Cred Forums how do i convince my girlfriend i'm not a racist ? We've been dating few 6 months or so now and i get along well with her friends but i recently met a black friend of hers, he doesn't seem like a bad guy but i just feel really uncomfortable around him, i told her i didn't want to hang around while he was there and she kinda flipped on me. She also thought he overheard us as he left shortly after and she went after him to apologize, this was yesterday and i'm not sure what to do now.
pic unrelated, just porn for attention, also yes it's a repost from last night
no, i really don't think they deserve less or more than any other race, it's mostly subconscious i guess i had a few bad experiences with some that stuck with me.
Kayden Adams
just say that, in as honest a way as possible. And you know, if there's nothing wrong with the guy don't say he makes you uncomfortable
Jaxon Torres
requesting picture, doesn't need to be anything nude
Justin Hall
This, she should understand, granted she's not a rock
Ethan Martinez
Or just be racist.
Aiden Wright
Stop posting this thread you fuck
Blake Kelly
You’re a closet racist. She’s got to bang him now. Good going
Michael Garcia
Also when telling it, its a good idea to associate it to something race neutral like eyes.
Cameron Robinson
yeah ok fine.
i guess it's partly just cause i phrased it really badly, the guy didn't really do anything himself to make me feel uncomfortable, i'll try to explain it better.
i'm really not a racist though, and "She’s got to bang him now" lol ? no she doesn't.
Neck tattoo? Anyway she’s probably blowing him now just to make up for your behavior.
Kevin Hughes
it's on her chest, and no, she wouldn't just blow the guy, she's a nice girl despite the rep that tats have
David Reed
I also concur with those who said to tell her the truth. Also, ask her if he's a nice guy, because if he's really nice, maybe knowing him as a person and not for his nignogging can help you getting over your trauma ?
Austin Anderson
Gr8 b8 m8
Lincoln Carter
thanks man that's actually not a bad idea, could be good to kinda ease into it with someone who i know isn't a dick. just hope it's not too late for that
Lucas Brooks
You're gonna have to suck his massive cock while she's watches. It's the only way to prove you aren't racist.
Jace Reyes
Oof. She definitely looks like the bbc type. It's only a matter of time now.
Dylan Adams
if you apologize saying you had trauma, and still have some issue seing past the skin color due to low frenquency of interaction with black ppl (like ppl who got bitten by German Shepart will be afraid of thus race but wont get afraid of other one at home they see everyday for exemple). You probably just need some time with someone you can trust by procuration (gf) to get rid of this warriness, if you tell her that I can't see how she would flip on it, except if she's a stupid bitch, which I hope she isn't
Jackson Foster
she looks pretty good, a little cheap maybe, could see her sucking bbc can you show us more ? maybe a better look at her chest tat
Caleb Diaz
well unfortunately true, this kind of girl really are the one that take BBC like crazy in college to have fun, then settle with white dude for comfort, but still crave for it :/
Nathan Ortiz
stop trolling.
what ? what about her says she's that kinda girl ? just cause she's got tats ? Not all college girls sleep around.
Perhaps you just aren't a violent racist? Define racism and what it means to you.
James Torres
i dunno, to me it means thinking less of a certain people or race, and i don't think that. they're just people like the rest of us.
James Young
Just screencap this thread and show her, you dumb faggot.
Cooper Rodriguez
If "they're" just people like "us" then why did you separate them? What would you have done if you felt this way about a white guy?
Jeremiah Garcia
Who cares don't worry about it If you care about race you're a racist
Joshua Cruz
I hope she leaves you for him. White men are stuck in their box while white women are learning to adapt to change. Get used to her having friends outside her race , fag. Exactly why the fututre is bm, yall are too closeminded..
Aiden Carter
Don't get me wrong OP, while you should try and explain to your gf that you didn't mean anything agaist the guy personally, telling yourself you arent racist is just lying to yourself. Everyone is racist. Everyone thinks some race is worse than some other race. You can deny it all you want but that wont change the fact that you have a preference for some people and don't for others. Its not even anout skin colour, its about their character and so on. Anyhow gl with your gf. She should have let you explain yourself first though. Kinda pathetic she just ran after him
Mason Cooper
>types like a nigger >is racist towards whites Hmm
Nathaniel Parker
i didn't separate anyone ? any race is the same.
i don't have a problem with her having friends outside her race, i just have some subconscious stuff going on with black people cause of past experiences. kinda like almost drowning and being afraid of water after that
i do feel she overreacted a bit but i could've explained myself better, i hope it'll all be fine soon.
