>male, 25 >extremely(?) sexual, sex once a day or fap once a day, or sex once and fap once a day >girlfriend is not as sexual, does not "take one for the team", refuses sex instead >have real sex 2-4 times per month on average >faps 30+ times per month on average
I love sex, and I understand that it is a problem. I know sex may be healthy, but I'm talking about the "no fap"-aspect of it all. I know(?) that male sexuality can be transformed into another kind of energy when you can control it, making you very powerful. What I ask of you today is: How do I get started in controlling my sexuality? Since my girl doesn't want to have sex as often, it often leaves me sexually frustrated and I feel like an incel coomer bitch.
Go to the gym. Never need to jerk off after I been to the gym. Plus, sometimes you get some eyecandy if there's girls working out there too
Sebastian Thomas
Okay cool! I'm actually gonna start working out this summer since my new job is paying for a gym membership for me. But, if I see eyecandy at the gym, wouldn't that make me think naughty thoughts? That's what I want to fix, I want to be able to look at a woman and decide for myself if it's a human like any other man, or if it's a beautiful woman who I wanna do everything with
Jaxon Jenkins
This isn't even close to extremely sexual. I have 8 times a day on average and function better than most. Nothing is wrong here, carry on
Anthony Parker
Have sex with her mom.
Xavier Carter
Okay if that is the case, then how do I stop feeling like shit? I'm already 99% sure that I got to dump my current girl, but if I find a girl that is as sexual as me, then problem solved?
Henry Reed
There is no other option for having too much sexual energy, just cut your balls off
Jose James
I will never!
Mason Foster
Honestly this might sound bad, but you have to find someone to take care of your needs
Jack Baker
Understand nothing is wrong with either of you. People have different sex drives
Wyatt Reyes
I don’t know what to tell you m8 have some self control I guess.
I’m 30 and I still fuck my gf like 3 times a day every couple of days and then jerk off in between and then still occasionally get side action with a Mexican nurse I know or something slut off tinder/bumble
So good luck
Hudson Reed
Cheat on her
Jacob Wright
>go to the gym >dick won't get hard gayfag
Isaac Perry
>I feel like an incel coomer bitch because you are. inside your subconcious you know you're an incel. rn you're just a LARPing incel, pretending to be a sexually successful person. You're like a closeted faggot, just come out.
Nicholas Sullivan
break up, move on. Been there, done that. Wasted ~4 of my phisically best years that I could have spent fucking everyhting hot bitch in the country.
Have spent the past 1,5 years doing exactly that and it has been the best time of my life.
William Cook
My advice is that you grow up and realize that your sex drive doesn't dictate reality, stop dwelling on stupid shit and focus on actual problems. Go on antidepressants and they'll curb your sex drive, you're on Cred Forums so you probably need medication anyway.
Christopher Wright
What you're referring to when you say "sexuality can be transformed into another kind of energy" is CHI. The reservation and build-up of chi energy, or life-force, is an ancient practice that was even recognized by psychologists like Freud and Jung. They called it "semen retention".
You sound like you are struggling a lot with your sexual energy so this tells me you must have quite a lot of it. This is a good thing. If you can bear the struggle of taming your libido and refraining from acting on your compulsive sexual desires, you can transform this energy into a beautiful radiant life-force that can draw you closer to achieving wholeness and well-being.
All those memes about no-fap-november giving people levitational powers have some truth to it. You wont levitate but you will gain a spiritual integrity that can help you manifest things in your life just by thinking of them.
You will struggle immensely but the rewards are worth it if you can handle it.
Speaking as someone who has been in this situation before, it will never improve in the long-term, you need to break up with her. She simply has a very low sex drive and there's nothing you can do about that.
It is absolutely normal and healthy for you to want to have sex every day, and virtually all women your age are the same. Your girlfriend is an extreme abnormality. Even middle aged women with a normal sex drive want it multiple times a week.
David Morales
Thank you for posting this. I have EXACTLY the same issue as OP even the amount of sexual interactions and the same sex drive. I listen to Peterson alot but iv'e never read Carl Jung's stuff. Ill look into semen retention.
