My girlfriend of 2 years told me 2 days ago that she was wondering if we could open the relationship...

Absolutely the right thing to do

you made the right call
if you would have said no she would have just done it behind your back

i hope this cheers you up op
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Thanks

She thought I was joking at first, then I made her clear I was being serious and told her she had to vacate her stuff from my place ASAP. She broke down in tears and tried to guilt trip me but I just reiterated she was a whore and that her suggestion was simply a direct offense to me.

How the fuck could she not see the wrong in asking her bf if she could see someone else?

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Proud of you, OP. You made the right decision. Fuck that bitch.

fuck off redditfag

Women will never admit they're wrong. Thats why you'd always lose an argument with your mother.

youre such a fucking liar. youre prolly a fucking basement dweller who cant get laid

You did what you had to do, the minute this idea came into her mind it was too late already, she would have cheated and blamed you for oppressing her sexuality sooner or later.

You made the hard choice but the right one

You did the right thing user. Take some time for yourself. One of my ex's friends pulled this same shit with her guy but he was too much of a simp to dump her since she said it 'would only be girls.' I'm staying away from relationships for now, you should do the same.

Hoes mad

all female are insect

youre an idiot if you think everyone who posts shit on the interwebs is telling the truth. but everything to you incels is just a fantasy

>claiming she wanted to see if she was poly or some shit
how fat is she?

You made the right choice OP

pics of her op

Man fuck that. She basically was going to ask you permission to fuck other people.

You did the right move. If you had said yes to her, you would live in a bubble anxious trust of her which is toxic.

Fuck people who want to fuck people while on a relationship

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>possibility for threesomes and bukkakes open up
>make her your slut drowned in dicks and cum
>have a second girlfriend that licks her pussy while she throats your dong
>all this out the windows

you'll regret it in a years or two

Be proud, user. You have proven yourself a true man in spite of the faggotry inherent to being OP.

Don’t listen to this guy, he’s just trying to play mind games.

People actually believe this guy?

I get that you all hate cucks but this is just being gullible

Aka a Jew with a geolocation of Israel

this is probably what every cuck things when his wife says "lets get someone else in the bedroom to spice things up"
kys

You did the right thing, godspeed user

Is anyone else legitimately worried about where the whole "dating scene" is heading with degenerate shit like this being spread everywhere?

I'm about to start my masters and I'm really scared that I'll meet a qt at uni and that she'll pull out bullshit like that or say that she likes gangbangs or other degenerate stuff

F bro
Right move man now u jus gotta smash and dash

this
the state of new Cred Forums is saddening
everyhting is bait, and everyone eats it up

It's actually one of those rare reddit gems. Should give it a read.

Do the same as her. Next girl. Next girl. Next girl.

You did the right thing.

It has reality behind it. You silly.

Bro, there's a good chance she already cheated on you, with some of your male friends. Dump all those people and get yourself a clean slate of decent people. Tell your ex this: "Now imagine I told you you're not enough. You don't satisfy me. So I want someone new."

And trust me, the likelihood that she fucked your male friend(s) is pretty high. Women do that shit; they do something really fucked up and then try to turn it on you as if you're the one that was fkd up. Bet you she would have instantly suggested one of your male friends if you had said yes. A friend that she had already fucked.

In my humble opinion you did the right thing user.. I just don't understand how u stayed w someone like that for 2 years

That stuff happens and will continue to happen. Most of them regret it when they are older, though. In the mean time, just be prepared to drop someone that isn't worthy of your time and energy. It may hurt in the short term, but it is far better in the long term.

Jesus, go back to instagram you useless nigger its obvious you dont belong

>some dude filling all your gfs holes while you sit at home doing nothing
Sounds great

good on ya, op. poly is just sjw speak for friends with benefits. there ain't anything wrong with the lifestyle, but for fuck's sake call it what it is.

you did the right thing bro. It hurts but whatever. If you wanna keep her around as a fuckbuddy that's fine but risky, you can never enter into a relationship with her again or you'll get owned. Next time she just won't tell you or ask.
Don't let her friends or even your friends make you feel bad about it.