Jacob Kelly
>any race is the same Then why are you concerned about seeming racist?
Justin Butler
You are clearly rascist.
Kevin Peterson
because of what i talked about in the OP
Wyatt Roberts
more of her, she's hot.
Noah Sullivan
How many threads about white people do you think black people make? How many off comments about white people do you think black people make on Cred Forums?
Matthew Brooks
Oh okay, my bad.
Ryder White
Repost
Leo Young
Why did you feel uncomfortable? More importantly why did you verbalize these feelings in such a retarded way? Just lue and tell her it's your male ego that made you say it and that you thought he was eyeing her up. Nothing to do with race
Ryan Cox
If black americans were as numerous as whites, you would see about the same amount of threads. Regardless, I don't dislike blacks. I just dislike chimps and that previous reply just screams of a chimp
Everyone is to some extent racist, but OP's gf sounds like she would never accept or acknowledge this.
John Reed
Thats true
Levi Evans
That she is probably blowing him to get back at you.
Jordan Johnson
You do realize that people literally used to believe that black Americans were a different species? It's the reason why we suck at geography today. I understand what you're saying. You dislike stupidity and irrational behavior. I just feel that you would be quicker to judge someone who is black.
Grayson Sanders
She acknowledges that HE is racist but she’s not. No we aren’t all racist. I hate everyone regardless of race.
Grayson Richardson
she's not that extreme i think if i explain it better she'll be fine.
she is NOT blowing him.
Lincoln Taylor
Yes, she is. You’ll be lucky if she’s not doing worse.
Samuel Reed
OP, if you are being totally earnest and serious, what you're experiencing isn't necessarily racism, but prejudice. you are pre-judging someone for the color of their skin.
i agree you're not racist - which is when you use prejudice as an excuse to treat people badly.
it's ok to experience prejudice. we all do it. if I saw a neckbeard walking down the street i'd assume he was a virgin. if i saw a big boobed looking blonde i'd assume she was kinda skanky.
but, at the end of the day, much like how i don't know about those people, you don't know about this dude. you need to get over your discomfort, and admit to yourself that your discomfort is coming from a biased place. that's ok. we all do it. like literally, every human is hard-wired to do it.
i'd have some sort of discussion along these lines with your gf, where you admit you are in the wrong and had this discomfort due to negative bad experiences, but that you're not going to let those experiences change how you handle this guy. good luck.
Lincoln Campbell
maybe it isn't all about the racism? maybe there are other aspects of you she dislikes and that was just more kindling to the fire?
Kevin Flores
Fuck off with your nihilist faggotry. Take your equal right hatred and get fucked.
Joseph Bell
fuck off, she's not sucking him off.
you have a good point, i'll try to tell her about the past experiences and let her know what while i am not acting as i should it's something i can work on and it's not me hating him just because of his skin.
she never made it seem like there's something wrong so i doubt it but it's something i can ask.
Brayden Kelly
Suck his dick - it’s the only way.
Aiden Cook
I do realize that, and honestly, while I will say that I wouldn't be quicker to judge them, i wont deny that I would expect some type of behaviour more from a black man than some other race. Same way I would expect something else from some other race. I'm not denying I'm racist in some way, but so is everybody, you can deny it, but there will always be something that tells you you should be just on a tiny bit more guard, or tiny bit more judgemental of someone based on something. Can be skin color for racism, can be uniform they are wearing for something else or a bunch of ther things that someone personally has a problem with
Joseph Nelson
bump
Dominic Cox
You are fucking moron anyway
Christopher Carter
Just try to be friends with him ffs
Noah White
If you think you like her that much try to explain yourself some more. The way she acted upon hearing you say what you said makes it seem she will always hold this against you and wont really believe you even if she were to 'forgive you'
Benjamin Cox
i will try to be assuming it all ends up being fine.
i did phrase it poorly and maybe came across ruder because i had to be kinda loud cause of the noise and stuff, she isn't that extreme most of the time.
troll
Luke Young
Where are you from, Op ?
