Real talk, do most women these days just not have any hobbies or things they do for fun or am I missing something?

>do most women these days just not have any hobbies
some gym
some game
some drink
the lucky ones smoke green
some are taken

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I've been hitting on quiet nerdy girls on FB. Most of them like reading, have a talent or hobby, and are usually pretty sociable in general if you can get them talking. Tonight I'm going on a date with a 21 year old opera singer because I messaged her out of the blue and just started asking her about her interests. Turns out, there are a lot of really good looking, intelligent, and interesting women that are starved for attention the same way a lot of guys are. Stop paying attention to big tiddy E-girls and try talking to a girl that rarely posts on social media. Hell, even a few of the nerdy girls I went to school with have had serious "glow-ups" in the last 10 years, while the Staceys all look like drugged out single moms (oh wait...)

Most people are doing some things for fun. What a stupid question is this?

I can get pretty nerdy with my cooking talk. Especially if it's about meat and BBQing since I dabble in competitive BBQing and that shit is practically a science when you really get down to it so I can talk about it for a while if the other person seems into it lol

Congratulation. You're a very rare type of Woman.
I don't know that much people like you

I'm a guy and all I do is browse the internet and play vidya. So it's not just women.

I don't think a woman that likes to cook is very rare but thank you still

As a dude that is very into cooking, I find it unattractive as hell when women can't cook. Not in the misogynistic way, but in the "How the fuck can you eat takeout and boxed mac and cheese every night" kind of way.

Yea granted I eat simple shit like that too when I dint feel like cooking but honestly cooking isnt hard and I dont understand people who say they cant cook...like you cant read a recipe and instructions? You cant use common sense to figure out what should and shouldnt be added to a dish??

I never thought of cooking as "difficult"

It can certainly be tedious at times but not difficult

But if you didn't spend so much on clothes and make up you'd have plenty of money for hobbies.

Don't get me wrong, I definitely am not hating on quick and easy food, but McDonald's "chickie nuggies" isn't a personality trait.

Tits or GTFO

It's not difficult. People can't cook because they never really tried.
Cooking is easy af when you spend some time and learn the basics.
To learn the basics you have to concentrate. That's the problem for most people.
Watching Cat Videos on FB is easier

So because I'm a chick you assume i buy clothes and makeup often?
Lnfao dont assume stupid shit.

The last time I bought a new clothing item before my new dress(literally only because I'm pregnant and have no choice) was probably a year ago.
I wear clothes until the holes in them get too noticable and then I retire them to pjs.i hate trying to find clothes because I dont likea nything i see really

A lot of my makeup is stolen because its expensive and i cant afford it or it literally can last me 6 months easily so I never really have to spend much.
And dont even get me started on shoes. My "going out" shoes are literally 5 years old and looking shitty and still refuse to get new ones

Seriously dont be stupid and assume all girls are buying clothes and makeup

Cooking is easy you Manlet

Well you're stupid enough to think make up is so necessary that you steal it, I know that much.

I have that to
Its pretty sad

Nah

Cooking was something I picked up as a kid because my dad has a passion for cooking so my food dest memories was me standing in the kitchen watching him in the zone and he always looked like he was really peaceful and I'd ask him a lot of questions and he would enjoy answering them.
So that's where it stems from for me personally.

Eh I don't find it necessary at all.

It's like an artist stealing paint.

Makeup is also a "hobby" of mine. Though you simple boys dont see makeup as a hobby so I didnt bother to Include it.

It's something I enjoy doing for fun so I'll steal it if I really want it.

When did I say it was hard? My point was that it is easy and takes minimal effort at a base level, yet we live in a world where women think completely subsisting on a diet of pizza rolls and mcdoubles is acceptable.

Nice reference to the artist that steals paint
As an artist I can agree that I do steal paint to support my hobby

Ah now I get what your saying user

Food just comes to us so readily now we just lost sight of the actual Joy's in cooking I'd say.

First me as a woman theres a deep connection between me and cooking and I think it's a maternal thing. The act of me creating something that will help sustain the life of someone I care for it THE best feeling I can think of. Nothing makes me happier than people enjoying my food

>Others I've known like to "hang out" which is code for not much.
>code for not much
M E M O R Y
S U P R E $ S I O N

Lol it really is the same thing. I mean just like as an artist you dont NEED to paint but its something you enjoy.
For me makeup is the same thing. Sure people can use makeup to cover up insecurities but I dont use makeup that way at all. I like the idea of transformation. To be able to contort a person into something entirely different. I'm really into special effects makeup too!