Basically: can be kept around (after moving out you can have short visits to fuck) as a hole, that's all she is now

Can't change them. They haven't been coming here long enough to have honed their BS detectors. Or they were gullible to begin with. Not 100% sure.

>I obviously broke up with her immediately
Good man. You made the right call. Women don't suggest that shit without at least having someone else in mind, if they haven't been fucking other people already. Better luck with the next one mate.

would you rather have a soda pop that you sip on throughout the day or a soda pop that has also had 7 penises in it that day?

Keep her as a cum bucket under the pretense you've forgiven her and given her a second chance, as long as she stays loyal to you (which prob won't happen but it's okay, free sex). Don't get attached or hopeful though, she's now just a cum slut to be used and later disposed of.

Time for bed

Just stay single and fuck other people's wives. Pound her 2-3x every Sunday. Fucks like a porn star

good fuel OP but you are a faggot for lying

sleepy time go to bed

cuck

Did a wife swap with my buddy the last two weekends. Found out his wife is into some super kinky shit that my buddy won't do with her. Went ass to mouth. It was God tier sex. Open yourself up to new opportunities dudes, it might fuck up but you also might have the best sex of your life. Flip the coin

As someone in an open relationship, you did the right thing OP.

Open relationships aren't for everyone, if that's how you feel about it then its better to break up and move on because trying to force it will only hurt you both in the long run.

That said you need to understand the difference between lust and love for it to even work; She fucks my friends, I fuck her friends, we communicate everything before it happens, and we can veto anyone we choose.

Gotta have that trust.

If shes springing it out of nowhere then shes toying with the idea of fucking someone else, probably already talking to them, and testing the waters; if you say no good chance she'll still talk, maybe even fuck when you two get in a break-up fight.

Not worth the trouble. Go into open relationships from the begining, or talk about it very early on, otherwise its just problem after problem.

At least you’re not a simp. Well done user

at least you're not a degen like

Exactly

So you are a betafag who has to and a relationship because he can't say no?

What's so hard about saying "NO DONT FUCK OTHER MEN"

You did the right thing bro. Asking that means, quite directly, that she wants to fuck other people. If you just said "no", her friends would have just convinced her to cheat.

Bringing that shit up at any moment other than the very start of the relationship, is breaking boundaries.

Nothing degenerate about consensual sex between adults

Insecurity, really. He knows shes thinking about other men and it will always eat at him when hes with her.

She meant another girl you fucking autist

you did the right thing.

my wife wants to fuck chicks and I do too so I'm down with it. I ain't slangin dicks with no dude though.

But we men also think about other women, doesn't mean we stick our dicks in all of them

You are right. Keep your position and u will replace her soon

Hey man, if you felt it was right at the time I think you did the right thing.

It's best when a man is on his own, to depend or codepend on a woman especially one that brings up shit like that, will eventually kill you.

I've found after leaving a nearly 3 year relationship, I was blind to my own ways and honestly felt like a fucking cuck even tho she was loyal til the day I ended it

My ex got mad at me in an argument over gas money and said she should go fuck other people off a dating app. Broke up with her on the spot. My dumbass hits her up a month later and she right off the bat asks me if I've fucked other people. I said no. When I asked her if she has she said it doesn't matter anymore. How do I stop being a pussy b? Legit asking from a low point as a person who was once confident. I really loved her but never told her once. Was with her for over a year. I know she was questionable but she was a great distraction. Sorry op but you did the right thing. Take my advice and do not do what I have done. I feel pathetic and even asked her some embarrassing stuff only to receive zero answers while giving out all information she wanted.

I meant someone specific. You dont take that kind of risk unless you have a payoff, in this case you dont start the "lets open our relationship" conversation unless you want to sleep with someone specific. Permission or not, he now can't trust her, but he doesn't know who he can't trust her with so he has to assume everyone.

You did good. I might have handled differently than the immediate breakup just for asking, but definitely a legitimate strategy/response

People are still fucking responding to this like it wasn't bait. Holy fucking shit. You retards.

ok fortnite

Okay fortnite

That sucks bro. Think concretely about the actions a confident person would do and do that. Use the next girl for practice. There’s a green text about the guy who became Ryan gosling from drive. Do that but less autistic. Just act like the person you want to be.