Dylan Davis
the EU, why ?
Hunter Bell
I understand that but, from what you said this had happened yesterday. Its fine that she in the moment went to fast check on her friend, but why hadn't she confronted you about this and listened to you up until now? It seems like a pretty big overreaction
Jackson Fisher
You actually believe that
>Buddy the things you'll see on a girls phone
Mason Walker
Well, aren't you the same cuck-curious belgian guy who posted the his gf here ? These pics of her are exactly the same.
If some cunt told me I couldn’t hang out with my one black friend I’d assume she was racist.
Probably wind up blowing my friend instead.
Jaxson Adams
Op just treat the guy normally hell if you get him to be more friendly towards you your gf will probably not think you are racist
Camden Harris
like she'd take picture or whatever if she did anything, who's that stupid
David Taylor
what's the pornstars name, pls
Easton Robinson
Learn to read you fucktard. He never told her she shouldnt hang out with him
Jordan Jones
She will, just to throw it in your face, racist
Dylan Edwards
i didn't tell her she couldn't hang out with him, and stop trolling with this whole her blowing him as an apology, she's a nice girl, not some slut.
she wouldn't, and i'm not a racist
Nathaniel King
That’s actually worse because now he can’t claim jealousy based on the black guys good looks. Now at best he could claim to b a little attracted to the black guy. At least that way he wouldn’t seem racist
Jackson Edwards
Cope
>Trusting modern day women
Just fuck lots of bitches, while settle
Connor Phillips
How do I convince gf that saying ‘nigger’ is funny?
Austin Diaz
Are you autistic?
Carson Nelson
Idk man seems like your in the cuck zone.She might seem nice but I found people who are to nice seem th cheat a little bit more often.How many times she goes to get with “friends?”
Camden Parker
OP, honestly I don't believe your gf would forgive you or understand you, but I think your best bet would be to get in contact with the guy before you talk to her and just explain to him why you said what you said. If he is an ok guy he will understand. Men are more understanding than women, and this way you kight actually have a shot. Just don't end up being cucked
Ethan Edwards
Are you? Ow is O.P. not being a racist? He’s made it socially awkward by doing it super publicly
What's her viral load? She needs to get the meds quick to work the best.
Andrew Evans
fuck off, these stupid pictures aren't helping anyone.
i'm not going to end up cucked, she's better than that.
she usually goes out once a week with friends but also has weeks that she stays home, very rarely twice a a week
Gabriel Fisher
Ok op you sound like you’re in a lot of Denial so how about you ask for coffee and to talk.If she denies the request she is being fucking my the nigger
just get out, no she didn't blow him, he didn't get between her legs and didn't fuck her ass either. NOTHING happened
Nathan Walker
Mf is in so much denial lol
Mason Kelly
So he’s gay? Now you’re really in trouble. Homophobia is a bad look
Liam Scott
be the alpha, and fuck her black friend.
That'll show her and him that not only are you not racist, but you're not a wimp.
Just make sure he lubes your asshole first, butthole tears can transmit aids
Christopher Green
Wrong answer
Hunter Evans
what's that supposed to mean ?
Juan Wilson
Niggers are the worst user. I couldn't date a girl like that. Try to drive a wedge between her and the nigger or just kill the nig. Convert her to be racist like you. Its amazing how much you can impression on a girl
Connor Perry
literally the way you're talking about the dude and over-explaining how you don't care about his blackness, shows that you are probably not about to put on a klan hood, but you might let slip with a "that nigger" or something.
Bruh, you racist. And unless you're less stupid in other ways, either admit that and lose that hot chick that you supposedly have, or hide that shit like you racist cucks should and let it fester until it destroys you and you go ballistic in a walmart checkout because they closed the lane and you don't want to go to the one with the arab because she's wearing a headscarf, and you don't want her touching your groceries with her butt-wiping hand
Xavier Evans
You know op I kinda see how you are getting cucked.I mean your kinda a bitch and Denying the possibility of you getting cucked.im not saying you are but you have a bet fixed mindset witch may lead to her just saying “I can’t take avantege of him”
Parker Evans
lol i have never even said "nigger" in my life. you couldn't be more wrong.