>Be me, go to lush with girlfriend to get a bathr bomb.
>Get to talking with a guy working there, we shoot the shit for a little bit he seemed like an alright guy
>Paying the guy comes back, says he's got some sort of lotion to make ink on tattoos stand out more, asks if he can put it on
>Tell him alright, whatever
>Guy starts rubbing my arm with this lotion, kind of weird, but he's telling me about it and that stuff so I'm not thinking about it too much
>Still rubbing my arm with the lotion, it's now getting weird
>I'm a fucken autist computer programmer who definitely does not know the right reaction to this situation, guy seemed nice enough so I don't want to just pull my arm away and be rude, but it's also weird it continues far longer than was necessary, he finally stops, I pay and the gf and I leave.
>Been in the doghouse with the girlfriend for 12 hours now on account of that, which is bullshit cause I didn't do shit
>"But what if it was a girl doing that, then what would you have done>she's crying upstairs says she's needs time to relax
>Wtf?
>I'm not going to apologize though cause I did nothing wrong
Be me, go to lush with girlfriend to get a bathr bomb
You should go back and fuck him. That'll show her!
did you get hard? be honest. even a twitch down there.
He was testing if you're gay.. if you did, he knew.
Your woman like most women is bat shit. Gtfo of there
You agreed to go to lush. Sure you may have let a guy rub you for 45 mins but you didn't let him go balls deep inside you. Honestly that's about as well as it could have gone for your relationship once you entered the shop.
Give her a lecture about her unrealistic expectations and make her sleep on the fucking couch.
>>I'm not going to apologize though cause I did nothing wrong
be ready for more of that shit, and either backing down and apologizing or fighting till you give in and apologize lmao
been there bruh, if she isn't reasonable then ditch that if there are more red flags that you've been ignoring or 'putting up with'
you deserve more user, have some respect for yourself
>Been in the doghouse with the girlfriend for 12 hours
Enjoy the peace and quiet
she's on the rag. disregard her bullshit.
Yo was he cute?
>>I'm a fucken autist computer programmer who definitely does not know the right reaction to this situation, guy seemed nice enough so I don't want to just pull my arm away and be rude, but it's also weird it continues far longer than was necessary, he finally stops, I pay and the gf and I leave.
people have different personal spaces. for someone who probably has to rub that shit on 50 people daily he might have not thought about that weirding some people out
still, you need to know when to stand your ground when someone makes you uncomfortable. 'okay that's enough' is enough.
and by saying you need to stand your ground, i don't mean only the situation at the lush store - but with your girlfriend too. don't put up with that nosense bullshit guilt-trip when you did nothing wrong and were uncomfortable. why the fuck does she have to make you feel worse and guilt trip you about 'what if it was a girl'.
jesus, she sounds like a delight that would do shit like that all the time and guilt trip you 24/7 just so you can be the lil bitch
OP too much of a faggot to tell someone to fuck off. Also dating a dumb bitch who's either overly controlling of who comes around you or plain retarded.
If she's not hot with a huge ass or giant tits just jump out the window
>girlfriend
stopped reading right there.
set some boundaries OPanon. voice your opinions, especially when you're in discomfort.
also don't ignore red flags in your relationships, trust your gut. don't give in if you're not wrong, understand where the other person is coming from, but if you think it's unreasonable then it probably is (in your case - it is unreasonable)
man up, as harsh as it sounds.
you deserve more, you don't deserve to settle down for being treated like a little bitch and guilt tripped for no reason.
take it from someone who had to learn it the hard way
She's knows you're a faggot.
>inb4 OP is the lush worker trying to figure out if massaging a random guy for like 10minutes was super gay
did you say n-no homer?
>inb4 OPs gf is fucking the lush guy
>lush guy had massive banter making OP uncomfortable cuz he knows OP is an aspie cuck that's into tranny porn
>gf says she needs times to herself
>she is crying from laughter
The advantage of being a workaholic is that I can always work to escape. She started lecturing me on how she would've reacted, and what I should do in the future. Told her the situation is ridiculous, and she stormed away angry. Now back to work. And I agree with standing up for myself, and having boundaries it's just situations like that out of the blue, I don't know how to react to that, some guy at a cosmetics shop rubbing creme on my arm for extended period of time is something that had never even crossed my mind as being possible, so in my grand scheme of reactions to situations there was nothing stored for the proper response to that
Either storm back in there and hate fuck her until she forgets about it or kick her out and be done with her bullshit. Preferably both, one after the other.
I think she realized that you actually a massive faggot and she is debating whether to cuck you or not.
Put your hard drive in the microwave and fuck her in the pussy.
This
Tell her the lotion was wetter than her pussy when she's around your non-confident sorry ass
If you want serious advice, you know this isn't the place to be. But then again, you're probably reaffirming your beliefs in your actions. Regarding the argument, yes it's dumb, but you don't need to always win with your significant other. Just be clear that you are not in agreement but that you're willing to accept to be more understanding. You basically will be nonapologizing. But you know what that woman wants, you spent the last X amount of time with her, but you're going to be against anything that isn't logical right?
Yeah I know it's not the right place to be, but there's something nice about the anonymous part that I do like, and most of my friends I'd talk to are in the US and currently asleep. Such being the case can say what's on my mind anonymously, and vent a bit about being frustrated about the whole thing
Your gf needs to get the jelly out of her right quick and take the mature pill. /-:
1) The sales people at lush do this. Tried a soap once and had my hand almost sexed while women was looking deeply into eyes. Its sales, its flattering, move on!
2) Sheeeiiit, the husbands always getting checked out by gay dudes and old laddies, he's too dumb to know he's getting flirted with. Its cute .
INB4 tits....not happening...*married*
Dude just don't even acknowledge this shit around her, if she brings it up again just laugh it off and tell her you have no time for it... if she doesn't talk, let her be
If you apologize for dumb shit like this or give her a pass and try to be all understanding then she's gonna be pulling this kind of shit all the time because you've enabled it when you should have nipped it in the butt
The true action to take is to put a leash on your bitch before she acts like she's the man
Any man who's done his ropes will know that females play mind games and eat it up when you respond to their pettiness and they go crazy and give in when you don't give a fuck
So, go about your business and ignore it, let her realise you're the man here and she'll come around later knowing her place and not pulling tantrums like a fucking 5 year old again. You'll save yourself a thousand headaches in the future.
I usually don't give srs advice but I did it for your sake. Thank me later.
cuck
Did you get an erecetion? Then your a faggot. Come out of the closet and break up wid gf.
She cheated w a trap?
you let a trap molester you for 20 mins in front of your now ex-gf.
also tell your ex that "bath bombs" are bad for the vagina (I want her musk at its fullest), post her pic -- if she's attractive, i'll be balls deep very soon in her.
Fuck that bitch, if she ain't turned on by just some dudes doing dude stuff she ain't worth it bro
Feel you, i wouldn't have a response to that. I would probably think WTF, go out of the store still not sure what happened and then break out in laughter because it was just so fucking weird.
If she was there she could have also reacted, just saying. She didn't do anything either, she shouldn't be mad anyway.