Hey there, bros. I know this is the wrong place to ask but I just want to talk about it with people who don´t know me at all. How can I forgive/forget someone? I had a fight with my closest friend. it was crazy shit. The thing is that he was my best friend since we were kids. We are currently 24 and 25. We literally saw each other grow. So, he talked shit about me and we had a fight. This happened a year ago and it´s obvious that both are still butthurt about that. I really want to forgive him but I just can´t... I go apeshit whenever I remember the shit he talked about me. He hasn´t messaged me and avoids to encounter me as much as possible. I want to forget him too but lately I can´t stop thinking about him. He was like my little brother... I trusted him things I would never trust my own family, and he did the same thing with me. How do I stop thinking about it? I try to keep busy so my mind thinks other things but at some point it comes to my mind. What should I do? I am too proud to even send him a message and he is the same way too... How do I move on?
Hey there, bros...
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If he’s trying to avoid you then it’s clear he’s ashamed of what he did and probably wants to apologise. I’d honestly just be the bigger man and initiate the conversation. I went through the exact same thing, he talked shit about me and was avoiding me like the plague so I confronted him and he apologised now we are friends again.
I´ll be honest... He did talk shit but others I talked bout this have said he said it jokingly. To me it felt like he actually meant it. What should I say? he is nowhere to be found and I don´t feel like he would answer texts... Even if he does how do I approach him? Thanks for your response
>Hey man, sorry about what happened a year ago. Wanna be friends again?
If he says yes then there you go that's easy. If not then fuck him, he turned into a cunt.
I had a fight with my best friend after telling him to kill himself. Few months later I just sent me some pepe and random Cred Forums shit and we started talking again. A little later down the road we brought it up and both agreed it was shameful and cringe.
I see. I have to man up and swallow my pride... Just like that? If he comes to say no, how do I get over it?
Do you recommend me to bring up our thing right away?
nah, just message him something you guys use to share in common. I introduced my friend to Cred Forums and turned him from a bluepilled fag to a red/black pilled guy. We both like Cred Forums, and understood pepe so I said fuck it. You can't go forever without talking to someone like this, the longer you go the harder it will be to recover. Make a choice to be better.
sent him nudes and say "oops" then carry on from there. best icebreaker
That is correct... I just wish he had apologized before. I would like to still know how can I get over it if he tells me to piss off and leave. I mean, I do shared over half of my life with him but I can´t let it get into me that much
lol hey this might just work haha
Good friends talk shit about it each other, are you really going to waste a lifelong friendship over some bullshit, talk it out, be a man, move on
then you fuck off and make a new friends at work that you never hang out with like an adult
I do want to move on but the thing is that I don´t know how. We did talk shit but it wasn´t on the level it was that time. It was a delicate subject. But yes, I agree with you. It isn´t worth wasting a good friendship. Thank you guys for your advise
At some point you learn that some people can stay in your heart forever but not your life. Unfortunately if that's what happens you have to live with it. You can always make new friends and meet knew people, but you'll always have those memories to cherish and look back on.
Should have clarified that I think you should use my approach and cautiously initiate conversation with him. Tread lightly, and watch closely. Make the call if things are going well or if it's going to only make things worse. End it before it gets worse so to avoid any further damage.
You will make new friends and forget out him in time.
That was inspirational. Do you write, by chance?
>how do i move on?
Grow up. Im 30, nearly all of my friends are dead from heroin and the one that isnt doesnt talk to me because i fucked his ex when we where 17, people are petty little faggots, not worth wasting time on, focus that time on your life, fuck people.
Talking to him is the only way you will ever know what happened. Even texting may open up some dialogue
If you arent going to talk to him, move on. Enjoy the memories you like from him but accept that he isn't part of your life anymore and find something else to focus on. If you cant do this then talk to him.
its not that far off, well minus the nude part. just "accidentally" text him sth. he will know hes still in your mind by doing so and thats what guys needs honestly. girls forgets about us too often.
Time heals all wounds my man
just get in contact again and you'll notice how quick you'll forget about it
No, I've seen a lot of good friends come and go, and I've made a lot of mistakes to learn from. I know what it's like to be in this situation and I want you to understand that it's okay. Whatever choice you make will be better than avoiding contact with each other.
Thank you guys for your time and words. I´ve made up my mind. It seems Cred Forums is more open and honest than what I thought. I really needed to talk about it and have someone to be honest on what should be done.
now tits or gtfo
If you want advice moving forward with this I can give you my discord or something to help out. Friendships like this are very important to keep.
I´d appreciate that. How can I find you?
hold up I think I have something in my gallery. Let me see what I can find
please do. its my ultimate fetish to help a girl and get repaid in sex
What do you have to communicate with? Thankfully the thread hasn't dragged too much attention and won't attract too many trolls posting anything here
Discord is okay to me. I´ll just create an account there and be in contact with you
>ultimate fetish to help a girl and get repaid in sex
White knight
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ye I dont really have anything you could use at all but I know a good vid in pornhub.
whatever, just send me cleavage and call me a degenerate
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got it. You can delete it now to avoid trolls
it's a throwaway so I'm not worried
godspeed user. friendships are precious.
yeah that's why I don't mind helping out if I can. I would have hated to lose my best friend over a single argument.
I'm not sure who is OP anymore, so I'm gonna leave the post there. I'll periodically check that discord for any updates.
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What kind of fight? Fist fight? In all honesty, one of the best bonding moments for two guys is lacing up some gloves and boxing it out. Surefire way to build mutual respect.
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>how do I move on?
From what? Your little faggot call of duty partner doesnt think your reddit memes are funny anymore? Jesus fucking christ, you're in your mid 20s now, not elementary school