Be me

>be me
>18 year old 6’3 white male joins USMC, leaves for boot camp in a few months
>Always have had a slight crush on girl that has always had a boyfriend
>Dont talk to her much, psychotic boyfriend wouldn’t let me anyway. So I don’t think anything of it.
>leave for boot camp, get orders to Japan for 2 years. >Being an 18 year old w/o women in a secluded room with nothing but dudes makes the average male pissed and horny.
>I work up the nerve to start talking to her and I hit it off pretty well. She’s having serious relationship problems, and I’m essentially being a beta while she harps her problems to me.
>She starts to fall for me, and I for her.
>After 7 months of great conversation (her boyfriend hates the fact that she talks to me) I am able to come home for first time and see her.
>W/o the knowledge of boyfriend we spend the night at a hotel together. We hit it off so well together, I can tell she’s into me and I really like her.
>She wanted to spend another night together and I unquestionably agreed.
>I took her to a dinner, we got drunk and had amazing conversation.
>The following day I kissed her goodbye, certain I will be able to hangout with her again the days I’m home.
>Blocked from every sort of social media/messenger you can think of. It hurt of course, but i dealt with it.
>2 years have gone by. During that time period I obviously fucked around with a plethora of women. But I did think about her. At least a couple times a month.

Cont.

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>Yesterday, I wake up and nonchalantly reach for my phone. Notifications of bullshit, like always. Except I got a friend request from her.
>I spring up and add her back and immediately start conversation with her.
>So many questions, I didn’t know where to begin. She also had tons for me.
>her boyfriend was toxic and slightly abusive. And he was the reason I was ghosted for 2 years. She broke up with him about 5 months ago. And she had a little whore phase. 10-12 dudes within that time frame.
>She said she was scared to talk to me, maybe I would be pissed? Ignore her? Whatever it was.

I guess the reason I’m writing this is to get a public opinion of what I should do and thoughts on the situation. Is she damaged goods now? Is she the one for me? She says she wants to actually try something with me.

If you think you still love her then go for it, if it doesnt work out than so be it

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She's broken.
You have to decide if you want to acquire damaged goods.

If her vagina is floppy, she's been damaged. Would need to see some images for more advice

Are you really the type of person to drink from a greasy cup?

go for it. the only way to find out is to actually give it a whirl.

also, was it at all necessary to mention the whole "joined marines, had a tour in japan"? because from your question this whole spiel was completely irrelevant to the story

She's not damaged, bro. If anything, she's just more experienced at this point. That's a good thing.
If you like this girl, then give it a shot. There's no reason not to, since she's available now.

I just wanted to add some context to it.

Bump

Bump

So this woman has taken an assortment of different dicks. I want you to ask yourself. If there were two versions of her before you, and one had only 3 sex partners, and the other was her as she currently is, which would you choose?

Dump, or fuck and dump.
1. Youbwere second option
2. She knows shes getting old and has tinsettle for something good asap.
3. Shes manipulative(making her boyfriend jealous with you, and now trying to get you)
Now do whatever makes you happy. And I might be wrong too, so.

man you sad

Consider suicide you blind fuck

He wanted you to know he's an idiot at dating but not for retarded reasons. Which is important since he is being manipulated from my point of view.

You should definitely get some closure by meeting up with her at the very least. Don't rush into anything, you guys were friends first so keep that type of dialogue. If something happens it happens but dont go faggot soft on us.

manipulated by whom?

Not OP, but I would personally prefer the one that had more sexual experience.

How is your wife fucking a ton of other guys going to make her better at sex with you.
That is a cuck, hollywood driven mentality. A truly simp thing to think.
It’s not hard for a woman to learn how to suck and ride a dick.

Just ditch her for a big tiddy goth gf

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Bruh you're thinking about this all wrong. You think sex is just bodies slamming together?

HEY EVERYONE WHY NOT JUST STAY HOME FROM WORK ON APRIL FOOLS DAY 2020 AS A FORM OF COLLECTIVE ACTION?

Anyone making less than $30,000 a year, Anyone without health insurance, Anyone who feels stuck without a way forward, please listen when I say, this system has made fools of us all. We all know the stick poking us into line is the threat of homelessness. Why not just take the power back by proving we'd be fine at least for a day? We all know the feeling of being stuck inside on a day off before a check comes. We know what it's like to have an empty pantry. Most of all, we know what it's like to feel like our needs aren't being met. The United States has 155,000,000 workers. An 8 hour shift at $15/hr comes to $120 before taxes. Even if your boss thinks they can't afford their workforce’s time for a day, here's a list of people who could single handedly pay literally every worker that amount with money left over: Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Larry Paige, Larry Ellison (I love that there's two larry's), Narc Suckernerd, Alice Walton, Jim Walton, Sergey Brin, Warren Buffet, Micheal Bloomberg, Steve Balmer, Rob Walton, Charles Koch, Julia Koch, Mackenzie Bezos, Phil Knight, Sheldon Adelson, Micheal Dell, Jacqueline Mars, John Mars, Jim Simmons, Lauren Powell Jobs, Elon Musk, and Rupert Murdoch. Needless to say, your boss can take it up with them. Hell, a lot of you reading this are probably employed by these people. They can't fire us all. If you're on work release, they can't throw you all back in jail at once; although, I'm sure Geo Group would love to try.

