Sorry if there's a better board. But I need an opinion...

Sorry if there's a better board. But I need an opinion. Should I leave my abusive toxic girlfriend before or after our 4 year anniversary in 3 days. Please just tell me if I should or not. I still love her and I know it would crush her but I don't think we can keep going. Help me out Cred Forums

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Before, get out now, it's only going to be worse after the anniversary.

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Sharpie in pooper

A better board?

What you need is a fucking wake up call.

You know it's toxic, so leave.

Done. Now get off the Internet, pack your / her stuff. And start growing some fortitude.

I didn't and my abusive toxic girlfriend cheated on me. Then I got my life sorted and met a smart quality girl that I married. Wouldn't you rather have that?

Please try couples therapy or having a deep, well thought out conversation with her first plz. Also talk to your parents and best friend about it too. Just try to talk to her about things first and tell you how you feel. 4 years is a long time

>You haven't done it already.
>You know you have to do it.
>You want to do it now.
>You still can't do it.
A long-term relationship with a toxic person is like death. Are you dead op?
You only have two choices: 1) Stay dead inside. 2) Muster up the courage to do what needs to be done.

Well it wasn't always bad

He already said she's abusive and toxic. What do you expect to happen? For her to change? You know that's not how it works.

/thread

I was dead inside after my last relationship. I stopped feeling like myself. She controlled everything i did. And now that im out, i have a nice girlfriend who is loving and trusting, we live together, and i can do what i want without fear of it causing a fight. Just get out today.

why ask here - you have been together with her 4 years now - she is the best you can do and the only girl that will put up with you. stop whining about how pathetic your life is and man up , without her your a empty loser so shut up and stay with her. women are only nice to you because they feel sorry for you and will not waste there time with you if your single.

Leave, make her hurt, just like she made you, it will be sweet

I dunno lol

What's the problem? Stop being a faggot. Stop your complaining. Get off this site and go fix it

she would be better off without him in her life - he would be doing her a favor in leaving , if she is cheating this is only proof that she already knows she can do better and wants a better life

Fuck off faggot nobody cares

Ok

pack her stuff and leave it on the porch and leave a note on it.
grow some nuts

stop being a weak crossdressing fag and be a man about it. don't ask retards on this board for dating advice, you know all coalburners and thots need to be dumped. do something about it and make that fucking pig disappear from your life.