Let’s have a heart to heart:

Let’s have a heart to heart:

What makes you feel valid/acknowledged?
What makes you feel like you matter, that you’re worth something?

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>Let’s have a heart to heart:
>What makes you feel valid/acknowledged?

Its prolly my craziness but I always feel like peope are giving me gifts

>What makes you feel like you matter, that you’re worth something?

I can only ever feel this way when I go into a certain state of mind. Otherwise I feel disposable.

Someone else initiating a hug with me and not hesitating to see if I'll reciprocate it since they feel I will no matter what

When people say/show that they like my hair, it's probably what I put the most amount of my self care into and it really feels nice

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OP here

Mine:
being there for my kids
Acts of gratitude to make my fiancé smile
Cooking something and hearing, “Damn, this is better than a restaurant!”
Doing something and have someone jealous of my work(DIY projects and Washing, Conditioning & Brushing fiancé hair).

FYI~ fiancé does whatever I ask. Back massage, cook, BJ, you name it w/o question(within reason).

I’m sorry to hear that
I doubt you are trash
M/F? Pic of your hair?

Lately, pretty much nothing. Life's been kinda hard these past few months

Understanding what’s the root of your happiness help to both cope and turn things around. My you be happy

getting a "you" on Cred Forums

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>What makes you feel valid/acknowledged?
>What makes you feel like you matter, that you’re worth something?
The two are completely unrelated.

You matter because of your accomplishments. You feel validated because you're insecure.

Work, just work

>What makes you feel valid/acknowledged?
When people leave me alone
>What makes you feel like you matter, that you’re worth something?
When people hate me and are mean to me.

I thought one is insecure Because they don’t feel validated?

You have issues. Get help

you're insecure if you base your self-worth on constant validation from other people
the only people who need that constant validation are insecure

Nothing.
I am a nameless faceless cog in a machine that chews up men and spits out the bones.
Any idiot with a little skill could do what I do.
This is the world. If you feel differently you're either naive or wealthy. In either case, screw you.
>tldr, we have no worth

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I have my help in your opinions.

Hmmm, I’ll look into that

Some things are best left to the professionals. Not children smashing a bug constantly to hear its screams for entertainment

I love the movie Clerks

Why do you want me to kill myself? I won't let you regret

I am the movie clerks.

People saying they like my art
working out / self improvement

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Not what I meant at all. I meant seek professional help and don’t rely on neckbeards on Cred Forums who want nothing more than to see your pain for sheer entertainment. I want you to live

If so you’re actually more of a likable person than you might think. So there are things that DO matter

Your art is better than mine lol

Snake ass

Right now...Been a pretty hard last few months..

Playing LoL i guess. GF commited suicide 6 months ago. Just quit my job and well... Im utterly alone.

No. You want me to say what “you want to hear”. Actually read. Relax. I can feel your tension from here

fuck...sorry to hear user.

Explain

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That’s rough. There are over 9 billion humans on earth. You WILL find someone.

For now, take your time to morn. Just don’t wallow in it.

Midas syndrome confirmed

Him or me?

Both in a way.

..I met a girl after my girlfriend left me. We were living together for 5 years. She was pregnant. She left me out of the blue for my best friend after avorting one evening, i met this girl..she had problems,but helping her made me feel about better about my issues. We did druggs together,we got caught one night,i took the blame,i went to prison...She killed herself when she..got alone. Here i am 6 months later..Utterly alone and..whatever