Wyatt Morales
I'm also curious to know, have you discussed this issue with her? If so, how have those discussions gone, and what has she said? How does she normally react when you try to initiate and what happens after she rejects you?
Chase Ramirez
>sex once a day >sex 2-4 times a month Pick one faggot
Caleb Hill
You shouldn't tolerate this shit dude, break up with her ffs
Jackson Perez
Pseudoscience and woo nonsense. Chi is fake, and Freud and Jung are largely discredited.
Unless you smoke enough DMT to become an insufferable Tool fanboy, there is nothing down this corridor. Sex and masturbation are both health positive activities. Sex can only be unhealthy via STDs.
Semen retention is a meme based in Eastern mysticism with no relation to reality. It would be comparable to throwing salt over your shoulder when you spill salt, except that throwing salt over your shoulder doesn't cut you off from a positive health benefit.
Don't drink this extremely dumb Kool-Aid.
Michael James
I just wrote that I'm a very sexually failed person? I want sex but can't get it, even from my girlfriend? So how do I stop being an incel?
Gabriel Ramirez
THIS
Robert Jenkins
I usually get horny after going to the gym. I think it's due to the test pump.
Brandon Hill
>All those memes about no-fap-november giving people levitational powers have some truth to it. And this is how I know you're delusional.
Michael Bennett
Lift fucking heavy. I was like you, i lift and ate healthy. After 2 weeks my sleep pattern changed and my overall energy for the day changed ==> i was not tired anymore in the morning but to tired after the seance to jack off. Never succeed like this in my history of nofaps
Elijah Murphy
I've experienced the difference first-hand (no pun intended) lol. have fun having no energy and jerking it to chink cartoons in your daddy's basement
Blake Reyes
the amount of psychological and philosophical misinformation and retardation in this thread is funny but i'd expect no less from my favorite incel cesspool fuckfest of a shithole website
your sex drives are simply not compatible. or, alternatively, she has lost attraction for you and can only perform the "chore" 2-4 times a month. Think of it like the dishes. If I had a bad attitude and fucking hated dishes, but they still needed to be done... I would do them about 2-4 times a month. I would muster up the courage to do the most minimal amount I could get away with in order to please my SO and make them shut up.
It's not your sex drive. It'd be your sex drive if you fucked like 5 times a week and you still jerked off the amount you are doing now. Go about your solutions how you want, it's your dumb life and not mine, but if it were me, I'd get down to asking the genuine question and seeing what the deal is... if i didn't like the relationship from there, I'd just move on. Because something like this doesn't last, you will grow resentful. And it won't be 2-4 times a month forever. More headaches will happen, she will be more tired because work/school/whatever, you get it? This is not conjecture, it is literally going to go this way, you must fix your relationship immediately or it will slip faster than you think. It is like balding, you do not notice until it's too late
Angel Wilson
the truth has been spoken
Nolan Lopez
I'm not the one engaging in ancient Chinese superstition. Have fun following the advice of uninformed rubes who unintentionally killed themselves with heavy metals or arsenic.
Julian Howard
This is me and my wife. Just run away before kids. Things will get much worst as she gets older. I regret a lot not doing this when I had the chance.
Nolan Perez
Get another girlfriend
Christian Young
I’m on the same boat as you OP. I have shit loads of sexual energy. I try to control it. Had a girl who I broke things off with for this exact same reason, I had too much of it, she had too little.. meaning I couldn’t even fuck her for 20 minutes before she said she either had to pee or it started to hurt (I’m pretty hung too). I did what was necessary and broke our relationship off. What I reccommend you do tho is try to control your urges and try to not fap that much. I’ve had periods when I did like 5 times a day (because literally that fucking horny). I’ve been reading up on this thing called no-fap now and I’ve started to retain and what I can tell you is the whole manifistation thing is true. Just try it out for yourself. It’s pretty hard tho to visit Cred Forums for YLYL now with porn every where, but I’m just ignoring that shit.
Jeremiah Phillips
there's nothing superstitious about it. When you cum, your testosterone levels diminish. Do you really need any more explanation?