When I'm putting on makeup theres a zen like peace that goes over me and it's like i dont feel any of the worries i normally would feel.
I think that speaks for any hobby though. It gives you immense comfort.

I don't get the joy of other people enjoying my food
Whenever I hear that people enjoy my cooking I just tell them thank you that's it no feeling nothing

maybe its just the times we live, the social media/netflix era?

A REAL couple REAL answers here:
1. Guys say the same shit. When it comes to just regular everyday people, a lot of them cam be pretty fucking boring in all honesty.

2. Some people, either subconsciously or consciously, find it appropriate to speak about what genuinely interests them as little as possible in an attempt to keep up appearances. This is especially true when it's someone they don't know well. Often if someone seems far more interesting than what they say, they probably are and just don't talk about it to many people because they don't see their own hobbies as "cool".

Pretty much this. Most people, guys and gals, are just pretty damn boring. Say what you will about faggy artists and creative types, at least they're more likely to be interesting to talk to.

And yeah anybody you meet who does have something interesting to say has been conditioned to stfu about offbeat passions and interests around strangers.

As an artist that does graffiti I feel like I HAVE to paint
If not I get this itch like my body is telling me "go out to paint" I usually get an adrenaline rush most of the time no so much comfort but hey I'm used to it it's fun to do

pretty good reply tbh

women usually want men to entertain them and organize their time

>Don't find it necessary at all
>Like an artist needs paint

Pick one

Vidya is a hobby you can at least do something

I spend most of my free time reading internet bullshit.My girl's into sports, but that's not as exciting as you'd imagine. Especially when someone is into EVERY sport. Golf, Nascar, football, hockey, womens and mens national teams... I think she watches tennis... I don't know, I ignore all of it but hockey.

That's people in general not just women

When you work a full time job (40 hours+ a week) the last thing you want to do when you come home is a bullshit hobby

You want to sit on the sofa, watch brain dead TV, browse the internet and relax.

Even worse when you have a family and kids and weekends are spent doing chores, you literally have NO free time.

Not everyone is an 18 year old neet with 16 hours of free time per day

Will have to completly agree with this user. 40h a week job with two kids. I get up at 5 prepare myself and kids for work/kindergarten. Work till 4, pick them up, entertain them until 7ih, put them to sleep and then have about 2h max for myself. I like cycling so, this is a time for me to enjoy that. Sometimes have to compensate and spend time with wife. 9-10ih go to bed. Weekends are just full of chores/activities.

So yeah. Not much time for x somethign hobbies. But I can talk about family and cycling all day if someone is interested in it.

It really sad to see teens/young adults that waste time every single day. Spending it on computer, TV and basically any other pointelss stuff.

Stupid bs detected. Just lie to yourself about how stressful your job is and that you NEED to watch tv to relax. Don't lie to yourself and admit that you're a lazy fucker.
Theres nothing more relaxing than a hobby and time for yourself.

It's all pretty pointless in the end though isn't it?

>displayance
lol

This, although I don't have kids.

Work 40-50 hours a week. I love my job, but it's stressful sometimes. All I wanna do after work is relax.

Former neet and still prefer this way of living, you know, having purpose when you wake up in the morning.

As a full time student that has a little over 30 hours of class per week combined with a part time job and demanding assignments, and over summer breaks regularly work full time for extra cash, I can say I still have plenty of free time to enjoy myself AND still attend 4 club meetings each week not including weekend. Being tired isn't an excuse to put off what you truly enjoy. That just means you don't actually have a true hobby you're passionate about, making you one of the boring people.

No I don't think it pointless. You are taking care of your family, raising and educating kids and in the end enjoyin some free time for yourself.

I find the free time is spent better when you have less of it.

My idea is, if you have kids young (for me at 22), I will have a lot of energy left to enjoy 40s, 50s when they grow up. I would rather do that then having to raise kids in my 50s..

only if there were more people in this world than the ones you have met so far in you really short life.

