>be me >about a month ago >feeling really low because feelings of inadequacy >meet this girl on a Minecraft server >she doesn't own a phone, only a laptop >give her my discord, she starts a convo >instantly hit it off, become good friends in 2 days >exchange pics of ourselves, she thinks i'm cute and handsome, she's cute af too (pic related) >2 days later >literally sexting, she sends nudes >closest i ever came to having sex >ihaven'tbeenthishappyinmonths.jpg >mood and confidence improve from talking to her >tells me she wants to be my long distance gf (she lives in Jordan, i live in the Netherlands) >we become long distance couple >finally feel like i'm desirable and not worthless >keep talking and sexting for like 2 weeks >really feel like i'm in love >imagining a future together with her, she literally wants to fly out to me next break >cut to last night >tells me she thinks we can't talk anymore and that we're not going to work out >whatthefuck.mp4 >ask her why >her ultra conservative parents discovered she was talking to me >she's not allowed to "talk to boys" >her parents read our entire convo including the sexting >she's in deep shit >her parents will probably take her laptop away if they catch us talking again >promise we'll try to contact each other in a different way >can only hope i'll speak to her again
I was finally happy again, why the hell do things like this happen? It's like life is just trying to break me mentally. What the fuck do i do now Cred Forumsros?
Slitting your hand veins open and lying down on the side while doing hand contractions is a good idea.
Isaiah Davis
Nice job thinking with your dick asshole. You're obviously not ready for any type of relationship. Why not try fixing that logic of yours before you fuck up her life instead of sitting in an echo chamber of pity.
Andrew Rivera
>thinking with my dick How the fuck was i supposed to know her parents were so strict? She never even mentioned anything about them being like this
Nathaniel Perez
Idk man, really feel like i shouldn't. She'll probably be fucking disowned if anyone related to her finds out
Easton Gutierrez
Alright it's confirmed, go kill yourself. The fact that you're blaming this on life and her parents is beta as shit. YOU are the problem for thinking she needs to tell you anything to know it's a bad idea.
Sebastian Sanchez
Yeah well mind actually telling me what you think i did wrong? Was it assuming it'd be okay talking to her? The sexting? I know i was the one who got her in trouble but i never would have done any of this if i had known something like this would happen
Blake Gomez
Het is nu aan haar ouders Kay, je kan niks anders doen dan wachten...
Ryder Clark
You went wrong when you got into a long distance relationship expecting more than just nudes, it never turns out well, just gtfo of it and move on
Elijah Robinson
What you're doing wrong is looking for a relationship to be happy. In turn, you got a girl that you knew for 4 days into parental trouble for sexting. It's not what you did wrong, bc frankly you're doing everything wrong. So what you do now is move on, learn to think and make yourself happy instead of letting others make you happy.
Owen Watson
Thank you, it seems like everyone on here thinks having common sense is being pessimistic and or an asshole.
Ryder Price
Jep, zal moeten wachten tot het allemaal wat rustiger gaat en haar ouders minder op d'r vingers kijken, waarschijnlijk op een ander platform proberen te praten ofzo. Wil haar alleen niet nog dieper in de shit helpen dus probeer voor nu even afstand te houden
Ayden Collins
You think I could get in a long distance relationship with a cutie dutch girl? Maybe migrate there and have white kids?
I know, i really want to just be happy by myself but i just have this self-hatred that always tells me i have no right to be. I wasn't even looking for a relationship to get happy, i just saw it as a bonus until it made me realise how fucking miserable i've felt for so long. I just have these deep rooted insecurity that makes me just hate myself and because of that i constantly seek for approval, which she gave to me. I just felt like i was worthy of love for once.
Wyatt Fisher
>have white kids Kek
Tyler Mitchell
Onder een andere naam chatten werkt vaak ook, en/of chats maar verwijderen van haar kant. Hoop dat het goed komt!
Evan Cruz
Having a relationship or friends can help you get out of all of that. Don't expect to be a succesful, perfect man and then start looking for some support. Don't depend on others too much either.
I hate to be that guy but come on, you're probably white and tall as fuck how bad your life can be?
I was going to suggest OP gets a local ppgirlfriend.
Dominic Garcia
Well, since you are obviously 14 years old. Maybe get over it. Life gets WAY worse than this.
Aaron Martin
I'm 19, but yeah i know this is really nothing, relatively speaking. At least i'm still in a place where this shit is still the worst thing that's happened
Matthew Bell
Thanks that actually made me lol
Logan Barnes
I mean i would but there aren't any around that i know of
Julian Smith
She was underage and her parents found out she was talking someone older. Delete those pics.
all good things come to an end mate. Post the pics and move on :)
Josiah Reyes
yeah take it as a good experience. Others will come dont worry
Noah Thompson
post em she looks like a beauty
Gavin Evans
we all seek approval constantly
Jason Long
Netherlands, Germany, Belgium, and France are all loaded with hot, fuckable women. Get off your ass and your laptop and go find a real woman.
Source: I'm an American man luckily and happily married to hot Dutch whore.
Ayden Powell
She wasn't. She's 18. Don't try to make me look like some kind of fucking pedo
Wyatt Watson
How does one just "go and find real women"
Hudson Anderson
>long distance relationship dude, be thankful you avoided a whole lotta more inevitable future pain. trust me, just trust me. its a lot better this way. i know you feel attached to her and all that shit but you need to drop it ASAP. get it out of your system. stop pursuing long distance bullshit because even without strict parents there woulda been a lot more problems. find a girl where you live and forget about her. and let time heal everything. dont be such a pussy
Ethan Sanchez
I don't know how to find a girl irl, at this point i've just lost all hope Where do i even look? I have really no one to go to a bar with, i'm about the least confident guy you'll ever meet and my social anxiety is constantly holding me back
Isaac Scott
Yeah but for some people it just reaches an unhealthy degree
Jonathan Roberts
oh yeah, especially for people between 18 and 15. It will get better. Now post em man
Kayden Kelly
No dude i'm not posting them i don't trust Cred Forums with that shit and i'm not risking ruining this shit even more Besides, having other dudes beating their dick to your girl's nudes is basically getting e-cucked
Levi Powell
You're fault for having to resort to internet relationships