Based

Tits or gtfo

Degenerate

>How do I stop being a pussy b?
Listen to Patrice Oneal

OP confirmed boomer. Relationships that last 20+ years most likely involve fking other people.

since she wants to be a whore any pics?

That some version of "ok boomer" or some shit?

open relationship aka finding a new men while keeping you until she found a new one

Congrats on getting that bitch out of your life user. Who knows she may have already started cheating behind your back while you were still together.

I bet if I reposted this same story with this same image the moment it 404s I'll get just as many idiots biting as you did.

>Tell your ex this: "Now imagine I told you you're not enough. You don't satisfy me. So I want someone new."
No! Don't talk to the ex!!

...however, if any of her female friends are texting you, then feel free to talk to them. Some of them might be down to fuck. It'd be fine to say that to one of her friends - it explains the situation well from a position of strength. It shows you don't take shit from women, which is an attractive trait.

So yeah, say that, but not to your ex.

>How do I stop being a pussy b?
The key idea is to build value for yourself. You can do that by making money. You can do it by working out. You can do it by learning new shit.

Every day you need to improve yourself in some way - you need to have a goal and work toward it. Weed and vidya are traps. You'll spend years "having fun" and then realize you have nothing to show for it.

If your job allows advancement, then work on that. If your job is dead-end, then you have to get into school or training for something else.

If you're in bad shape physically, then you have to work on that. You don't have to join a gym, but you do have to start working out. Pushups, situps, and running is enough to get you started. Track it on a calendar and commit that you wont have something you enjoy if you haven't met your goals for the week. If there's a small community college in your town, sign up for one class so that you can access the gym there.

If you're in good shape already then you can choose to work out as your path to improving yourself - get yourself into excellent shape. Literally anything you do to improve yourself will work to attract women.

Depends how old OP is

This

Good job OP. EVERY MAN should do this. If we all did the world would be slightly less cucked. Please don't get down on yourself. This is a good thing in the long run.

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>this baited
lol nigger detected

Do not come back with that bitch

JUST COOM BRUH! Personally I like having some frontal loab in my skull but you do you user.

Do you have her insta? Or kik?

Read it moron. It's a great story.

Stop being low test, browse /fit/ for the exercise, dieting and memes.
Once you've done that you'll be capable of fucking everything and hopefully you find a new gf that shares your values.

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Nah fuck that, I would have done the same. Although I wouldn't have overreacted I would have just called it off

Based and good advice pilled.

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Your dad should have ejaculated you into the toilet instead.

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Every man and woman, let's not kid ourselves and ignore the fact that whores can be men too.
Bringing about a culture that beats the shit out of cheaters and poly cuckholdery fags would make it a lot less common.

Excellent move, OP. If she wants an open relationship, chances are she does indeed want out or she's not emotionally mature enough to date. I feel this was just an excuse on her part to fuck other guys. Really, it's a tale as old as time. Even if it really was for her intended purpose-- which we both know is bullshit-- it spells the beginning of the end of your relationship with her. So really, you did a good job.

I just love how women try to dress up their slutness in nice words "I'd like to open relationship" "I'd like to experiment a bit and get to know new things" instead of "I'd like to have your permission to be fucked hard by some chads"
Anyway, good work OP

user bro listen to me.
First of all if you're not trolling or some psyop faggot then I commend you for your strenght, you did something 90% of men fail to do, which is to detach and see the big picture. You realized that it's cheating and you did the absolute fucking best thing you could do. Do not take her back the "Just asking" is her way of seeing if she can whore around without having to hide it.

She's going to cheat and fuck around anyway, she just wanted to do it in a way that is lazy and doesn't require her to hide her shit. That's it, she's a cheating whore. You saved your future from misery.

It is time for you to ignore all the "friends" and find meaning to your life beyond a cheating woman, do not give your heart out to someone like that, someone that can be easily influence by "friends" to cheat. She's not good for you.

It's time for you to focus on yourself, your gym, your work, your studies, your family. Call your parents, call your friends, hang out. Spend time playing games, buy some clothes and hit the clubs, dance with random whores and have fun, go back to flirting and joking with other probably more attractive and less whorish women.

Move on op, that girl is over, and if you go back you don't deserve to be alive honestly. Just move on and accept that her "story" in your life is over. It's done, closed, and finished.