It's hard to find cool people with relatable interests/goals/passions regardless of sex. A lot of my 'friends' here in the states become unbearable due to boredom. I find that academic environments are a good way to meet people with similar goals/aspirations, as well as traveling abroad in hostels coffee shops museums etc

I respect you for doing so much stuff, but I would like to let you know that life takes a completely different turn afte having kids. I also had extremly busy college life, but it simply can not compare to family stuff.

there are boring vapid people, and there are interesting people.
no point trying to group gender, or age, or race, or any other surface trait into boring/interesting because you'll probably end up assuming wrong more often than right
or maybe you're just a misogynist, whatever

Well yes. I'll give you that. But in my eyes, complaining about being busy because you're tired and complaining about being busy because you're raising a couple kids are totally different.

Having a family is a SERIOUS dedication that some are made for while some simply aren't and never will be fit for. It's totally different from any other type of activity to me because you are LITERALLY nurturing a little human and that takes a lot of responsibility.

I understand that kids are very demanding and that your whole life turns around them but it's no excuse to use that few hours of free time to enjoy yourself and do something that makes you happy and enjoy yourself. Even if its just a walk of 40 min or playing guitar or anything.
Anything is better than wasting your free time with TV or Internet

Play poker with her?

How the fuck do you 'search' for girls on Facebook??? Am I missing something?

I'm not complaining about being busy. I just like my life right now. Like I was trying to say. Having less free time make you wanting to spend it better and that is the thing that I try to do. Find something that makes you happy and you can relax so doing it.

I squize in about 2h of training 4-5 times a week. I seriously enjoy it. Some would say that this is not a hobby, it's a sport, but I can clear my head and relax at the end of the day.
I just hate it when people are wasting time every day. Yes, we did similar things when we were young but, I think kids/teens nowadays just spend to much time on social media trying to compare to someones perfect life as it is captured on their profile. They are not interested in anything else. I'm speaking for majority here...

One of my sister's only hobby is smoking and drinking at her house parties. The other sister has a cooking hobby and really goes for it. I think it's just the person. Normie girls

I guess you creep all your friend's friend's friend's friends
Friend request 300 girls and a couple might accept
Sounds like a lot of effort, better chance of meeting someone in person if you socialise regularly tho

i hate you fuckin kleptomaniacs. you probably steal from your friends too

eat a dick JT

Every couple I know seem to have NOTHING in common like hobby wise, makes me wonder how they are still together. Like what do they do all the time?

ever since 2007 women's primary hobby has been staring at a cell phone

Social media has given women access to more attention and validation than ever and they can't handle it. So yeah why would they do anything else?

No it means she fucking boring. The way you fags bow down to pussy is pathetic. Shes a boring do nothing bitch that probably lists shopping as a hobby too.

Well, it is necessary for girls to have makeup. Both in professional and social settings.
>If girls don't wear makeup

>Professional

They'll be perceived as unambitious, lazy, unapproachable, as well as unprofessional

>In social settings

They'll be perceived as unattractive, boring, shy.

All of which are not necessarily bad, but still that's the first impression you give to people when you don't wear makeup, which is good to know.

>Of course this doesn't apply to your long-time friends and not to all people in general

Oh no. The incels have arrived.

they watch shit reality TV and dream about fucking other people

not everyone's impressed by some bitch who slaps on the makeup
if you are, maybe that's why you only meet boring idiot women

call me an incel if it helps you cope but it doesn't make my statement any less true

No I would not agree with this. Mybelf I find girls with no makeup more attractive. She is more natural and you are not gonna wake up with her having full face makeup on.
So if she goes out like this then I respect her and would rather talk to her than with some girl that has 5kilo facade on.

Except it isn't true, it's your anecdotal opinion of a select group of people. Even if you do seem it a fact, that fact would also apply to men as well.

I actively avoid girls with excessive makeup, not usually a good sign

Yup thats what I found to unfortunately

women aren't designed to be interesting, dude. they are supposed to be companions that fill our lonliness, we are the interesting ones. if you've been in a relatively long relationship you'll notice that girls get most of their personality from guys.

This

yea, blame your dull, boring life on your corporate job. it was your choice not to choose a career that is your hobby/passion.

you suck at attracting interesting girls, obviously, otherwise you wouldn't come out with this kind of nonsense

damn dude your life sounds shit

>How the fuck do you 'search' for girls on Facebook?
I think user is going over old classmates and stuff.

it's entirely possible to have a boring corporate day job and still do interesting stuff the rest of the time

creeeeeeeeeper

I agree with OP. Most girls/women have no interests besides wine and TV. Not even gambling. Nothing. They are waiting for YOU to entertain them.

gambling is an interest? here I thought it was just a way for addicts to spaff all their money