I have no one to confide in so I'm asking you guys...

I have no one to confide in so I'm asking you guys. I've lurked here for years and this is my first time starting a thread in years so bare with me here.

>Date girl I met on tinder
>Was just looking to fuck then somehow ended up in a 3 year relationship
>She's kinda chubby and gaining weight and is really bad at holding to the commitment we made on working out
>She's also a liberal and very strong in her believes
>I'm more independent but lean more to the right
>Idc that her views differ and infact I just rather not talk politics since that's all we fucking hear anymore
>She constantly tries to talk about it and tries bating me into debates then gets mad when I don't change my views
>We fight a fair bit but I feel strongly for her because she chose to date me when I was a loser and had nothing going for me
>Fast forward to present and I've completely turned my life around and are pretty successful for my age
>The other night I went out with a friend and his girlfriend and she ended up inviting her friend
>7/10 thinner than my girlfriend but has an amazing ass
>Long story short we end up banging and I think she might know I have a gf but doesn't mind
>Still feel for my girlfriend but things just feel different now
>Wat do?

Forgive for the autistic green text. I'm on mobile

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I think you should just leave her then the fighting would stop and you can look for a new better girl

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you're a bastard for cheating but it sounds like the relationship was going downhill anyway. cut your losses, break up and enjoy life with the new girl. old one will find someone else

It's just hard because our lives are so intertwined after 3 years.

Anyone have experience with how to handle a breakup in this serious of a relationship?

If you're not happy then ditch the fat chick, GFs are a dime a dozen trading up is natural

This

i think you already handled it when you fucked the other girl
if its so hard to break up you wouldnt have done that

Ditch the landwhale-to-be and enjoy the upgrade. Don't let the sunk cost fallacy keep you tied down.

You cheated on her it’s over. Break up with her. She deserves it you piece of shit.

How old are you? College? 20’s, 30’s? actually doesn’t matter... dump your girlfriend. Sometimes you need a relationship to get you out of your shell but you’re still not right for the person. Also, you sound younger so fucking go for the hottie, dump your girlfriend and set her free, then open your life up for sorts of shit now that you’re not a loser!

You’re missing out on so much. 1 night stands, threesomes with 2 girls, threesomes with a girl and a guy. Get a girl into bdsm, a girl who’s rich. Find a girl who has a boyfriend and cuck him. If you’ve blossomed into a testosterone heavy alpha stud, find a girl who’s into bdsm and have a literal house maid. Find a dude who’s into bdsm and have a real house fag (fags are much better at blow jobs
and the whole slave/serving part if you can believe that) The possibilities are endless and you’re wasting your life with a girl you cheat on because you know you can do better but she’s easy.

Trust me, if you’re feeling like this now, you’re gonna be feeling, at the very LEAST, the same way with your girlfriend for the entire time you keep dating. Better to break it off now than get stuck in a divorce giving money to a girl you don’t care about anymore.

Don't go back to her. Enjoy your new relationship. She might start shit, but deal with it as it comes. Remember why you went down this road in the first place.

Post a pic of a girl of comparable weight to your girlfriend or just a pic of her m, the post one of this new girl. I want to see how much better you did.

Ask the hottie out first. If she’s game, dump lardo ASAP and start anew. Do NOT under any circumstances dump land whale if hottie is not tied down, last thing you want is to lose out on hottie and a slam piggy on the same day.

Currently looking

Doesn’t even sound like he’s slamming his piggy. My guess is that they are long distance and the distance has allowed the relationship to continue because whenever they see each other they are happy but only see each other for a short time so their real problems never get aired out or addressed.

Dude props to u. I visit her pretty often so I get it in a fair bit but her sex drive has been so low lately. It's really been pushing me away and I've asked her to do things we used to do to mitigate it while we are apart but she just doesn't change. Finally someone saw me and actually made me feel sexually attractive again and it was like a drug and couldn't stop

Tinder hookups are local affairs no? To me it sounds like the politics bs was OP muddying the waters to try to whitewash his blatant infidelity, not that it matters for shit at the bf/gf stage imo.
Own your shit faggot

Sounds like you two have already talked about your problems but they are not really “problems” because it’s not affecting your day to life. Dude just dump her. Life is not supposed to find someone that you are just okay with. It’s supposed to Be full of crazy experiences and finding a girl or guy who is right. Would it be better with a partner you enjoy sex with rather than meh? Would life be better if you were a sub to a domme female? Would life be better if you had 3 girlfriends who all loved you? Would life be better with a fag slave to make you feel more powerful and do your housework? You have been sexual repressed by this relationship, stop letting it keep happening.

It's funny how each of you keep guessing shit. The girl I hooked up with has a whole domination fetish. Definitely not a person I'd want to date but if I were single I would have no problem being fuck buddies

Hurry up with the pics, we wanna see

Yea new girl has a whole fetish and your girlfriend seems to have the OPPOSITE of a fetish.

This thread died as soon as it was getting good, was expecting pics and shit

in my opinion there are 2 options

1. you have as much fun with this 7/10 until you get caught or it fizzles out.

2. you break up with the liberal broad before it turns into a shit show and fuck as many 7/10’s as you can find.

3. admit to ur current gf what you’ve done, free yourself of guilt, become abstinent and focus on lifting and other creative outputs.

That’s 3 options lol

one of them isn’t real

If he loved her, stay. He should know by now, it’s been 3 years. Nothings wrong with not loving her.

Say that you want to fuck a dog and not her anymore...

You don’t fuck other people if you love someone so uh... that’s pretty much the answer right there.

Abandon ship. If she's really that much of a cunt, then cut your loses. Obviously if you're cheating, it ain't working.

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Depends on your relationship too though. Having an open relationship isn't exactly the same as having a traditional.

If you have an open relationship, you’re supposed to be absolute best friends with your partner because the sex is not exclusive. You don’t even seem all that hyped about her. Did you ever feel that way? We’re you ever infatuated with her?

Open relationship is your stupid faggot language for afraid of commitment, unable to find satisfaction in one partner cause you’re views of love are fucked. Shut up nigger.

Who cares, just don’t lie. Which I bet he does anyways

Yeah ditch the fat girl Jordan

Ditch her. Imagine not having to plan every winter get-away, summer vacation, 3 day holiday, spring break, phone calls at stupid times of the day. Set yourself free. The world is waiting for you. If you’re hot now like you say, at least some girls want you, definitely some fags want you. Be free to spread your seed.

you'll hurt everyone involved more by not sorting it out - as a man should
talk to your gf about what you want and where the relationship is going
affairs are for the rich

see ask the chick you hooked up with if she's down.
in any case, it sounds like your relationship is going nowhere. if she doesn't want to work out while you stay in shape, that's disrespectful to you and herself, especially since you've turned your life around lately.
if she keeps baiting you into arguments, that's a shit test and by getting mad you're proving you're a sucker. when she pulls that shit, don't fall for it. i can tell she wants to keep you around for a meal ticket by those two actions alone.
if you like this girl for more than sunk cost fallacy, then it's not impossible to salvage, perhaps with some light dread game and withdrawal of attention/affection.
otherwise, you could try for a relationship with the new girl, who liked you enough to fuck once. only break it off with the gf if the 7/10 is down to continue at least fucking around.