The absolute best/most permanent way to psychologically dominate a girl is to set up routines. It sounds so basic and obvious, but it's overload so fucking often. Even if it's a girl/gf who identifies as being "vanilla," setting up routines allows you to control her and after some time, progress her to the point of no return, where she will literally do anything you say and let you use her body in any way you want.
Some examples to start out include:
>"When you wake up in the morning, you MUST kiss me on the cheek gently and repeatedly until I wake up. It's really affectionate and intimate, and you know I love that."
>"When I grab your waist or ass, even lightly, you must ALWAYS make a soft moan or grunt, to indicate you feel me touching you. That's so sexy, and it allows us to be sensual and connected, even outside of the bedroom."
>"While making out, if I pull my lips away, you should always quiver, but never make a move forward. There's so much more tension that way, and it allows me to read your body language better."
Those simple examples evolve over time to routines that have her verbally submitting to you, and physically abandoning control. All the while, you can justify it by saying critical things like "You always get in the way of our intimacy. It's like you want us to grow apart." or "Were you this selfish with your ex boyfriends too?... Then why are you this way with me?"
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