How do I stop being a fag, Cred Forumsros ? I have a girlfriend, a bright future but since I was 10...

How do I stop being a fag, Cred Forumsros ? I have a girlfriend, a bright future but since I was 10, I keep imagining myself as a girl, dressing like one when I'm alone, fantasizing about having a boyfriend. Hell, I even went to those LGBT centers to ask some weird transwoman for advice. I'm so close to being a normal man, with a family and a good job but I'm afraid I'm gonna fuck it all up because of some gay thoughts.

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Normal to fantasise about your own gender. dont pigeon hole yourself into being a fag or straight. The more you worry about it the more you feed into it.

Try being with a guy for a night, it will probably show you what you like.

I can't stop thinking about it. It's horrible. I was having sex with my girlfriend, and the first thought I had when she orgasmed was "Damn, I wish I could be fucked like that". That's not normal, I hate myself for it.

I can't cheat on her, even if I really want to try having sex with a guy.

You're full of shit.

What do you mean ?

You are telling lies about yourself for attention.

keep it at being a fetish, you dont know what you are giving up by transitioning. adopt femininity into other, less intrusive aspects of your life, personality, hobbies or talents

Was in your spot, thought I could repress the feelings. Eventually came out to my partner and they support me. Starting transition this year
Best of luck user but I’d be honest with your girl if you’ve been together long enough and love her. When I first came out only my partner knew and treated me the way I wanted. That helped for a long time when I couldn’t be out with others. Having one person in your life willing to love you for who you are and want to be is worth trying

That would be pretty sad. Do I want attention ? Kinda, I wanna know if there are people in the same kind of situation, and how they deal with it. I see trap threads everyday, so it's not hard to imagine someone with the same issues.

>That would be pretty sad.
It works be sad, except that none of it is real. You are full of shit. You are telling lies for attention. Even to yourself.

She knows about it, told her even before we started dating. She probably would support me but I can tell that she needs a man.
Good luck with your transition.

I don't think I could transition, I'm afraid I'll hate my body even more.
Feminine hobbies ?

Don't let your fetish dictate your life. Stop watching porn, and get it together.

Mate just be yourself. You seem to be forcing yourself to be straight, while you at least may have some bisexual tendencies. I'm not saying go ahead and transition, chop your dick, etc (don't chop your dick), but you at least owe it to yourself to be honest about your feelings and explore them. There is nothing wrong with being queer. I don't agree to normalization, promotion of queerness, the left's agenda or anything that could harm someone vulnerable, but what the fuck does it matter what two consenting adults do in their private life? It's nobody's business. Stop needing the validation of being "normal", as in having a wife and family and not sucking dicks and being normal all the time. Chasing that validation will not make you happy, living an authentic life whatever it is that means to you, will.

Don't know if I can do that. I masturbate so I can focus on my work after. It's kinda like a motivator to me.

Thanks, man, but I'm scared. I just want to live a quiet life, you know ?

masturbating drains me. I do it too but I keep myself in check

Mate your time on earth is limited. Will living a "quiet" life as you call it, lead to having a better life, better memories and less regrets in the end? There is nothing wrong with being yourself or being queer. I don't know what it's like to be queer because I'm straight, but I see that queer people usually have some internalized homophobia and the really shouldn't.
You have it too, you seem to want to be straight for fear of being queer.
I will always choose authenticity rather than pretending and fitting in. Being authentic is a much more elevated state of being and I'm sure would lead to a happier life.

Give her a strap. Problem solved.

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>>That would be pretty sad.
>It works be sad, except that none of it is real. You are full of shit. You are telling lies for attention. Even to yourself.
Sounds like your projectile projecting all over this thread gay boi

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what do you mean?

You are absolutely right, I should be honest to myself but fuck, man, it's the only part of my life I don't have absolute control over, I don't like the unknown. It could be a great experience or the worst mistake of my life.

Did it once, I loved it, best sex session I ever had. I could tell she enjoyed it a bit but not as much as I did. When I talked to her to organize a second peg sesh, she confessed that it was a bit too masculine for her. So that's over.

I understand it can be very scary.
You need to sincerely ask yourself what's more important to you, fitting in and living what you call a quiet life or exploring your feelings, which could maybe lead to a more authentic life.
My mental paradigm is choosing authenticity no matter what, but not everyone is the same.
What doesn't change is the fact that your time is limited and it would be in your best interest to live a life that minimizes regret.
I don't think feelings can be actually supressed. They are always there even if you deny them and by supressing them you are not being true to yourself. Is it worth it? I really don't think so. In my mind, being authentic always wins.