What's the point of marrying someone who you've already slept with/lived with?

What's the point of marrying someone who you've already slept with/lived with?

Sorry, I just don't get it.

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If you really liked sleeping with/living with them

Didn't even answer the question.

DONT BUY THE COW IF YOU'RE ALREADY GETTING THE MILK

If you were dumb enough to join the military, you get paid more to be married. Just about it, imo.

>dumb enough to join the military
Why?

It's a waste of your youth for what most people take as a shot at cheap college.

Tax breaks if you do it right.

bruh

Found the self-centered MGTOW douche nozzle

it means you love them and want to be around them for the rest of your life

main reason is to make it illegal for them to fuck someone else, pretty much.

the only ppl who get tax breaks under trump are the top 10%, and fags + trannies.

this

its one thing you can only do as a youth. war is one of the basic human experiences

What if I was a girl..ok

Ya...said no man ever.

oof. real bitter huh?

Nah, im not bitter. just a realistic person who learned to stop thinking with emotions.

Because not all of us have to fuck as many people in our lives as we can. We don't all want AIDS.

Why don't men want to just stay virgins until marriage...you say u don't want aids.

The problem is marrying a used up whore.

So many guys end up marrying a woman who's lifted her ass and given her pussy to dozens of guys. At this point, there's no way she's going to be completely loyal to you. I've seen this time and again with married women. Their husbands can make 6 figures but she misses her past life of being a wild slut, gobbling down a different cock every weekend. She becomes too friendly with other guys, maybe the postman or maybe the neighbor.

It's pretty sad.

Ya, i agree, that's why im confused. and men are pretty whorish too these days. don't act like girls are the only ones who have issues.

alternate opinion: had some casual sex when i was younger, got it out of my system, saw the grass wasn't greener, all that. emotionaly and sexually matured, time for a new chapter.

this is how most men and women consider their sex lives

that's fucked. like i can't imagine myself doing that, western people are fuccked these days.

If its for sex, its stupid.

You marry someone because they show you that they can be trusted, relied upon, and are there when you need them.

>trusted, relied upon, and are there when you need them
men can't do this

Men can't get sex nearly as easily as women.

Even an above average looking guy isn't going to be able to attract as many lovers as a simple average looking girl.

Girls get pounded by a couple dozen guys and wonder why they can't find a "good guy".

A new mentality and fresh outlook on life doesn't negate the fact that you're used up.

If you're a guy, then it's generally easier for you to separate sex from emotional connections, but for women, a high number of sex partners makes pair bonding almost impossible.

That's why you have so many 30+ year old bitter cunts running around asking where all the good guys have gone.

Don't be a bitter fag. Gay folk get walked all over all the time, and its mostly because of our stupid idea that someone should look like this, and make this much, and do this and that for me. Which is basically Hollywood style relationships.

Sorry someone, or someones hurt you, but don't be a bitter fag, you fag.

you don't have to. but if you choose to judge other people for it, youre gonna miss out on some good partners. my parents are happily married 40 years and counting. they weren't virgins when they got married.

Hence if you do it right

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>Girls get pounded by a couple dozen guys and wonder why they can't find a "good guy"
ive never been pounded yet this is the case, so your point is flawed.
>Men can't get sex nearly as easily as women
doesn't make girls as a whole, whores.

lmao im a fag, cuz im a conservative girl. ok then cool what else is new??

Works both ways. I don't think it's great to brag your sexual exploits as a man or woman. If your biggest achievement is how many people you've fucked, you have a sad life. Unless you're a porn star, then it's just your life.

love how youre not brainwashed. why would a guy this open minded be on Cred Forums?

THANK YOU

Usually the girls who don't get pounded are the fat introverts. The ones who sit in the shadows and wear really modest clothing.

If a fat 3/10 girl is somewhat open to basic conversation, she can usually get laid pretty easily. Word of warning though: The guy who usually pounds her is either thirsty or a wingman taking one for the team while his buddy gets with the hotter friend.

Age is definitely a factor too. I'm guessing you're late teens to early twenties.

Conservative =/ fag ...

Like you are KKK rally girl, hanging fags and skinning blacks for shits and giggles?

whats the point of marrying a high mileage slut that everyones already slept with????

Im late teens. Dont assume theyre fat/ugly/introverts/etc. Many of us are pretty, nice, etc, and we have morals and standards. If u were an attractive young lady, y would u give up your body to a bunch of disgusting guys who dont care about u and cant do nothing for u? Dont stereotype virgin girls

there's a lot of romantic frustration in this thread, but the way it is being channeled, they are catching themselves in a downward spiral of purity obsession. they will eliminate more and more potential mates, making them feel more alone and resentful, and reducing their chances of romantic success.

Im not white bro shut up lol im just a girl who doesnt like degeneracy

Im op and i was talking about both ways.

people have different views and needs. you wont find satisfying answer by asking this other people. its all about what you want - which in this case is to not get married. so dont.

Yes.

The big question you want to ask yourself if you're considering putting a ring on a slut is:

"Do I really want 100+ guys to have shot their loads in the mouth, on the tits, stomach, back or ass crack of the mother of my children?"

Now, if you're a weak cowardly beta male with a tiny little prick that doesn't work and can't make kids, then it should be no problem for you. For the rest of us, it most definitely is a problem.

Ok so everyone is different. Wow didnt realize that omg wow so cool
Yeah. Thats why i made this post, to hear from others as im simply curious.

So how is that conservative? My husband is Chinese, I'm white. Not certain what you are getting at.

nope, you made this thread so you can fight others that try to convince you otherwise. which is why it made you angry that i didnt. chill hoe.

are you gonna be a shitty father because you jack off all the time?

or do you use different parts of your brain for your sexuality and your parenting?

