgery, nicked a vital vein or something. He was filled with fear that he had just killed a man. He felt a wave of fear wash over him. Instead of pushing it away, he let himself feel all the fear at once, and then decided he was done with it. He let his fear in so he could snuff it out instead of letting it loom over him. He went on to fix the vein and the guy's life.

You didn't read that, that's the story Jack told Kate in the first episode of LOST.

OP here. To me the thought of any man going near my girlfriend causes alot of anger, i've had quite a few bad break ups and even after all of them i never want another man touching my girlfriend or even seeing her naked. Cucks really confuse me

Huh. Someone must have written it down without sourcing it.

wtf is that in my captcha, I don't have a fucking swirl key on my keyboard godamnit Hiroshim00t.

cuckolding is awesome. feeling the sexual energy from you woman with a dick much bigger than yours is something every man should experience.

kill yourself

mental masochism.

Sure, but this doesn't effect everyone in the same way. Plus, people have a bunch of different strategies for dealing with sorrow, fear, guilt, sadness, whatever.
This pretty much means that a breakup or getting cheated on causes a very individual experience in a person that is determined by a bunch of factors, like their personality, their prior experiences, their way of bonding with people, their early childhood events. And then, similar factors are also responsible for an individual way of reaction to the experience.
Even if two people would suffer from exactly the same situation, their personal experience might be very different. And even if their personal experience was identical, their way of reacting to it could be fundamentally different.

how can this not turn you on? believe it will turn on your waifu too. her pussy will be so wet from a bbc way bigger and thicker, and you'll hear her making noises she's never made with you.

Dude, take your trolling somewhere else.

>"waifu"

Double kill yourself

my wife gives awesom blow jobs. she just get's much more excited and enthusiastic with a bbc. the entire thing is just another form of sexual stimulation for us. and i happen to like seeing her with a big dick as well.

Ah, that's better.

i like seeing the cuck in the photo.

Gonna have to agree with this one.

Don't worry, his genes won't be in circulation, if you catch my drift.

it's not rocket science. women like big dicks. just because you don't have one doesn't mean your s/o doesn't want one. she does. women will sleep with guys simply due to the size of their penis. giving her one and seeing how much she enjoys it is something you both can enjoy.

So letting her have a cake and eating it to? Yet you probably dont get shit on the side as well?

there's been many studies into dick size and the pleasure it gives women. Anything over 6" roughly is actually worse than anything below 6"

What he said. The first time I watched my gf with a big dick it blew my mind. It also helps that we use crystal meth which makes me willing to try anything .

I call for a holocaust of the cucks

They're not cucks, they're trolls.

a big dick is different than another woman.
i'm not a troll, dude.

Where the fuck are they coming from and how many of them are there? What is their angle? I just don't get it. Who could possibly profit from this?

kek

I think it's because these cucks have no confidence or selfesteem. They need confirmation of others before they can like something because they are so selfconscious. If other men fuck his wife then that means his wife is hot which is pretty fucking stupid if you ask me.

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who did the study? the Institute for Men with Miniature Members?

Be 12 somewhere else, kiddo

kek
the wife of a friend of mine said one thing she never had was a truly big dick, but that she was also scared that it would hurt her and she wouldn't like it.

so one day he surprised her with a bull. this guy was a real fucking bull too, 6'4, 210 lbs.,10.5 inch bbc.

30 minutes into the fuck of her life, she was scream 'oh, my god, i can take it all now! give it to me, daddy, i want it all!'

If you seriously base all your s/o's pleasure on dick size, i can see why your gf wants to fuck other guys

here's a woman, 26 years old, who cuckolds her bf. very hot woman and a very lucky guy. they post occasionally on reddit about their bedroom play.

It isn't popular. There are just a sad group of people who are going through a phase in their lives and they feel the need to make the same thread every day many times. Cred Forums is not the center of society.
My experience is that i haven't seen this fetish anywhere else than in here and some pornsites.
just a phase like anything else like somethings in the past.

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Zionist propaganda promoting all kinds of deviations

of course you haven't seen it' it's not something people advertise, but i'd say half of couples will have more than one sexual partner in their lives at some point in time.

i would just feel bad if my woman doesn't get to experience a big dick reach places mine couldn't. she still loves me and loves me even more because i want her sexually fulfilled as much as possible.

>but i'd say half of couples will have more than one sexual partner in their lives at some point in time.
How is that related to this thread and this conversation?

First, it isn't popular. A guy a while ago found evidence that most of the cuck threads, trap threads, anti-white threads, and black dick "you white bois jealous" threads are all bots ran on Cred Forums.

Even if they aren't bots, it is only on Cred Forums. This shit hardly exists in the real world. That is why you have so many faggot hook-up threads on soc. Because they can't meet in the real world under normal circumstances. I personally believe it is wrong. Some sort of genetic flaw or dramatic event in their childhood that made them value rejection and failure.

Just ignore threads you don't like. Eventually the fads die down.

hotwife fetishist here, have done a 2 month poly relationship where many MFM threesomes happened and sometimes me just watching.

It started when I got a girlfriend and she had sex with her boyfriend before we became mutually exclusive, I was a virgin so it hit me hard like she had cheated on me, and she wasted what could have been my first time on her 5 year long term boyfriend. Anyway the fetish of me wanting to see her with another guy grew off that, because instead of getting pissed off and breaking up with her for cheating on me, i decided to turn the thought of her with other guys into something GOOD in my head.

It has nothing to do with humiliation, dick size, any of that, just the fact that its another dick in her.

My mum's a psychologist and i just asked her about cucks, she says its a form of mental illness. She said it's linked to feelings of insignificance and self hatred

>First, it isn't popular. A guy a while ago found evidence that most of the cuck threads, trap threads, anti-white threads, and black dick "you white bois jealous" threads are all bots ran on Cred Forums.

really? so how come no one other than you has heard of this?

sounds like mom is a hotwife scared you might have caught wind of her hotwifing.

My girlfriend gets turned on seeing me enjoying other girls, i don't complain

cuckold/hotwife/swinging/polyamory is a solution to this problem. The fact is 70% of people in a relationship WILL CHEAT AT SOME POINT. 70%! jesus fucking christ, might as well never enter a relationship if you dont want to be cheated on, the worst feeling in the universe.

what swinging/nonmonogamy is trying to solve is evolving past cheating, realizing that your partner may cheat in the future, and defeat that possibility, by allowing them to cheat proactively, in a controlled environment which you control, not behind your back and with tons of backstabbing and betrayal, but right in front of you.

Its the next step in sexual evolution, the step after that would be free-use.

OR my mum just trained as a psychologist and after explaining to her what a cuck was, she then said what she thought, you fucking reject

one of the most intense sexual positions is for you to be on the bottom, girlfriend on top, and your bull on top of your gf.

>mfw you Cred Forums cucks are too beta to be able to have real sex without getting your feelings hurt because the bull's cock is bigger and thicker

>she says its a form of mental illness. She said it's linked to feelings of insignificance and self hatred
Psychologyfag here: This exactly.

OP here. If you're a cuck please just an hero so i don't have to look at you all defending your actions. I asked why it was a thing and i got my answer, you're all mentally ill with feelings of insignificance/self hatred and some form of complex. Feel sorry for you all in a way

i only have a 7.5 incher, but my wife's ex had a 9.5 incher. when i have the chance, i don't mind her getting someone who can really fill her up. it's hard to explain, but it's just nice to see her getting stretched out with a real cock.

That does actually make me feel guilty about my girlfriend... Should i stop? because she really likes it... and she's never seemed sad about it

Just do what you enjoy, as long as you don't hurt anyone.

any more pics?