Well Cred Forums here we are, turned 30 today, still a virgin, still living with my parents.
The only thing I succeeded in life is getting my driver's license and owning a smart car. That's about it.
I work as a janitor . My wage is 9$ an hour, therefore I can't even afford my own apartment since I spend money on food, gas, video games and anime things I like to collect.
What sad part about this is all of my friends are married and about to have kids. We cant even hang out anymore, so I am out of friends.
I have a depression for years but I refuse to take meds because I don't want to become addicted to them and I heard a lot of terrible shit about it.
The only thing that keeps me in life is video games and anime, other than that if that were taken from me, I would see no reason to live anymore.
I was until last year. I applied for IT jobs I was under qualified for and was lucky enough to get one. Started going to the gym and eating right and lost 85 pounds. Going to the gym did wonders for my depression. Got two raises in the first year and was able to move out and support myself. I'm still too socially retarded to find a girl though.
It may seem impossible but its possible to pull through, you just got to want it and put in the effort.
Justin Jenkins
The thing is I have been living like this for years now and truth be told I don't see anything changing. I am probably gonna stay with my parents, unmarried for the rest of my life. Unless an earthquake comes and destroys the house.
My parents know this but they cant really kick me out since I help them renovate the house and do chores around and all.
Aaron Campbell
I applied for many jobs but they all expected some sort of college degree or experience.
I worked in McDonald's, Wendy's and 7/11 as a cashier. Probably the best job I had was being a shopkeeper at a supplement store until the manager decided to close down the store (They had 4 shops around the city but the one I was in wasn't making enough money to stay profitable).
Justin White
hi future me
Dominic Robinson
they can kick youout butthey dont wnat tolose their kid theyre just over attached.
Brandon Hall
Hi past me.
It goes only downhill.
>t.39 year old wizard.
David Hall
well if they kick me out I am prob not going to be able to afford a house and everything with 9$ min wage so I might as well jump off the nearest bridge
Jacob Moore
Not going to get chicks driving a smart car, playing video games, and watching anime. Get a real car, drive for Uber, socialize with passengers, make some extra money.
Nicholas Clark
Damn son. Out of curiosity why did you never lose it to a hooker?
Parker Carter
29. My situation is the same as yours minus the job, car and wizardy. Things could always be worse and you can always make them better.
Grayson Bailey
How can any of you get to over 21 without getting some? Fucking pay for it if you have to just go get some
Logan Nguyen
I would love to get a real car, but I can't afford it.
Levi Hernandez
or just like join tinder/go to a bar and hit up fats
Jaxon Martinez
Major truck driver shortage. Won't help your social life but you can make $60k/yr after four weeks of school paid for by them.
Joshua Anderson
You do very well not to take medicines that ruin you. Do not be ashamed and eventually put aside pride and try a serious marriage agency. You see that you are not the only virgin and unmarried person in the age of 30 or more. You have to appreciate life with your parents anyway, as unfortunately one day, hopefully a long way off, they won't be there anymore. Never be discouraged that for those who know how to wait, everything arrives. youtube.com/watch?v=C9IwBJYTwQ0
Justin Hernandez
>Is anyone else like me here? too many id imagine anime and vidya doesnt help, quite the contrary. it just helps tou fill the time you have nothing to do with otherwise. >I have a depression for years but I refuse to take meds because I don't want to become addicted to them and I heard a lot of terrible shit about it. if you believe all you need to get past depression is pills think again. after yiure done hit a therapy (and if needed take fucking pills). if you dont like your life do something to change it. its easier than you think.
I took myself to a asian massage hooker when I was 25. Regret it now because I ended up getting free sex from online dating apps right after.
Jaxon Powell
where I live, hookers either have multiple STDs or are undercover cops. Rather stay safe.
Daniel Foster
Why are you still a virgin? Unless you're horrifyingly ugly just pay for an escort if it's legal were u are...
Hunter Richardson
>anime and vidya doesnt help
always thought this was an odd thing to say. no one says that about other hobbies people do when they're alone do they? Like you only knit to hide your depression or whatever. These things are hobbies, people do them a lot when they are depressed because those are the things they actually enjoy. The depressing part is realizing that it can be super hard to find someone that wants to share in those things with you, so you eventually end up with the choice of "expanding your horizons" which usually just means pretending to like things to fit in, finding someone you're not actually compatible with, and patting yourself on the back for not being lonely anymore, or you can be yourself and be lonely until that non existent perfect person comes along.
Aaron Jackson
You have a slave mentality as if you are a victim.
Tyler Green
>why didn't you just buy your first trophy from the store?
Juan Rodriguez
That's a point, there really isn't an excuse for being a virgin these days unless you want to be one
Brayden Russell
what are you even talking about?
Joshua Harris
Grow some balls and be a man.
Christian Davis
care to explain or are you just a fucking retard?
Joshua Lee
fuck dude too real
Owen Ross
Start weight lifting or doing martial arts instead of playing computer games. That teaches you how to learn skills. And you will gain self confidence
Carson White
Kill yourself during the day obviously.
Ryder Nguyen
"good" hobbies are the ones that enrich you, socially or otherwise: sports, investing, fitness. "bad" hobbies are the escape ones. and they are bad.
i dont think thats what Nietzsche meant
Kevin Morgan
listen here faggot. do you think antidepressants are going to be worse than this? boo hoo your dick wont get hard . jesus christ, get thee some vortioxetine.
Caleb Campbell
Right on!
Christian Butler
retard then
Jayden Ward
SSRIs did permanent damage to me. They are to be avoided at all cost. Remember, misery is a depthless ocean. It can always get worse.
Christian Morgan
Work out, build confidence. Read: Gorilla Mindset - Cernovich 3% Man - Corey Wayne No More Me Nice Guy - Glover
Get away from that anime garbage.
Noah Walker
Attend a community college for free then start thirsting for traps, twinks and young boys. Become their daddy while obtaining your degree.