Understand and truly accept that you don't matter. You hate yourself because you believe that you're special, that you deserve some place in a grand design. You think there's some form of yourself that SHOULD exist, and because you don't live up to that constructed image you perceive it as some shortcoming, some kind of failure or wound. But there's nothing wrong with you. You just are. You, and everything "wrong" with you, simply don't matter. It's okay. Stop trying to force things, you exist without effort, find your effortless form and your life should get better. Life is always terrible, but this should help bring some peace to yours.
Think about all of your habits, and gauge what reinforces negative thoughts and emotions versus positive ones. Remind yourself you're not alone, that many of us feel this way, and to think about the positive aspects of your life rather than the negative. Each thing we do, each thought and emotion can be processed in multiple ways: negative, neutral and positive. They branch out into multiple directions which leads down paths that can be hard to control. You have to remind yourself to not think too hard about the bad things in life or about yourself, and that you can choose to think about the good, but you have to catch yourself before you go down that hole as it only gets harder and harder to try and go back to a positive mental state. It takes a very long time to reach a point where you intuitively think positively, but you'll get there eventually. I have faith in you, user.
This is from an user who is not a furry nor has ever jacked off to porn.
The first thing you should focus on is distancing yourself from habits that give short term gratification such as pornography. The only way you could do that is depriving yourself access to it and picking up habits that will keep you away from it such as volunteering at charities, foodbank, and joining a youth group that does those things whether it is school, church, or run by some nonprofit organization. That is a very good place to start.
Nope, that's all that I could find. But hey she may of at least learned something from it. Better yet the parents did, that being a wood chipper work's better.
Ryan Russell
Thank all so much for the insights and support. I love you anons
I disagree. I'm fighting the urge to smoke right now because it makes me depressed as all drugs release dopamine which the brain needs to recover from, and the easiest way to do that is with that same drug, i.e. addiction.
Hell is real; it exists within our own minds. But seriously, I hope that piece of shit gets reincarnated as a slave in the 1600s to get beaten and raped by his master daily.
Very sore and in pain. I probably shouldn't lift weights again until I get to a chiropractor and/or get a deep tissue massage. My neck, back, shoulders, hips and jaw are still all fucked up from when a fell 4 months ago.
hey your not me. But if you fuck your dog too, then congrats on all the easy sex and easy mode to life basically.
Drugs, sex, music, bitches. Eryday.
HNNNGGNNGGGG
Cameron Murphy
my edge is sharp and ready to gut your ass
James Garcia
if anything take it easy. you fell, what...20 feet or something like that?
Ayden Perez
That's pretty gay man. You sure would don't go to prison for conjugal visits. I get the feeling you would be into it
Easton Moore
Well I fell off of a bench right onto my head which was a couple feet off the floor, twice, which was what really fucked me up, but I'm sure jumping into bushes which was more like 12 feet wasn't great either.
Noah Brown
I mean I managed to start catching feelings for a fictional character lmao
Jackson Ramirez
so anyone up for another thread of s/fur or are you crashing for the night?