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this is a really good thread.

Stop being an asshole. Go to sleep. Tomorrow, talk to your fucking wife like an adult. Fix your issues. If you can’t, divorce for both your sakes.

I don't think I'm an asshole. I work nights and it's Friday so I'm not up too late. Plus she works tomorrow. I would fix my issues but I don't even know what the fuck they are. I don't want a divorce. We've been married for 16 years and have a 13 year old son.

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Something is seriously fucked up in your marriage. You need to address it. Just be prepared to learn she’s already moved on. No, this isn’t a joke or an insult but reality. Your life isn’t what you think it is. Try to fix your relationship or move on... for the sake of your son.

Wish I know how to reply to people. Its not like this fucking site makes it easy to understand. I was just looking for some advice.

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Fpbp

I went through years of this. Plenty of money but no interest in hookers. Found the internet and quickly learned the fastest way to new pussy is by picking the right target and sweet talking. So what?

The right target is usually bored, unhappy, married mothers. Money used to set up opportunities for them to meet. Top class spas, hotels, concerts and secret gifts. All disguised as prizes or conventions. Husband stays home to look after kids. I get to wine, dine, spa and fuck the wife all weekend.

Loved the challenge and got some of the best sex ever with women who "just let go." Best times of my life.

> just get a divorce
Nah, better for the kids to have 2 parents at home in a functional, loving even if sexless relationship

My wife is Japanese, I'm American I trust her. I don't even think that she can convincingly lie in English. I just don't think she's really interested in me romantically anymore. I don't feel like she's interested in anyone else though.

So this is a larp or you are denying the truth. Either way, good luck in 6 months when you find out she’s been fucking your neighbor.

This is a normal stage that most marriages/women go through. Women need mental and emotional stimulation to get out of the rut. Take her to something new and exciting, like a concert or show at a top hotel.

Stimulate her brain if you want to get the juces flowing again. But it will never be like it used to be.

Have you ever heard of a story where this was the case? Friends, family, strangers. Have you ever heard a story where the woman becomes asexual out of nowhere?

My neighbor is a 60+ year old weirdo I don't think that's the case. My wife is trustworthy. I've been fucked over by women before so I'm super skeptical. She's a good person. In fact she's literally the most honest person I know.

Well it hasn't been like it was when we were dating since we were dating but I guess that's to be expected. I guess I'll try to think of something to excite her. Thanks for the best advice so far.

No larp. You're just naive and inexperienced. From talking to a lot, and I mean a real lot, of women, many of them were like my wife and OPs. The spark had dimmed and needed to be revved up with something exciting. They weren't fucking the husband because they were fucking the neighbor, they just had a sag in libido.

The rev up comes from the adrenaline rush and thrill of conspiracy. I fucked a lot of these women, some of them were so horny from the thrill of the situation that we were naked within 5 mins of being behind closed doors.

But it takes work and skill in seduction.

You're what's wrong with the internet. If I had 4 wishes the 4th wish would be to delete assholes like you from existence.

>good luck in 6 months

BTW, I've been doing this for over 15 years of a 25 year marriage. If she was fucking the neighbor, so what.

Communicate with your wife about it you LARPing incel.

what do you wish with the other 3?

Pay her to fuck you, I guess? Oh wait...

Yea I mean you're probably right. I feel like it's really senseless to chase a pussy that I've been fucking for the last 16 years though. I make a lot of money, I'm not bad looking and I feel like young bitches should really want to suck my cock for handouts. I just don't know where to go stand in line.

Are you me?

Japanese wife, married 13 years, sex less than once a month. She never initiates, I have to ask "hey, can we have sex today? It's been like two months." and maybe I'll get a "OK." but usually it's "maybe, later".

Thank God for porn.

I've talked to her about it before. She doesn't give me a real answer. She says something like "I'm tired", "I've just been stressed out"...etc When have you ever know a woman to be honest about this type of shit?

I'm not gonna lie I get more ass when I just drink whisky and take it from her. I mean throw her on the bed and just fuck her from behind. She doesn't really bitch about it but its so mundane. I'm only really up to fucking her like that once every other week.

Find her replacement then GPS her every move. If she's not fucking you she's getting dicked down elsewhere.

>I feel like young bitches should really want to suck my cock for handouts.

Doesn't happen, unless they're hooking through sugar baby sites. For me this'd be fake anyway, I want the real search, seduce and superior sex experience that only comes from genuine desire on her part.

After the first few times I got hooked on it. I also learned quickly that emotions can get out of control very quickly. So being exciting and unobtainable (for a permanent relationship) is the goal.

Splash the cash too but only when it's not expected. If she's a gold digger then it's a fake experience.

I have her car on a Toyota app on my phone. She isn't going anywhere but work/home/grocery store

So where do you meet these girls?

Yeah. This is completely normal for a woman in a long relationship (married or not). The mundane is the biggest libido killer going, especially if she's had a kid with you.

That's why doing something different, something she is excited about doing gets that pussy wet. Even beforehand if it's something she's genuinely excited about.

Doing the same thing over and over doesn't work. Familiarity leads to mundane and mundane is the enemy. As a relationship ages it gets increasingly difficult to find new things to generate excitement.

Accepting this and working around it means keeping a long relationship going. Unrealistic expectations won't and frankly often divorce is the only option left for both people to be happy (free to seek new excitrment).

That seems like a reasonable answer but also seems worse than my current situation...

I'm starting to think that humans weren't meant to be monogamous.

Social media mostly. Groups and pages related to activities. I am involved with a few activity groups that have weekly commitments.

Usually I get a feel from the tone of posts whether a woman is a potential worthy of extra attention. Here's a tip, avoid the social butterflies and vain princess types. They get enough attention even though (surprise surprise) they aren't fucking their husbands like they used to either.

The quieter, intelligent trier. Probably gave up her career for the sake of the kids. Husband is a nice enough guy (avoid the ones looking an exit affair or looking for a prince to carry her away from the ogre to live happily ever after).

No drama queens, a little crazy is OK if it's situational (often it's requirement for them to take the risk).

Occasionally the married but looking websites contain a gem but I've not met anyone from those sites.

(take note incels and neets - get away from the fucking internet and do real activities - play sport, get active, meet people several times a week. The gym is not a substitute.)