The day is only yours if you seize it. If you want to stand up for what you believe in, please, put this in your own words, find your inner courage, and come outside with us. Afterward, return to the status quo if you’d like.

Well tell me the right way to think about it.
Scientifically tell me how a woman having taking multiple dicks in her pussy, makes her better at having sex.
The truth is you can’t, and many men throughout history have preferred their women to have less sexual partners.
Why? The reason why is from an evolutionary standpoint, you do not want to invest your resources into a damaged and used up woman, that might cheat on you, and leave you raising a illegitimate child. Inb4 “that was in the past, we don’t hunt for our food anymore”

Do YOU have an unlimited amount of money to raise a roasites bastard children? Or would you prefer a more innocent and loyal woman?
Do you want to pass on a whore’s genes to your daughter?

Don't do it op. You might love her but I was in the same situation you were in. You could certainly be friends but do better for yourself and learn from what has occurrd

OP must ghost her for 3 years to show her who is boss

This means nothing coming from a manlet you imp

Don’t listen to the other tards saying give her a chance. Obviously, go and smash and get closer like another user said but here is the thing.
You are her fallback plan. She knew all along you were one FB message away from contact and if she cared as much as you did as her, you’d be in her thoughts.
Here is what she did:
>she cheated on her loser boyfriend
>she chose boyfriend over you and ghosted your ass without a message
>she then ignored you for over two years with “abusive” boyfriend
>she thot it out instead of calling you with 10-12 guys

You are her last chance because she has sucked and fucked everything better than you from 1-19 and worked her way down to you. Is that someone you want to risk opening your heart and getting hurt for? Someone who will fuck every guy in the room and ghost your ass before giving you a chance. There isn’t a hole on her body you can call your own and she could have avoided all of that by sending you a single text. But she didn’t, she filled herself up with cum till bursting and now wants you to pay for it.

You might be giving her a chance, but she isn’t giving you one, she’s played the field and knows how much she’s worth and what she can settle with and you are just some nice guy with a good marine boot camp body and a paycheck that’s quite a bit for a yet career less kid she can feed sob stories to about how her molested her and forced her to have sex and was emotionally abusive and controlling. She gets off on that. She gravitates to that.

OP I’m single in my 30s with a very good engineering career. I’m catnip to these thots and hunt them as a result but have the advantage because they hit their expiration date. And they hit their expiration date because there are only so many men they can use and for so long, before they get older and not so hot and suddenly it’s not worth putting up with their manipulations. You will be one more notch on their belt as they get sent to me.

Stop being a fucking pussy and just date her. Who cares who she slept with, if she’s clean then that’s all that matters. God, you sound like a child. Either man up and try or don’t. The only thing gayer than posting to Cred Forums is that fact that you’re a fucking marine.

>have board for random things
>post random thing
>this is gay

What did he mean by this

The concept of being such a beta that you need to ask what other people think

Hey direct that at OP
The logic that you shouldn't post things about your life on Cred Forums is idiotic, this place is a fighting pit for ideas

You got forrest Gump'd
Red flags everywhere.
>can't end it with her "toxic" bf but can surely secretly stay at hotels and fuck other men

Toxic women like to play their role as the victim but most of the time its them who are the toxic ones. Explaining that their "damaged" and at the same time hyping up their egos when you give them sympathy. Plus if she did that WITH you she'll do that to you eventually.

>finally ends it but decides to whore out one last time before coming back to good ol' reliable Forrest Gump to keep the sloppy seconds

During that time frame she couldn't message you or anything,kek. Are you blind deaf or retarded user.