Not all girls are like that. Most aren't. We're too busy trying to reach goals, idk aNY girls who do that shit.

Lol noo...Im just a curious person. Nice input tho

it's amazing how small minded retards are on this site when you say you are a conservative. Stupid fucking zoomer

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WTF is u talking about brooooo I didn't ask ur race u waste yute I was talking about marriage and sex. Lmaoo someone had to bring race up

I meant I have morals snd shit that's what I meant. conservative doesn't equal white supremeicy I'm not even fucking white

that's my point nigger

Damn bro I love when wHite ppl call me that

It's not about parenting. It's about principle.

No one is going to take a guy or his slut wife seriously if they know she's been pumped by guy after guy. The kids will grow up to feel deep shame if they know their mother was used as the town bicycle.

Your girl friends aren't all that open with you then. A lot of girls don't share the info, but it doesn't mean they don't commit the acts.

It's like the shy girl who has a deep yearning to travel, often saying that she wants to "discover herself". Every guy knows what that means. She's going to take tons of cock in other countries. She does this so she can come back to her small gossip laden hometown and keep the fact that she's a massive slut secret.

Not true. I'm so close with my girls, we get deep about this stuff and we're all on the same page virginity wise. I know they'll grow up to be great future mothers and future wives so it's annoying when MGTOW / incel / etc guys try to say all women are nasty hoes?? Like no . It's like me saying all men are the same they're all trash. That's unrealistic.

Society (or the people leading it) conditions good girls to turn into nasty hoes. It's only a matter of time before a nice girl with traditional values starts posting selfie after selfie of her ass.

They enjoy corrupting the innocent and turning the good into utter shit.

i think there is more to a person than their sexual purity. we sure don't choose our presidents based on their promiscuity in college. know why? sexuality is just another hobby when you think about it

That's the mentality of a roastie whore.

How many selfies of your bare ass did you post today?

im a white dude age 25 lol

Oh, you're a young guy.

When you get into your 30s, you'll hopefully come to understand how important family cohesion is. You can't have that sort of cohesion with a woman who's been used as a town bicycle.

my parents weren't virgins when they got married. seems to be working for them pretty good.

NO. Stop. Yes some girls fall for it but a lot don't. I know we're emotional beings but some of us are still smart enough to know what's best for us. Girls like me are scared of hell so don't try to tell me it's a matter of time when there's hell and it's hotttt as fk.

Yeah no females dont exist on Cred Forums

Lmao ur jokes...

Remember there's a male equivalent to a women who is used up. Yall men ain't saints. Lol

Your mother probably had a number of sexual partners that can be counted on one hand.

How would you feel if your future wife had sex with more partners in one week than your mother had in her entire fucking life. 'Netflix and chill' and the abundance of porn is a cultural phenomenon that has corrupted modern women in a way that has hitherto been unseen in western society.

Mark my words, if you think a woman with a high number of previous sexual partners can make a good wife or mother, then you are a fool. If you decide to put a ring on her finger, definitely get a prenup.

Shut the fk up I'll post my cute ass sparkly toes if I have to

alright im gonna go play some far cry 2. but you two should consider being a little more open minded, it might help you meet someone. hope you guys find yourselves a sweetheart

Lmao I'm not a guy buy have fun bye

But**

Double standards exist. Society doesn't hold men and women equally accountable or to the same standards, not by a long shot.

Men have a much harder time getting laid. If a guy fucks a lot of girls, he's a stud. If a woman gets fucked by a lot of guys, she's a filthy slut.

If a key opens a lot of locks, it's called a master key. If a lock gets opened by a lot of keys, then it's just a god awful shitty lock.

i know youve be quite clear on that. i was being consise

I never believed in marriage either. Then one day I did it, I got married. To a girl I had been messing around with for 5 years.

She's a strictly religious girl. Extremely obedient. She keeps the house spotless. She pours me drinks. Washes my clothes and folds them nicely.

There's something about being married that changes a man, if he's ready. I don't believe there's much benefit for women, but for men there is. It's not an emotional thing, it's a primal thing. It triggers something inside your brain, gives you a domain, a territory to protect and to grow. And I'm not talking about the wife. It's a metaphysical thing, intangible, but it wasn't there until I was married.

My doubled my personal income within a year of getting married. Not floating around with bimbos cuts out a shit ton of expenses so my savings rate based just in my personal income is near 60%. The tax breaks? That's an old legend. They're still there, and much more so since the trump tax changes. But they don't exist if your spouse is working. A traditional marriage (man works, woman stays home) will give you a tax advantage, but if both spouses are working its not really different than being single and living together.

The benefits of marriage are purely psychological. It's like being in a public swimming pool and you're next to the kid that just took a Piss. You and him can feel the warmth, you know something is up, but everyone around you is completely clueless although they're in the same water

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I understand that but there's aspects where guys have it bad just like how women have It bad in that way u feel me

Lmao k sorry

I wish more posts like this existed. Lol most men hate marriage and loyalty

Not when it comes to sexuality.

Imagine a community picnic at a public park and couples show up. The one couple has the husband who's fucked half the women in town.
He isn't going to be looked down on. The other half of the women will probably be wondering "why didn't he do me?" and the other husbands will feel insecure in his presence.

Now you have the couple with the wife who's been fucked by half the guys in town. Most of the women are going to, at least unconsciously, think "what a slut" and when the husband goes to kiss her, all the guys who've stuck their cocks down her throat are going to think "that guy's about to put his lips where I shot my load".