It's nice to see how many wise men are in this topic, not these bbc/cuck/trap fags

Watching too much TV I see.

No, you did the right thing. If an open relationship is something both people want, that shit has to happen day 1, not in the middle of it.

>d made her know she was a huge whore. Now her friends are texting me non-stop and even trying to convince my friends that I'm an asshole for breaking up with her "she was just asking" they say

op im in the same boat. you did nothing wrong, literally same thing just happened to me.

You Have to Live it.

Don't be retarded. Women hold all the control in our sexual climate. If men used our waning political power to force the country back into a sexually conservative state and regain control we may stand a chance in keeping our culture from totally collapsing.

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mgtow, yikes.

This op

The mind of your average broad

Based

You did good op if the tables were turned she would have flipped shit

women are inferior creatures

>yikes
>yikes
>yikes

Yikes.

you don't need to whiteknight over here no fembots roam around here

Hope she gets ass raped by a nigger.
You made the right decision OP

tldr

Well played OP well played

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Sorry to hear fren, my GF of 3 years cheated on me yesterday and I promise you you'll find the right one, never try change for anyone, and you can't force someone to love you

You did the right thing, to hell with that nasty whore.

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Sorry for hear that, user. You didn't do anything wrong. That suggestions should hurt your feelings and that's okey.

Btw her friends aren't helping at all. You need to chill out and figurate it yourself, user.

My english is a peace of ass and I don't know how to express myself but I hope that you can understand me lmao

You did the right thing. Now give us her number/social media

Thank you OP. If more men refused to go along with this shit it would stop quick. The reason women brazenly ask is because too many bf's and husband's are so weak they accept anything.

You also must accept she cheated at some point. Either she was fucking another guy when you began, she slipped out a few time during or she was already fucking another guy when she asked.

Thats actually the best dynamic I've seen for an open relationship. Nice job, user

You did the right thing mate. Even if its depressing now, you probably would've regretting going along with it.

let me tell you a story

>Be me,
>Have friend
>Friend is married to his wife
>Friend's wife asks "Hey how do you feel about a poly or open relationship"
>Friend tells her he really isn't into it
>He's not comfortable with that.
>A few conversations about it, All end with "Not comfortable with open or poly relationship"
>Friend's wife says Okay, I was wondering if it was something you were into is all.
>Cool, Happy marriage for 2 years
>Wife went out and told her friends they're open but he doesn't wanna know the details *wink* *Wink*
>They all got her back,
>One of the Wife's friend gets a boyfriend.
>That boyfriend meets the Husband, Thinks he's cool.
>That boyfriend meets the SideGuy whilst they're all out and the husbands away.
>That boyfriend notes that the Husband isn't seeing anyone else, Mentions its weird to his girlfriend.
>His Girlfriend says something like "Oh he doesn't like dating" Or something like that.
>That boyfriend stops by the husbands house one time to hang out and play xbox and brings it up.
>Lays it all out.
>Husband confronts wife when she gets home.
>She insists she's done nothing wrong and it's his fault for not being okay with it.
>Files for divorce the next day, Irreconcilable.

Now Side note,
Communication is fucking important in a relationship and so is trust,
Say the two of your are REALLY into Licking assholes. You both want it, But its not something that would come up naturally aside from a "WHOOPS I SLIPPED WHILST GOING DOWN ON YOU IS THAT OKAY"
Good Communication skills would mean you could just talk about that shit before it happens.
Like having babies man, If someone is not down for that the two of you could be wasting your time.
YOU GOTTA BE OKAY WITH TALKING TO YOUR PARTNER HONESTLY.

without that man, You're only going to piss each other off and thats what leads to cheating and the breakdown of the relationship, Like if you cant talk about anything with the one you love, WHO Can you talk to?

good decision

You didn't do anything wrong. It sounds to me like you did the right thing. Don't let this turn you cynical, there are good women out there user that don't want that depravity.

We're humans, we make mistakes and what's done is done. Move on and be better for it.

Nope, you didn’t. Gotta have some balls and sounds like you did. She’ll call you someday and say she misses you, and the good times will briefly run through your head. Ignore that.