how do i deal with a dry spell? im a 21 year old guy, and i haven't sad sex in 6+ months now. my social life has gone to shit, i spend most of my time studying in my room. i want to fuck, but i also just want some human connection
i dont even need a full on gf. in fact im not sure i even want that because i don't trust people in relationships. just something casual, some physical contact ffs...
but i don't get what's wrong with me? is this normal to be happening.
at 21 i surely be banging loads? this is like my sexual prime isn't it, my friends seem to be managing fine. i don't know if it's my looks, or that im just antisocial, or both
Joseph Nelson
i would say more accurate to replace money with looks, especially at my age (21)
Chase Hughes
good looks is already a default expectation, but you wont go far without money
Julian Williams
Well the whole "random sex"or 'friends with benefits' thing isn't really all that healthy socially or mentally. We're biologically wired for relationships in my opinion, you should someone you would like to be with and someone that can fulfill your desires, honestly I think you'd end up happier and in a better place that way anywho.
>months Lol you are like little baby. Try crying when it has been at least a year.
Carson Richardson
fuck a fat girl. they'll give good head, let you fuck em in the ass, and let you cum in them.
Cooper Gonzalez
well if i continue this way it will be a year soon. time moves so fucking quickly
Eli Stewart
and where would i find one?
James Jones
AAAAAND you can ghost them, but if you want to go for round two, they'll be down no prob.
Ethan Cooper
a bar.
Michael Howard
Become a professional twink
Gabriel Kelly
Social dry spell or sexual? If you just need a fuck, find a drunk girl at a bar or a party and have a night with her. If you want new friends, find a group with similar interests- college clubs, classmates, the gym, wherever
Nathaniel Stewart
yeah how do i get sex? i'm a 22 year old guy and i haven't had sex in 22 years now. My social life has never existed, i want to fuck but i also don't want to cause i'm scared
Jeremiah Walker
Your best bet is tinder, grindr, or even try fetlife. Fetlife has a lot of potential just for a hookup.
Otherwise if you're lonely and spend your time in your room not out n about meeting anyone... then your cycle will just continue.
Ethan Lopez
it might sound stupid but i have bad skin (acne) so i dont like going out anymore. i feel like theres no way i stand any chance with a girl with moderate/severe acne, since there are 90% of people (or more) that have clear skin
Nicholas Gonzalez
>have bad skin (acne) so i dont like going out anymore bro are you me?
Jace Thomas
>6 month >dry spell It hasnt rained today and this nigga thinks its a drought. Fucking child.
Jayden Turner
talk to people as in bring something into the world that puts you in contact with roasties dont look for pussy, look to express yourself to the best of what your soul can provide this will lead you to social venues/sites and the pussy will come to you do not go there for that purpose, go there to bring what you're good at
This thread is proof that narmalfags have infested 4chins been true for over a decade but this thread is pure bullshit
Nicholas Cox
idk man, i just started tretinoin cream, hoping it works but it burns like a cunt right now fuck off faggot. guys wanting to get sex but not being able to get it, whether they are a virgin or not, is the cruel reality of life. a lot of guys except really handsome ones have this issues, because women control access to sex and they know it
Christopher Perez
>women control access to sEx.gif hurrdurr
Wtf is wrong with some of you degenerates? Women only fuck men who have the control, make them feel it, they have to know, you are the one fucking them and they are not fucking you, in the moment you let a bitch take control, it’s over.
And OP, just shower and jog, also, buy stuff that you see other people own, specially food, go to restaurants on specific days for different things, if you are poor, walk to a corner store or a super market and shop around, you’ll find someone with the same wavelength as yours.
Caleb Barnes
Fuck you, quit your bitching, I haven't fucked anything in over 2 years. The last human I emptied my balls into was in 2002.
Oliver Garcia
I havent had for 2 years and im 20, turning 21. Banged loads from 15-18 but had nothing since.
Colton Johnson
yeah well it all starts somewhere, at some point you also hadn't done it for 6 months. 6 months turns into a year, turns into 2 and so it goes
Jack Rivera
have you considered leaving mothers basement?
Grayson Long
i've used a shit ton of creams and none of them works i fucking hate my shitty acne
David Gutierrez
have you considered leaving your wifes house dont worry she will kick you out after the divorce
Adam Wood
slowdive is good
Leo Torres
just need a slump buster.shoot ur shot at anything that moves.even if its a bitch that isnt hot.pull a 5-6 and when the 9-10s see they will wonder why ur with dirt.
Tyler Ortiz
Welcome to life. If you want to be put off sex for as but try having a HIV scare. Or take up a few hobbies. You'll be fine .
Lucas Edwards
Desperation reeks. Try focusing on other shit in the outside world. Get into some hobby or sport or any random shit. Maybe something that even a bit out of your element. Focus on you and forget about getting pussy. You’ll likely meet people if you put yourself out there a bit and as a bonus you have an ice breaker to talk to randos. At the very least if your inept awkwardness gets the better of you, you may find a new hobby you like or improve on one you like or walk away and say you at least tried.
Kevin Rivera
lovely Rachel
Daniel Morris
yeah she was perfection, shame she hit the wall at full speed got such a mom look now