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>ideas
Lmao

What do you mean ideas?
Now you’re just being an autist because I made a good point.
How about you target the point I made instead of inferring people don’t have ideas here between the trap porn and ylyl threads

What I'm saying is you don't speak for all men. I know I got better at sex, the more partners I had. Most people to some extent want someone who is loyal. Both men and women. That being said. Someone's number of sexual partners isnt a great indicator of that. As far as "damaged goods" I'm much more dismayed at the habits women pick up from trying to deal with emotional abuse. A woman consents to taking a bunch of dicks, cool. A woman who has to keep emotional walls up and is afraid of intimacy because some asshole raped her... still cool but a lot harder to deal with. Shit I'm starting to think neither of us are thinking about this in a constructive way

Ngl op it sounds like a bad idea. She’s broken but not because of her whore phase. But rather the abuse she had. She will make you life a living hell with her panic attacks and bullshit. Stay away bro please

I know it's hard for an incel like you to imagine but normal people have sex

Sounds like she's actually kinda reasonable.
Gone into it, spend some good time with her. And try to check out her current environment a bit - if it was a whore phase, fine. If it's now her lifestyle, bang her and tell her you're not into that

Those two things are not disconnected.
A woman having multiple sexual partners has a positive correlation with her having more emotional problems.
Also a woman having multiple sexual partners is not linked to her being better or worse at sex.
Promescuity is BAD for women, it effects their ability to bond with one man, it increases their likelihood to have emotional problems, and it is indicative of their character because it is not hard for women to sleep around. It shows a lack of maturity and self control.
Then when the women get all used up, the new simp philosophy says “oh because she fucked 100 cock she’s more mature and better at sex! She’s experienced!”
When in reality she’s a broken, used up slut, that can never be fully invested in one man.

You are going to wind up divorced with that retarded mindset.
If you aren’t in a happy marriage, don’t do anything you just wrote and it’ll solve your problem. If you are, I call bullshit and you need to prove it.

How about you TRY to used intelligence instead of your ad hominem and attack me

lmao it's unintelligent to think that people having sex somehow makes them worth less. fucking retard.

>I took a huge shit once and now I'm incontinent
do you retards not know basic anatomy or something?

Whoa whoa whoa
Chill out with that stawman.
I never said that people having sex makes them worth less.
I did however say that women having a shit ton sex partners makes them emotionally damaged and is is sign of their lack of maturity

yeah because we all know the one thing that damages women emotionally is a fulfilling sex life and lots of orgasms. just makes them horribly depressed.

I would argue that in the case of multiple men that do not commit to them, or their lack of committing to one man, does damage them.

that's a whole lot of assumptions there. Op already said this girl was with one dude for years. I seriously doubt you hold these same standards for men which just further goes to show this is just some bullshit incel logic to explain away why you can never get laid.

No actually it’s a sign of nonfullfillment. It sounds more and more like you aren’t as experienced as you are talking about or are a thot because one night stands generally suck emotionally and physically.
It’s done because something is wrong with the person emotionally or mentally that makes them unsuitable for a monogamous lifestyle, I.e. damaged goods. Monogamy is safer disease wise and has a higher amount of sexual encounters as well as releasing seratonin and dopamine receptors for partner bonding. Choosing a less ideal method is illogical and a result of a defect.

>cheats on a dude in a hotel
>SHES WUZ LOYAL FOR YEARS
>YOU ARE ALL DA INCELS
Would you like a helmet to go with that white knight outfit?

You’re right I don’t hold the same standards for men, and you can already guess my argument for that one to.

Women have a bottleneck with procreation, one every 9 months or so.
Men have a bottleneck with procreation too, probably 1 of their offspring can be produced in... well actually they could probably impregnate 3 women a day if they had the partners.

It seems that in a sexually dimorphic species, with men having the ability to produce hundreds of offspring in a year, and women only being able to produce on average 10 max in a lifetime... that maybe this effected our brains to react differently to sex...?
Call me crazy

literally doesn't say that in the op at all. try not to shoot up your school, delusional little incel

>men get to have all the sex they want but none for women
wow what a convenient ideology for you. I'm sure you're an expert on human behavior, biology and anatomy so you totally aren't just pulling bullshit "biotruths" from some mra faq

Again I never said men can have all the sex they want and none for women, I said , maybe our brains react differently to sex based on the VAST differences in how we produce offspring.

lmao everyone's brain reacts differently to sex you mongoloid. You think men never get emotionally attached after fucking?

Bro stop fucking straw manning me

lmao it's not a straw man it's what you actually said. you can't just claim that men and women react differently to sex based on biological imperatives and then say "well not all men and women". like it's either hard wired or it's not.

Its basic instinct for men to protect chicks of any age, its literally why its so stupid easy for them to manipulate us. also for some unknown reason, most men tend to fall in love with whores

USMC commfag here. Bad juju dog. She doesn’t sound like she makes great choices. Your commitment to the military will only make that worse. I’ve seen guys get put through the wringer. At least wait until you’re out.

it's easy for chicks to manipulate stupid people who hold such retarded opinions maybe. And idk about you but I've never fallen in love with a white. of course your definition of "whore" seems to be "woman who has had sex before". it's like sex is such a far away concept for you that you can't wrap your head around the idea of people actually having healthy sexual relationships that are still casual. Is sex good when you're in love with someone and connected? yeah it's fucking great, but sex is also good when you're just fucking. who the fuck hates having an orgasm?