Start dating new girl

>start dating new girl
>she was defrauded by her last boyfriend (he stole her identity) and the guy stole from a bunch of other people
>yesterday was the trial
>she was very upset and had to give a deposition back in her hometown
>last night she went out drinking
>in the morning she usually says hello, didn't today
>I checked in with her to see how she was doing and she said thanks but didn't keep any conversation going
I just give her space, right? I mean I want to be there for her, but I'm not sure what will make her feel best? Being left alone or me texting her? Should I stay quiet the rest of the day?

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>I just give her space, right?

yes. be there for her if she wants you to be but don't force anything on her

>in the morning she usually says hello, didn't today
>I checked in with her to see how she was doing and she said thanks but didn't keep any conversation going
if she went out drinking she might just be hungover

She fucked someone last night. Reevaluate your relationship, and do it fast.

Thanks, I'm never sure how to handle this stuff. I'll just check in with her tomorrow morning then and leave her be the rest of today.

no problem. and yeah, thats a good plan. just give her the space she needs to handle what she's going through. you don't want to make her feel worse by smothering her, especially if this relationship is relatively new. im sure she appreciates you offering to be there for her and checking in occasionally

It's such a funny feeling when someone texts you a whole bunch and then all the sudden doesn't. I know it's just her situation, but can't help but feel worried her experience might make her not want to try me out anymore... if that makes sense?

I'm going to give her space though, I know my fear is irrational.

i totally understand that; the change in texting frequency kinda makes you uncomfortable and self-conscious, right?

just know that it's nothing to do with you, it's all to do with what she's going through. i know where your head is at because i do the same thing to myself

Yes, exactly. Uncomfortable and self-conscious is a good way to put it. Especially since what is making her upset is what happened with an ex-boyfriend.

I just learned about this whole thing right before she had to go take her deposition for the courts, so it was a big surprise. I didn't know anything about it. I noticed she has some trust concerns early on in our relationship, I believe this is what it is from!

Finally someone asking a question and not being a fucking autist.
Thank you

kek

Thanks user. It's actually my first real relationship and I'm so fucking lost most of the time. I'm actually diagnosed with ASD, on spectrum, just high functioning.

she's probably upset about it which is why she didn't want to bring it up. probably didn't want to have to think about it and get sad while spending time with you

agreed, it's a refreshing change of pace

Kill her and rape her corpse you faggot!
Bring back slavery after.

>she's probably upset about it which is why she didn't want to bring it up. probably didn't want to have to think about it and get sad while spending time with you
Yeah, we had dinner plans and then the courts moved the date and she had to cancel and get a flight home. I took her to the airport and she told me then, was almost in tears. She thought I would be mad that she didn't tell me, but yeah she just didn't want to bring up that mud so early in our relationship.

Defraud her again and rape her. Cut her head off and fuck it. Be a man faggot.

And you feel like her silence means she doesn't like you anymore?

Why is everyone si fucking retarded ugh
Facebook and memes ruined your fucking life so bad you cant even communicate without anxiety

I donno, I guess I feel a few things:
1) I like this girl and want to make her feel better and don't know how
2) her silence feels so strange to me, even though I know the cause
3) I worry that this court thing brought up some old relationship stuff for her that might make her not want to try another guy.

The latter two are very irrational and selfish, I know.

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those last two are just you getting into your own head, which youre only doing because you like her. wait until she gets back and then see how things are between you guys

again, it's easy to internalize this stuff, but just keep reminding yourself that it's nothing you did or anything to do with you personally

Say fuck it, wait for her to text you, and move on. Life is too short to stress over a bitch. Especially if you have to question whether or not you need to stress over her. Plenty of other women out there.

i think the big problem is that because everyone is able to easily and instantly connect with everyone, that we become uncomfortable when that instant communication is cut off for even a little while.

it used to be that you, say, leave a voicemail on someone's home phone machine, then you just wait a while until they get back to you. you knew that there would be some lag time, so the waiting wasn't as arduous. now that the lag time is theoretically reduced to zero, we make up reasons in our head for why there might be lag time in the response, which leads to self-consciousness

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odd thing to place your morals on the law.

You're right. So tomorrow if she is quiet again, just keep checking in once a day and seeing how she is doing and leave it at that?

She gets back in a week.

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good plan. once a day may even be a little much depending on how often you guys usually communicate. maybe every other day. and just say something like "hey, hope you're doing okay, i'm thinking of you, let me know if you need anything"

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We usually communicate on and off from morning until night. She sometimes asks me to be her wakeup call since I wake up earlier than her, she wishes me a good nights sleep, we chat around lunchtime... chat at night after work. Facetime calls...

okay. then once a day sounds appropriate then. just try to feel things out tomorrow when you talk to her

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How should I feel her out? Maybe around ten ask her how she is feeling?

Sorry to break it to you OP but I'm her ex. I've already raped and murdered her. Too bad. I'll send her severed head your way though.

yeah, something like that. by feel it out i mean see what kind of a response you get from her tomorrow. if she's talking to you more then keep with it and you can try to talk to her every day; if she's minimally responsive like today, maybe wait another day or two before talking tom her again

Nope. Just rape. You'll feel 100% better.

>nooo dont be raped and murdered your so sexy aha

That's fucking gay dude. What he ought to do is rape and murder her family as she watches then rape her wearing the skin suit of he mutated relatives.

mutated relatives? is she one of the X-men?

>defrauded

Thanks. Maybe instead of early in the day checking in with her, I'll wait until like 4-5pm to space it out more. If she is still really quiet, I'll leave her be the next day.

yeah, that's good thinking

Yes. Precisely. They mutate after being raped and murdered.

You rape her yet? Cmon don't be a pussy.

This is good advice user. I had something similar happen. She apologized in the end. You have to give her space, but, if you guys talk as much as you say then she owes you a bit of an apology when she comes back too.

I don't feel she owes me an apology, I mean I get it that has to be an extremely horrible experience to trust someone and then have them do that to you. Then to have to re-live it..

But yeah, I feel weird today.

If you guys are intimate and such, she does, when the time is right. She probably realizes that she is quiet toward you right now, so she'll come around.

Welcome to women with baggage, Cred Forumsuddy

agreed, she doesn't OWE you an apology, really. she may say sorry for not being very responsive, but dont expect as though you deserve one

Stop being a pussy and just rape her family dead along with her!!
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t-thanks?

I hope she doesn't apologize. I think for when she comes home I'm going to make her a little comfort box or something, maybe put in her favorite perfume and snack and a joint (she likes to smoke weed)... Was saving the perfume for valentines day but I'll come up with something else for that. What do you think?

>defrauded
call irs

We aren't in America, and the guy stole from a lot of people so he is going to prison. She just was a key witness.

Is defrauded not the right word in English? Or is it just defraud or something?

I AM JEW WHO NEEDS MORE SLAVERY AND RAPE. KILL THE WHORE AND RAPE HER FACE FAGGOT.

i like that; i think it shows you're thinking about her and care about how she's doing but you're not trying to pry for details about her situation and force her to talk about it

Awesome. Thanks!

no problem. best of luck, user