Well Cred Forums here we are, turned 30 today, still a virgin, still living with my parents

Well Cred Forums here we are, turned 30 today, still a virgin, still living with my parents.

The only thing I succeeded in life is getting my driver's license and owning a smart car. That's about it.

I work as a janitor . My wage is 9$ an hour, therefore I can't even afford my own apartment since I spend money on food, gas, video games and anime things I like to collect.

What sad part about this is all of my friends are married and about to have kids. We cant even hang out anymore, so I am out of friends.

I have a depression for years but I refuse to take meds because I don't want to become addicted to them and I heard a lot of terrible shit about it.

The only thing that keeps me in life is video games and anime, other than that if that were taken from me, I would see no reason to live anymore.

Is anyone else like me here?

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Hi

Hi user, do you have suicidal thoughts sometimes?

like you but mentally ill and 25 and jobless. Its okay user, I still think we are all gonna make it

No? I'm scared of the dark

$9 for a janitor? Where do you work, Wendy’s? I live in Wyoming and I make $15 hourly as a janitor.

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I was until last year. I applied for IT jobs I was under qualified for and was lucky enough to get one. Started going to the gym and eating right and lost 85 pounds. Going to the gym did wonders for my depression. Got two raises in the first year and was able to move out and support myself. I'm still too socially retarded to find a girl though.

It may seem impossible but its possible to pull through, you just got to want it and put in the effort.

The thing is I have been living like this for years now and truth be told I don't see anything changing. I am probably gonna stay with my parents, unmarried for the rest of my life. Unless an earthquake comes and destroys the house.

My parents know this but they cant really kick me out since I help them renovate the house and do chores around and all.

I applied for many jobs but they all expected some sort of college degree or experience.

I worked in McDonald's, Wendy's and 7/11 as a cashier. Probably the best job I had was being a shopkeeper at a supplement store until the manager decided to close down the store (They had 4 shops around the city but the one I was in wasn't making enough money to stay profitable).

hi future me

they can kick youout butthey dont wnat tolose their kid theyre just over attached.

Hi past me.

It goes only downhill.

>t.39 year old wizard.

well if they kick me out I am prob not going to be able to afford a house and everything with 9$ min wage so I might as well jump off the nearest bridge

Not going to get chicks driving a smart car, playing video games, and watching anime. Get a real car, drive for Uber, socialize with passengers, make some extra money.

Damn son. Out of curiosity why did you never lose it to a hooker?

29.
My situation is the same as yours minus the job, car and wizardy.
Things could always be worse and you can always make them better.

How can any of you get to over 21 without getting some? Fucking pay for it if you have to just go get some

I would love to get a real car, but I can't afford it.

or just like join tinder/go to a bar and hit up fats

Major truck driver shortage. Won't help your social life but you can make $60k/yr after four weeks of school paid for by them.

You do very well not to take medicines that ruin you. Do not be ashamed and eventually put aside pride and try a serious marriage agency. You see that you are not the only virgin and unmarried person in the age of 30 or more. You have to appreciate life with your parents anyway, as unfortunately one day, hopefully a long way off, they won't be there anymore. Never be discouraged that for those who know how to wait, everything arrives.
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>Is anyone else like me here?
too many id imagine
anime and vidya doesnt help, quite the contrary. it just helps tou fill the time you have nothing to do with otherwise.
>I have a depression for years but I refuse to take meds because I don't want to become addicted to them and I heard a lot of terrible shit about it.
if you believe all you need to get past depression is pills think again. after yiure done hit a therapy (and if needed take fucking pills). if you dont like your life do something to change it. its easier than you think.

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I took myself to a asian massage hooker when I was 25. Regret it now because I ended up getting free sex from online dating apps right after.

where I live, hookers either have multiple STDs or are undercover cops. Rather stay safe.

Why are you still a virgin? Unless you're horrifyingly ugly just pay for an escort if it's legal were u are...

>anime and vidya doesnt help

always thought this was an odd thing to say. no one says that about other hobbies people do when they're alone do they? Like you only knit to hide your depression or whatever. These things are hobbies, people do them a lot when they are depressed because those are the things they actually enjoy. The depressing part is realizing that it can be super hard to find someone that wants to share in those things with you, so you eventually end up with the choice of "expanding your horizons" which usually just means pretending to like things to fit in, finding someone you're not actually compatible with, and patting yourself on the back for not being lonely anymore, or you can be yourself and be lonely until that non existent perfect person comes along.

You have a slave mentality as if you are a victim.

>why didn't you just buy your first trophy from the store?

That's a point, there really isn't an excuse for being a virgin these days unless you want to be one

what are you even talking about?

Grow some balls and be a man.

care to explain or are you just a fucking retard?

fuck dude too real

Start weight lifting or doing martial arts instead of playing computer games. That teaches you how to learn skills. And you will gain self confidence

Kill yourself during the day obviously.

"good" hobbies are the ones that enrich you, socially or otherwise: sports, investing, fitness. "bad" hobbies are the escape ones. and they are bad.

i dont think thats what Nietzsche meant

listen here faggot. do you think antidepressants are going to be worse than this? boo hoo your dick wont get hard . jesus christ, get thee some vortioxetine.

Right on!

retard then

SSRIs did permanent damage to me. They are to be avoided at all cost. Remember, misery is a depthless ocean. It can always get worse.

Work out, build confidence.
Read:
Gorilla Mindset - Cernovich
3% Man - Corey Wayne
No More Me Nice Guy - Glover

Get away from that anime garbage.

Attend a community college for free then start thirsting for traps, twinks and young boys. Become their daddy while obtaining your degree.

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Would also add - the subtle art of not giving a fuck
by Mark Manson. This book will help you get out of that shithole loop