To those of you who are lonely / lack female intimacy, have you ever considered an imaginary partner?
I have had an imaginary girlfriend for about 4 years now, and she has provided me with a lot of pleasure, love and motivation to better myself. I enjoy "advertising" her once in a while (even though that sounds kinda wrong), because of how much she has done for me so far. I genuinely think much heartbreak and loneliness could be solved if people knew this was an alternative and took the idea more seriously, but I do realize why they don't.
I'm willing to answer any questions you might have, no boundaries, really. And if you're one of the few in the same boat as me, then do share your experiences itt.
Here are a few questions people usually ask, to get them out of the way: >How old 24 >Are you a virgin No. However, I have never been in a relationship (outside this one). I prefer sex with my partner to physical sex / masturbation. >Is this a tulpa No. >What does she look like? She's short, thin, pink hair by the shoulders, wears shirts and jeans, green eyes, small nose, thin lips, itty bitty titties. And she isn't anime, I'd have a hard time interacting with her if she was 2d. >Are you actually serious right now? Dead serious.
I made a pastebin with a brief guide on how to go about creating one if you're interested. Feel free to ask questions about the process. rQhmC4SA
I just wanted to say that I'm fucking happy that I'm not you. On the other hand, it's fascinating how life tries to preserve itself: you should've killed yourself, at least that is what I would do if I was such a failure, but that crazy brain you got made you think otherwise-and here you are. You should tell more people IRL about your imaginary girl, I think you would make more people happy just like me
Asher Diaz
you know there are horny people on this very website right... they post their kiks and snapchats every single day
Brayden Gutierrez
You have a problem... Seek help
Also fucking top keks
Nicholas Lee
Sex with "your partner" is masturbating for you, though.
dont stick your dick in crazy goes both ways. ladies, dont let crazy stick its dick in you
Robert Morris
>You should tell more people IRL about your imaginary girl I have never told anyone IRL about her and I'll never do. I'm not an idiot.
Considering she's basically a part of me, I guess that's right, but to be clear, I don't actually physically touch myself during the process, it ruins the feeling for me.
What problem would you say I have, out of curiosity?
Her name's Luna. Pretty common name, I know, but I still like it, and she does as well!
Mine isn't big on both those things either. I wouldn't say she hates black people, but she definitely doesn't like them.
I'm glad for you. The feelings I feel for mine can be VERY overwhelming at times, I don't think I've ever felt this way about any other person in my life, even these many years after we began doing this. I wish you both happiness!
Honestly, I just don't call her a tulpa because I absolutely despise the tulpa community. I fully believe she is a tulpa in the buddhist sense, but it doesn't matter to either of us either way. Even if she is, that doesn't change what she, at her very core, is: an imaginary friend, and I feel like it's better to call her that because then people just have an instinctive feeling for what she is, and don't ask silly questions.
To be fair, I think there are lots of people like us out there. They usually aren't very vocal about it, of course, but I usually get one or two replies from people in the same situation, and it always warms my heart.
I used to think it was something really rare, but now I don't anymore. It's still rare, of course, just not "I'm the only faggot going through this" kinda rare.
a couple questions: How long have you two been together? Do you consider yourself in a serious relationship? Do you feel that you still have the freedom to 'edit' her? This thread is gonna get the 404hammer. Got any other contacts? I'm curious, never seen anything like this.
>How long have you two been together? Around 4 years, nearly 5. We began "dating(?)" six months after I made her, if that's what you're asking.
>Do you consider yourself in a serious relationship? I don't know. I wouldn't leave her for the world, and I do take her love very seriously, but I wouldn't stop trying a "real" relationship because of her, if nothing else because I'm curious what it'd feel like.
>Do you feel that you still have the freedom to 'edit' her? She's pretty set in stone, but she changes as she grows. She's always changing in a way, but I don't feel like I have the strength (or desire) to just dictate "You are now this way!"
>This thread is gonna get the 404hammer. Got any other contacts? Eh, I guess I can give you discord...
Ultimately, I always tell people it's a bad idea to tell others about it. Nobody will understand, and they'll just think you're crazy. At best they'll try to get you to seek mental help incessantly, at worst they'll deem you too awkward to be around. It's your choice though.
>I have had an imaginary girlfriend for about 4 years now Not to be mean but self deception is extremely harmful to you. If you're not careful you'll get addicted to pornography and internet message boards too.
Gabriel Anderson
Romantic "Blue Pill" Love is an illusion. Get a doll. It will love you as much as a woman would.
>Not to be mean Thank you, I always appreciate when people just come here to warn me instead of calling me a retard.
>If you're not careful you'll get addicted to pornography and internet message boards too. To be clear, she is HEAVILY against Cred Forums and porn.
I'd like to try a doll at least once, but I think it wouldn't be a pleasurable as her. She's already way better at stimulating me sexually than a physical woman, not to mention the emotional connection we have.
How would they know what she looks like? Descriptions can only go so far, I think. I've thought about drawing her a lot, and she has asked me to do it a couple times, but I could never bring myself to do it. I guess I just feel nervous when it comes to it.
We never did anything really freaky in that regard, we usually keep it pretty vanilla. Seeing as she's imaginary, she could of course transform, but I really don't want her to. I love her the way she is. She hasn't ever expressed a desire to do so either, so there you go!
Though there are a lot of possibilities out there regarding this, for sure!
I envy you, user. I used to be able to do that, but my imagination kind of faded away as I aged (I'm 25 now). I felt all kinds of emotions thinking about imaginary girls, now that I have a real GF I barely feel anything.
Imagination is sort of a muscle. There's this think called "image streaming", which is a really weird name, but which helps with imagination and creativity. If you really are interested in it, maybe give the "guide" a read, it might help you out.
You click on the (+) on the left, and press "join existing server" or something like that.
Also, kind user created a discord channel, but if you don't really like discord channels (I don't like them much myself), feel free to just add me still, it's fine, I enjoy talking about this sorta stuff.
Yes, but don't call her that because some people might get mad. To be fair, I don't see any reason to call her a tulpa. She's an imaginary friend, and people know what that is, so what's the point making it more complicated than it needs to be?
